Sugar Babies and Arrangements 2. 0

[AtItAgain11]

If she's even real she's insane wants $500 a visit.

Sob story is:

I live with my dad and he has been in the hospital at Norfolk general due to a stroke. He has an infection in his leg and everything. So basically I'm stuck here at the house trying to figure out how I am going to be paying the bills. I'm a full time student and it's hard. All I do is cry.

[GiveItRaw10]

Well gents, I've been banned again from seeking. I might get back on, I've kept a lot of receipts on spam accounts. Emailed seeking support with uploads of spam accounts. Now I have to wait 72 hours to get a final result of whether I will be permitted back on or banned. I'm sure all already know how this site has been taken over by bots, spam accounts. The sick shit is you can't report them. Instead of seeking moderators doing their job, they suspend you instead of the spam account.

[GAGuy2020]

How much of that run you and can you PM me contact details?

She's real. She's actually porn "star" Alice Visby. She hosts. Got to say, not the experience I was hoping for from a pornstar, but still worth the effort. Nice person, quite interesting to be honest.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-48c313a64e13

[ShaniPie]

She's real. She's actually porn "star" Alice Visby. She hosts. Got to say, not the experience I was hoping for from a pornstar, but still worth the effort. Nice person, quite interesting to be honest.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-48c313a64e13

[AtItAgain11]

Might be wrong about this one but kinda give Scam vibes wants cashapp when she's in driveway. Might be wrong but I'm going with the gut feeling.

Hey fellas just got back on SA and seen some new eye candy. And I do on this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-d310c9e6e364

[AtItAgain11]

Hey fellas just got back on SA and seen some new eye candy. And I do on this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-d310c9e6e364

[DWinthrop]

Might want to clear your inbox, lotta guys probably want her info, including myself.

RBD out.

Should be clear now.

[RedBaron Daron]

Saw this one recently, great lay. Real 19 yo who was vocal and into it. She did ask for cover, and wasn't too crazy about giving head. Loved getting pounded though, great body with fantastic tits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...6-8cc87bf9f981

Might want to clear your inbox, lotta guys probably want her info, including myself.

RBD out.

[DWinthrop]

Saw this one recently, great lay. Real 19 yo who was vocal and into it. She did ask for cover, and wasn't too crazy about giving head. Loved getting pounded though, great body with fantastic tits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...6-8cc87bf9f981

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-bd8609aabab3

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-e63334ad1a42

[CuriousVaMan]

Wow, Snake. That's quite an episode. You handled with compassion and grace. Unfortunately, I have come to the same conclusion and will add that sugaring takes a toll on the SBs. I met an SB this time last year for a M&G. She was talkative (in a good way), bubbly and engaging. Just a very "attractive" young woman. Met up with her about a month ago and she devolved into a total Debbie downer. She mumbled, had a poor outlook on life etc. Pretty sure she wasn't on anything. It got to the point where I suggested she head back home (to Arizona) where she at least has a support system. I've not seen her since, nor do I plan to. Too much drama, which I cannot afford.

I've written several times about my SB named Julia. In the first two years of our arrangement, we had mostly short encounters, but this time, after a year off, we've grown closer and spend more time together, and she says she's in love with me, despite my being more than twice her age. Meanwhile, Julia has exhibited increasingly erratic behavior and I've learned WHY she is still single, even though beautiful and intelligent. Her family provides a support structure, but it's noteworthy that none of them want her to live with them. Why? Julia is very sweet 99% of the time, but the other 1% of the time her mind is gripped by a terrible anger and she lashes out. For example, one evening she called me at home to complain to me that I am an "evil narcissist" (it might even be true) and she screamed "You better be glad I don't know your address or I'd come there and beat the hell out of your wife!" When discussing these angry episodes later on, it's clear that she does not remember what happened or what she did or said. Her brain is lost in a fog during these episodes.

The most terrifying episode yet, which has led me to suspend our arrangement, occurred one evening when I was taking Julia home and she learned that she didn't have the key to her house because her Mom had it. Planning to wait outside her house until the landlady, who lives next door and has a key, came home, she ordered me to leave because I "don't care, nobody cares!" A few minutes later she messaged me, demanding to know why I had left her in the cold (well, because she told me to) and that I should take her to her sister's house. We drove towards her sister's, the fog rolling into her mind, and after a few minutes she demanded to know why I was going the wrong way, her Mom was the opposite direction. Now hysterical, she opened the passenger door while we were driving at 60 mph on the highway and said she was jumping out because I was taking her against her will. (It would have been a lot more rational to turn the car around at the next exit.). I'm not sure she would really jump out, but she did open the door. I tried to restrain her from jumping, got the car off the highway as quickly as I could, and found a safe parking spot. Then it got worse. She berated me for a long list of perceived injustices: that I cheated on her (she could "smell it") ; that I gave her "fake love"; that I played mental games and didn't care about her; and that I deliberately made her angry so that I could have an excuse to leave her. Julia started punching me in the face. Although I can defend myself, I took the keys and left the car, standing a few feet away. On the passenger seat she curled up in a fetal position and sobbed. To make a long story shorter, I ended up buying her an Uber ride to her Mom's (for key) and back home. This worked, but not without more drama and screaming.

