Philly Sugar

**BamBam** · 04-23-23 13:11

Originally Posted by ReadyToTumble [View Original Post]

So has anyone had any success with SB? I am so fucking tempted to buys credits but I can't help but think it is a scam!

HenryT tells me it's bs but. My little head is telling me otherwise.

Any thoughts?

I am temporarily banned from SA. I have to create an entirely new identity to get back on. Meanwhile, I have been playing with the three other sites to see how they perform. There is a petty long learning curve on SB. You have to take your time and spend your credits very, very carefully. If you are cautious and only spend credits for messaging, it can be cheaper than SA. However, the yield is much, much lower. And even with experience and wariness, there are still more than a few NPC/bots, that will waste your money. These are profiles that meet all the normal selection criteria but only give you one message or answer then ghost. In my experience, I can get 2-3 MnG's per month. Of those only about one in four is going to be ready for the FC and the quality will be equally lower. (Meaning I decline.) On SA, I could do 2-4 MnG's per week and find 1-2 new SB's per month. Others report higher results on SA but they are also seeing the pros, semi-pros, serial SB's and non-HWP girls which do not interest me.

My rules for finding real people on SB are: 1) Can I find PII? 2) Do they have more than a few pictures? 3) Does their About Me have more than 3-4 items? 4) Finally, have they bothered to look at my profile? The latter item is the most decisive one. Of course, none of these criteria work if you do not already have credits. If you do not have credits, the site will bombard you with messages, profile views, favorites and everything else they can think of. They will use real profiles to do this without the profile owners having a clue. All this is to get you thinking with the little head. As soon as you buy some credits, they turn off the program and girls you message will have no idea what you are talking about or will be the NPC's.

I hope this helps!

BAM.

**PhillYogynist** · 04-23-23 12:01

Originally Posted by Mythbuster [View Original Post]

It's a shame some of these ladies don't know how to take a little risk. If she's already telling you where to take her for dinner for a meet and greet, she should just get the free meal and figure things out form there. I think you find with a lot of dancers that they think any time spent is worth money! I think you might find more success with the college crowd or recent grads!

Could be right. We had developed a nice rapport via text, common interests, flowed easily, and she was remarkably well spoken vs the stereotypical stripper so I was surprised. I already have an Ivy med school student and an Asian nurse in my rotation so I'm not crying any tears over one that gets away. Just sharing the info.

**Mythbuster** · 04-22-23 22:46

Originally Posted by PhillYogynist [View Original Post]

Spoke with this one. Receptionist by day, "exotic" dancer by night (her words). Actually very well spoken and has high expectations as you would expect, 5 $ per meet. Scheduled a dinner M&G at her recommended restaurant and then brought up needing to be paid for the tariff for her time. Shane, I expect she'll still be on the site 6 weeks from now still looking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-b129ce16e19f

It's a shame some of these ladies don't know how to take a little risk. If she's already telling you where to take her for dinner for a meet and greet, she should just get the free meal and figure things out form there. I think you find with a lot of dancers that they think any time spent is worth money! I think you might find more success with the college crowd or recent grads!

**PhillYogynist** · 04-22-23 09:07

This one looked promising until she sent more pictures. Not my type. Wants 3 $ PPM and can host mornings and before 5:00 in Brewerytown area. Fun and engaging in chat, just not for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-1f551849f771

**PhillYogynist** · 04-22-23 08:59

Spoke with this one. Receptionist by day, "exotic" dancer by night (her words). Actually very well spoken and has high expectations as you would expect, 5 $ per meet. Scheduled a dinner M&G at her recommended restaurant and then brought up needing to be paid for the tariff for her time. Shane, I expect she'll still be on the site 6 weeks from now still looking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-b129ce16e19f

**Mythbuster** · 04-21-23 13:38

Originally Posted by ReadyToTumble [View Original Post]

So has anyone had any success with SB? I am so fucking tempted to buys credits but I can't help but think it is a scam!

