Seeking Arrangements

[FriendlyKing]

if you want a unicorn you got to put in the work and $. The problem is, these girls are even harder to find these days.

You summarized it well. There are plenty of women available in Seeking for a quick lay, that doesn't interest me at all. Although it is a lot of work to find the unicorns, I'd much rather pursue those than settle for uninspiring encounters.

[Np36781]

Does she do BBBJ or dfk?

BBBJ yes, but only lfk. No DFK, that was the the reason, didn't feel connection.

[DarkClouds]

As a follow up, I will add that actually there are some unicorns even on STG and other sites as well. Usually they post very rarely and are never discussed here. We mostly discuss the same old tired options here. The guys who do the leg work and TOFTT aren't about to share the fruits of their labor here on a silver platter. And if and when you do find a unicorn of your own, I would recommend the same -- share her wisely and selectively with mongers you trust, ideally those who have shared valuable information with you in the past.

If you mean the oThER review site, I don't believe they allow reviews of girls who don't have a public profile. So, that would exclude anyone who is only on Seeking. And you're dead wrong if you think they are all also on OF, etc. Many of them are super discreet and want to stay that way. They have serious ambitions about building a proper career and this is just a phase in life, not a permanent lifestyle.

[Spike77]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

People use SA in different ways. Some people aren't picky and are just looking for a quick lay. Others like myself are in it for the long game. I normally chase the unicorns (college girls / young professionals that are just looking for one guy they can trust). I've spent so much time and money to find them but when I do it is so worth it. If I get an inkling they may be seeing other guys, I will move on. I've established good relationships with some women over the years but nothing lasts forever. I usually stay in touch through social media because sometimes they come back. Furthermore, if I were to post about them on this site, they would know exactly who wrote it and game over for me. Secondly, I respect them and their request to remain discreet. If I was banging the village bicycle that would be another story. But that is not what I am looking for. Bottom line, if you want a unicorn you got to put in the work and $. The problem is, these girls are even harder to find these days.

[PaulRew]

I don't see the point of not posting regarding college girls. If they on seeking, they are on OF, snapchat and other social media trying to make the easy money. They may not post on stg, Eros or trust but if they on seeking. They are on other site.

I first joined Seeking in 2014 and have had close to 100 encounters with different woman. Some were one and done some were half a dozen times and one was about weekly for two years. I can tell you that to my knowledge 2 did very brief stints with DCD in Providence, two were part time strippers and one had OF. The rest were pretty normal girls looking for some extra dough and not looking for a forever sex worker footprint on the web.

With all that said, I will add that if a college girl is scamming or robbing guys, I 100% think her link should be posted her including her SA pics.

[Bran001]

The college / grad school / young professional women I've met from Seeking are not "in the (sex) business" such as the escorts who post ads on escort platforms. Out of respect for them I would not post a "review" of the type of woman I gravitate to unless someone specifically asked about her and I knew she was actively seeking a new partner. And at that, I'd more likely respond in private.

As others have mentioned, the college / grad school / young professional women often are doing this not as a profession but to supplement their income while living in the 2nd-most expensive city in the US. And yeah some do get off on the kink and / or get off on being with an "older gentleman" but that doesn't throw them into the same category as those women who post ads on typical escort platforms.

I have no interest in a "what is sex work" debate; and many of the young women I've met are not shy about thinking of what they do on Seeking as sex work. But it's a different flavor and I'll leave it at that for now.

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

[FriendlyKing]

If you mean the oThER review site, I don't believe they allow reviews of girls who don't have a public profile. So, that would exclude anyone who is only on Seeking. And you're dead wrong if you think they are all also on OF, etc. Many of them are super discreet and want to stay that way. They have serious ambitions about building a proper career and this is just a phase in life, not a permanent lifestyle.

Spot on! I've encountered girls who are highly ambitious and utilize the site solely to financially supplement their living expenses until they graduate. And no, they are not on OF etc.

[DarkClouds]

If you mean the oThER review site, I don't believe they allow reviews of girls who don't have a public profile. So, that would exclude anyone who is only on Seeking. And you're dead wrong if you think they are all also on OF, etc. Many of them are super discreet and want to stay that way. They have serious ambitions about building a proper career and this is just a phase in life, not a permanent lifestyle.

I don't see the point of not posting regarding college girls. If they on seeking, they are on OF, snapchat and other social media trying to make the easy money. They may not post on stg, Eros or trust but if they on seeking. They are on other site.

[Style20]

It's important to acknowledge that this platform is primarily for escort services. Personally, I'd rather refrain from discussing college girls here. I don't feel at ease sharing such information on a public platform like this. However, I'm open to sharing details with Senior Members who have been actively contributing. That being said, I'm dropping a regular who is a 22-year-old from Northeastern University. Scheduling has become a significant challenge with her. I'm willing to provide further details if needed.

I also agree to have a closed group for folks who are active in here.

I don't see the point of not posting regarding college girls. If they on seeking, they are on OF, snapchat and other social media trying to make the easy money. They may not post on stg, Eros or trust but if they on seeking. They are on other site.

[Wockser]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

I'll admit, I don't post the good stuff publicly. I'll sometimes share in DM's with folks the good experiences if my arrangement has run its course. Otherwise we all share the bad ones to help others from scams.

[FriendlyKing]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

It's important to acknowledge that this platform is primarily for escort services. Personally, I'd rather refrain from discussing college girls here. I don't feel at ease sharing such information on a public platform like this. However, I'm open to sharing details with Senior Members who have been actively contributing. That being said, I'm dropping a regular who is a 22-year-old from Northeastern University. Scheduling has become a significant challenge with her. I'm willing to provide further details if needed.

I also agree to have a closed group for folks who are active in here.

[Mark Powers]

I think she's been posted about before. Great personality and down for a good time. Huge tits and fat ass. She's asking 300 for BBBJ and cfs but you might be able to negotiate. She can't host.

She knows about this post. Doing it to help her out. PM me for her number.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-f12de9fd592a

[DarkClouds]

But for a different reason, at least for me. Not scared of losing access to her, because I barely ever repeat. So I'm not worried about the harm to my reputation, although I've had girls react very badly to a negative review and try to dox. So, I'll hint at the negative stuff and only tell the full story privately. But, equally importantly, although I'm happy to share, I don't want the girl to get carpet bombed, especially by the many freeloading jerks on here. So, I do most of my sharing privately.

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

[Mfp79]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

This plus 3) Want to keep the girl to themselves.

But yeah, I think PM is probably best for this sort of thing unfortunately. If the forum had a mode that only allow listed members could view and participate in, that could help.

[Mark Powers]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?