Arrangement Reports

[OnlyDreams]

Anyone know anything about this girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/8d3ef...2-2b5adb543afa I asked her to open her private pics and after she did, she messaged me with her number. She said it was a landline so no texting.

After a google search of her number, I find this: https://adultsearch.com/illinois/chi...scorts/2020103.

So looks like a pro. Anyone ever try them?

That's her first lie!

[RedHead169]

Anyone know anything about this girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/8d3ef...2-2b5adb543afa I asked her to open her private pics and after she did, she messaged me with her number. She said it was a landline so no texting.

After a google search of her number, I find this: https://adultsearch.com/illinois/chi...scorts/2020103.

So looks like a pro. Anyone ever try them?

[TimeForPlay10]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5df40...e-752ae7253c72

Has anyone seen her? She looks cute but a bit sketchy with communication like she will hit me up to meet and then go silent when working the details out like what day and time.

I texted briefly with her right before Covid. The pics on SA are old and she's heavier now (not slim by any means). So much so that I didn't pursue discussions.

[Chicago41]

She's doing the same to me, went silent when I said I don't do online pay to play.

Sounds like a time waster or scammer.

[Bsuh69]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa53c...5-0a057b17fbab

She's doing the same to me, went silent when I said I don't do online pay to play.

[StanKost]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5df40...e-752ae7253c72

Has anyone seen her? She looks cute but a bit sketchy with communication like she will hit me up to meet and then go silent when working the details out like what day and time.

[TimeForPlay10]

This is something that may help you avoid getting banned from that site. There's nothing 100% proof but this reduces the chances.

1. Don't get into arguments with any of the women there. Not even with the fake ones, trolls, scammers etc. Sometimes their stupidity may upset you and you end up saying some inappropriate words that gets you banned from the site.

2. Don't joke or make funny comments about their appearance, race, religion, creed, philosophy etc even if it may sound or look totally ridiculous. I know of a guy who got banned for making fun of a very chubby girl.

3. Never, ever talk about money, sex or qui pro quo transactions on the SA platform. Always try to get their number( or chat app such as kik, telegram, etc) sto talk about those things. Moreover, while on the platform, don't mention about alcohol, cigarettes or any recreational stuff especially if they are under 21.

4. Be always discrete and instead of asking her if she's willing to get physical, ask her if she's down to watch Netflix. It may sound silly, but it will avoid getting banned. If she's smart and if she's willing to meet you in person she knows what you mean by that and she also knows guys don't go on that site to get a woman just to watch Netflix. It will also help you spot online content sellers. They will say no to any form of get-together.

5. This is my golden rule. Whenever she gives you her number don't text / call her right away. I usually wait a day or at least a couple of hours. I know it might be tempting to text her right away, but it's better to wait. You may wonder why? This is my philosophy: If she's cute and hot, I bet many guys are chatting with her and getting her phone number. If you wait a couple of hours, she may not remember exactly who you are. She may ask you for your user / profile name and that's when you make up a name. Most likely she won't double check it. If she asks for pics, send her additional pics different from your profile pics. The secret is to blur her mind. Then you can ask her all kinds of questions and set up an arrangement. If something goes wrong and she is upset or feels hurt, she will not know who to report, she may be confused. If she's a scammer or fake, she can't report you either. I learned many scammers report guys when they don't follow their scheme.

As I mentioned before, nothing is 100% guaranteed but there's something you can do to reduce the chance. Sometimes, it's not only about the money you lose, but the headache you have to fo through to try to reinstate or set up a new account. I heard that site records your IP address and other stuff in order to prevent "offenders" from creating new accounts.

Good summary but I've found it hard to get around sharing my profile name when I text. Very often they want to know so they can go back and read what has been messaged / check pics, etc. How have you avoided that?

[OnlyDreams]

This is something that may help you avoid getting banned from that site. There's nothing 100% proof but this reduces the chances.

1. Don't get into arguments with any of the women there. Not even with the fake ones, trolls, scammers etc. Sometimes their stupidity may upset you and you end up saying some inappropriate words that gets you banned from the site.

2. Don't joke or make funny comments about their appearance, race, religion, creed, philosophy etc even if it may sound or look totally ridiculous. I know of a guy who got banned for making fun of a very chubby girl.

3. Never, ever talk about money, sex or qui pro quo transactions on the SA platform. Always try to get their number( or chat app such as kik, telegram, etc) sto talk about those things. Moreover, while on the platform, don't mention about alcohol, cigarettes or any recreational stuff especially if they are under 21.

4. Be always discrete and instead of asking her if she's willing to get physical, ask her if she's down to watch Netflix. It may sound silly, but it will avoid getting banned. If she's smart and if she's willing to meet you in person she knows what you mean by that and she also knows guys don't go on that site to get a woman just to watch Netflix. It will also help you spot online content sellers. They will say no to any form of get-together.

5. This is my golden rule. Whenever she gives you her number don't text / call her right away. I usually wait a day or at least a couple of hours. I know it might be tempting to text her right away, but it's better to wait. You may wonder why? This is my philosophy: If she's cute and hot, I bet many guys are chatting with her and getting her phone number. If you wait a couple of hours, she may not remember exactly who you are. She may ask you for your user / profile name and that's when you make up a name. Most likely she won't double check it. If she asks for pics, send her additional pics different from your profile pics. The secret is to blur her mind. Then you can ask her all kinds of questions and set up an arrangement. If something goes wrong and she is upset or feels hurt, she will not know who to report, she may be confused. If she's a scammer or fake, she can't report you either. I learned many scammers report guys when they don't follow their scheme.

As I mentioned before, nothing is 100% guaranteed but there's something you can do to reduce the chance. Sometimes, it's not only about the money you lose, but the headache you have to fo through to try to reinstate or set up a new account. I heard that site records your IP address and other stuff in order to prevent "offenders" from creating new accounts.

[ChiTown Reds]

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.

Damn. Glad I posted. Thanks!

[ChiTown Reds]

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.

Did you try contacting the site? Happened to me, I emailed and they said to review terms and agree moving forward.

[ChiTown Reds]

Pic Seller:

https://www.seeking.com/member/d0bc9...6-ba3724f21584

Possible pic seller. Arranging meetup but wanted to sext with pic and vids with paypal first. Still texting so not 100% sure:

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa53c...5-0a057b17fbab

[RoronoaZ]

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.

I've been banned before. Just change your email.

[Aman123]

https://www.seeking.com/member/39df5...9-7dc517709754

Nice convo. Setup a M&G, wants gas money 15 minutes prior. Needless to say I skipped out. I probably would have been ok to order an uber if she was upfront about it.

I messaged her a few days ago too. Quoted 300 but never answered my questions so never met.

[DickLongwood]

https://www.seeking.com/member/39df5...9-7dc517709754

Nice convo. Setup a M&G, wants gas money 15 minutes prior. Needless to say I skipped out. I probably would have been ok to order an uber if she was upfront about it.

Many of the women who ask for gas money or something similar at the last minute don't intend to meet at all. They just want to get a few bucks for nothing and wait until they think you will be accommodating.

[Rxgolf]

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.