Delaware Douchebaggery!

[BeefNoodleSoup]

This is in response to your response to LuvARub88. Maybe he feels the way he feels towards you is because your soooo arrogant!

A lot of guys on here feel the same way about you. But they're afraid to say something!

What is wrong with this guy? Everyone hates him and he just doubles down.

[FarmerJack]

Dude! Are you bi-polar? You are a good monger and we have had some good PMs, but I just don't get your hard-on for me and need to be a hater?

What gives?

This is in response to your response to LuvARub88. Maybe he feels the way he feels towards you is because your soooo arrogant!

A lot of guys on here feel the same way about you. But they're afraid to say something!

[FarmerJack]

I was going to let your BS in the pic thread go, but after this repeated rant, changed my mind.

Look the picture thread is not "my" domain (or fish bowl) or anything, but it is a TOOL one can use. Since this site does not allow pictures to be attached to a PM, the Picture thread is a tool one can use to do such. So when you want to "send" a picture with a DM here, all one has to do is post the picture in the picture thread and then copy & paste the link to that post in the DM. It is a work around. No one has to use it, but it is a tool if one wishes. Oh an since the site only requires 10 characters of text, you don't have to put her name or any info if you do not wish too. Use the tool or not, it's up to you.

But the key is you have to post a picture in that thread in order to add text or comments. It is that simple. Don't know why you can't figure that out, 3 times you failed to follow the rules. You are lucky as I deleted your posts, look down through there and others got spanked by the Mods. So I saved you from that. Also several years ago, when guys weren't following the rules in Tampa, the Admin had to step in and threaten to BAN dudes who didn't post pics. I figured we could do better here, in DE, so we solve our own problems. Perhaps I should have let Admin handle you?

But your response to my "guidance" is childish and immature..

Dude. STFU!

[Shampoo55]

What I mean by that is, everybody on this site ain't cool with everybody on this site. That's a fact. There are some guys that have shared information with me privately and I've also done the same. So of course this thinking doesn't apply to every guy on the site. There are some good players as well. But there's also some bad players who are only going to do what's in their best interest. And if it means not posting about really good providers, they will choose not to share any info to the public. That's their right and choice but I call it like I see it. I just wish we would see more good reviews.

I was going to let your BS in the pic thread go, but after this repeated rant, changed my mind.

Look the picture thread is not "my" domain (or fish bowl) or anything, but it is a TOOL one can use. Since this site does not allow pictures to be attached to a PM, the Picture thread is a tool one can use to do such. So when you want to "send" a picture with a DM here, all one has to do is post the picture in the picture thread and then copy & paste the link to that post in the DM. It is a work around. No one has to use it, but it is a tool if one wishes. Oh an since the site only requires 10 characters of text, you don't have to put her name or any info if you do not wish too. Use the tool or not, it's up to you.

But the key is you have to post a picture in that thread in order to add text or comments. It is that simple. Don't know why you can't figure that out, 3 times you failed to follow the rules. You are lucky as I deleted your posts, look down through there and others got spanked by the Mods. So I saved you from that. Also several years ago, when guys weren't following the rules in Tampa, the Admin had to step in and threaten to BAN dudes who didn't post pics. I figured we could do better here, in DE, so we solve our own problems. Perhaps I should have let Admin handle you?

But your response to my "guidance" is childish and immature. You got offended and said you would take your ball and go home? SERIOUSLY? see attached But that goes right along with you whining above. Whaaaa, no one posts reviews of the hot girls so I can free-load! Whaaaa, I hate some dudes here and some hate me? Dude that's life! If you go through life trying to please everyone, you'll end up pleasing no one.

But what is the point of crying over guys who only act in their own best interest? How is crying about it going to fix anything or change anything? I mean if you have a solution, we are all ears! Share it! Otherwise, accept the fact that this is the way things are on any monger board. You clearly have a few things to learn in life and the mongering game.

Me thinks one needs to mature a bit. Just saying.

[FarmerJack]

I for one have shared MANY a girl here. And many a girl has been shared with me! The statement of "between pussy, head, and friends, We can't be friends". Is very much a fallicy.

Plenty of fellas have shared with me and we've conversed, joked and laughed about quirks and other things throughout the years. And vice versa.

I haven't shared much in recent times, as my mongering is very minimal (if not 0). I was sent one just the other day by a comrade on here that "could" perhaps make me come out of retirement.

