Arrangement Reports

[NuruGurus]

I am pretty sure, that gents do not use any profile picture. Right? Or should I use one? What is the advice from the grey beards? Thanks.

My beard is not gray but I have 8 profile photos all of which are me, none of which are private. I show my face, body, and everything. This isn't supposed to be a hooker site no matter how some may use it (including myself) and unless you're married you really shouldn't worry about anything. I've been on SA since 2018 and have never had anybody try to "tell my friends and family" and I've never been blackmailed (Succesfully). I just tell them "go ahead, nobody's going to care" and they move to the next mark. If y'all are really afraid of showing a photo of yourself you probably shouldn't even bother because these women are far less likely to want to talk to you if they don't even have a clue what kind of male catfish you are.

I even use my real number and have my profile verified with my social media that I don't even use. Why'all are so sketchy it's hilarious. If I see anybody I actually know, it's a "you don't tell and I won't tell" situation even with friends and family. Most of the time when I see friends on there we get together and tell SA and SD/SB stories like it's normal. Y'all are mostly old fogies anyway, what have you really got to lose? Men have been sheltering younger women for ages.

Escort sites are one thing, this technically is a dating site of sorts. think of this as "advanced tinder" and you might get further with it. This isn't STG or Escort Babylon for fucks sake... stop acting like it is.

[LoveBoydodo]

I am pretty sure, that gents do not use any profile picture. Right? Or should I use one? What is the advice from the grey beards? Thanks.

[Dkayz]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-043063232ed3

She has quoted me for 400/2-3 hours. Will not do 1 hour. Is this going rate? I was thinking 200 for 2 hours.

You can find some that will go for 200, but it's pretty unlikely. A lot seem to be requesting 400 lately, but a lot of them can be had for 300. Just don't treat them like an escort and you'll have better luck.

[LoveBoydodo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-043063232ed3

She has quoted me for 400/2-3 hours. Will not do 1 hour. Is this going rate? I was thinking 200 for 2 hours.

[LoveBoydodo]

You linked to your inbox, which only you can see. Can you link to her profile instead?

Yes, SA has lots of scammers. Learn how to identify them and move on quickly. There are plenty of real girls. In my experience it takes time to find ones that meet my criteria:

* Hot enough.

* Reasonable.

* Decent communication.

* Game to fuck, and fun to fuck.

The ones I quickly skip are ones that are clearly platonic only, online only, or they want an allowance while you take them out to dinner 2-3 times before any intimacy. Fuck all that bullshit. I'm happy to buy a girl dinner, but not give her money for the pleasure of her company. Does her profile have the word "chat" in it? Next! LOL.

It's a lot of sifting and winnowing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-0096fbf65016

Yep, lots of fake.

[Flagrant]

This One told me they need to buy lube: https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-4bf689756c5a.

You linked to your inbox, which only you can see. Can you link to her profile instead?

Yes, SA has lots of scammers. Learn how to identify them and move on quickly. There are plenty of real girls. In my experience it takes time to find ones that meet my criteria:

* Hot enough.

* Reasonable.

* Decent communication.

* Game to fuck, and fun to fuck.

The ones I quickly skip are ones that are clearly platonic only, online only, or they want an allowance while you take them out to dinner 2-3 times before any intimacy. Fuck all that bullshit. I'm happy to buy a girl dinner, but not give her money for the pleasure of her company. Does her profile have the word "chat" in it? Next! LOL.

It's a lot of sifting and winnowing.

[LoveBoydodo]

Boy this place is a wreck. Good thing is that years of experience in hobby and I can smell a fake miles away. The general story was: meet on SA and chat. Move to txt. Agree on meeting witin 2-3 hours. Then they need 50% by cash app cause they need uber etc.

This One told me they need to buy lube: https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-4bf689756c5a.

This one told me they need to buy pot cause she wants to smoke before start (she said in SA chat that she is in Madison for some social reason. I mean you can get a hotel address easily from google): https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-4009f31bc594.

Please! LOL.

Most of the good ones that were reported here either are gone or not logged in in 5-6 months.

Help a brother out if you have any local intel. PM me if you do not want to stay annon. Thanks.

[Real1211]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-80afc7ac75b2

Pics look good and claims to have an incall in Milwaukee also. I'm getting that pro vibe. Anyone with info?

For being such a professional and volunteering lady she has a lot of misspelled words in her description.

[Cherokee70]

The worst part is when this is done out of spite and report from the forum is sent when she refuses to see or asks for more than the other guy who she has better chemistry with.

That the reason now nobody shares any constructive info anymore other than pm or private conversations.

This is the only type of thing I do in this realm and the fact that you can't trust other guys to keep things in the locker room just makes me not want to participate. Sad.

