The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[SeekingRdu]

Anyone have any experience with nicki?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-5dc030b04434

[SaintMan3500]

Thanks for letting me know. Sometimes when I'm conversing with these women and things don't pull through: part of me sometimes thought "dang, maybe I said something" or "maybe she found someone else".

And then turns out, other guys have similar experiences with the same women in terms of flakiness / headache / low effort responses, etc.

HonestSeductress is real but stopped responding to me.

Hbabeey1 been around a while, she wasn't committed to sex when I chatted with her, I gave up.

Veronica. She has a hardcore onlyfans, https://onlyfans.com/x.viper.x.

[BlahTime]

Can anyone share a link for a someone they've met on SDM? I decided to dip back into the bowl and signed up for SDM. But I'm not seeing much on the forum.

[SomeBabysRent]

Wondering if anyone has seen Gigi lately:

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-ab1fd1433bf3

Had a wonderful couple of dates with her late last year, but lost touch over the holidays.

[SeekingRdu]

HonestSeductress is real but stopped responding to me.

Hbabeey1 been around a while, she wasn't committed to sex when I chatted with her, I gave up.

Veronica. She has a hardcore onlyfans, https://onlyfans.com/x.viper.x.

[SaintMan3500]

Is there anyone here who has talked to or seen the following women? Going to be renewing membership very soon, but curious if anyone has either talked with these women on seeking, via text, did a public meet up, or had an arrangement. *PICS OF WOMEN BELOW*

1. TrippieHippie.

Description: Throughout the years I've been on Seeking, I've talked with her on SA and via text a few times. But every time it came to meeting, she would either ghost, flake, or make up some excuse. The last time I talked with her, she wanted to do a Paid M&G. Negotiated to having certain favors done but on the day of, she flaked.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...c-6745af7abf97

2. CheekyCat:

Description: Haven't reached out to her, but she looks nice.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-fea4f5df2746

3. EndearingBeauty.

Description: Same thing as #2.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-994eb9658524

4. HonestSeductress.

Description: Seems real. Looks fine. Decent Bio, doesn't seem very demanding or a pain in the ass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-27fb7f9bde66

5. hbabeey1.

Description: Says she's been on the site since 2020. I'm pretty sure I have talked with her in the past as well. The only thing I could remember is that she kept yapping about wanting someone long term, and kept flipflopping. Her profile says she wants to be treated like a princess, etc.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-7dfdd74b1425

6. FoxyBaby.

Description: She's real and actually in NC. But when I'd text her in the past, she was very flakey and unreliable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-3323bd6af295

7. lover gurrrrl.

Description: Decent Bio, no facepics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-5cc316dea79d

8. BethBeautyy.

Description: Has been on the site since January. Bio and pics look nice, tempted to reach out.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a47a1c98b89d

9. Bfun0307.

Description: Don't even know if this person is even real. She's been on the site under previous profiles. Every time we talk, it goes ok. But when it comes to setting up meeting or any form of contact outside SA: Radiosilence.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-ab1ba55c77b8

10. Veronica.

Description: Terrible communication. In the past, she had on her profile that she only does online arrangements. Not sure if this has changed and she meets up now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-c07babd013b9

[LikesGirls]

Does anyone have any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-beb36fea013a

Initial conversation seems fine and I'm trying to set up a M&G with her.

[jobobtheclown]

I agree SDM provides a higher per centage of real sugar babies.

I have found the new members on Secret Benefits to be real in many cases. The others seldom respond.

I dropped out of Seeking Arrangements- many fakes and scammers, rules of the site are strict on men, gets expensive for the premium membership. I just don't think it is worthwhile.

The women often use multiple sites any way.

They all have their issues, unfortunately. Secret Benefits will send a fake message from the girl if she views your profile, in order to trick you in to spending money to unlock it, as a "service" to them. I find maybe 1 in 40 will ever reply again. In practice, it can end up costing more than seeking.

Seeking has a decent number of scams, though usually pretty obvious ones. It seems to be the most transparent in terms of showing you what she's doing and when.

SDM is hard to hold a conversation on because it won't always email you when they reply: I keep finding week old responses I didn't know I received, and she's long since gone. It tries to hide the numbers by not showing you dates, but it's clear that it has a fraction of the girls of the other sites.

[Coast To Peaks]

Thank you for the suggestion. I'll give SDM a look next time I plan to re-sub a site.

I agree SDM provides a higher per centage of real sugar babies.

I have found the new members on Secret Benefits to be real in many cases. The others seldom respond.

I dropped out of Seeking Arrangements- many fakes and scammers, rules of the site are strict on men, gets expensive for the premium membership. I just don't think it is worthwhile.

The women often use multiple sites any way.

[LikesGirls]

I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.

I assume you meant today. Did she reply?

Anyway, I'll keep going through emails and texts and see if I find her contact info. Thanks to you and the others who posted on this thread for the updates.

[ChasingPuppy]

Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.

I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.

[SomeBabysRent]

Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.

She's a sweet girl and holds good conversation in person. As ChasingPuppy noted, her schedule is all over the place, so it can be a hassle to get in touch with her. The times I saw her she was always having roommate trouble and it appears she has a tendency to let "people in need" take advantage of her financially. She was always having to cover their rent or trying to pay for some animal / vet bill, while trying to cover her own medical bills. I'd agree that she's a good person who always seemed to be looking to help her friends, but she was pretty disrespectful a few times when she was sloppy drunk and refused to acknowledge it, so I cut it off with that.

Overall there were some fun dates, but I'd say it wasn't a good ROI.

Unfortunately I don't have her text app contact any longer and the SA profile I connected with her through appears to have been deleted. I had last seen her in the fall, so I assume she's still at the same location.

[LikesGirls]

Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.

[ChasingPuppy]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

[LikesGirls]

Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.