Perhaps if everyone saw the users of this site as a friend, rather than competition, maybe we'd all get along better and could share more. Ohh, don't get me wrong, I completely understand the need to "hold on to the good ones", because, many times when sharing, things go awry. But, sometimes, a bad review is ALMOST as good, if not better, than a good one!

Good luck, happy hunting and be safe!!

What I mean by that is, everybody on this site ain't cool with everybody on this site. That's a fact. There are some guys that have shared information with me privately and I've also done the same. So of course this thinking doesn't apply to every guy on the site. There are some good players as well. But there's also some bad players who are only going to do what's in their best interest. And if it means not posting about really good providers, they will choose not to share any info to the public. That's their right and choice but I call it like I see it. I just wish we would see more good reviews.

[PPJones]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with bad reviews. The problem is There's more bad than good. And yes you have a good valid point as to why there aren't more good reviews. A lot of guys are reluctant to share any info about a good provider, so they can keep her on the dl. And I get it. When it comes to pussy, head, and friends, men can never truly be friends. That knowledge applies in the dating scene and the mongering scene. So I get it. As men, the only thing we all have in common on this site is we like pussy and head. But the reality is. We ain't friends! So I get why there aren't a lot more good reviews.

I for one have shared MANY a girl here. And many a girl has been shared with me! The statement of "between pussy, head, and friends, We can't be friends". Is very much a fallicy.

Plenty of fellas have shared with me and we've conversed, joked and laughed about quirks and other things throughout the years. And vice versa.

I haven't shared much in recent times, as my mongering is very minimal (if not 0). I was sent one just the other day by a comrade on here that "could" perhaps make me come out of retirement.

Perhaps if everyone saw the users of this site as a friend, rather than competition, maybe we'd all get along better and could share more. Ohh, don't get me wrong, I completely understand the need to "hold on to the good ones", because, many times when sharing, things go awry. But, sometimes, a bad review is ALMOST as good, if not better, than a good one!

Good luck, happy hunting and be safe!!

[Shampoo55]

Yall need to stop catfishin'.

Perhaps I don't get the context?

Then again, perhaps these girls are the best some of these dudes can land?

Seem like this year we have seen a few new guys show up and expose the virtues of dating several girls I would consider bottom of the barrel. Bottom 25% of the Bell Curve.

Maybe that speaks to the skills, that need to develop, in order to land better girls? Perhaps it speaks to personal preference for the lower echelon?

But you are right, it is interesting that gilrs that have been deadpanned for years here (and who many guys discarded years ago due to numerous bad reviews), all of a sudden find a glowing review in a new, low post count dude?

Thanks for the updated pics!

[FarmerJack]

What appears to be lost in the conversation is the fact that 75% of the traffic here is lurkers or those who never sign-up. After all I see, per your first post, you found the site, but took 3-months before you signed up and started contributing. Many just do not take that step and stay in the shadows. Not to be smart, but if one has a solution to pull in more contributors, I am sure one could gain the eternal gratitude of the owners here.

Funny thing is that these boards have been through an evolution of sorts. Way back when there were complaints about "cheerleading" or guys providing too much positive feedback on a girl.

But now, IF I have a girl I really like and want to keep seeing, why would I share her here? Problem is that, do that and every Tom, Dick & Harry will contact her. She will get swamped with replies, 90% of which will be time wasters. With so much interest (high demand) she might raise her rates. Oh, and some "White Knight" will prolly screenshot and show her my review, and when she recognizes me, she'll cut me off from further dates! Ouch.

But what is wrong with BAD or negative reviews? Don't those reviews help others avoid the bad ones? It has sure helped me. Er, but guys have to use the search function and do some research.

What I think many who complain that there isn't enough reviews of girls (the ones they want to see) is because they don't want to have to learn how to do their own research or due diligence and can just freeload. C'Mon. Guys! There is plenty of pussy out there. I just found a new Choc Be-donk-donk yesterday. This DD stuff ain't hard. It just takes time.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with bad reviews. The problem is There's more bad than good. And yes you have a good valid point as to why there aren't more good reviews. A lot of guys are reluctant to share any info about a good provider, so they can keep her on the dl. And I get it. When it comes to pussy, head, and friends, men can never truly be friends. That knowledge applies in the dating scene and the mongering scene. So I get it. As men, the only thing we all have in common on this site is we like pussy and head. But the reality is. We ain't friends! So I get why there aren't a lot more good reviews.

