The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Coast To Peaks** · 02-27-24 07:36

Originally Posted by SomeBabysRent [View Original Post]

Thank you for the suggestion. I'll give SDM a look next time I plan to re-sub a site.

I agree SDM provides a higher per centage of real sugar babies.

I have found the new members on Secret Benefits to be real in many cases. The others seldom respond.

I dropped out of Seeking Arrangements- many fakes and scammers, rules of the site are strict on men, gets expensive for the premium membership. I just don't think it is worthwhile.

The women often use multiple sites any way.

**LikesGirls** · 02-19-24 17:49

Originally Posted by ChasingPuppy [View Original Post]

I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.

I assume you meant today. Did she reply?

Anyway, I'll keep going through emails and texts and see if I find her contact info. Thanks to you and the others who posted on this thread for the updates.

**ChasingPuppy** · 02-19-24 14:50

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.

I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.

**SomeBabysRent** · 02-19-24 11:03

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.

She's a sweet girl and holds good conversation in person. As ChasingPuppy noted, her schedule is all over the place, so it can be a hassle to get in touch with her. The times I saw her she was always having roommate trouble and it appears she has a tendency to let "people in need" take advantage of her financially. She was always having to cover their rent or trying to pay for some animal / vet bill, while trying to cover her own medical bills. I'd agree that she's a good person who always seemed to be looking to help her friends, but she was pretty disrespectful a few times when she was sloppy drunk and refused to acknowledge it, so I cut it off with that.

Overall there were some fun dates, but I'd say it wasn't a good ROI.

Unfortunately I don't have her text app contact any longer and the SA profile I connected with her through appears to have been deleted. I had last seen her in the fall, so I assume she's still at the same location.

**LikesGirls** · 02-19-24 10:16

Originally Posted by ChasingPuppy [View Original Post]

Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.

**ChasingPuppy** · 02-19-24 10:12

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

**LikesGirls** · 02-19-24 09:32

Originally Posted by SomeBabysRent [View Original Post]

Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.

**SomeBabysRent** · 02-18-24 23:47

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

**LikesGirls** · 02-18-24 20:39

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

**SomeBabysRent** · 02-18-24 18:09

Originally Posted by AkaToneloc [View Original Post]

What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.

See post 4370 for context.

Vivacious_vixen texted me pretending to be Dolly. I had contacted SA support and submitted Dolly's profile link as attempting to extort me, so I want to follow-up with SA support as to not erroneously report Dolly as a scammer.

Both profiles for Dolly and Vivacious_vixen are unavailable to me now. I think I had blocked Dolly's before (not really what I'm looking for) and Vivacious_vixen blocked me (she's the one acting scammy).

Basically, I was asking for someone to confirm if the pictures I posted here (post 4367) matched Dolly's profile I linked there as well.

Having been in this line of dating for 6+ years now, I'm not looking to continue anything with either of these women as this is already way beyond the level of drama I'm willing to put up with.

**AkaToneloc** · 02-17-24 11:44

What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.

Originally Posted by SomeBabysRent [View Original Post]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

**SomeBabysRent** · 02-17-24 00:47

SA Profile tagline: "a sadistic beauty".

I had written down all my thoughts on this one to help me process what happened, but decided to post a TLDR instead for the sake of privacy. May post the full writeup at a later time.

- Connect about a week ago and conversation goes well. Decide to meet for lunch
- Lunch date goes well and leads to hooking up
- Unenthusiastic BBBJ, rushed covered PIV
- Immediately starts texting about money every few hrs, daily
- Poses as a different person (Dolly profile I posted the other day) and texts from a different phone number and threatens to "expose" me
- I report Dolly account to SA support as an extortion attempt
- Trace both numbers back to Vivacious_vixen, find her real name, address, birthday, etc.
- Find her socials and she's got a kid and a deadbeat boyfriend/baby daddy

Letting this one die on the vine and won't repeat. If she tries to bring drama, I'll show her what all I found on her and send her a C&D letter.

Do NOT recommend. Stay safe and good luck.

**FireMan32** · 02-15-24 22:28

Originally Posted by SomeBabysRent [View Original Post]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

Profile has been deleted.

**MmceStep** · 02-15-24 20:07

Originally Posted by SomeBabysRent [View Original Post]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

I had her in my message history, but I think she must have blocked me, or just deleted her profile. I can't really recall her.

**SomeBabysRent** · 02-15-24 13:40

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.