Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

[ChrisHansen92]

Yes there are plenty of guys doing it. Just read thru this forum and in other cities. I never did get it but to each his own I guess. Some do it it hoping it will build trust or lead to more. Their stories usually read as "she promised to meet me in a few days and it was only 50 dollars and it's no big deal to me because I can afford it, "I joined her OF to check her out and make sure she was real", " I decided it was only 25 dollars for some pics so I took a chance" etc. You rarely hear them post later saying they actually met with them and had great sex. This is a message I got on Seeking from a cute 19 yo less than 5 minutes ago: " Me to! Would you be willing to maybe do online right now? I could send pics and videos and give you my time for payment and then in a couple days we could meet up? " As I write this I just got a message from ashjxox.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9045d...b-b2d0678568a2

"Well I will be straight forward with you and as for my baby allowance I start with 200 per meet but you will have to send upfront of 100 via my cashapp as a sincerity fee just to show you not a time waster and you for real!

She is never going to meet me, you or anybody. Some guys will do it but not me. They might get pic's they might get scammed, they might get pic's a bald headed guy in his mother basement got off the internet. But at the end of the day these girls (maybe guys) are getting money by guys doing it. It just feeds this type of behaviour and encourages other to do it as well.

Are there guys on here actually paying these girls for pics? There are so many girls on SA that promise to meet someday if you buy their pics first. This is clearly a lie. I see these girls on here for months so someone has to be giving them money.

[SecretFriends]

Anyone see her on Secretbenefits?

[SecretFriends]

Are there guys on here actually paying these girls for pics? There are so many girls on SA that promise to meet someday if you buy their pics first. This is clearly a lie. I see these girls on here for months so someone has to be giving them money.

[ChrisHansen92]

My limited interaction with her was posted on #2715 here.

If I paid $4 to $5 k a month I would not like to be limited to weekdays only. She has a significant other and her weekends are tied up.

And on top of that, she does not really want to travel. So if you live a little bit outside of STL, she is going to make you drive EVERY TIME.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ac88...6-374c95f433d8

She is looking for someone like her previous SD and if someone was paying $4-$5 k for once a week, I would be really surprised.

Too many limitations in my book. She has nice green eyes though.

[Henry777]

Katarina0703St Louis only wants 4-5 K monthly allowance LOL.

& then she's good to go.

If I paid $4 to $5 k a month I would not like to be limited to weekdays only. She has a significant other and her weekends are tied up.

And on top of that, she does not really want to travel. So if you live a little bit outside of STL, she is going to make you drive EVERY TIME.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ac88...6-374c95f433d8

She is looking for someone like her previous SD and if someone was paying $4-$5 k for once a week, I would be really surprised.

Too many limitations in my book. She has nice green eyes though.

[GoldMiner]

Katarina0703St Louis only wants 4-5 K monthly allowance LOL.

& then she's good to go.

How do you know that she is g2 g? Did you do 4-5 k allowance?

[PJSugarDaddy]

Katarina0703St Louis only wants 4-5 K monthly allowance LOL.

& then she's good to go.

[GoldMiner]

ChemECutie "My legs are longer than yours".

Currently in grad school and working full time. She is only taking 2 courses so she has some time for SD. She is available on weekends and evenings. She has had SD in the past, so I think price will be the limiting factor. She only wants long term. Wondering if anyone has any experience with her? Pic is on far left.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0fccd...5-43dd8d348165

Money Bunny Her byline is "Who likes kinky?

High end, tall blonde, a little thin up top, but really hot. She is $500 or higher. Some have said she has GPS. Wondering if anyone has any experience with her? On the SA site, she has turned off some aspects of searching. Her name actually has a hyphen instead of space. I can share additional intel. PM me.

I know that it has been a long time ago, but when I talked to her, she wasnt interested in PPM type of deal. I am surprised that you made it that far with her- you might as well as nab her. She is very tall so if you are looking into a spinner type, might not be for you.

[BoilerWelder]

Many times the girls who are standoffish on visit and then they are not on the next visit often smoke some weed before coming over. It does not take too much to loosen them up.

Just a thought.

I don't think I have met one single girl that doesn't smoke. In fact some of the heaviest smokers Iv ever met are "sugar babies" and typically because they need to be “medicated”, for a lack of a better term.

[Henry777]

Standoffish is a good way to put it. And then she's not, and then she is again. To me that's a red flag. She's pushing for weekly allowance over PPM. And wants more than $300 if she does do a ppm I knew She had had another PF. I'm thinking more trouble than it's worth.

Many times the girls who are standoffish on visit and then they are not on the next visit often smoke some weed before coming over. It does not take too much to loosen them up.

Just a thought.

[BoilerWelder]

Was gtg for me. Bigger girl but carries herself well. Student at Logan. Standoffish at first for me. Not her first profile. Use to be KKB or KKR or something. I think she started with a 300 ask.

Standoffish is a good way to put it. And then she's not, and then she is again. To me that's a red flag. She's pushing for weekly allowance over PPM. And wants more than $300 if she does do a ppm I knew She had had another PF. I'm thinking more trouble than it's worth.

[Henry777]

ChemECutie "My legs are longer than yours".

Currently in grad school and working full time. She is only taking 2 courses so she has some time for SD. She is available on weekends and evenings. She has had SD in the past, so I think price will be the limiting factor. She only wants long term. Wondering if anyone has any experience with her? Pic is on far left.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0fccd...5-43dd8d348165

Money Bunny Her byline is "Who likes kinky?