[Shampoo55]

Your absolutely right sir. Much more bad reviews than there are good reviews. A lot of taking from good reviews but not enough giving good reviews. Sux.

What appears to be lost in the conversation is the fact that 75% of the traffic here is lurkers or those who never sign-up. After all I see, per your first post, you found the site, but took 3-months before you signed up and started contributing. Many just do not take that step and stay in the shadows. Not to be smart, but if one has a solution to pull in more contributors, I am sure one could gain the eternal gratitude of the owners here.

Funny thing is that these boards have been through an evolution of sorts. Way back when there were complaints about "cheerleading" or guys providing too much positive feedback on a girl.

But now, IF I have a girl I really like and want to keep seeing, why would I share her here? Problem is that, do that and every Tom, Dick & Harry will contact her. She will get swamped with replies, 90% of which will be time wasters. With so much interest (high demand) she might raise her rates. Oh, and some "White Knight" will prolly screenshot and show her my review, and when she recognizes me, she'll cut me off from further dates! Ouch.

But what is wrong with BAD or negative reviews? Don't those reviews help others avoid the bad ones? It has sure helped me. Er, but guys have to use the search function and do some research.

What I think many who complain that there isn't enough reviews of girls (the ones they want to see) is because they don't want to have to learn how to do their own research or due diligence and can just freeload. C'Mon. Guys! There is plenty of pussy out there. I just found a new Choc Be-donk-donk yesterday. This DD stuff ain't hard. It just takes time. Time to learn how to do DD, then time to use the tool once you have learned it. A lot of things in life are free, finding the best girls SAFELY usually isn't one of them. So take some time to get up the learning curve and be patient with the process. It can be done! After all if a numbnuts like me can learn it, it should be a snap for others!

Good luck.


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PS- oh and I was going to provide an update on a couple of girls that I commented on recently, but the comments might have been perceived as a "bad review" so I decided against doing so as to not add to the consternation of others. yeah, I'm a dick!

[Shampoo55]

If I'd known you prefer me to PM you, then I'd have PMd. Didn't realize you'd care between PMing or just replying to your post. In the future, I guess Ill make sure to not post anything, and just communicate directly via PMs.

Also I did look up the place on google before asking you. If it wasn't ambiguous based on the two results that popped up, I'd not have asked the question. I literally said I am not familiar with DE spots. How would I know the difference between the two locations that popped up?

The reason I asked you to PM me back was specifically so it wouldn't be "super highlighed" as you say.

NO one is telling you to not post! Jeez.

Good to see someone doing the search thingie! Kudos. Your confusion was not my confusion. I have read the review sites for AMPs and seen how guys don't know where they are and just give some name. Then there is a back & forth for days over what is meant. Sigh. That is the downside of the internet: imprecise observations, comments & opinions. So I try to be precise while also being a bit discreet.

Your argument that you wanted to PM so it wouldn't be "super highlighted" is a full of prunes! You can't claim that after the fact. Amigo, what were you thinking? Post it on the boards means others are going to see it, add a respond, which "highlights it," which kills any supposed intention of not super highlighting it!

Nah, you are guilty of what I see on MBs all of the time, guys who ask others to PM them with info. It's just lazy or arrogant. You want info from a dude privately then ASK him privately. Why do dudes waste their time posting that when in the same amount of time they could have composed a PM? Is it a dominance thingie? Ignorance on how to PM? I dunno, but IMHO it is BAD FORM!

[Shampoo55]

And hugz! XXOOXXXOO.

Yeah, didn't think you had the guts, nor class to take Abe Lincoln's advice! LOL.

Hope by now you have added me to your ignore list. It's getting cold soon and wouldn't want you walking around with wet shoes!

Putz.

[JTerry26]

And hugz! XXOOXXXOO.

WTF! You just got done joining the 'haters list" with a post below and then you turn around with this? Pandering? Patronizing?

You fuck tards that are too freaking lazy to do your own DD and play your own game, who want to be spoon fed (actionable intel) or come on these threads and cry about "oh, there's nothing out there!" are just humorous.

Then you want to bash me for not providing reports? LOL!

