Philly Sugar

[Joadt]

Check out my old posts about her. She has GPS and she asked for like 8 bens. I countered with making it worth my while and she said "oh for that extra it'll be like 1,200" LOL. Awful negotiator. She eventually folded to her original ask but by then the moment had passed and I found someone else. She's fucking dumb.

I've met her 2 x at 400. She's 20 lbs heavier and has a thick Delco accent. Dead fish in the sack.

[JTerry26]

This is exactly it. Anyone with experience knows exactly what SA is for and it's original intended purpose. Anyone with more than two brain cells to rub together knows they "rebranded" just to stay out of legal trouble. Problem is these rinsers telling all the younger women they can rinse too and they cite seekings "new terms" completely ignorant of the fact that they're only there for show LOL. More and more often when I contact a younger woman on seeking they have a disrespectful attitude, or are genuinely shocked, appalled even, when I inform them what sugaring actually is and that it is not this delusional fantasy they have invented. Millennials have aged out and we are left with these idiots who think they deserve to be paid to show up. Even worse? The ones who ask for mentorship "in exchange for compensation" TO THEM. Do they know what the fuck the word exchange means? How can they be so stupid to not only NOT provide a service but ask a service of US to PAY THEM. Insanity.

"Oh but my friend got a simp to pay her bills for nothing" 1. She's lying to save face and not deal with the embarrassment of sleeping with someone for money or.

2. She found a unicorn simp because more often than not these same girls have complained about every man they talk to on SA wanting physical intimacy and many end up deleting their accounts LOL. It seems we still outnumber simps but the damage has been done.

No wonder everyone is quitting the game or going overseas.

I've wondered about that. Someone I knew who was new to sex work used that line with friends of her's. That she was just getting guys to pay her to hang out, no sex.

SA definitely works but you have to work it.

[Joadt]

Check out my old posts about her. She has GPS and she asked for like 8 bens. I countered with making it worth my while and she said "oh for that extra it'll be like 1,200" LOL. Awful negotiator. She eventually folded to her original ask but by then the moment had passed and I found someone else. She's fucking dumb.

I've met with her twice at 400 benji's. I insisted we do a public meet first (followed by private time) and she eventually agreed. It's her in the pic but now 20 lbs heavier. Much of it in her boobs and ass but she does have a bit of a belly. She's likely on the spectrum or real shy / inexperienced. When I asked for cowgirl she didn't know what that meant LOL. I chalked the first meet up to her being inexperienced and / or nervous. Second time was no better. She's a dead fish in bed and doesn't make a sound. She does have a solid head game, though.

[EpicSD]

Blink made some good points, best being that vanilla dating doesn't work for us- I'm just not into it. Sugaring is a turn on though. As far as SA goes I've pulled some HOT ass from that site over the last year. I'd say about 20 girls, from 32 down to 19 years old. All but 1 were raw. All sexy and really loved to fuck. 4 of them switched over into for free fuck buddies.

A big help is my ability to feel out, and avoid, waste of time gold diggers. They mostly all want to get paid but they want other things as well. It helps that I stay in shape and am attractive. Also I don't look for sex workers and actually stay away from sex workers on SA. I know how to talk to them and make sure they know that their safety comes first and I stay in communication about things line consent. I don't resent their culture. While I don't pretend to be of their generation I definitely keep learning what their about. I am not a wealthy man and need to have these other tools to get the kinds of girls I do. The women on the site may very well be getting worse, but also the men are getting terrible quickly. This creates opportunity. Just don't be a terrible creep.

Escort sites and street walkers are OUT- 95% intravenous drug users, huge HIV and Hepatitis risks. Tryst would be the only option because the women there aren't covered in track marks but they're much more expensive and have many more restrictions. All these factors are what brought me to seeking.

[WaltoDerri267]

Yeah, this girl must do some BIG escort bidness. She was complaining to me about needing $2K per month to pay tuition and bills. But LOOK she's on Insta and was living it up large in Miami for spring break with her bestie. So she must be getting the dough from simps willing to fork over a half a stack for her puus.

One can find her using the reverse search techniques jj21211.

Yeah man like any young and dumb bimbo she seems financially irresponsible. I have business at her university and have actually seen her on campus but it seems she just blows through any money she does manage to get. I saw those spring break posts too she's not starving LOL. She's a great fuck if you ever want to treat yourself but otherwise I'd stay away and save up for better opportunities.

[WaltoDerri267]

PinkAngel Drexel Hill.

I'm looking for a real SB in the traditional sense. This girl sure aint that, but for those just DTF she's probably yer girl. Asked her what she wanted for a M&G and she said meet in a hotel room.

