The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[NiteLifed69]

Wow, not been my experience at all. I Have someone I met on SA that's been living with me for years. We have a very open relationship where if she wanted to see someone else she could and she knows I see other people occasionally. We've been thinking of adding another woman to our duo and she is all about it. We couldn't be happier.

Is the the sb you're living with still on SA?

[GregG73]

I've had 5 regular girlfriends that resulted from Sugar relationships. Every one of them turned out to be crazy, vindictive, and self destructive. I've given a lot of thought to why that is. The first thing I've decided is that once a woman sells it, she thinks it's always a transaction. Once a guy pays big bucks for it, it's always worth big bucks, every time. In regular relationships sometimes the woman wants it more than you do and it's just give and take. But, when you're in a relationship with one of these sugar girls, they're always mentally keeping score. It's all about cash value. So, when you think you're just 'having sex' with your girlfriend, she's thinking "I'm fucking him for free so that he marries me / lets me move in / takes care of me etc. " As soon as you decide it's not working and want to move on, they absolutely lose their shit. They act like you robbed a bank or something. They don't think about all the trips you took them on and all the money you spent. All they think is "I gave him extra! The other thing that I think about is what someone else said. The more guys these women are exposed to, the nuttier they get. I made the mistake of saying this to a woman that I've had on again / off again stuff for 12 years with. She got really mad at me because she said "why can you be with so many women and I can't be with as many men, just because I'm a woman?" I said that I've noticed that with women, every relationship they have seems to take something from them. They give the next guy all the angst that they wanted to give to the last guy. That didn't go over well. I think this is really why older men want to settle down with younger women or at least less experienced women.

Wow, not been my experience at all. I Have someone I met on SA that's been living with me for years. We have a very open relationship where if she wanted to see someone else she could and she knows I see other people occasionally. We've been thinking of adding another woman to our duo and she is all about it. We couldn't be happier.

[T647A]

This is a great point. Lots of great discussion here recently about how crazy these SB's can be. Get a fucking vasectomy. I can't imagine the fear I'd have in getting one of these girls pregnant. It's also an asset. Most of these young 20's girls worst fears are not STI's from us, it's getting knocked up. Many times, once I've disclosed I'm snipped they're 100% in for anything.

[OliverNP]

She got really mad at me because she said "why can you be with so many women and I can't be with as many men, just because I'm a woman?" I said that I've noticed that with women, every relationship they have seems to take something from them. They give the next guy all the angst that they wanted to give to the last guy. That didn't go over well. I think this is really why older men want to settle down with younger women or at least less experienced women.

I would have just said "because as males, we don't get random bodily fluids squirted in us by people whom we don't know their last names, we don't run the risk of our twixt-the-legs fun parts smelling like a neglected dumpster behind a seafood restaurant that hasn't paid their city taxes or trash pickup bill".

Some of us SDs are gentleman, and usually just spray their face with goo so as to not leave a future mess for others, but not everyone is guaranteed to be as polite.

[SeekingRdu]

BTW gents, all this talk of crazy chicks claiming to be pregnant, reminds me: why'all should get snipped if you can. I highly recommend Wakemed Urology, great doc and service.

https://www.wakemed.org/wakemed-phys...lties/urology/

[Saronnie]

Love some of the recent posts sharing some of the girls people have seen over the past 5 years or so. We need a hall of fame or all star team. LOL.

[jobobtheclown]

Anyone seen her? Comms were ok and is ready to meet and seems DTF. Going to post in GSO forums as well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-e48a0778a67f

Met her, she's real but didn't get past the meet and greet because we made plans and she just never showed up. Texted days later and said she forgot. Social media suggests she's a stripper and travels often for it.

[Falconwings33]

Anyone seen her? Comms were ok and is ready to meet and seems DTF. Going to post in GSO forums as well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-e48a0778a67f

[South215]

Has anyone seen her? Immediately asking for my Snapchat and my number which is a red flag for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-7894a10eb859

That is kissa sins porn star.

