The Prickyard

[IndyGuy123]

Anyone who reads this forum knows that some guys won't KNOWINGLY see an addict, some don't care, some look for it to get it cheap, and a select few of us actually try to help the girls (even if it is futile).

For the newer members who care, KR's post is important. For those that been around more than a couple months, I think they all remmeber her issues. That group will act based on which category they fall in above. For those that will see her, it will be interesting to see the reports on her service. When she appeared last time, initial reports were she was great. Her reports then quickly went towards her being more and more doped up and her service declining accordingly.

All,

I wanted you to know this.

The lady posting as "Nakita" is previously known on this board as "Beauty".

While I don't wish to harm her, you should know that she has been previously reported as a user.

Perhaps she is trying to get clean.

I'm posting pics from her current ad as well as previous ads.

By the way, this is why it's important to post pictures with your reviews.

If that becomes a disqualified then almost all of the ones you and I and everyone else knows or has known has been one whether we knew it or not. Sometimes it would appear I just don't want to know.

Indy Guy.

[Kitkat1]

I post this here because Indy has a higher volume of readers then up North and with a few exceptions most seem fairly insightful.

A provider here is losing regulars and wants to know what she can do to gain and retain clients? Of course I gave my opinion but I'm looking for yours.

In your opinion what would make the perfect provider experience that would have you anticipating your next visit? I'm not referring to menu let's assume that's wide open, but from the time of initial contact until you walk out the door? What are some little things that overlook that impress you or turn you on? What makes it memorable in a good way?

On the other hand, short of an absolutely horrid experience what would turn you off or keep you from returning?

This is a serious question I intend on showing her any comments minus screen names you might offer. Hopefully she and other might read this, gain a little insight and step up their game.

Since the demise of so many message board and the reliance on BP the quality of customer service has diminished greatly in the last few years. Someone needs to up start classes, Escort 101.

Thanks bobup.

My two cents.

1) Like jjb said time and communication is very very important for all parties involved.

2) Have a safe reputable place to meet. If not your home go for a little nicer hotel. There honestly close to the same price as lower budget hotels if you use online sites like Priceline.

3) Cleanliness, no one wants to feel like they're getting sloppy seconds or like somebody just left. Your body should be clean and your space should be clean and tidy.

4) Somehow make it special like the person your meeting is the only one in the world and for that given time that person should be. It should be about an experience not a service.

5) I realize this all sounds rhetorical but jjb is right. Be caring and empathetic. Take notes if you need to but find a way to remember parts of people's lives.

6) Don't smoke, even smokers find it unattractive when someone smokes and it gets on there clothing.

7) Offer showers if needed, have clean towels and wash clothes ready. Also use unsented oils or lotions if you give body rubs. You're also better off going with a little bit higher quality products can help so that someone don't break out.

8) Always be prepared with anything you may need. All a guy should need to do is come in leave a present and get comfortable. So again things like condoms, Body Oil, lotion, towels, wet wipes, or anything else you may need to be comfortable or that is required should be provided by you.

That's all I can think of off the top of my head. I have what is dubbed the booty bag I had all my thing in it. Before a meeting I would double check everything to make sure I had plenty. So that would be my biggest advice.

[Ilapp]

All,

I wanted you to know this.

The lady posting as "Nakita" is previously known on this board as "Beauty".

While I don't wish to harm her, you should know that she has been previously reported as a user.

Perhaps she is trying to get clean.

I'm posting pics from her current ad as well as previous ads.

By the way, this is why it's important to post pictures with your reviews.

If that becomes a disqualified then almost all of the ones you and I and everyone else knows or has known has been one whether we knew it or not. Sometimes it would appear I just don't want to know.

[Kitkat1]

Bob,

I know it is an anonymous app but you can't be such a dead giveaway!

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

Any woman's thighs can Gap it's called opening them. LOL.

[INTravelingMan]

All,

I wanted you to know this.

The lady posting as "Nakita" is previously known on this board as "Beauty".

While I don't wish to harm her, you should know that she has been previously reported as a user.

Perhaps she is trying to get clean.

I'm posting pics from her current ad as well as previous ads.

By the way, this is why it's important to post pictures with your reviews.

She is a pretty gal. People do sometimes change, but highly doubt it if she is still in the hobby. I have no information one way or another.

[SnipeHunter]

I thought that I posted about her yesterday, but I don't see it. If you research her number, it appears that she had a recent drug related arrest. She looks like my type, but I'm hesitant.

There is evidence.

L

All,

I wanted you to know this.

The lady posting as "Nakita" is previously known on this board as "Beauty".

While I don't wish to harm her, you should know that she has been previously reported as a user.

Perhaps she is trying to get clean.

I'm posting pics from her current ad as well as previous ads.

By the way, this is why it's important to post pictures with your reviews.

.