I fuck more pussy in a week than you do in a couple of months and you want to bash me? I can tell you "how to" have the kind of success I do, but I sure as hell ain't gunna spoon feed you the best finds. Why would I do that? WTF is in it for me? So youse guys want to cry cause you can't find anything, LOL! Grow up!

Look a LARGE part of "finding girls to fuck" involves OpSec and it is something that is sorely lacking by many of the dudes who are new here and even a few that are experienced mongers. So we ALL can and should be learning and employing as much OpSec as possible. So if providing insight and help to others gets yer knickers in a twist then either get over it or put me on your ignore list!

I think I made a grave mistake sharing top-level talent with the hater group assembled here. I won't make that mistake again thanks to the assembled bashers.

I've said this before and I'll say it again. Abe Lincoln made a statement that is apropos: Do I not defeat my enemy when I make him my friend? There's the olive branch, when are youse haters gunna take it up or add me to your ignore list. Need help doing that?

Sigh.

[Rubber Ducky Boston]

While I see this kind of thing on message boards frequently it always amuses me!

A dude wants info from another dude, yet won't take the time to PM him? You want info from a dude, why not spend the time PM-ing the guy rather than wasting your time posting? Same amount of time, and more likely to get direct results. To me a post like sure looks like the writer is too lazy to PM others or thinks they are entitled to a response. Just saying.

Maybe I'm just 'out of fashion' or something, but you want my help, PM me directly. I don't bite! er, unless you come at me like a douchebag or hater. just sayin.

But goodness, does anyone do their own DD these days? A simple search on the term "Asian Bodywork" would come up with the address. Now note I didn't add "best" at the beginning of that. For anyone who has picked up a business card at that place, will see what the formal name is "Asian Bodywork - - I try to be precise and accurate when posting a report.

I mean you want to SUPER highlight this place, make it the flavor of the month, like BW and end up with the results that BW encountered? Discretion is the greater part of valor.

If I'd known you prefer me to PM you, then I'd have PMd. Didn't realize you'd care between PMing or just replying to your post. In the future, I guess Ill make sure to not post anything, and just communicate directly via PMs.

Also I did look up the place on google before asking you. If it wasn't ambiguous based on the two results that popped up, I'd not have asked the question. I literally said I am not familiar with DE spots. How would I know the difference between the two locations that popped up?

The reason I asked you to PM me back was specifically so it wouldn't be "super highlighed" as you say.

[Shampoo55]

could not have said it better myself.

Dude! Are you bi-polar? You are a good monger and we have had some good PMs, but I just don't get your hard-on for me and need to be a hater?

What gives?

[Shampoo55]

I'm not offended bro. I do realize this board is to educate us as to what and what not to do. At the end of the day, as grown men, it's still going to be our choice as to which way we choose to go. I'm quite sure Shampoo55 means well and may have good intentions. But it's not nor should it be his place to keep everybody on here in check! His intentions are admirable, but if any of us see someone and has a good time. Cool. If any of us see someone and gets screwed over. Cool. It's still going to be our decision. It's not his job to keep everyone on here in line, and it really shouldn't be! Some of us are going to learn the easy way or the hard way. I've learned both ways. I'll listen to any input someone has to give. But it will still be my decision. I've been doing this for a number of years so I realize the risks.

Dude, your approach is non-combative and as such you get a kinder and gentler reply.

I am NOT trying to keep anyone "in line. " I have made just about every mistake a monger can make and just hope that by sharing info and educating that I can help others avoid major mistakes and avoid the serious consequences that can result.

I just don't get dudes who can't understand my approach. I guess most here are pretty parochial, as I see a lot of that. We live in a region which is "in your face", rough and tumble, screw the next guy to get ahead, dog eat dog. So with that perspective, I can see why many just don't "get it" when someone is or wants to be truly helpful. I mean that kind of approach is WAY outside one's experience so it is foreign and must be wrong. Sigh.

There are two ways to learn as you noted: "book learning" or "experiential" learning. Because experiential learning in this hobby can be costly in many ways, I prefer to supply info that helps others with the "book learning" methods. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure!

For those who take offense to my teaching, you are free to add me to your ignore list and then you won't have to be irritated to have to see my posts! Just go to your "Private Messages", scroll down to the section on the left "My Settings" find the "Edit Ignore List" click, type in Shampoo55 and then don't forget to click "Okay"! VIOLA! One irritating part of your life solved!

Happy Hunting!