[FireMan32]

I agree with you. Either she is too new or overly eager. Considering that this seems to be new to her I would proceed cautiously.

I replied and said I don't use snap and I don't just give my number out and we can just chat on here. She then blocked me so yea a scam account.

[Jm1312]

Has anyone seen her? Immediately asking for my Snapchat and my number which is a red flag for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-7894a10eb859

I agree with you. Either she is too new or overly eager. Considering that this seems to be new to her I would proceed cautiously.

[FireMan32]

Has anyone seen her? Immediately asking for my Snapchat and my number which is a red flag for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-7894a10eb859

[MmceStep]

Damn bro yeah that is wild. Lucky I only had a one off LOL.

I did meet someone many years ago on SA and we ended up dating more just normally for a few months, but it was clear after a bit she was psycho. I broke things off and then she went all out to try and ruin my life. After getting some lawyers involved she eventually backed down and found another BF to ruin. Since then I have had much better "craydar" and have passed up hooking with some hot women because they show the same signs.

I've had 5 regular girlfriends that resulted from Sugar relationships. Every one of them turned out to be crazy, vindictive, and self destructive. I've given a lot of thought to why that is. The first thing I've decided is that once a woman sells it, she thinks it's always a transaction. Once a guy pays big bucks for it, it's always worth big bucks, every time. In regular relationships sometimes the woman wants it more than you do and it's just give and take. But, when you're in a relationship with one of these sugar girls, they're always mentally keeping score. It's all about cash value. So, when you think you're just 'having sex' with your girlfriend, she's thinking "I'm fucking him for free so that he marries me / lets me move in / takes care of me etc. " As soon as you decide it's not working and want to move on, they absolutely lose their shit. They act like you robbed a bank or something. They don't think about all the trips you took them on and all the money you spent. All they think is "I gave him extra! The other thing that I think about is what someone else said. The more guys these women are exposed to, the nuttier they get. I made the mistake of saying this to a woman that I've had on again / off again stuff for 12 years with. She got really mad at me because she said "why can you be with so many women and I can't be with as many men, just because I'm a woman?" I said that I've noticed that with women, every relationship they have seems to take something from them. They give the next guy all the angst that they wanted to give to the last guy. That didn't go over well. I think this is really why older men want to settle down with younger women or at least less experienced women.

[LostTribe]

Evening Gentlemen,

This one is too odd not to share. Came across Christine, she is very clear that she offers nothing physical but instead has started a cleaning business. I needed some deep organizing around the house so decided to take her up on the offer. Sure enough, she did an excellent job and we swapped SB / SD stories the entire time. Good to have someone on the payroll that understands the lifestyle, highly recommend.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-acf5b74b70c0

Also as an aside, can also attest that NatashaRabbit is utterly unstable and a liability to herself and others (as long as we are pilling on).

[SeekingRdu]

I've seen Natashawabbit also, when she had another profile. We had a great vibe and we had Earth shattering meetups. I started to notice that she would say really really weird random shit, and it actually turned me off / freaked me out. I've had experiences with genuinely crazy chicks and they can / will destroy your life fellas. However, her looks and her freakiness kept me coming back. She told me she was falling for me and the combination of all of it made me pull away from her. She was really really pissed when I told her we should move on. And that's when she told me she was pregnant, LOL. It was two weeks of me being terrified before she told me she "made it up, but now I know what it's like to have feelings played with". If you can find a way to see this one relatively anonymously, go for it, but don't let her in your life no matter how great she seems. And don't be around her in the presence of sharp objects, LOL.

Damn bro yeah that is wild. Lucky I only had a one off LOL.

I did meet someone many years ago on SA and we ended up dating more just normally for a few months, but it was clear after a bit she was psycho. I broke things off and then she went all out to try and ruin my life. After getting some lawyers involved she eventually backed down and found another BF to ruin. Since then I have had much better "craydar" and have passed up hooking with some hot women because they show the same signs.