Thread: The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)
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10-15-17 23:43 #431
Posts: 127Originally Posted by Righton1960 [View Original Post]
Now, how do I respond if the POT asks what kind of gift she could expect. If she asks in the SA inbox then I ask her to text me (leverage for the cell number so I can see if the number takes me to her FB). If she asks me in a cell phone message then I respond with "it depends on how much fun we have". I then move the convo to a day and time for the M & G. There needs to be enough finesse in the messaging so that she does not feel like the SD is lame, arrogant or disrespectful, but in fact a guy who sounds like a lot of fun. I then confirm the M & G the night before and the day of. When we meet for the M & G I have already booked a hotel room close to the M & G with a late afternoon cancellation deadline. After about ten to twenty minutes of the M & G (coffee, drinks, appetizer, etc) if we seem to click then I simply ask her "are you ok with a hotel date?" I have never in my two years in the bowl have had a POT say no to that question. If the POT does again ask what amount of gift can she expect I give the same answer. If by chance that non answer presents a problem for her, then no matter how stunning she may be I have to call it off. Because that tells me that she is not sold on me, either in terms of trust, appearance or my game. From her point of view she has to understand that I happen to be a weekly regular kind of SD. Yes I like variety but I also like to have a fun fwb type I can see every week. Believe me if you asked the POTS if they had a choice between a weekly SD they liked for a $$ per visit vs having to hustle with phone texting for the "one and done" $$$ SDs, they will tell you they much prefer the weekly $$ they can count on. But of course not all of us are looking for the weekly regular SB.
I know there are a good percentage of SDs in our local area who are providing $$$. I know this because my regular SB who hosts me once or twice a week ($ to $$) tells me she routinely gets $$$ on her other SD dates. Guys you are overpaying, worse it raises the gift level expectations. Remember these girls are not the BP pros that we had to negotiate for the hh or hr amount (or GFE, or BBBJ, etc) before we showed up at their motel with the outside doors. Moreover, there are two major advantages of not committing to the gift amount until after the romp. One, you stay in control. Second, they will put more effort into the romp. Just sayin' .
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10-15-17 20:09 #430
Posts: 56Any intel on this one?
Cubancolombianbaby. Says she never had an arrangements depsite the 9/2016 sign up date. Also said she wants to bring girl friend along for the meet, because beingher first meet, she's not comfortable about it. Hmm.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-7ede63bfdbd7
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10-04-17 20:57 #429
Posts: 208Tips
Originally Posted by Righton1960 [View Original Post]
It is based on their needs, or fantasies, and supply and demand. Maybe you are picking from the mid shelf or top shelf and need to select lower, look for the Red Label liquor. If the girl is real, and a real SB and has something unique, and not a pro, she is not going to jump in bed with the first fat guy talking with her. SB is not backpage, (there are backpage girls there). Also, there are a lot of girls out there willing to go lower, but they usually have issues.
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10-03-17 11:26 #428
Posts: 15Tips?
I've recently run through about 5-6 potentails and all of them are asking $$$ or more. Any insights? I thought things were dropping or leveling off. I just thank them for their time and move on, but man I must be picking some bad ones right now. Any tips for keeping things on the lower end? Not trying to low ball, nor do I want to break the bank.
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10-03-17 01:01 #427
Posts: 294You're welcome!
Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]
Safe mongering and sugaring!
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10-02-17 20:29 #426
Posts: 208Fc
Originally Posted by Triptogamont [View Original Post]
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10-02-17 19:24 #425
Posts: 666Fc
Originally Posted by MarkUser [View Original Post]
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10-02-17 15:19 #424
Posts: 447A little dense: what is FC status?
Seen it mentioned a few times, read the FF, could not find its definition. I assume it is a "full consummation" or something similar to a SD / SB relationship?
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10-02-17 15:03 #423
Posts: 99Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]
Now I never will. Thanks for the heads up!
Yaya.
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10-01-17 18:10 #422
Posts: 127Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]
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10-01-17 00:51 #421
Posts: 294Facebook Picture
Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]
Safe mongering and sugaring!
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09-30-17 06:08 #420
Posts: 18Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]
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09-29-17 20:19 #419
Posts: 294Avoid Like the Plague!
Originally Posted by Aswerty9111 [View Original Post]Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]
Avoid this woman and her partner, Tatumxo, like the plague. (Tatumxo has since blocked me on SA so I can't post a link for her.) I won't go into particulars but suffice it to say I got robbed. I had been talking to both of them for a couple of weeks but couldn't synchronize schedules and never realized that they were partners. I had talked to CarterM0208 on Tuesday evening so I wasn't surprised when she called me Wednesday morning. Fortunately, or should I say unfortunately, I was available. To make a long story short, I went out with them, got extremely intoxicated, and was taken advantage of. And not in the way I wanted to be taken advantage of. All I have left to say is I had to involve the local police so be careful out here!
Safe mongering and sugaring!
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09-29-17 16:20 #418
Posts: 99Identical Experience
Originally Posted by StormyTuesday [View Original Post]
On a related note, I've been overwhelmed by the response rate from incredibly hot girls recently and cannot keep up even while being extremely selective. I'm loving it while it lasts but is anyone else experiencing this?
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09-27-17 19:57 #417
Posts: 56Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]