SD / SB, SA, or WYP

[LogJammin18]

She ghosted me today.

Same last year. WTF?

[HandMeSome]

Fellow mongers,

I have been on a heavy search for a slim think 22-30 yr black chick and cannot find a nice one for the life of me if anyone knows of one with low mileage in the area it would save me a lot of trouble in trying to import one from Charlotte or Greenville we can work something out between us feel free to inbox me with any ideas or info you may have.

Thanks!

[MilkyWy]

Anyone know anything about this one? I'd really like to smash it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-7f2f4d8bab22

She has been reviewed before.

[LakeLife]

She did same to me. She does not show up.

Playing games.

[Jd195]

She did same to me. She does not show up.

[LakeLife]

Hey guys, I have a trip planned to your beautiful city and looking to set up with nice local girl while I'm there. This girl caught my eye and I was wondering if anyone has any info before I reach out. Much appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-68c5e41cc521

She ghosted me today.

[John Dough71]

Hey guys, I have a trip planned to your beautiful city and looking to set up with nice local girl while I'm there. This girl caught my eye and I was wondering if anyone has any info before I reach out. Much appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-68c5e41cc521

[LovesMuffins]

Her ad says nothing sexual.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-e628759d00cc

Any experience on this lady? Been texting ok comms, she set a date then came up with a lame excuse at the time of the reservation. Fortunately I texted her before meeting time and I didn't go to meet her or waste my time. Hopefully your luck may be better.

[Eagle7415]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-e628759d00cc

Any experience on this lady? Been texting ok comms, she set a date then came up with a lame excuse at the time of the reservation. Fortunately I texted her before meeting time and I didn't go to meet her or waste my time. Hopefully your luck may be better.

[Peter Johnson]

Met this girl and had a great date. I choose wisely and do bring a donation for initial public meets. Out of respect for their time and to show I will be good to them. Well, she said she would love to meet again for a private date. Then she ghosted me. For the better anyhow, she thinks very highly of herself $$ Stay safe!

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-f6796d835f58

If you want to pay a girl to have a meal with you, or go on a hike or whatever, then can't say that's "wrong", but can't be surprised if they don't want to have sex after that and really earn their $$.

[MarionBoy]

Treat SBs like dating any regular girl. If you cannot then I think you can pursue escorts.

That's good advice, MilkyWy! Thanks!

[MilkyWy]

This was posted in the Escort section of the forum and probably is more appropriate for this section. Sorry about that! Anyway... I was curious as to your experiences with the two main dating apps. (Seeking Arrangements or Secret Benefits). I'm not really interested in providing an allowance, per se, and was wondering if most of the girls would accept a "pay per meet" arrangement? My experiences have been good and bad. Most of them seem to expect a lot more than is reasonable. All I really want is to offer them $$$ or so to meet at a hotel or their place for an hour or so. If things go well for both parties, meetings could be set up weekly, monthly or so on. Most seem to want a meetup first, and being married, I have no interest in meeting out in public nor do I want to send my photo out to someone I don't know from Adam. Anyway.. Just wanted to know what the thoughts are from you fellow hobbyists. Skip the Games has really a waste of time in my experience. Take care!

Treat SBs like dating any regular girl. If you cannot then I think you can pursue escorts.

[MarionBoy]

I'm in your exact situation. I haven't had a single hook-up from SB, but have had 6-8 over the years on SA. All are PPM and have been one-time things. Most were mediocre, but there were a couple good times. I'm going to drop SB as soon as I'm out of tokens. I believe that most of the ads on SB are fakes.

Thanks for your input LovesMuffins! Maybe I'll try SA again.

[LovesMuffins]

I'm in your exact situation. I haven't had a single hook-up from SB, but have had 6-8 over the years on SA. All are PPM and have been one-time things. Most were mediocre, but there were a couple good times. I'm going to drop SB as soon as I'm out of tokens. I believe that most of the ads on SB are fakes.

This was posted in the Escort section of the forum and probably is more appropriate for this section. Sorry about that! Anyway... I was curious as to your experiences with the two main dating apps. (Seeking Arrangements or Secret Benefits). I'm not really interested in providing an allowance, per se, and was wondering if most of the girls would accept a "pay per meet" arrangement? My experiences have been good and bad. Most of them seem to expect a lot more than is reasonable. All I really want is to offer them $$$ or so to meet at a hotel or their place for an hour or so. If things go well for both parties, meetings could be set up weekly, monthly or so on. Most seem to want a meetup first, and being married, I have no interest in meeting out in public nor do I want to send my photo out to someone I don't know from Adam. Anyway.. Just wanted to know what the thoughts are from you fellow hobbyists. Skip the Games has really a waste of time in my experience. Take care!

[AVilleGuy2]

Anyone have any experience with DearSam?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-45782de384e9