[Wenceslas]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-80afc7ac75b2

Pics look good and claims to have an incall in Milwaukee also. I'm getting that pro vibe. Anyone with info?

[HornyTfs]

It seems to me like someone (or multiple someones) tell these gals whenever they're talked about here. Sad, but there's lots of evidence on this. Also lots of these gals have friends who are on SA too, and when one finds out about this site, its a good bet they tell their friends. There are probably more SA gals that know about this site than you might know. There are quite a few gals who seem to disappear completely after they've been talked about.

The worst part is when this is done out of spite and report from the forum is sent when she refuses to see or asks for more than the other guy who she has better chemistry with.

That the reason now nobody shares any constructive info anymore other than pm or private conversations.

[Mke Player]

...........I do know that she either saw this posting or someone here told her about it LOL. Because ever since I made the posting and said something, the only thing she said was that she wanted somebody who was not going to talk about her on a random website. Oh well.

It seems to me like someone (or multiple someones) tell these gals whenever they're talked about here. Sad, but there's lots of evidence on this. Also lots of these gals have friends who are on SA too, and when one finds out about this site, its a good bet they tell their friends. There are probably more SA gals that know about this site than you might know. There are quite a few gals who seem to disappear completely after they've been talked about.

[Flagrant]

I'm sure she's a good person and is probably worth every penny she asks for. I just don't know if a lot of people in this area of the world see that same value. It's not a negative to her. It's just basic supply and demand. I'm curious how many people around here actually front that. I do know that she either saw this posting or someone here told her about it LOL. Because ever since I made the posting and said something, the only thing she said was that she wanted somebody who was not going to talk about her on a random website. Oh well.

You're still in touch with her after she quoted you $800? I've contemplated going beyond my usual amount. I've even done it a few times. In my experience, paying more than I usually do ($300 ppm) never leads to a significantly better experience. I'd recommend leaving her to her thoughts. And moving on.

[Cherokee70]

Amen. Like maybe she's worth it? LOL.

I'm sure she's a good person and is probably worth every penny she asks for. I just don't know if a lot of people in this area of the world see that same value. It's not a negative to her. It's just basic supply and demand. I'm curious how many people around here actually front that. I do know that she either saw this posting or someone here told her about it LOL. Because ever since I made the posting and said something, the only thing she said was that she wanted somebody who was not going to talk about her on a random website. Oh well.

[Flagrant]

There appear to be various levels of success for you guys with SA.

How do you get them to "take the hook", varies by the situation? Read the tea leaves?

Sounds like it is difficult to close the deal.

What are these gals expecting?

Curious.

I think it's important to establish for yourself clarity about what you want. Like, what are you looking for? For me, it's a combination of:

* Looks. The girl has to be at least a high 7. Someone you'd stop and stare at if you saw them on the street. Doesn't have to be supermodel. But has to be clean, presentable, healthy, and reasonably cute / attractive. I prefer slim / athletic.

* Communication. This is easy to take for granted. But I've found most of the girls I've met on SA generally fail in this category. I'm looking for someone who can communicate reliably. Is largely honest about what they want. Open to what I want. Ideally, flirtatious. And responsive. Without seeming over the top fake. Or completely disinterested.

* Fun to fuck and not acting like a sex worker. Ultimately, I'm looking for a fuck buddy. And not someone who isn't warmed up until they guzzle a bottle of wine. And not someone who has one foot out the door before the date begins. Or asking me, "how much time do you want?" LOL.

Once you're clear on what you want, you can't just straight up ask for it. Why? Because even though all these girls are sex workers, they generally don't respond well to being treated like one.

So you have to at least pretend to want to get to know them. Even better if you actually do. But don't lose sight of what you want. And don't ignore the abundant signals they send about what they want and what they're open to.

It takes a lot of time. And a volume approach in my experience is kind of necessary. You'll try with many girls and at each step, only a small percentage of girls will make it to the next step:

1. You send a message, do they read it? Not all of them do.

2. They read it, but do they reply? Not all of them do.

3. They reply, and stay engaged? Not all of them do.

4. You land on some predicate to move forward and meet that's mutually agreeable? Not all of them get this far.

Get the picture? Each step, all the failures, you're learning. Adjust your approach. In a month, most relatively decent looking guys will meet up with some girls who are probably worth seeing.

You have to be completely OK with knowing when to give up on girls that aren't really willing to give what you're looking to experience. There are plenty of girls who think they're going to find a guy willing to give them thousands of dollars a month for the pleasure of their conversation. I have no idea who those fools are. LOL. But I ain't one of them. And if that's what a girl is looking for and she isn't willing to "settle" for anything else, I really don't need to waste my time trying to pry her legs apart.