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09-05-23 05:44 #888
Posts: 368Originally Posted by SuelyBrah [View Original Post]
WTF kinda question is this? "Would you have kept the money to teach her a lesson". Who the EFF are you to teach anyone a lesson. That in itself is a controlling narcissistic behavior. (EW). That's like me asking you, did you walk in the door, stick your d1ck in her and do you want to be an a $$hole? Your answer should be No. You played, shitty session, bad chemistry.....it happens, Meh. You take the L and no matter what, donation is left. Im not saying you didn't, just sharing what proper "DECENT' protocol should be.
You said you have mongered but how can you ask a question like that?? If you 2 didn't hit it off, you didn't hit it off. You don't get to say, "Hey this sucked and I don't feel I should give you donation". Again I am not saying that what happened but I am using it as an example.
I am faaaar from a White Knight as I have had effed up situations happen to me and I have put a provider on blast but again, in your massive diatribe of a post, you never said did you "find" the money on you. So did you ?? BTW, its not her that is messaging you, its her booker.
SMH.
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09-05-23 00:09 #887
Posts: 164Originally Posted by JamesD2004 [View Original Post]
You didn't read my message correctly. I don't have a lockout account issue. She blocked me from messaging her. She made that decision. I am over this.
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09-05-23 00:01 #886
Posts: 164Originally Posted by GimmeMoreHead [View Original Post]
With my situation, it isn't about the money. It's about holding the line for a deal. The deal is, if you agree to pay x amount, the girl need to do whatever is posted with reasonable attitude.
Guys pay the girl for two things, service and to be treated reasonably okay*, just okay. I am not talking about being treated like a king here.
But apparently, it seems like a decent of guys would just settle for a shitty service and be okay with a 304 treating them like shit. It is your money, your time, and your pleasure. Expect nothing less. We need to hold the line and have standards gents. Enough with this simping, being a wimp, and being a backboneless coward and not stand up to this bs they throw at us.
I have had the pleasure to meet girls who went above and beyond to make the experience amazing. And to that, I have tipped them extra because I felt like they deserve it. Great attitude and service go a long way.
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09-04-23 21:30 #885
Posts: 959Originally Posted by SuelyBrah [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 19:28 #884
Posts: 1802Originally Posted by SuelyBrah [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 18:56 #883
Posts: 164Originally Posted by JamesD2004 [View Original Post]
I have tried to contact her. I am over this. And I think she is too.
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09-04-23 18:52 #882
Posts: 164She blocked my message on hx too
Well shit this is cute. She tried to message me about the forgotten donation. I didn't see the message till an hour later. She then blocked my number before I could reply and then blocked me on Hx.
Whatever, I am not going to pursue this any more. We can chalk it up to my loss and her loss. Like I said, if she OFFERED to PAY me double that money to come and experience what I experienced, I would not take it.
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09-04-23 18:27 #881
Posts: 164Originally Posted by JamesD2004 [View Original Post]
First, I don't expect things to run smoothly, especially on my side if I can't cum, get hard, etc etc. That would be my fault. As for her end of the deal, she needs to provide service and reasonable attitude yes? Would any guy pay a provider to treat him like shit? I would not even show up if SHE OFFERED to PAY me. Despite that, I did tried to text her back but no reply.
Next about the money. You smell a rat? You might want to check your nose. It is common for guys to bring the exact mount they intend to pay. For my visit, it was 160 and that's exactly what I brought. So assuming I gave it to her, why the hell would I check my pocket after the visit? Add that on top of getting into argument with her. Do you honestly think anyone in their right mind would be checking their pocket for the money after that? Like what, she got so mad that she put money back into my pocket after I went to the restroom? It makes no sense. I only realized that I didn't leave behind the donation a few hours after she texted me later. By then I tried to reply but she didn't answer. Probably blocked my numb.
I always ask providers who offers BBBJ to do mouth wash. And if they get offended by that, that's their problem. They know what they are and what they do. They're dirty and suck on dicks all day. The least they can do is make it a bit safer, cleaner for themselves and their clients. I'm offering hygiene for us both. I've been doing this for years. Check yourself and don't go and call me a newb. You need to do your research and understand medicine a bit. I used to work in healthcare. Go ahead and google "Efficacy of listerine antiseptic in reducing viral contamination of saliva. " by the NIH. Let me know what you find. I don't want to comment on how ignorant that comment was about saliva being a safe antiseptic is. I've had and known guys catching bacterial infections and herpes from just BBBJ alone.
This is a risky hobby. Just me showing up to a random place is a risk in itself. Just her letting a random stranger through her doors is a risk in itself. But if you want to make an argument about using a perfectly sealed, brand new bottle of listerine is risky, go for it. If the concern about it potentially being drugged, I always ask them would "you like me to use it too?" That's how you handle it. Also, if they are a good provider, they should be having a bottle of it to begin with. I've known professional providers like this. I don't think I'm am the newb here.
Her menu says GFE. Do we need to go over the definition of a GFE? If she is able to provide BBBJ, she can stand a bit of light kissing on the neck. Anyone with common sense would understand that.
I didn't even try to kiss her mouth. Didn't want to.
I'm reading a lot of replies about my situation on this forum. Overwhelmingly the comments have been neutral, which I appreciate. But with you, I sense that you are coming at me with some hostility. It's like you are white knighting for this girl. I don't know if she's your homegirl, you got feelings for her, or hated the fact that I got away without paying so it's not fair to you who had to pay for her shitty service?. But your tone has been less than cordial.
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09-04-23 17:47 #880
Posts: 1802Originally Posted by SuelyBrah [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 17:07 #879
Posts: 164Originally Posted by LC310 [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 17:06 #878
Posts: 164Originally Posted by JamesD2004 [View Original Post]
Anyway, I get what you saying. This is something I did not do on purpose, have done, or plan on doing. It was a one time accident, so I don't think it is a repeating pattern to get me into trouble.
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09-04-23 16:56 #877
Posts: 164Originally Posted by HiKeke [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 16:54 #876
Posts: 164Originally Posted by CaptCaveman99 [View Original Post]
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09-04-23 16:52 #875
Posts: 164Originally Posted by TheSkinnyPete [View Original Post]
For a provider, you are paying for the action and how she treats you, the overall provider experience yea? In this specific case, the action was bad and the attitude / treatment was even worse. There is an argument to be made about her not fulfilling her end of the bargain here.
So going back to the car mechanic example, I felt as if I went to a mechanic that fucked up my car even more, give me malfunctioning parts and expect me to pay.
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09-04-23 14:16 #874
Posts: 163Should have known
Originally Posted by SuelyBrah [View Original Post]