Arrangement Reports

[RadCoach]

I'm looking for something of a FWB. Not just looking to show up, hit it, and go. Not looking for love, but someone to chat with sometimes.

Good luck!

[Cherokee70]

If you add what it is you're looking for it would be easier for members to give you advice and what works for them.

I'm looking for something of a FWB. Not just looking to show up, hit it, and go. Not looking for love, but someone to chat with sometimes.

[RadCoach]

I think the best way to get something out of the site is to be clear about what you want and / or what you're open to putting up with to get what you want. A significant percentage of girls on the site are fake. Or not open to what you want. So it helps to filter them out as quickly as possible. Find a clear and respectful way to find girls that are open to what you want. And then the other side of the coin, are you open to what they want. Finding mutual interest is key. That's the bottom line.

Rey well said.

[Crisler]

So I'm looking for a little suggestion on how to have better results. What kind of things do you guys put in your profile and what are you actually looking for? Also how do you bring up the conversation when you start messaging someone and what kind of things are you trying to ask about. I seem to find the ones who only want you to send money ahead of time. I also find the ones who only want online. I need a little help because it has been a struggle.

I think the best way to get something out of the site is to be clear about what you want and / or what you're open to putting up with to get what you want. A significant percentage of girls on the site are fake. Or not open to what you want. So it helps to filter them out as quickly as possible. Find a clear and respectful way to find girls that are open to what you want. And then the other side of the coin, are you open to what they want. Finding mutual interest is key. That's the bottom line.

[RadCoach]

So I'm looking for a little suggestion on how to have better results. What kind of things do you guys put in your profile and what are you actually looking for? Also how do you bring up the conversation when you start messaging someone and what kind of things are you trying to ask about. I seem to find the ones who only want you to send money ahead of time. I also find the ones who only want online. I need a little help because it has been a struggle.

If you add what it is you're looking for it would be easier for members to give you advice and what works for them.

[Cherokee70]

So I'm looking for a little suggestion on how to have better results. What kind of things do you guys put in your profile and what are you actually looking for? Also how do you bring up the conversation when you start messaging someone and what kind of things are you trying to ask about. I seem to find the ones who only want you to send money ahead of time. I also find the ones who only want online. I need a little help because it has been a struggle.

[Untitled]

Lots of new profiles lately. I'd appreciate any info people might have on any of them. I've commented on blueeyedgirl and would avoid clevercutie.

[Service Man2]

Saw her a few times a couple of years ago. Nice girl, quite attractive, well educated, and well groomed. Had a good time.

Has anyone had any luck with this one? I got a couple responses from her when she first join but then silence for a couple months. I see that she has been active again. Any help would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-4531c32803c0

[Samath2624]

Has anyone had any luck with this one? I got a couple responses from her when she first join but then silence for a couple months. I see that she has been active again. Any help would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-4531c32803c0

She has been here before. I had meetings set 2 years ago +/- don't recall all the details or her "age" then, but was happy to see the profile back online. Hope she's not trying to post a fake profile, don't know that's the case, but definitely not new to SA.

[InTheShadows2]

Has anyone had any luck with this one? I got a couple responses from her when she first join but then silence for a couple months. I see that she has been active again. Any help would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-4531c32803c0

[Untitled]

Flaked on me a couple times too, I gave up.

I think she is real but probably just trying to get some cash without meeting.

[SconnieNation7]

Guys: Blueeyedbaby has been so sporadic its driving me bonkers. HAHA. We have been texting for some time. We made plans to meet twice but she cancelled both times. She seems real and does text on a regular basis. Seeing her profile has been up since 2020 I assume she has met others. Anyone have info to share?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-2036667221d6

Thank you.

Flaked on me a couple times too, I gave up.

[Natefarwell]

Guys: Blueeyedbaby has been so sporadic its driving me bonkers. HAHA. We have been texting for some time. We made plans to meet twice but she cancelled both times. She seems real and does text on a regular basis. Seeing her profile has been up since 2020 I assume she has met others. Anyone have info to share?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-2036667221d6

Thank you.

[Crisler]

I heard they have more girls and assumed it was newer or a better format or something. Good to know it's probably a ripoff with fake girls as the draw.

My one experiment with SB was almost 3 years ago. I'd be happy to stand corrected by someone with better and more recent experience. But my single experience left a very bad taste in my mouth. SA is better in nearly every respect. SA has fakes, but nowhere near as high of a percentage as SB. SA's pricing model is way better, one monthly subscription vs paying for credits that you use to unlock each profile. They nickle and dime you to death. And this is compounded by the fact that the vast majority of profiles are obviously fake. And the user experience on SB is just terrible. After using SA, you're constantly wondering, "Where is this capability? Why can't I do this obvious thing? Why can't I see this obviously important information?" etc.

There is nothing good about the SB experience unless you are purely using it as a form of masturbation. For that, it's quite good.

[RadCoach]

(Fixed your url.).

That looks like a different branding around secretbenefits. I tried secretbenefits once. The payment model is terrible. And the overall experience is like trying to eat a steak with a straw.

You buy credits. And each profile you want to interact with costs credits. Compare that to SA, where you pay a monthly fee and more or less have unlimited access to all profiles. Also, the information you can see is not as granular as SA. Like when a girl was last active. SA is relatively precise with this information. On secretbenefits and sugardaddy, you don't get more information than "Over 1 month ago in US" eventually. Maybe you don't need it?

On sugardaddy / secretbenefits, the number of girls active today in Madison? Several hundred. And a lot of them are hot. My guess is the financial model (pay per profile) incentivizes them to proliferate fake profiles. Which matches my experience on secretbenefits. I bought the minimum credits. Only heard back from 1 girl. And she turned out to be one of those pay me to eat girls. LOL.

Bottomline: SA has a lot of flaws, but it's head and shoulders above the competition. And for all I know, they're all run by the same jackass.

I heard they have more girls and assumed it was newer or a better format or something. Good to know it's probably a ripoff with fake girls as the draw.