General Reports

[Pete The Great]

Holy shit. That guy was a SD legend. I used a lot of his non-FS recs. I was actually going to ask about more of his music playlist. There was a post that had some good massage songs on it. LOL. Manny.

I agree Manny, The Daty King is a San Diego mongering legend! I probably got more poon from his recommendations than all other posters on this site combined.

It's sad all of the credible reliable posters, who's reviews were always dead on accurate, are all gone (BlueSkyBlue, MuffMan, PoonTangJohnny and now the DatyKing), and what's left are shill reviews for massage parlors that pop up daily from posters with a handful of posts. It's really pathetic. I would never visit any of those spas. Oh well, I'm glad I learned what I did from the aforementioned mongers. It has served me well in my "mongering". Thanks guys and a special thanks to The King!

[DrPornDawger]

Some other sites moderate the same thing and others are lacks about it. Took an uprising from.

Members to ban him because he didn't have anything good to add to the conversation. Just a negative person. Members thought that the moderator knew him personally. For example he called people perverts, sex offenders, sex addicts, ass lickers. Putting down people who pay for sex when his posts contradicts his ramblings.

Now I rely on the reviews of our members and most of the information I take with a grain of salt which either leads me to new adventures. I enjoy reading the bare necessities of the BB crew. The AMPs are a little different since most of the pictures are photoshopped or a representation of the product.

Such like this example.

The images on this web site are provided to assist you in choosing a partner. These images are meant to be a representation only and are not intended to provide a perfect match to the actual person you will be seeing Women can vary significantly in color, texture, weight and height pattern. These qualities make each woman distinct and add to the beauty and warmth of the session. Not only do variations occur in real wood, but the multistep finishing process can also have an effect on the cabinet glazing, burnishing and highlighting. Because of this, we cannot guarantee the image you see will be an exact match to the finished product.

In addition, colors and image size may vary based upon your screen resolution and other computer settings outside of our control. The image may differ from the actual product due to reproduction limitations and limitations of viewing images at different resolutions, hue, brightness, contrast, and other screen variations.

Therefore, name of company. Shall not be held responsible for any variation between the images on this website and the actual products you receive, including but not limited to: height weight personality etc.

I would like to see some bad reviews. I've seen them on T3 R and it makes me wonder how I ranked the provider and the next review marked them higher or lower. When I do repeat with a provider that got a lower score after I've seen them, but I got treated the same as last time I saw them or even better since they know me. There's always two sides of the coin. Same thing happens with civvies and in the real world. It's the human interaction.

Recently I didn't click with a provider. I saw the review on here and it was well written with the type I was looking for. Went over tried a different girl, but based on the report O saw the girl that was reviewed and scheduled to see her another time. Well the chemistry wasn't there. CFS and Mish only no DATY or FIV or BBBJ that the review stated. I felt disappointed but also questioned myself. Was I smelling bad? Was I not good looking enough for her. Etc.

It made me go into my corner and think what could have done better but it cost me $$.

So tried the customer service approach. Talk to the MMS (well texted anyways). It surprised me that she apologized for the bad service. Asked me to come back and try another. And she waive the house fee. Another time at a different spa. I felt shorted and told the MMS, and she waived the hf. That's why learned from the members of this forum. Fight for your services. I don't know if you can that with independents. Might be standoff with the pimps. Hence the reluctance to see the BB crew.

We all know moderating is a tough gig. Been there myself. Having the power to boot people off or erase the comments.

A wise man speaks because he has something to say, a fool speaks because he has to say something.

Admin has a tough job keeping the posts focused on the theme of these threads and from what I've seen, and experienced, does a good job.

We all have to remember that Your Mileage May Vary, and even if you adore a provider, the next customer may not. This has to be accepted and should be respected.

It's also fair to disagree with someone, but as they say, don't be disagreeable. Should you need to get up under someone and push them into the wall, take it to the "stupid shit" thread and hash it out.

I've seen Admin be quite tolerant to a lot of shit flinging in the "Stupid Shit" thread. So take the shit there.

As for shilling. Anyone who is well known by the ladies and Mama-sans in these forums, in my opinion, can't really give true and honest posts all the time. If they are well known, they can only share positive posts because they will have to face consequences if they post something negative.

