Philly Sugar

[Kenny G]

I agree the first one is probably a streetwalker, and I don't recognize the third one. I texted with the second one a while ago (I want to say over a year, but IDK for sure). She was asking less then, but still way too much, and with me she gave off the vibe of a wannabe premium FSSW, rather than a sb. And I'm interested in knowing more about the last one. Would you be willing to share more info *before* I re-up my SA membership? She's weirdly appealing, and I don't mind some "pro" vibe as long as it's decent value for money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-e60f0712a36e Public service for our less than savvy men. This girl is an obvious junkie. Her last pic is her sitting under an overpass in what looks like Kensington area, my guess is off Lehigh ave. Go forward at your own risk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-b3679aea58e4 seems real but has GPS. Wants 7 and I did not counter.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-e67e02922b83 won't show face pics until you agree to 1 k a meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-a89e5c727783 serious pro vibes, definitely real. Charges by time.

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-e60f0712a36e Public service for our less than savvy men. This girl is an obvious junkie. Her last pic is her sitting under an overpass in what looks like Kensington area, my guess is off Lehigh ave. Go forward at your own risk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-b3679aea58e4 seems real but has GPS. Wants 7 and I did not counter.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-e67e02922b83 won't show face pics until you agree to 1 k a meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-a89e5c727783 serious pro vibes, definitely real. Charges by time.

[Shampoo55]

Has anyone seen this girl from the WC area?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-2b67d77c9e71

She's got the typical disease, texted that wants $500 ppm and needs at least $2 K per month.

Me thinks one can find her on IG and some picks that suggest she's no spinner.

[EpicSD]

She meets two of my red flag criteria:

1) Stripper. She's a student of the game.

2) User name has princess, queen, or some other similar lofty title.

I have the exact same approach. Strippers see men as someone to be squeezed for everything they can get. It's literally their job to do that. The other red flag with profile names is if they go with the randomly generated ones the site suggests. Like what american gal would see "MysticalGeek" or "CheerfulBeauty" and say "that's how I want to present myself".

[Mythbuster]

One thing I did previously was in my profile I put something like "if you're in Philly and can't drive don't even message me". So if girls from other states or in Philly messaged me I knew they were fake or just too stupid to read so that really narrowed it down. I did get in touch with a small handful but didn't meet a single one in person. From the replies here it seems like nothing has changed so I'll just save my money.

The advice that I would give is to never put anything negative or disqualifying in your profile. Most people steer clear of people who put negative things in their profile. I know I do. When I see a woman who says she hates time wasters, I think that she's already jaded and with keep you on a short leash.

I would say save your money at this point of the year especially if you like the college age ladies. The influx of good profile come in the late summer to early winter. After that its last minute spring break funds and girls coming home for the summer which doesn't usually seem that great around this area. I would theorize that it is easier to do Seeking in the Philadelphia area if you are from out of town and don't have to worry about bumping into you uncle while out on a date at an upscale restaurant!

[Mythbuster]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-963c513aba92 Seems nice and is real. Is a dancer up in her neck of the woods. Wants 8. Naw.

She meets two of my red flag criteria:

1) Stripper. She's a student of the game.

2) User name has princess, queen, or some other similar lofty title.

[Shampoo55]

So does anyone have the link for this girl?

SB is from Cheney Univ, probably listed as Media or something? I can't see her profile now.

She's a bit thicker than her pics suggest. Was nice enough. Showed up with a huge 'fo which was kinda cool.

But she has severe GPS. Asked for $1,000 PPM and / or $6,000 per month allowance! WTF!

I mean seriously? I've been banging a 20-yo SB that looks like the blonde pics, for 300 ppm. Why would I more than triple that? See what I mean about the influence of TicTok on these girl's thinking?
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[Shampoo55]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-65ae4740fd4f wants the first 3 meets to be platonic dinner dates and get paid 1. 5 $ I let her know it's rinsing. She told me it's legal escorting and I informed her SA is not an escort site. Like this dumb twat thinks her time is more valuable than mine LOL.

Yeah, these entitled girls or they think the stuff they see on TicTok is real. Then again, perhaps there are dudes with more money than brains these days?

I probably would have nexted her based on these gems in her PF:

I have a 3 date rule, if you can make it past the third meet, let’s see what can happen

My time is valuable and I'm EXPENSIVE. They don't give out gold for free boys

I’m the best of the best

[MisterMister46]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-935e59036164

Anyone talk to her?

She gave me access to her private photos (no conversation and no request from me). They look basically exactly as you'd expect.

[KCesar68]

why be on that site?

