Seeking Arrangements

[Jyushin]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1bd5...3-9748d982ea91

She is cute but very busy making other dates LOL.

Short version -date at 4 pm. I got a hotel rm up in Amesbury, she in Newburyport. I'm driving up from Boston.

She postponed for later time and stated she is heading to Boston and have me pick her up in Newburyport at 8 pm. Even stated she can take train to Amesbury if there was one.

WTF. Why have me get a room in Amesbury. Why not drive up together. While she is telling me this. My friend had made an date for 830 and she agreed.

LOL whatever.

[OkWhatever]

To each their own, but I think any guy paying for someone to talk to them has lost their mind. These women don't give a shit about us or even listening to us. Sure, once in a while there might be a genuine one that actually likes you for who you are, but how often does that happen?

Guys don't pay for no action. If you need someone to talk to, get on Bumble and make some friends.

I guess there must be some older rich guys who just want to hang out with young girls and get no action. I don't know any but to each his own.

Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.

[Joebags]

This one is back in Nashua. Connected with her when she was in Maine. 1. 5 $ was the donation. Hosted when in my area. BBBJ and BBFS was on the table. Decent time lost her contact info.

https://www.seeking.com/member/884e3...e-376f12118594

[Aardvarks]

Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062

I guess there must be some older rich guys who just want to hang out with young girls and get no action. I don't know any but to each his own.

Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.

[PaulRew]

Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062

[Tostone71]

Ghosting happens all the time. They usually do it when someone else comes along offering more.

OKwhatever is dead on. These girls are like eBay auctions, they are looking for the highest price, talking to many, and they have a 'buy now' button which can close the deal for a price in their head that ends the auction. If and when it comes along.

I've found the shorter ones are typically pros or non pros who want to get something fast so time is of the essence and they are doing the time / price tradeoff. Not that it is bad always. It can work to your advantage depending on what you're looking for. E. g. , you don't have to pretend you're interested in their life-long goals and will be there to help them consistently when all you want is to get laid.

[OkWhatever]

Ghosting happens all the time. They usually do it when someone else comes along offering more.

Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77

[StraightShutah]

Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77

Maybe it is just me but I have noticed that profiles with minimal description usually are scams / disappointments or fake profiles like a bot or something.

[BRyan72]

Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77

[Longjblues]

She quoted me 300 when I contacted her on SA. 200 on WYP.

Saw her previously a year or two ago off of CL and it was 150.

Just quoted me $500-700 and claims to have only been with one SD ever.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e3ca9...6-f4e2b3ac7422

[Joebags]

I have met this one a few times. Kind of a space case not sure if it's just how she is or if it's a result of demons. Easy set up I am usually only passing threw so has always been a car meet. BBBJ is always on the table with decent skills. Also BBFSCIP if that's your thing. Minimal damage $. 5. Can message contact info.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aaacb...c-92187f7d19ad

[MamboMikea]

I had the same reaction. Offered 3 ppm. Total silence. I guess she thinks she is worth more, but she us still looking for a gem.

Got her down to 5 - I'm seeing if I can press my luck.

[Ernest Ll]

Also SA has worked great when I travel. I've gotten company in most major cities like Chicago, Las Vegas, San Diego, Miami, etc. I just send a batch message stating I'm in town for a few days and see what my fishing catches.

I live in a small college town with uppity co-eds too good to bang for bucks.

So I pretty much exclusively hit the sugar bowl when I travel. Never taken a trip without at least one successful date each night. Takes more work to weed out those who feel that is too transactional, but with the right game you can make those on the fence comfortable. Heavy investing in texting for a week or two pre-arrival. Usually book 3 dates, knowing 2 will bail -- or worst case scenario, schedule one for 6 pm, another for 8 and the most mercanary for 9 pm drink and then I'm covered.

Helps to tell them I'm in town each month, even if its a one time trip!

Also easier to arrange overnights. If we really hit it off in messaging, the week before the meeting I suggest they bring an overnight bag in case the in person has the same chemistry as online. 75% hit rate.

[PaulRew]

Early 30's I would say, but she could even be late 20's. I agree that she isn't 40's.

Just quoted me $500-700 and claims to have only been with one SD ever.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e3ca9...6-f4e2b3ac7422

[BRyan72]

Had similar experience. She asked for 8. Too much. She countered at 6. Offered 350. That ended the conversation, but she was pleasant about the rejection.

Got her down to 5 - I'm seeing if I can press my luck.