As that follows, the ladies will expect an avid poster they know, to protect them. And I would not be surprised if a well known avid poster who gives lavishly positive posts and steps up to protect the ladies was getting special rewards for his efforts. Free-bees, discounts, special privileges, or what ever, I suspect the rewards are worthwhile.

Anonymity I think adds to credibility.

[DrPornDawger]

I know we have our time limits with our ladies. And some sessions have gone over (YMMV) and some have been lackluster and get thee fuck out. Without the foreplay. How long does the sex last with these high and even to low providers.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art...-does-sex-last

I recall my session where Spencer Thomas was tapping out and told me she would like me to finish. She already got hers.

[MaximusKahn]

Admin has a tough job keeping the posts focused on the theme of these threads and from what I've seen, and experienced, does a good job.

We all have to remember that Your Mileage May Vary, and even if you adore a provider, the next customer may not. This has to be accepted and should be respected.

It's also fair to disagree with someone, but as they say, don't be disagreeable. Should you need to get up under someone and push them into the wall, take it to the "stupid shit" thread and hash it out.

I've seen Admin be quite tolerant to a lot of shit flinging in the "Stupid Shit" thread. So take the shit there.

As for shilling. Anyone who is well known by the ladies and Mama-sans in these forums, in my opinion, can't really give true and honest posts all the time. If they are well known, they can only share positive posts because they will have to face consequences if they post something negative.

As that follows, the ladies will expect an avid poster they know, to protect them. And I would not be surprised if a well known avid poster who gives lavishly positive posts and steps up to protect the ladies was getting special rewards for his efforts. Free-bees, discounts, special privileges, or what ever, I suspect the rewards are worthwhile.

Anonymity I think adds to credibility.

[Manuel128]

I have no dog in this fight, let me repeat I have no dog in this fight. If you want to find if a member is active or not, just scroll down to their last available post and it will say Member, Sr. Member or Banned.

Holy shit. That guy was a SD legend. I used a lot of his non-FS recs. I was actually going to ask about more of his music playlist. There was a post that had some good massage songs on it. LOL. Manny.

[JoeBlow25]

The little man wanted to challenge anyone who had a difference in opinion. He would get really aggressive when other hobbyists didn't agree with him. I doubt that he was banned but the Admin may have told him to quit starting arguments. The last banter he had was with Tacomava who told the little guy that he wasn't interested in banter. So the little man had to fire back several more times and his last post was removed by the admin.

Bottom line is I doubt that most of us really care if he ever comes back.

Oh wow, I didn't realize he would do all that. I don't really check all the threads, but that makes sense as to why he would be banned. I just knew of the reviews he did seemed pretty legit, but I thought that maybe some of his reviews turned out to be fake somehow or something because I think that's what happened to a number of users in the massage palor thread who turned out to be shills.

[Ace McNasty]

I must finally be getting old as I'm not keeping up with the internet kids anymore. Can anyone fill me in on what a content bf is, I see a couple of SD ladies on twitter looking for content bfs. Its 150 a month "3 dates a day" so I presume it's some online thing, no way is anyone letting me smash for that.

Content BF aka content fuck buddy or boyfriend. Your girl is just trying to keep her OF from getting stale in order to keep subscribers. They need to upload new stuff frequently or guys will not renew. I have done the content stuff with a few girls. Just short vids of BBBJ, DATY, and sex. Most of them are 30 seconds long, not like the girl uploading a full 45 minute porn. Example is this girl Rylee below. She used her phone to capture short segments of DATY and BBJ for her OF, then handed the phone to me so I can shoot short segments of fucking and fingering. The other examples below are Bonnie showing off her cocksucking skills, and Brooke who took a short vid of her mouf sucking my dick while I was doing 69 to her sweet, sweet pussy.

[NudeBeachPerv]

I didn't see anything from admins, so sorry if I missed something, but did RChangDatyKing get banned? And what for? I thought he would be the last person to ever get banned, but I also don't know what happened. Was he shilling or something?

I have no dog in this fight, let me repeat I have no dog in this fight. If you want to find if a member is active or not, just scroll down to their last available post and it will say Member, Sr. Member or Banned.

[EH09M3]

The little man wanted to challenge anyone who had a difference in opinion. He would get really aggressive when other hobbyists didn't agree with him. I doubt that he was banned but the Admin may have told him to quit starting arguments. The last banter he had was with Tacomava who told the little guy that he wasn't interested in banter. So the little man had to fire back several more times and his last post was removed by the admin.

