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Originally Posted by AlMelrose
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About Me.
Literally I just need money, I'm a broke college kid wanting to pay of student loans early and have some spending money for myself.
What I'm Looking for.
We talk, you give me money, I say thank you, and we done. No meet-ups or calls or anything, that's too personal for me.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-0d2860de61e8
'Hey, talk is cheap. Here is a dollar' !
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Originally Posted by BenSpend
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Negotiate! You can get away with it on SA. Request a "per visit" arrangement and if she's not up to snuff move on.
Yeah, trust but verify. If you pay per meet, it's going to feel a lot like an escort, which is something I don't prefer, but you have to get to a certain stage of trusting a girl before you're going to put up the whole month worth. I've done a deal where I negotiate the monthly but also an initial meet sugar, and if after the first time one person doesn't want to continue, that's the end. This is a way to get a maybe little hotter girl than you can afford but don't want to commit big sugar for the long haul. I have advanced girls $ before the exact FC time a few times, and about 50% the girl has ghosted. The one who didn't is my current long-term SB, though. Use your guts. Even w / my regular, I will give her like half her sugar on the 1st and half the next time I see her. But I'm not really ever worried she's going to bail. She wants to 'see where this goes'. Yeah, she's 22, I'm >60 and married. lol
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Originally Posted by Colesmithe
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Hey guys. Biggest question is on the allowance concept. Do you pay per month and if so, at the end of the month? Does it fluctuate depending on how often you end up seeing the girl?
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On a per meeting basis only.
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My advice
Originally Posted by Colesmithe
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Hey guys. Biggest question is on the allowance concept. Do you pay per month and if so, at the end of the month? Does it fluctuate depending on how often you end up seeing the girl?
I'm trying. To avoid paying upfront and then someone going dark -
Negotiate! You can get away with it on SA. Request a "per visit" arrangement and if she's not up to snuff move on.
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Guy numbers
Might be a sugar daddy who got the phone service hooked up for her because she had no money or credit for a phone. I have encountered girls who needed help paying phone bills or loading their phone with new money to keep using. PM me her digits and I will check it out for you and report.
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Looking for Advice. Using SA for the first time
Hey guys. Biggest question is on the allowance concept. Do you pay per month and if so, at the end of the month? Does it fluctuate depending on how often you end up seeing the girl?
I'm trying. To avoid paying upfront and then someone going dark -
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Loves the dirtiest of talk! Don't be a dom poser she is true sub. Loves big dicks and craves it in her ass. 40 years old but is as sexy as any youngster I have ever plugged! Treat her well and treat her like the anal loving cumslut she is!
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-3fc7667d6dfe
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Another winner here
About Me.
Literally I just need money, I'm a broke college kid wanting to pay of student loans early and have some spending money for myself.
What I'm Looking for.
We talk, you give me money, I say thank you, and we done. No meet-ups or calls or anything, that's too personal for me.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-0d2860de61e8
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I am avoiding this one
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-db31541a7592
Got a weird vibe from the texts, finally checked number on FB, it was a guy.
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Link is to your conversation with her, not her profile.
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Originally Posted by Shorty58
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The sugardaddy sites can be frustrating because the women have a large number of horny guys filling their mailbox, and even after they say they will meet you, they are still wading through offers that come in and may find something they think is better. So they change their mind and flake on you. Part of the territory I think.
Yea. I agree with you on that, when I join SA site, I was hoping to meet some of the girls like on this website http://www.girlsdoporn.com/page1.php , I believe is possible but turn out to be much more difficult then I thought, I rather paid more for college co-ed hottie, then less for average girls because they do nothing for me.
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The sugardaddy sites can be frustrating because the women have a large number of horny guys filling their mailbox, and even after they say they will meet you, they are still wading through offers that come in and may find something they think is better. So they change their mind and flake on you. Part of the territory I think.
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Originally Posted by Mike1179
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I've had a lot of success with arrangements, both locally and nationally when I travel for business (which is quite often). The best advice I can give you is that in the first 3-5 exchanges you should try to figure out if they're open to a "physical" or "intimate" type of arrangement. It's kind of tricky because most sugar babies don't want to hear you say the words "physical" or "intimate", so I try to drive the conversation so that they say it themselves. My opening message is usually a question asking them what they're open to in an arrangement and what they would expect for a per meet allowance. If they say they're open to anything, asking if there's anything in particular that's on or off the table and that should do the trick.