HenryT tells me it's bs but. My little head is telling me otherwise.

Any thoughts?

It sounds like others have had success but it probably depends on your goals. If you want a new play partner every month then something like that may be most cost effective, especially if you like to chase the new faces. If you're good finding a 1-5 reliable options that will last you a year or more, you can do that in 1-2 month on SA and then be done with it.

I find that it I a decent cross reference for SA. You'll see many of the same women on both sites. You may also see additional photos and even video on SB all for free. But like has been mentioned below, think of how many no responses or faded conversations that you've had on SA. Those will all cost you on SB.

**SJDude856** · 04-21-23 12:06

Originally Posted by ReadyToTumble [View Original Post]

So has anyone had any success with SB? I am so fucking tempted to buys credits but I can't help but think it is a scam!

HenryT tells me it's bs but. My little head is telling me otherwise.

Any thoughts?

I had success on SB last year. Met and fucked 4. One is her 40's, 2 in their 20's, and had a couple months with a 34 why / o. Yes there are scams too. I got scammed by one on there.

Live and learn.

**EpicSD** · 04-21-23 11:42

Originally Posted by ReadyToTumble [View Original Post]

So has anyone had any success with SB? I am so fucking tempted to buys credits but I can't help but think it is a scam!

HenryT tells me it's bs but. My little head is telling me otherwise.

Any thoughts?

I scour all the Sugar forums on here and pretty much all of them say Secret Benefits is a money hole. You buy credits that let you read and send messages. Then the site will send messages from bots and even real accounts (but the girls have no idea). You read the message and use credits, you answer and spend credits. There a low low success rate the way I understand it.

**ReadyToTumble** · 04-21-23 11:22

So has anyone had any success with SB? I am so fucking tempted to buys credits but I can't help but think it is a scam!

HenryT tells me it's bs but. My little head is telling me otherwise.

Any thoughts?

**Mythbuster** · 04-20-23 14:35

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

She prefers to meet evenings and weekends due to her school and work schedules. Not a fit for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-dd2aeafecfee

This lady has a better method of screening out married men. Those hours only work for guys that can get away. It's true that some of these women don't want to meet up with married men. I've run into them. It seems like an odd balance that they want an unattached man but don't necessarily want a guy to be bothering them all the time. IMHO, If they're not 18-25 but available during the day I'd be a little leery.

Classyandsweet is also looking for a manganous relationship, I steer clear when I see that! This reads like it's her add on Match.com.

**HenryT458** · 04-20-23 11:56

Any gents have success with this lady? If she's real she'll be expensive.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-89fb5e6c8f6a

**HenryT458** · 04-20-23 11:06

She prefers to meet evenings and weekends due to her school and work schedules. Not a fit for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-dd2aeafecfee

**HenryT458** · 04-20-23 10:57

This lovely lady is not interested in meeting married men. Why not put that in your profile? Or does it only apply to guys who she thinks aren't attractive?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-a886dfc88a19

**Mythbuster** · 04-20-23 09:11

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

This lady wants to sell pics and videos before she meets. Next.

"Readily available to meet up. If you're interested I'd to start by sharing some sexy pics or videos of me, just for a small amount before making arrangements. ".

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-01ddfc24d801

I guess she didn't get any takers and moved on to find other victims!

**Mythbuster** · 04-19-23 23:19

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

Basically these days I'm looking for less professional and more actual sugar babies. I really enjoy the meet and greet feel out and seduction. Feeling them getting forked up to fuck is really enticing. And when I ask if they want to go back to my place and they say yes, seeing how turned on they are by it is addictive LOL. That's just me though. I get the just bang a bad girl approach.

Also- how many posts do I have to leave to get to senior member? Not complaining, just wondering.

Different Strokes for different folks! I agree that finding a non pro is quite the turn on! I'm just excited when they're not repulsed by my old A $$!