The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**DWooderson** · 11-30-20 19:23

Met her on Tinder when she was 18 and staying in college dorms. Took her to dinner and proceeded to my hotel. No money was exchanged. Did the deed and it was just awkward. The next day got even more awkward and I believe she may have some kind of personality disorder. We got into some ridiculous disagreement through texts after we parted ways and I forgot about her. Funny enough she contacted me recently on Seeking and I played along as if we had never met. She wanted to do PPM but I would not spend any money on her.

Originally Posted by VincentCor74 [View Original Post]

If she's hosting (saving you the hotel cost), I'd say that's not entirely out of line. If she's willing to give you the time to get your money's worth.

I always wanted to do one of the Hurricanes' "Storm Squad" - so here's your chance.

**VincentCor74** · 11-30-20 13:12

Originally Posted by Reggie212 [View Original Post]

I saw that one also. WTF? Maybe somebody should just send her cash. It costs them nothing to post and send messages. Why not go fishing?

Their definition of NSA and ours are usually very different, based on my conversations with many SBs.

What they mean: "Not looking for a boyfriend or husband or commitment". This may or may not involve anything physical. They just use the term to keep guys at a distance, imo.

What many SD's mean: "Sex without attachment. ".

Platonic:

What we sometimes assume they mean: "Nothing physical".

This isn't always the case; again -- sometimes, they just use it interchangeably with "not wanting a commitment", or "FWB", IMO.

TLDR: just ignore anything they've written and if you like her look, take a swing for the fences. All they can do is say no and stop being vague if you ask the right questions.

**Reggie212** · 11-27-20 12:59

Originally Posted by Hiamey [View Original Post]

Is that possible. Someone help me. LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9dba5...1-a7efde449e36

I saw that one also. WTF? Maybe somebody should just send her cash. It costs them nothing to post and send messages. Why not go fishing?

**Hiamey** · 11-27-20 10:14

Is that possible. Someone help me. LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9dba5...1-a7efde449e36

**Pdiddy71** · 11-23-20 12:38

Originally Posted by Hiamey [View Original Post]

Thanks for the info. She left me her number but I have not followed up yet.

Can you PM me her contact info??

**Hiamey** · 11-22-20 20:40

Originally Posted by Sobe69 [View Original Post]

Dam these cameras these days do miracles. This one has demons and a pot belly. She is at street walker level when I saw her and declined the meet. Good news is you can get her for SW prices if that's your thing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3a45...8-23508c2e608b

Thanks for the info. She left me her number but I have not followed up yet.

**Sobe69** · 11-22-20 16:48

Dam these cameras these days do miracles. This one has demons and a pot belly. She is at street walker level when I saw her and declined the meet. Good news is you can get her for SW prices if that's your thing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3a45...8-23508c2e608b

**OrangeLover** · 11-21-20 17:22

I think he meant your success story, not the girls.

Originally Posted by VincentCor74 [View Original Post]

Brother SAC, you know if any of these girls were the shareable type, I'd DM you.

You've been a great connection and always willing to trade info.

I'm talking WAY UTR girls that I'm trying to talk INTO the sugar game that aren't even on sites. That's where I'm spending most of my trolling time, these days.

Also, my idea of "success" is way different than most. I like to have a lot of lines in the water (at least 10-20 conversations going) at a time in search of that elusive whopper Blue Marlin.

I cancel a ton of dates, because if I feel like the second date isn't going to go where I want it to go, it's just wasted time and $.

If there are any on my radar that want to see multiple guys, I'll absolutely reach out.

Stay safe, why'all.

**ProfessorVan** · 11-20-20 12:15

Originally Posted by Bachelor1234 [View Original Post]

This Nikki recently popped up on SA. Anyone know her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/cc30e...9-5fc3edfabb4b

You can find a review / discussion of her in late January this year beginning with post number 1414 from AzBadger, I think.

as of me typing this most discussion and review is page 57, with further discussion page 56...page numbers will change as more posts are added to forum.

**VincentCor74** · 11-20-20 10:44

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

Care to share some of your successes from IG.

Brother SAC, you know if any of these girls were the shareable type, I'd DM you.

You've been a great connection and always willing to trade info.

I'm talking WAY UTR girls that I'm trying to talk INTO the sugar game that aren't even on sites. That's where I'm spending most of my trolling time, these days.

Also, my idea of "success" is way different than most. I like to have a lot of lines in the water (at least 10-20 conversations going) at a time in search of that elusive whopper Blue Marlin.

I cancel a ton of dates, because if I feel like the second date isn't going to go where I want it to go, it's just wasted time and $.

If there are any on my radar that want to see multiple guys, I'll absolutely reach out.

Stay safe, why'all.

**Bachelor1234** · 11-19-20 23:57

This Nikki recently popped up on SA. Anyone know her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/cc30e...9-5fc3edfabb4b

**SmallAsianCock** · 11-19-20 11:06

Originally Posted by VincentCor74 [View Original Post]

Yeah, no WAY should you ever use your actual social media with real names to contact a girl.

Burner account, always. Fake name, slightly fake location, etc.

If you go that route, you are fine.

I'm having way more success on IG than on the sugar sites, recently.

Care to share some of your successes from IG.

**Toy Soldier** · 11-19-20 08:28

Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]

You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.

Do you have to pay to join these girls onlyfans sites in order to contact them?

**VincentCor74** · 11-18-20 22:00

Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]

You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.

Yeah, no WAY should you ever use your actual social media with real names to contact a girl.

Burner account, always. Fake name, slightly fake location, etc.

If you go that route, you are fine.

I'm having way more success on IG than on the sugar sites, recently.

**SandPiper540** · 11-18-20 14:37

Originally Posted by JanisDr00 [View Original Post]

Been wading through the instagram profiles in the area as an alt to SA on the reach of a senior member. Has anyone else gone this route? Been pinging girls based on their pics and got a hit back asking for 5 $ for a kitten. I was very clear in my message SD 4 SB. Any thoughts? New to this. How do I pursue? Tips and tricks to the instagram game? All ears.

J.

You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.