Arrangement Reports

[FarFarAway]

I'll always do 100% cash only. No electronic payments ever. If they ask I just say my accountant has full access to my bank statements to do my taxes, which is true, and I don't need him asking me what all these transfers are. That way when / if they ever want money up front, or before showing up, it's "I can't. I have some cash here though. " Saves a lot of bullshit.

Don't disagree with anything that's been posted. I happen to have a monger PayPal account. I got it a long time ago, and it is grandfathered in. It doesn't have my SS# or any other I'd verification. I can send $ to and from it, and I can also use it to send $ to girls. I have done this on some sites like PantyDeal, where girls sell pix. Like $10. One virtue of this, girls who have PayPal have to give their real names, so you can find that out that way.

Over time, it has become a lot tougher to use that PayPal. For someone I had been seeing, I tried to send her $ to get us a hotel room by buying a prepaid, putting it in the account, and then sending the funds to her. I was able to eventually get that to work, but that was way before the pandemic.

I have seen some guy post (usually, on the Richmond sugar thread, the de facto national thread for how-tos on sugaring) that there is a way to do CashApp without revealing your identity to the recipient, but there is still a record of it, and if you are worried about hiding the transaction from the SO, it doesn't seem a good solution.

[TheArgent]

For all the attached fellas out there. Best way to send money electronically?

Trying to think of ways to stay under the radar. How do you all get hotels rooms?

If you can buy hotel points and pay with points, nothing shows up on your cc. If you book a room with a card and settle up in cash, it shouldn't show up on your statement. If you buy VISA gift cards you can use those most places cards are needed. And privacy.com let's you create fake credit cards for online purchases where the billing shows up as a hardware store or something like that. They don't work everywhere.

Obviously cash is good. If you can't easy get cash directly out of your checking account with drawing attention, then put cash somewhere else and take it out of that. E. g, put it into your retirement account and remove it from that. Buy something that's cash-equivalent and sell it or return it for cash--obviously that's a hassle. Obviously doubling up your usually ATM withdrawals and keeping half for your secret activity is easy.

[Dddubs2]

Saw her some yrs ago. BBFS and cip for 300. Reached out recently thru her IG and she said she wasn't dating anymore lmao these hoes I swear LOL.

Was she a good time? Wondering if it's worth the plunge haha.

[JDuB1970]

Just one day (yesterday), my account is deleted. Tried to make a new account and my email won't work.

What the hell?

Thankfully, it was also at the end of my subscription and I wasn't renewed nor charged for a new month. But just randomly deactivated and then blocked?

The site sucks.

[Degen123]

I can't see how you get around the electronic trail of sending money electronically. Because I don't see that opening, I tell everyone, cash only. Besides, with arrangements you shouldn't be sending money unless you already have a track record. If you want to do something extra, maybe you can purchase a gift card and send that to someone. But I tell everyone, my rewards are in cash and in person. I don't do the sending money ahead thing because I'm not trying to support some Russian / African dude trying to fleece me..

Perfect. I agree with this.

What about the hotels. Do you ask them to get them? Or try to find SB's that have their own place.

[Chiguyxxx]

I have her profile link, but I think I'm blocked. Also some screenshots of photos she had on her FB which she also had on her SA profile. Careful out there guys.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-80f2cb494082

You're not blocked, the profile is de-activated now. I had a SB I had been seeing for a few months off and on and she hit me up for a few bucks to cover her rent and then ghosted me. She would have done way better not going for the short hustle, but oh well. Re-connected her with her months later and was cool with letting bygones be bygones. Thought we had a nice lunch and BAM! Ghosted me again. WTF. Why bother??

[Cdds20]

I'll always do 100% cash only. No electronic payments ever. If they ask I just say my accountant has full access to my bank statements to do my taxes, which is true, and I don't need him asking me what all these transfers are. That way when / if they ever want money up front, or before showing up, it's "I can't. I have some cash here though. " Saves a lot of bullshit.

