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Well said
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Crisler
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I generally ignore the gift list. Unless she's got sex toys, then it increases the intrigue. Also, I'll note perfumes and buy them and give them directly rather than via the site, if we meet and things are progressing nicely and I feel like rewarding her for how she opens up to me. But the idea that I need to gift first in order to get someone's attention? LOL. Hard pass.
I'm a big gifter, but like you not ever before we meet. I've been known to bring a little something at a first meet (if an arrangement was agreed to) but I don't get the point of the Wishlist on the site, it's promoting bullshit.
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Originally Posted by
RadCoach
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I'm looking at the gift lists lately and those alone are giving me reason not to shoot off that first email.
I generally ignore the gift list. Unless she's got sex toys, then it increases the intrigue. Also, I'll note perfumes and buy them and give them directly rather than via the site, if we meet and things are progressing nicely and I feel like rewarding her for how she opens up to me. But the idea that I need to gift first in order to get someone's attention? LOL. Hard pass.
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Right.
Originally Posted by
Crisler
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No, girls that expect dudes to send them gifts before meeting them, I have no desire to meet. It's the parlance of a scammer. Might be legit. But I don't care. More likely than not, either a scammer or a girl with GPS.
I'm looking at the gift lists lately and those alone are giving me reason not to shoot off that first email.
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Maybe
Originally Posted by
Crisler
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That good, huh? So you going to see her again, I take it?
If I can't find anyone else more than likely but I'm also more in her area. The limited menu is really disappointing but she's still got a great body imo.
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Originally Posted by
MrDavid97
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I was better off skipping dinner and conversation if I'd known there was going to be a "problem" with her babysitter LOL still a shame cause I was enjoying the smash despite the limited menu.
That good, huh? So you going to see her again, I take it?
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Originally Posted by
RadCoach
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Does anyone here ever use this? Seems to me the site is helping scammers scam simply by having it. Or am I missing something?
No, girls that expect dudes to send them gifts before meeting them, I have no desire to meet. It's the parlance of a scammer. Might be legit. But I don't care. More likely than not, either a scammer or a girl with GPS.
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Originally Posted by
Crisler
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Thanks for the report. I was in contact with her. Set her on the shelf because of the distance and lack of responsiveness. Knowing that she's also a rush job with a very limited menu but still asks for $400 helps solidify her position on the shelf. LOL.
I was better off skipping dinner and conversation if I'd known there was going to be a "problem" with her babysitter LOL still a shame cause I was enjoying the smash despite the limited menu.
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SA gift wishlist
Does anyone here ever use this? Seems to me the site is helping scammers scam simply by having it. Or am I missing something?
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Lorraina: Shelved
Originally Posted by
MrDavid97
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Arranged a dinner date with Lorraina. Just before I get there she asks me to pick her up at a motel 6. Okay fine. She was already drinking when I picked her and headed to the restaurant. Had pleasant conversation. After a short dinner we chat a bit more about the arrangement. She wants 4 but I talk her down to 3. Then says she can't host cause she also works where she's staying and doesn't want to be "caught". I get a room. First off no kissing. Then no going down on her. Then have to wear a cover. Wrap up and get to it. She's clean and smells decent. Pretty good body with larger tits than her pictures lead on. So I'm doing my thing and she starts to say I need to hurry as she needs to get back cause her babysitter has to leave. Overall I was a bit disappointed as I enjoy the intimacy side of things like kissing and daty and cuddling. Not to mention being rushed. It felt more like just getting stg girl. Which is a bit funny as she made a comment about how no one sticks around after the first meet. Probably won't see again but if you want a go with a decently hot body and easy going girl she's not the worst.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-32b89cf099a8
Thanks for the report. I was in contact with her. Set her on the shelf because of the distance and lack of responsiveness. Knowing that she's also a rush job with a very limited menu but still asks for $400 helps solidify her position on the shelf. LOL.
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Thanks foe the report
Thanks for the report. I had talked with her and considered setting up a meet but something seemed off. She seemed to desperate so I bailed. Now I understand why.
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MrDavid97
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Arranged a dinner date with Lorraina. Just before I get there she asks me to pick her up at a motel 6. Okay fine. She was already drinking when I picked her and headed to the restaurant. Had pleasant conversation. After a short dinner we chat a bit more about the arrangement. She wants 4 but I talk her down to 3. Then says she can't host cause she also works where she's staying and doesn't want to be "caught". I get a room. First off no kissing. Then no going down on her. Then have to wear a cover. Wrap up and get to it. She's clean and smells decent. Pretty good body with larger tits than her pictures lead on. So I'm doing my thing and she starts to say I need to hurry as she needs to get back cause her babysitter has to leave. Overall I was a bit disappointed as I enjoy the intimacy side of things like kissing and daty and cuddling. Not to mention being rushed. It felt more like just getting stg girl. Which is a bit funny as she made a comment about how no one sticks around after the first meet. Probably won't see again but if you want a go with a decently hot body and easy going girl she's not the worst.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-32b89cf099a8
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Rainzzzza6
Arranged a dinner date with Lorraina. Just before I get there she asks me to pick her up at a motel 6. Okay fine. She was already drinking when I picked her and headed to the restaurant. Had pleasant conversation. After a short dinner we chat a bit more about the arrangement. She wants 4 but I talk her down to 3. Then says she can't host cause she also works where she's staying and doesn't want to be "caught". I get a room. First off no kissing. Then no going down on her. Then have to wear a cover. Wrap up and get to it. She's clean and smells decent. Pretty good body with larger tits than her pictures lead on. So I'm doing my thing and she starts to say I need to hurry as she needs to get back cause her babysitter has to leave. Overall I was a bit disappointed as I enjoy the intimacy side of things like kissing and daty and cuddling. Not to mention being rushed. It felt more like just getting stg girl. Which is a bit funny as she made a comment about how no one sticks around after the first meet. Probably won't see again but if you want a go with a decently hot body and easy going girl she's not the worst.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-32b89cf099a8
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Did you end up seeing her? Or anyone have any experience?
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Go for it. I did my previous bosses daughter once, about 8 years ago and it still turns me on to this day. Met her on SA. Didn't know she was his daughter but we started talking and found she had a dad worked at same company. Spend hours banging every hole. Back to work Monday, did my research and found out it was my bosses daughter. Man everytime that guy was a dick to me I just remembered I beat up and filled up his daughters holes. So satisfying.
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Originally Posted by
DieselMike
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Proceed but with caution. Similar situation: saw a local girl's ad, found her real name and checked FB, looked at her friends list and found that she was friends with my son's baby mama and my granddaughter, also had gone to HS with my daughter. Thought about it a bit and offered to pay for her time for a meet and greet. Told her that I was concerned that she was too close for comfort. She assured me that it would be kept UTR. $40 meet and greet ended with a make out session in my car. She offered a BJ but I declined due to the close confines and somewhat public area. I had a lot of fun with that girl before she moved away!
That sounds awesome. A similar "opportunity" for me quickly escalated into threats of blackmail. I terminated all contact. And she never followed through.