But hey, if I'm gunna play with a new girl she needs to show me clean STD test results and she said she didn't have any. So IMHO, girlie you need to go get tested! NOT saying she has anything, probably not, but I prefer proof I can see.

But hey there is risk in this hobby and everyone chooses how they address risk: either by direct actions or ignoring. Just saying.

Oh and in subsequent pics, I'd say she put on a few lbs, perhaps 20?

Check out my old posts about her. She has GPS and she asked for like 8 bens. I countered with making it worth my while and she said "oh for that extra it'll be like 1,200" LOL. Awful negotiator. She eventually folded to her original ask but by then the moment had passed and I found someone else. She's fucking dumb.

[WaltoDerri267]

Anyone had any success from this one from Newark, DE? Got the impression she wanted a platonic SD. Kept complaining about how her last SD wanted to get to intimacy WAY too fast as she is shy and needs to warm up to him before spreading her legs. So sounded like a rinser.

Maybe I was wrong in my eval?

Oh and she has a BIG TikToc page and perhaps is an OF Creator, but I didn't get to her page before the search site went pay.

Whenever I get quips like this I say I need to warm up to someone before I open my wallet lmao. When they offer pictures I tell them they're about as useful as pictures of my money would be for them lmao.

[WaltoDerri267]

It boggles my mind that someone would go on SA, basically a lipstick-on-pig prostitution site, and pay someone for a platonic date. The entire premise of the site is sex in exchange for compensation. Maybe not ppm but some kind of financial remuneration for *sex*. Smh.

This is exactly it. Anyone with experience knows exactly what SA is for and it's original intended purpose. Anyone with more than two brain cells to rub together knows they "rebranded" just to stay out of legal trouble. Problem is these rinsers telling all the younger women they can rinse too and they cite seekings "new terms" completely ignorant of the fact that they're only there for show LOL. More and more often when I contact a younger woman on seeking they have a disrespectful attitude, or are genuinely shocked, appalled even, when I inform them what sugaring actually is and that it is not this delusional fantasy they have invented. Millennials have aged out and we are left with these idiots who think they deserve to be paid to show up. Even worse? The ones who ask for mentorship "in exchange for compensation" TO THEM. Do they know what the fuck the word exchange means? How can they be so stupid to not only NOT provide a service but ask a service of US to PAY THEM. Insanity.

"Oh but my friend got a simp to pay her bills for nothing" 1. She's lying to save face and not deal with the embarrassment of sleeping with someone for money or.

2. She found a unicorn simp because more often than not these same girls have complained about every man they talk to on SA wanting physical intimacy and many end up deleting their accounts LOL. It seems we still outnumber simps but the damage has been done.

No wonder everyone is quitting the game or going overseas.

[Readct]

PinkAngel Drexel Hill.

I'm looking for a real SB in the traditional sense. This girl sure aint that, but for those just DTF she's probably yer girl. Asked her what she wanted for a M&G and she said meet in a hotel room.

But hey, if I'm gunna play with a new girl she needs to show me clean STD test results and she said she didn't have any. So IMHO, girlie you need to go get tested! NOT saying she has anything, probably not, but I prefer proof I can see.

But hey there is risk in this hobby and everyone chooses how they address risk: either by direct actions or ignoring. Just saying.

Oh and in subsequent pics, I'd say she put on a few lbs, perhaps 20?

Shampoo, might I suggest you look into getting on PrEP. Look into it. Reduces HIV exposure risk by 99%.

Anything else can be fixed with two pills. I been hobbying 30 years. Gotten the clap twice. I get tested 4 x per year. Don't do condoms. Prod paid for +/-1500 girls.

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

My suggestion to all is to keep their expectations low.

If you live on the east coast and are using a site like seeking, chances are you're not able to navigate the normal / vanilla dating world efficiently enough to get sex at a rate and amount that you are satisified with.

Nothing wrong with that, I am in that category too.

I do believe that it was easier to get laid from seeking in philly back in like 2015-2018, but that's not the case anymore.

It's getting harder and harder to get laid through seeking, and it will continue to get harder. Less girls are on the platform, more girls are annoying and un-fuckable. That's just the way things are.

No one wants to admit the reality that the site has gone to the shitter. Everyone is too idealistic and is totally fine with spending more of their time and effort into a dying site, in the hopes of finally getting laid again or finding a girl.

It's downright insanity.

There are alternatives like massage parlors and escorts in philly, even street walkers. But if you're like me, you don't want to deal with the illegality of all that shit, risk getting caught in a potential police sting with your pants down in a massage parlor, or some other law enforcement nonsense.

