Sugar Babies and Arrangements 2. 0

**Doc2016** · 06-06-18 16:54

Zen,

It depends on what you are getting out of the arrangement. I know a lot of guys will scoff at 1 k a month, but that's 250 a week. And if it's at her place, saves on a hotel, so it's even cheaper in a way. If you are meeting once a week or more, then it gets quite economical. My advice (if you accept her offer), go with allowance per meet for the first 3-4 weeks. See how trustable she is to keep appointments and deliver. If that goes well, then take it from there. I would steer clear of monthly lump sums until you really know her.

Originally Posted by ZenExecutive [View Original Post]

So during the Dark Times I decided to try a month of SA. I immediately met one woman and after a few chats I was at her apartment. We had negotiated a rate of $. She had described herself as Heavy, but she didn't send any body pics. When I arrived I discovered just how obese she was but I jumped in anyway. Pleasantly surprised she was a squirter! I decided not to repeat as I just couldn't get over the fat.

I am currently chatting with another woman. She is probably more typical of SA and would like a monthly allowance. After a lot of dancing I got her to tell me what other sugar daddies have been paying her and she said $1000 to $1200 a month. I could probably justify that if she was a 25 year old hottie but we are talking about a woman in her 50's! Nice looking, good personality, but seriously this is getting too expensive.

It appears that some woman like the idea of an allowance as it doesn't make them feel like a prostitute. What are others paying for allowance? Are you guys always doing a monthly arrangement?

**ZenExecutive** · 06-06-18 13:38

So during the Dark Times I decided to try a month of SA. I immediately met one woman and after a few chats I was at her apartment. We had negotiated a rate of $. She had described herself as Heavy, but she didn't send any body pics. When I arrived I discovered just how obese she was but I jumped in anyway. Pleasantly surprised she was a squirter! I decided not to repeat as I just couldn't get over the fat.

I am currently chatting with another woman. She is probably more typical of SA and would like a monthly allowance. After a lot of dancing I got her to tell me what other sugar daddies have been paying her and she said $1000 to $1200 a month. I could probably justify that if she was a 25 year old hottie but we are talking about a woman in her 50's! Nice looking, good personality, but seriously this is getting too expensive.

It appears that some woman like the idea of an allowance as it doesn't make them feel like a prostitute. What are others paying for allowance? Are you guys always doing a monthly arrangement?

**Doc2016** · 06-03-18 15:42

Anyone try this one yet?

www.sugardatinglounge.com

**JustLonely** · 04-10-18 10:47

Originally Posted by Bluntzilla11 [View Original Post]

Going to make the move to SA. Any tips or suggestions on how to maximize my pussy intake would be greatly appreciated. Especially coming from some of the veterans on here. Never done something like a SD / SB arrangement. Seems like the asking price is pretty high on a few of the profiles. Thanks in advance for any help / tips.

It's a numbers game so you have to contact a lot to find what you are looking for. I have had the best luck contacting the new ones that show up daily. If you catch them the first day, sometimes you will be the first one they are messaging with and you just get them relaxed about the whole SB / SD thing. The ones that have been doing this awhile have heard all the lines so your game has to be good to get them interested. A real SB won't have an asking price so if you are NOT looking for a pro or an UTR, money should not be discussed until you have a M&G to see what chemistry you have. That's a whole another strategy than finding a cheap hookup. I've been on and off of SA since 2015 and I probably contact 30 or more women a month with 3 or 4 ending up making it to the FC. I have one long term but still like the variety while I am still young enough to attract them without paying a fortune. I do make it clear it that intimacy is expected as I am not a platonic Sugar Daddy.

**Bluntzilla11** · 04-09-18 16:25

Going to make the move to SA. Any tips or suggestions on how to maximize my pussy intake would be greatly appreciated. Especially coming from some of the veterans on here. Never done something like a SD / SB arrangement. Seems like the asking price is pretty high on a few of the profiles. Thanks in advance for any help / tips.

**Doc2016** · 03-21-18 09:07

So I'm taking the plunge to put up a SA competitor. Yes, I know there are several sites out there. My goal is to make a better site, better price, better user interface, better privacy, and, well, just better. If anyone has questions, feel free to ask. Appreciate any help or suggestions.

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects...dating-website

**RoadWarrior007** · 03-18-18 09:03

Any insights? She wants to meet & bring a girlfriend.

Thanks.

**Sircmc17** · 03-16-18 18:49

I'm going to be visiting Norfolk next week and ladies that need sokme help please pass me digits via pm. I prefer black / Brown ruined but open and if there on fetlife or some other kind of bdsm even better.

**Blak Gekko** · 03-03-18 21:23

I have a friend who I met on SA who is looking for some companionship tonight. $. 5 gets you non rushed visit and all roads are open but you must host. Only contributing members hit me up for details. She's on the south side but will travel.

BG.

**Member #5694** · 03-02-18 23:00

Originally Posted by AlexR31 [View Original Post]

JustLonely, your inbox is full.

I guess I'm the jealous SD bit actuall it wasn't supposed to be a SB / SD relationship and when my well ran dry from supporting her 100% for the last year she turned back to SA to feed her habit. Please correct me if I'm wrong but there is a lot more to the story and I'd be happy to air the dirty laundry to any seasoned members.

Lessons learned: Follow the rules with a SB / SA relationship and don't fall in love with one because you will get burned big time!

Look at the Richmond page for the rules of engagement and stick to them. I'm an altruistic person and I got fucked in the ass royally. Which is something she's willing to do with her strap on. Not my thing though.

Good luck with her, she's an awesome fuck when she is into it.

**Randytomcatt** · 03-02-18 18:18

Originally Posted by CarpeDiem305 [View Original Post]

Anyone have suggestions on how to initially message. I've been pretty unsuccessful recently. I'm in Denver also.

Might want to read the Richmond Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?. Goes back a couple years and a lot of information there.

**CarpeDiem305** · 03-02-18 12:22

Anyone have suggestions on how to initially message. I've been pretty unsuccessful recently. I'm in Denver also.

**Nymking** · 02-28-18 19:13

Time waster and GPS. After way to much back and forth & starts and stops in communication, she presses for a meet asap and says it's $400 to f_.

**AlexR31** · 02-27-18 19:41

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Alex, now your mailbox is full when I tried sending the link.

Inbox cleared!

**Irate Pirate** · 02-27-18 15:41

Originally Posted by Blackmamba757 [View Original Post]

She's lucky she ran out and I didn't physically catch her. I blew her up on SA after she ignored my texts (I thought maybe she went to restroom as well). She apologized saying she was broke and needed to pay rent. I reported her to SA Admin. I have her social information. I considered filing a police report to teach her a lesson.

She's been blowing up my SA acct for a while.

Thought at first she was a re-incarnation of a scammer named "Lilly" in Great Bridge.