When did I say to be on the site? I even agreed that the credit system is too shady outside of people who know they'll only spend a certain amount for credits or keep careful track of what they spend and SA is far better. I'm merely saying "full of bots" is kinda hyperbolic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-935e59036164

Anyone talk to her?

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-65ae4740fd4f wants the first 3 meets to be platonic dinner dates and get paid 1. 5 $ I let her know it's rinsing. She told me it's legal escorting and I informed her SA is not an escort site. Like this dumb twat thinks her time is more valuable than mine LOL.

[YoshiRed]

If by success you mean actually meeting a perfect SB it's going to be a struggle on any site. But if you're fine running through a few less than perfect SBs then the ability to message as many women as possible is going to improve your success rate and that's what seeking offers.

I didn't use to have much success getting any traction or even numbers but once I started to focus mostly on women who were actually on line at the same time I was that improved. Don't bother messaging girls that aren't online unless you think they are perfect, even then try to figure out when they are on line.

One thing I did previously was in my profile I put something like "if you're in Philly and can't drive don't even message me". So if girls from other states or in Philly messaged me I knew they were fake or just too stupid to read so that really narrowed it down. I did get in touch with a small handful but didn't meet a single one in person. From the replies here it seems like nothing has changed so I'll just save my money.

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-963c513aba92 Seems nice and is real. Is a dancer up in her neck of the woods. Wants 8. Naw.

[EpicSD]

Think you're getting a bit paranoid my guy. Sure there's bots but "full"? Also, like I said, lots are the same people on both sites. Like this one.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...dafc7c5f3adc8a

https://members.seeking.com/messages...e-dc7a4feebfdf

Same exact chick and even has her verification vid. The problem with that site is the retarded credits. SA gives unlimited messaging. SB does that stupid psychological ploy of whittling your money away with small transactions that eventually add up. Too few people fight the temptation.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-66c6470d6d9a

Waste of time. Her English is Awful but she's real. Medical worker. First time I messaged her on SA she gave this long-ass explanation about how she wants a guy to help her with her studies and to give her vacations and wants to get cosmetic surgery. Tried again a few months later and this time she actually gave me her number. Apparently not having an Iphone was a "red flag" and she thought I was super old or something. Dumb bltch there's better phones out there than garbage apple products. Met up in my car for us to talk, she was convinced I was ok and we'd see about a meet for real shortly. Then after it's the same old "I'm not a hooker" song and dance. Said her ex husband (that she apparently still lives with her or something) is abusive. Wants to find a new place to move to. Constantly flaked. Said she wanted a puppy and she was willing to have sex if I got her one. I pretended to go along with it. Literally anything she requested like the puppy or needing a place to stay she'd give an excuse to why she couldn't do it anymore or would just change her mind. Is bigger than her pics too.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-92b76e8427b9

You know how Colombia seems to be South America's porn star and plastic surgery capital? She's further proof. Got a boob job and butt work. Wish she had gone harder on the boobs though. Sadly, she's not a SB. Met her in Philly, she invites you for FBSM. Good deal, but not GFE. CFS. Massage was humdrum. Deed wasn't much better. Didn't really kiss or let me DATY. She pretends she's down for the SB aspect but just wants to have a FBSM meet first to get to know you. After that first meet I suggested we come to my place and do the GF stuff like meeting for a bite then having fun. She was cool with me picking her up since she has no car, but she was leading me on. The day we were going to meet again she wanted to try to convince me to just do it at her place again. Probably not even eat. Didn't bother to find out since I asked her why she won't do uncovered even though I'm tested and clean. Said she doesn't want to spread infections and doesn't believe in testing she's shown. Not sure if she means she needs to see the testing for herself at a facility or she doesn't believe in them at all. Wacko. Told her I found someone else. Might be just the thing for guys wanting a sexy latina to give them a FBSM if they don't care about GFE or CFS at 2 and a half benis.

So, my guy, if the same real girls are on both sites but one site is full of bots that try to whittle away your funds, why be on that site? SA has scammers yes but the site itself isn't the scammer lmao. You do you homie.

[Mythbuster]

Tried both Seeking and SB years ago with very little success. Thinking about trying Secret Benefits again but was curious if anyone's had luck on there recently?

If by success you mean actually meeting a perfect SB it's going to be a struggle on any site. But if you're fine running through a few less than perfect SBs then the ability to message as many women as possible is going to improve your success rate and that's what seeking offers.

I didn't use to have much success getting any traction or even numbers but once I started to focus mostly on women who were actually on line at the same time I was that improved. Don't bother messaging girls that aren't online unless you think they are perfect, even then try to figure out when they are on line.