Thread: The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)
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Today 17:33 #4557
Posts: 319Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
As the numbers are self reported by a lot of pretty entitled sbs, I would take it all with a bucket of salt.
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Today 10:03 #4556
Posts: 2709Originally Posted by LuccaMac [View Original Post]
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Today 09:40 #4555
Posts: 319Originally Posted by MisterMister46 [View Original Post]
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Yesterday 16:26 #4554
Posts: 73Originally Posted by LuccaMac [View Original Post]
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Yesterday 14:14 #4553
Posts: 66Originally Posted by LuccaMac [View Original Post]
1. I've done anywhere from $100-$400 Per Meet. With me mostly doing $200-$300 with decent looking women. Only done $400 with people I really liked or who I find extremely attractive.
2. Always Negotiate.
3. Never give anyone any money before meeting. Don't buy into any "need $ for gas" or "need $$$ asap" nonsense.
4. I personally recommend to do public meet up's, first. In a coffee shop, mall, park, etc. Many women on the site are in their early-mid 20's and get very nervous about meeting men. Meeting in public tends to ease them.
If you try to meet at a hotel, you run a bigger risk of them ghosting on the day of and losing money from paying for the hotel. Ghosting is sometimes unavoidable, but atleast if you meet in public you can see the vibe and there is that level of familiarity and lesser chance. Some are fine with meeting a stranger in a room for the first time, and others aren't.
5. I generally do A. Public Meet Up. B. Do the arrangement itself on a diff day that works best. (where intimacy, etc happens). Can do at a Hotel, Your Spot, or Their Spot.
6. If someone wants to do another public meet up or get dinner on a different day, even after we've already met: It has never worked out. As it becomes clearer and clearer that they just want something platonic and there are plenty of women who will do what you ask. That won't have so many barriers.
7. In the arrangement itself, I generally pay at the end of our meet up. If someone gives you an extremely difficult time about that, you could give a portion at the start, and the later portion at the end for a compromise. If someone has questionable morals, they can take the money and leave earlier.
8. Some people feel differently, but I always do Paypal, Cashapp, or Venmo. Incase anyone tries scamming or making excuses to leave early. This is because they allow you to file a dispute to get your money back. (venmo+paypal). As well as linking your credit card to file a chargeback, if that doesn't work. If you're not comfortable doing this, then I would highly suggest you give cash at the end or just some at the start, and the rest at the end of the session.
9. Some women want to be "paid" or given some $$ during the Meet and Greet. It can go either way in that.
A. Giving money during the M&G gives them a bigger incentive to meet you, and can lead to them wanting to be in an arrangement.
B. Giving Money during the M&G can lead to them ghosting after. Which means a waste of time & money!
I've had success with not doing paid M&G, and doing Paid M&G. Though I don't really do Paid M&G unless I find the person exceptionally attractive, or decent looking+ exceptionally good at talking with. YMMV.
10. Seeking is temporary. Don't be surprised if they ghost or end the arrangement if they find a serious relationship, someone who gives them more $$$ for the arrangement, or job that they make very good money at.
11. When it comes to public meeting and/or the arrangement itself : Confirm before the day of, and on the day itself. If you want to confirm before you leave your place, you may do that too.
I use this type of method to decrease my chances of being stood up and it's helped me avoid wasting 15-30+ min driving to a place.
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Yesterday 12:10 #4552
Posts: 296PPM vs Allowance cost per State info
In researching how to structure an arrangement I found this google doc comparing regions and pricing:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets...9UvLsg/pubhtml
Reddit has many subtopics with ALL king of info:
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/
Really interesting. $300 average per meeting in NC (this can be multiple hours).
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Yesterday 11:00 #4551
Posts: 296Basic guidance for sugering?
Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]
LM.
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05-12-24 12:38 #4550
Posts: 501Jazmine25
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-8fb0ddc045dd
This one was in Raleigh, now in Charlotte. Anyone had an experience?
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05-10-24 10:53 #4549
Posts: 66Has Anyone Talked To These Sugar Babes From Seeking Arrangements
Has anyone here had a conversation, met, and / or been in an arrangement with any of these women below, from Seeking Arrangements? If so, what were your experiences like?
1. MusicGal
Looks cute. Has a decent bio.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-80553806c3ba
2. Daria
Seems to have joined this month, so I wouldn't be surprised if no one has met her. Has a long and descriptive bio, which tells me she's real and legit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-260e5fcad2ae
3. BestoftheBest
Looks cute, but typical bad bio. She does say "must be willing to meet".
https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-9de567c28931
4. Aria23
Her profile says she's been on SA since March of 2024, but I'm 99% positive she has had previous profiles in the past. Says "do not ask for my number, socials or to meet right away". Ok then.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-303d0a674309
5. HippieGoddess
Apparently been a member since 2021. Says she is a free spirit, and knows how to "put a man in his place". Um, ok.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-952c4e84319e
6. BohoGoddess
Says she is a Free Spirited Open Minded individual. Interesting. Doesn't seem bad looking.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-842e50e16381
7. Astrid
In the Durham area, and looks cute. Has decent pics. Not a bad profile and says she is willing to confirm that she's real.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b...f-8af4083496ef
8. BlondieBabe21
Been here since 2023, though I have a feeling she's been on the site under different profiles. Pics look ok. Bio seems generic. Tried looking on search engine here to see if anyone has talked about her, but found nothing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c...c-384261c6a4c0
9. AlexisDeLeon
This one is very forward. Outright says she's a bag chaser, and not looking for anything serious. But says don't text her unless you're willing to pay. Lolwat. No doubt this would turn off people, but has anyone here even entertained a convo or arrangement with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-28925089f4e7
10. Lana
Not even sure if this is even a real profile. Late 20's, and horrible bio. But seems to have been here since 2018 and has a blue check mark.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-378b7f1db407
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05-07-24 23:52 #4548
Posts: 22Layla
Also, anyone seen Layla from Greenville lately? I know she has been discussed as being loopy and all over the place, but damn she has a body.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-cb8ee0734d97
Also, we were scheduled to meet once before in Raleigh. She told me she was on the way but never made it. She was communicating the whole time claiming she ran in to traffic, etc. but after 3 hours, I called it off. I honestly have no idea what that was about.
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05-06-24 12:09 #4547
Posts: 42Originally Posted by Darrell01 [View Original Post]
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05-06-24 07:26 #4546
Posts: 1072Originally Posted by DrSugarD [View Original Post]
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05-06-24 06:47 #4545
Posts: 64Same here
Originally Posted by WelladJustedJ [View Original Post]
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05-05-24 20:20 #4544
Posts: 36"Profile Status: Unsearchable" is new. Did SA make picture-less a no go?
I switched to no pictures on the advice of some of the UTR guys around here (years ago). Now I'm seeing this new message and SA is hounding me to "complete your profile. " Does rolling with no pic and only paying sub when you find someone you like no longer a solid strategy?
Thanks.
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05-03-24 09:20 #4543
Posts: 64Foreplay
Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]
I'll give Layla credit, she was upfront about no kissing and only a brief BJ. I've been with a few dead fish that just layed there. I can do without till something better comes along.