High end, tall blonde, a little thin up top, but really hot. She is $500 or higher. Some have said she has GPS. Wondering if anyone has any experience with her? On the SA site, she has turned off some aspects of searching. Her name actually has a hyphen instead of space. I can share additional intel. PM me.

[KC Questor]

So WYP is a pain in the ass.

If you are looking for a true sugar baby, or simple P4P, yes. If you are looking for a chick to hang out with and maybe parlay that into some cheap fun, it has potential.

I met a girl on there who clearly was new to the idea of being a sugar baby, but was interested. I was her first connection on WYP. I offered $50 for a first date and she accepted for lunch. No play was possible that day, but she seemed so promising I had no problem giving her the money. She actually asked me as we were finishing lunch "So how does the money thing work? Do I get it from What's Your Price?" I just smiled and handed her a $50 and she was stunned. She came over later and we talked, watched some TV, and then had sex and when I gave her $100 she was thrilled. She works near my house but lives about 45 minutes away. Some nights when she gets off work and doesn't want to drive home she comes over just to crash, and sometimes we have sex and I give her some cash.

But there have also been a few who seemed really promising, but on the first date they turned out not to be what I was interested in. It's a bit of a gamble.

[MiningForGold]

It's not my normal procedure, but What's Your Price has a different model from Seeking. What's Your Price requires you to make an actual offer to spend time with the girls, whereas on Seeking any mention of money is forbidden. That's because on WYP you are specifically offering the money to spend time, not for sex. The marketing is "Girls have to spend a lot of money on a new dress or their hair and nails just to look nice on a date, so you should give them some money when you meet them to cover their costs. ".

I do try to find the ones who are open to P4P later, as a sugar baby. But technically the offer you make is for the date. You have to make an offer to even talk to the girls. So, occasionally I will make an offer hoping to develop a P4P relationship. Sometimes at the M&G it will be clear that there's not going to be any sex, so yeah, I'll end up paying $50-100 for no sex. Sometimes that same girl will be cool with a follow-up date with intimacy. If not, then yeah, I'm out some money. If I promise payment and don't follow through, not only am I an ass, but the girl can complain to WYP and get me kicked off. Part of the cost of WYP. It's sometimes hard, because girls who are P4P and available for intimacy will see a $100 offer as insulting. But I don't want to offer $300 just for a non-intimate date.

One thing I do is make it clear to the girls that there's a difference between a M&G and a date. If we are just meeting for coffee or a quick lunch, that's not a date. Even if I offered $100 to unlock messaging, that offer was for a *date*. She'll have to spend a few hours with me for dinner and drinks, or a day at the lake or the Nelson or whatever. One of the advantages, though, is that if you do pay a girl for a first date and you spend some time with her and she's cool, later dates can often be had for free. That's because she's not in the "P4P mindset" that you see with Seeking girls. A lot of these girls are just looking for a good time -- the money is just an incentive, or in some cases is actually used for a babysitter or a hair appointment or whatever.

For sugar babies, I much prefer Seeking, where the M&G is understood to be without compensation. I just keep a few WYP credits on hand since they never expire, in case I see someone especially promising.

So WYP is a pain in the ass.

[KC Questor]

Your advice is well taken and I agree. But just for clarification you are paying some of these girls 50-100 dollars to meet you with no play? Correct?

It's not my normal procedure, but What's Your Price has a different model from Seeking. What's Your Price requires you to make an actual offer to spend time with the girls, whereas on Seeking any mention of money is forbidden. That's because on WYP you are specifically offering the money to spend time, not for sex. The marketing is "Girls have to spend a lot of money on a new dress or their hair and nails just to look nice on a date, so you should give them some money when you meet them to cover their costs. ".

I do try to find the ones who are open to P4P later, as a sugar baby. But technically the offer you make is for the date. You have to make an offer to even talk to the girls. So, occasionally I will make an offer hoping to develop a P4P relationship. Sometimes at the M&G it will be clear that there's not going to be any sex, so yeah, I'll end up paying $50-100 for no sex. Sometimes that same girl will be cool with a follow-up date with intimacy. If not, then yeah, I'm out some money. If I promise payment and don't follow through, not only am I an ass, but the girl can complain to WYP and get me kicked off. Part of the cost of WYP. It's sometimes hard, because girls who are P4P and available for intimacy will see a $100 offer as insulting. But I don't want to offer $300 just for a non-intimate date.

One thing I do is make it clear to the girls that there's a difference between a M&G and a date. If we are just meeting for coffee or a quick lunch, that's not a date. Even if I offered $100 to unlock messaging, that offer was for a *date*. She'll have to spend a few hours with me for dinner and drinks, or a day at the lake or the Nelson or whatever. One of the advantages, though, is that if you do pay a girl for a first date and you spend some time with her and she's cool, later dates can often be had for free. That's because she's not in the "P4P mindset" that you see with Seeking girls. A lot of these girls are just looking for a good time -- the money is just an incentive, or in some cases is actually used for a babysitter or a hair appointment or whatever.

For sugar babies, I much prefer Seeking, where the M&G is understood to be without compensation. I just keep a few WYP credits on hand since they never expire, in case I see someone especially promising.