Bottom line is I doubt that most of us really care if he ever comes back.

I didn't see anything from admins, so sorry if I missed something, but did RChangDatyKing get banned? And what for? I thought he would be the last person to ever get banned, but I also don't know what happened. Was he shilling or something?

[JoeBlow25]

I didn't see anything from admins, so sorry if I missed something, but did RChangDatyKing get banned? And what for? I thought he would be the last person to ever get banned, but I also don't know what happened. Was he shilling or something?

[FreeWally]

That's what I thought, but it's 150 a month and says "3 one hour sessions per day for a month". I asked and got no reply (so far anyway).

Did she say you'll also get paid "in exposure"? Social media girls are massive freeloaders, mostly failures. A homeless crack addict standing on the intersection holding a sign is more financially successful with his part-time hustle than 90% of of influencers. I'm not being sarcastic.

I used to go strip clubs a lot and would have the IG of a few dozen girls I knew. One was a big hit on OF, made decent money. All the others had 1-5 likes per post, which is less money than the grandma I see hauling 3 bags of plastic bottles. So like I said, they're better off holding up a sign on the intersection. Especially now that loitering is not a crime for..well dressed women.

[Tendancer]

For an OF girl, it would be someone to make sex videos with to sell. You then get a small cut.
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That's what I thought, but it's 150 a month and says "3 one hour sessions per day for a month". I asked and got no reply (so far anyway).

[FreeWally]

I must finally be getting old as I'm not keeping up with the internet kids anymore. Can anyone fill me in on what a content bf is, I see a couple of SD ladies on twitter looking for content bfs. Its 150 a month "3 dates a day" so I presume it's some online thing, no way is anyone letting me smash for that.

For an OF girl, it would be someone to make sex videos with to sell. You then get a small cut.

Outside of OF, no idea but it could be similar. I can't imagine there is much money to make making random (I assume non-sexual) videos with random guys. Whereas with OF and porn, there is at least a little money to be made.

[Tendancer]

I must finally be getting old as I'm not keeping up with the internet kids anymore. Can anyone fill me in on what a content bf is, I see a couple of SD ladies on twitter looking for content bfs. Its 150 a month "3 dates a day" so I presume it's some online thing, no way is anyone letting me smash for that.

[MaximusKahn]

Hey Dr. I always enjoy your posts, keep up the good work.

As for my UTR favorite who texted she "loves me". I'm definitely into making a connection, and even having some passion in my sessions, sometimes intimacy, maybe even some kinky perversions, but I'm not interested in anything deeper from this hobby.

Emotional connections are what gets you UTR FS fun, but there is a limit. For me it should stop at "I really like you. " Or maybe something more lustful, like "I can't wait to fuck you. ".

She, regardless of what she may think, has no power to influence if I see other women.

Usually, once I make a connection at a spa I almost never see another woman from that same spa so in a sense I want her to feel that she is special as my preferred provider there. I also never discuss mongering or other spas, but I'm sure she assumes I enjoy other options, which I do. I have a rotation like most of you do too. Besides it is good for our providers to know we have other options (competition), it helps them appreciate our business. Even the ones we have close connections with and have secrets with them.

All that said. I'm still going to enjoy her, but I'm going to stretch the time between visits. And this is part of my normal process anyway. To build the relationship, I'll see them regularly. To strengthen and to get control of it I'll see her less and less, but I'll keep showing up right when she starts to worry she may never see me again. She will fear I found someone better that I like more. When you do come back they are happy to see you and the fun is great because they want you to come back again knowing you could easily disappear forever.

For the majority of us, all this mongering is a temporary connection with our providers, and our provider know this too. When non-full service providers get seduced to FS with you, you can tell that they are always hoping there is more to it than just sex. And when you share tender passionate intimate moments, even in a professional setting, it's too easy for someone to fall in love.

You also have to consider that women would love to have a sugar daddy take care of them, especially the older providers facing less clients or retirement. So their search for one becomes more intense.

No mater how close I get to them, or how great the connection, I'm still mongering with a no strings attached method of operation.

Thanks for reading this rambling.

Dr. I'll look forward to your next post.

Nice to have mistresses, will she still let you see the other ladies?

One I had told me to try out the other ladies, and now she won't text me at all. ;.

Do they talk to one another about us?