[IndyGuy123]

Bob,

I know it is an anonymous app but you can't be such a dead giveaway!

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[Freckle Freak]

I was hoping for a little more input from others but Jibee did an excellent job of hitting all the important highlights. It should be a sticky on Backpage. Thanks, J52.

I would add one thing, Communication, because that is how the whole experience starts. A provider who's communication is great, timely and accurate means a whole lot to the monger trying to squeeze in his time with her during a busy day. If her communication is great then it's a great first impression.

Oh, one more thing that is very important for a provider to get repeat customers, at least this one. She must have freckles!

[BobUp]

1. Connection. That's what keeps guys coming back. I'm talking about the guys who are looking for more than a hole to poke. Talk to the guys, ask about interests and things to get them talking.

A good provider is part psychiatrist. She listens to the gripes and offers support and comfort, in addition to the other services. They provide relief in more ways than one. As soon as the session is over she should take notes. Nothing incriminating or explicit, but things like "Boss won't listen to his ideas. Wife wants new furniture. " Something to remember the conversation, for the next visit.

2. Reliability. Be ready on time. Especially daytime appointments, mongers have busy schedules. Too many frustrating waits and they'll look elsewhere.

3. Presentation. Clean and neat, yourself and your space. Make him feel like you put out some extra effort for his visit. Give him a place that relaxes him, where he doesn't have to watch where he steps or worry about sticking to the furniture.

4. Make sure he leaves with a smile. This is not about the service, but the last few minutes. Make him feel like you want him to come back soon, instead of rushing him out the door.

I was hoping for a little more input from others but Jibee did an excellent job of hitting all the important highlights. It should be a sticky on Backpage. Thanks, J52.

[IndyGuy123]

I just read a day or so ago that there's a new trend of guys wearing covers when beginning to have sex with their dates or GF's according to her choice, then removing the cover whe she's not looking. There was even a name for it, though that is escaping my memory at the moment. It is legally being considered assault or "rape" and is a chargeable offense.

That would be "stealthing" that you refer to. A SM and I were talking about that earlier today.

I doubt anyone here would be surprised, or upset, if / when this POS gets his due from someone that does. I know I would applaud it.

Due to forum rules, I plead the 5th on that one.

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard
P.S.- I know who the guy is in real life. He should be glad she kept her cool and resolved the situation because said lady could have kicked this guy's ass.

[TryinAgain2]

Even in the hobby there is a such thing as "no means no" and when you don't like that no and try to physically force her into it, you have crossed the line. You have now crossed the line into what can now be considered rape.

I just read a day or so ago that there's a new trend of guys wearing covers when beginning to have sex with their dates or GF's according to her choice, then removing the cover whe she's not looking. There was even a name for it, though that is escaping my memory at the moment. It is legally being considered assault or "rape" and is a chargeable offense. I believe it should be. Consent wasn't given for what occurred, even if there was earlier consent for something else. It's a violation either way.

The guy in this story apparently thinks a provider isn't going to go to the police about it because of the nature of her activity, but he might consider that, similar to the way prisoners treat child molesters, there is sometimes justice served outside the legal system. I don't know who IG is talking about on either side of this rape, but I doubt anyone here would be surprised, or upset, if / when this POS gets his due from someone that does. I know I would applaud it.

[MegoFast]

I'm pretty sure that Megofast was agreeing with IG, although I thought the same thing when I read it.

Totally agreeing with IG, sorry for the confusion. Didn't even read it that way.

[Jjbee62]

Are you fking kidding me? That is the lowest of low. I assume they wouldn't try that on a normal date but since it was a transaction they feel entitled. The Line is more than crossed its obliterated.

I'm pretty sure that Megofast was agreeing with IG, although I thought the same thing when I read it.

[Inboater01]

I don't know and don't care who you are talking about, it is wrong. Not to mention many times it ruins things for the rest of us.

Are you fking kidding me? That is the lowest of low. I assume they wouldn't try that on a normal date but since it was a transaction they feel entitled. The Line is more than crossed its obliterated.

[MegoFast]

This post is directed at a specific member. He reads but doesn't post so I won't bother mentioning a handle. This post can be a lesson or a reminder to other members if you have somehow forgot this.

A provider is the one who sets her menu. She decides what she will and won't do. If she does not provide a menu item that you want then move on to another lady who does. This is especially true with bareback. If a provider states she will not do bareback, do not repeatedly and repeatedly beg her for it. Even in the hobby there is a such thing as "no means no" and when you don't like that no and try to physically force her into it, you have crossed the line. You have now crossed the line into what can now be considered rape. If I go on with this post, I will be saying something that will cause A2 to ban me!

Sincerely Signed,
The Pissed Off Biggest Prick in the Yard.

I don't know and don't care who you are talking about, it is wrong. Not to mention many times it ruins things for the rest of us.