Therefore, seeking becomes a very attractive option.

Which ties back to what I said before, which is that seeking is a dying site and is actually a shit option.

So the REAL reality is that you're screwed. There, I said it. There is no "altnerative", you're just fucked, and you have to deal with it.

The only solution is to leave philly for good and go somewhere else where it's easier and much more favorable to monger. It's not favorable at all to monger in philly, no way whatsoever.

Locations like the Philippines and south america are much much more favorable. Places like this are catered to the monger, making it easer and actually encouraging for the monger. Things like not having to worry about law enforcement, cheaper prices, and a higher selection of girls that may be more pleasant and receptive to deal with. All of that is 1 million times better than whatever the shit philly is currently offering you.

No one wants to say these things though because it's a grim reality that is very difficult to accept.

This is why my main suggestion is what I mentioned before, keep expectations low.

These days, I use seeking passively to scan through girls in various cities, and send out messages to ones that particularly catch my interest with the intent of establishing a long term thing (it's a long shot, but I still drop a message just in case) OR I passively look through the profiles that are local in philly, message some that I find interesting, and take any lay ups that I can get it.

I'm never invested or really "trying" at all in any of my messages with local girls. Rather, I'm passively on the site and more so on the lookout for any girls that I can tell are interested, are going to make this easy for me, and are pretty much guaranteed to meet and give me a solid girlfriend experience. It's very situational based.

That's how I've been using the site lately and it's been pretty satisfying for me. I don't get a bunch of results and my results are fairly rare actually, but I'm okay with that because I've got other things I'm focused on. Mainly, I'm trying to get the hell out of philly as soon as I possibly can, and get to a place where it's actually favorable to be a monger. This is requiring me to direct my focus towards making more money, stability & saving money, and working through relocation.

[Shampoo55]

Vibrant Vi 24 Aston.

OMG another one that has me cracking up.

Claims to be a sports writer of some sorts. Has an average look at best and apparently found some simp, overpaying, SD while in college. Now that these girls are no longer in college, young & pretty, and have put on a few lbs, why do they think they are entitled to BIG bucks. Brow beat me into sharing what I paid prior SBs (I've has a few that rivaled Escort prices) and she ghosted. Never quite said what was her ask, but assume it was GPS for what she brings to the table.

What these girls sure don't get is while I might not be paying HUGE amounts, initially, at whale prices, a recent SB did spur my generosity: I helped her pay off some bills, provided extra funds when she got in a pinch and often just floated hair & nails funds. But few girls these days know how to play the traditional SB game and inspire extras. Most, like this one, appear to want to show up, spread their legs and collect HUGE amounts. Sigh.

End of rant.

Amanda.

[Shampoo55]

This one just made me laugh. She's on the boarder of what I consider hot, or what I'd be willing at a premium. But has a serious case of being a Captain Ahab!

Told me she wants $1,000 ppm or $5,000 per month as that is what her last SD did. Tried talking to her to see if there was any flexibility and she pointed out the she lives in a $1 Million dollar house so that was justification for her ask. I mean seriously? Yer living at home with Mommy & Daddy and think the value of the real estate they owe to the bank is justification of your High ask? Oh sure perhaps there was some dude who paid exorbitant amounts while you were a young coed, but now, skinny looking?

Oh and tell me her middle pic isn't 5 yr old or something?

Smh.

[Shampoo55]

Well this small BBW girl is looking for a platonic SD. GTFO! Where do these girls come from that think a dude is gunna pay her funds just to chat through text? Isn't that what OF is for?

[Shampoo55]

Anyone had any success from this one from Newark, DE? Got the impression she wanted a platonic SD. Kept complaining about how her last SD wanted to get to intimacy WAY too fast as she is shy and needs to warm up to him before spreading her legs. So sounded like a rinser.

Maybe I was wrong in my eval?

Oh and she has a BIG TikToc page and perhaps is an OF Creator, but I didn't get to her page before the search site went pay.

[Shampoo55]

PinkAngel Drexel Hill.

I'm looking for a real SB in the traditional sense. This girl sure aint that, but for those just DTF she's probably yer girl. Asked her what she wanted for a M&G and she said meet in a hotel room.

But hey, if I'm gunna play with a new girl she needs to show me clean STD test results and she said she didn't have any. So IMHO, girlie you need to go get tested! NOT saying she has anything, probably not, but I prefer proof I can see.

But hey there is risk in this hobby and everyone chooses how they address risk: either by direct actions or ignoring. Just saying.

Oh and in subsequent pics, I'd say she put on a few lbs, perhaps 20?