Maybe the lesson learned here is that a certain fraction of these sugarbabies have mental illnesses and we should watch out for that. I've had 8 long-term SBs over the years, and 2 of them were clearly mentally ill. Beautiful, intelligent, fun to be with most of the time, great sex. If you see such a woman still single at age 26, there's a reason, and it's probably not good. Of course, we might be able to say the same about men. So, currently I am taking a break, but still sending Julia small amounts of money and letting her talk to me on a phone app. Why the phone app? The main reason is to see what danger may be coming. I want to hear her footsteps. But I also care about her actually. So far, her communications after the car episode have been benign: asking me to forgive her, to take her back, that she loves me. And she does not remember the details of the episode.

[Snake27]

I've written several times about my SB named Julia. In the first two years of our arrangement, we had mostly short encounters, but this time, after a year off, we've grown closer and spend more time together, and she says she's in love with me, despite my being more than twice her age. Meanwhile, Julia has exhibited increasingly erratic behavior and I've learned WHY she is still single, even though beautiful and intelligent. Her family provides a support structure, but it's noteworthy that none of them want her to live with them. Why? Julia is very sweet 99% of the time, but the other 1% of the time her mind is gripped by a terrible anger and she lashes out. For example, one evening she called me at home to complain to me that I am an "evil narcissist" (it might even be true) and she screamed "You better be glad I don't know your address or I'd come there and beat the hell out of your wife!" When discussing these angry episodes later on, it's clear that she does not remember what happened or what she did or said. Her brain is lost in a fog during these episodes.

The most terrifying episode yet, which has led me to suspend our arrangement, occurred one evening when I was taking Julia home and she learned that she didn't have the key to her house because her Mom had it. Planning to wait outside her house until the landlady, who lives next door and has a key, came home, she ordered me to leave because I "don't care, nobody cares!" A few minutes later she messaged me, demanding to know why I had left her in the cold (well, because she told me to) and that I should take her to her sister's house. We drove towards her sister's, the fog rolling into her mind, and after a few minutes she demanded to know why I was going the wrong way, her Mom was the opposite direction. Now hysterical, she opened the passenger door while we were driving at 60 mph on the highway and said she was jumping out because I was taking her against her will. (It would have been a lot more rational to turn the car around at the next exit.). I'm not sure she would really jump out, but she did open the door. I tried to restrain her from jumping, got the car off the highway as quickly as I could, and found a safe parking spot. Then it got worse. She berated me for a long list of perceived injustices: that I cheated on her (she could "smell it") ; that I gave her "fake love"; that I played mental games and didn't care about her; and that I deliberately made her angry so that I could have an excuse to leave her. Julia started punching me in the face. Although I can defend myself, I took the keys and left the car, standing a few feet away. On the passenger seat she curled up in a fetal position and sobbed. To make a long story shorter, I ended up buying her an Uber ride to her Mom's (for key) and back home. This worked, but not without more drama and screaming.

Maybe the lesson learned here is that a certain fraction of these sugarbabies have mental illnesses and we should watch out for that. I've had 8 long-term SBs over the years, and 2 of them were clearly mentally ill. Beautiful, intelligent, fun to be with most of the time, great sex. If you see such a woman still single at age 26, there's a reason, and it's probably not good. Of course, we might be able to say the same about men. So, currently I am taking a break, but still sending Julia small amounts of money and letting her talk to me on a phone app. Why the phone app? The main reason is to see what danger may be coming. I want to hear her footsteps. But I also care about her actually. So far, her communications after the car episode have been benign: asking me to forgive her, to take her back, that she loves me. And she does not remember the details of the episode.

[Father Glucose]

No doubt! I'm ALWAYS reserved with the info I give on the site. Always a fake name, burner number and never share a face pic on the site.

By this point they typically have a photo, a name, and a phone number. There's plenty you can do with all that. It's even worse if they have an email address or pay account information. Always use a burner, fake name, and use cash.

[GAGuy2020]

By this point they typically have a photo, a name, and a phone number. There's plenty you can do with all that. It's even worse if they have an email address or pay account information. Always use a burner, fake name, and use cash.

It took me about two times falling for it to realize the pattern. Usually they only have 1 pic on their profile. What are they doing with the phone numbers? Because they never have tried to get any money. They ghost after the "I'll text you" message, and usually the account is disabled (or I'm blocked) within a day.