Reading their profile before messaging helps a lot in filtering the SBs that are receptive to an intimate arrangement. Positive signs are if they include FWB, NSA, no strings, casual, no stress, or if their private photos are revealing. Red flags are if they're only looking for an online arrangement, if they expect an allowance for a meet-and-greet coffee date, or if their expectation is above 'Substantial'.
All in all, I much rather prefer arrangements to escorts. Usually the per meet allowance is much less than what you'd pay for escorts, includes GFE, multiple hours, etc. Just like escorting, what you pay for is usually what you get, but you can easily find a nice co-ed for a few hundred per meet if you play your cards right.
Another example this girl madi http://www.explicitchicago.com/madi.html whenever is available on BP, she all book up within hours, why is that? Answer because is young and hot, that is kinda my point.
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Originally Posted by Mike1179
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I've had a lot of success with arrangements, both locally and nationally when I travel for business (which is quite often). The best advice I can give you is that in the first 3-5 exchanges you should try to figure out if they're open to a "physical" or "intimate" type of arrangement. It's kind of tricky because most sugar babies don't want to hear you say the words "physical" or "intimate", so I try to drive the conversation so that they say it themselves. My opening message is usually a question asking them what they're open to in an arrangement and what they would expect for a per meet allowance. If they say they're open to anything, asking if there's anything in particular that's on or off the table and that should do the trick.
Reading their profile before messaging helps a lot in filtering the SBs that are receptive to an intimate arrangement. Positive signs are if they include FWB, NSA, no strings, casual, no stress, or if their private photos are revealing. Red flags are if they're only looking for an online arrangement, if they expect an allowance for a meet-and-greet coffee date, or if their expectation is above 'Substantial'.
All in all, I much rather prefer arrangements to escorts. Usually the per meet allowance is much less than what you'd pay for escorts, includes GFE, multiple hours, etc. Just like escorting, what you pay for is usually what you get, but you can easily find a nice co-ed for a few hundred per meet if you play your cards right.
I would be interest in something like these.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-e62521dc5504
Or https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-5a76c7af412e.
Or https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-cd7b53dba23d.
Or https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-0aa7a2d94feb.
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Originally Posted by Mike1179
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I've had a lot of success with arrangements, both locally and nationally when I travel for business (which is quite often). The best advice I can give you is that in the first 3-5 exchanges you should try to figure out if they're open to a "physical" or "intimate" type of arrangement. It's kind of tricky because most sugar babies don't want to hear you say the words "physical" or "intimate", so I try to drive the conversation so that they say it themselves. My opening message is usually a question asking them what they're open to in an arrangement and what they would expect for a per meet allowance. If they say they're open to anything, asking if there's anything in particular that's on or off the table and that should do the trick.
Reading their profile before messaging helps a lot in filtering the SBs that are receptive to an intimate arrangement. Positive signs are if they include FWB, NSA, no strings, casual, no stress, or if their private photos are revealing. Red flags are if they're only looking for an online arrangement, if they expect an allowance for a meet-and-greet coffee date, or if their expectation is above 'Substantial'.
All in all, I much rather prefer arrangements to escorts. Usually the per meet allowance is much less than what you'd pay for escorts, includes GFE, multiple hours, etc. Just like escorting, what you pay for is usually what you get, but you can easily find a nice co-ed for a few hundred per meet if you play your cards right.
I agree with you on that, the problems is everything agree until the day that we are to meet and the girls back out, flaked or cancel, happen like 3-4 times now, also I am very picky, just want 18-22 slim or athletic college girls that look super hot (I am not into mom, old ladies, fat ladies, drug ladies, ect)(if you going to spend money, why not get the best girls out there), I did had 2 arrangements one is 18 and another is 19 college co-ed both are super hot and they know it, they claim to have 10+ message from SA guy a day so they can pick whoever they want, so they price are 300-400. So you get what you paid for. I had oppertunity with 200 $ girls but they are average (as in older, not really hot) so I pass, for me I rather per more with super hot girls, then paid less with average girls because they don't turn me on, that is mainly my problems.
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