[BaltoMan66]

I can't see how you get around the electronic trail of sending money electronically. Because I don't see that opening, I tell everyone, cash only. Besides, with arrangements you shouldn't be sending money unless you already have a track record. If you want to do something extra, maybe you can purchase a gift card and send that to someone. But I tell everyone, my rewards are in cash and in person. I don't do the sending money ahead thing because I'm not trying to support some Russian / African dude trying to fleece me.

My. 02.

For all the attached fellas out there. Best way to send money electronically?

Trying to think of ways to stay under the radar. How do you all get hotels rooms?

[Degen123]

For all the attached fellas out there. Best way to send money electronically?

Trying to think of ways to stay under the radar. How do you all get hotels rooms?

[Meddic80]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-c8ec909590c5

Anybody seen this girl? I've seen her profile pop up multiple times between Chicago and Champaign, looks cute, but. Wondering if she's some kind of semi-pro? Wanted to know if anyone's seen her?

Link you posted is for your message / inbox.

[ChewChad]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...5-0ea185281823

Her first reply to me was to text her which I know is never good, but I went for it.

Took 2 messages before she told me she's been living in her car for 5 days and if I can send her some money to help for now we can work on an in person arrangement. When I said no in my nice way she told me if I can't afford it to just stay off the page.

A real treat.

[Nitkras123]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-c8ec909590c5

Anybody seen this girl? I've seen her profile pop up multiple times between Chicago and Champaign, looks cute, but. Wondering if she's some kind of semi-pro? Wanted to know if anyone's seen her?

[Yardy00]

Got scammed hard by this one. Had been talking with her over Snapchat for close to two months (we actually stopped talking but reconnected after I renewed), and hit it off. She sent daily snaps, good morning messages, whole 9 (I know her full name, social media, and even general area where she works). Had a great meet and greet, and even set up a ppm meet (it was car, but still hot nonetheless). We than planned to do a day at a hotel where we'd not just fool around but also chill and hang out. Because we chatted I felt comfortable advancing allowance plus cost to book the room. Sent money on a Wednesday for a Friday meet. Day of she messaged me her usual good morning, and even sent a message the night before with what she wanted to do when we met up. Than radio silence. Show up to the hotel parking lot and she ghosts me. At first just didn't respond, but eventually blocked me. I walked into the hotel thinking maybe she forgot her phone, and the Front desk did confirm she had a room booked but hadn't checked in yet. I was a mix of worried and pissed thinking something happened, until I saw she posted stuff on Facebook (so obviously not in an accident or anything).

This one hurt for sure. Not saying I was falling for her but we definitely vibed. We texted back and forth almost daily, and she really had me believing that she was looking for something long term. We talked about a monthly allowance, and her getting her own place. She was saying that she was excited for me to be over there, and was sending areas she was thinking about moving to. Long story short, be very cautious guys. I thought I hit the jackpot but got effed really bad. I've been scammed before, but she played the long game. Definitely messed me up to the point where I'm thinking of calling it quits. It's been a shit couple of days, and really just wanted to vent along with report.

I have her profile link, but I think I'm blocked. Also some screenshots of photos she had on her FB which she also had on her SA profile. Careful out there guys.

http://<a href="https://members.seek...f2cb494082</a>

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She's been around for a bit now. Not really sure what her deal is. Was talking to her back in 2020 and same thing, talked everyday for a month or two and when finally wanted to get together, ghosted. Thankfully I didn't send her any money though.

[Pau Ford]

I had one that stung a bit too. I'd been meeting up with this girl off and on for 2 years. She lived in Canada but would come to Chicago periodically. We kept in touch when she was back home and she shared a lot about her real life and all that. When she was here she'd hang out at my place a lot, we'd watch movies, go to dinner, etc. Saw her dozens of times.

Hadn't seen her in a while but she's coming to town. She got here to Chicago earlier than expected so came to my place early. We caught up, all seemed normal, and I said I needed to take a quick shower. I'm in and out in 5 minutes and when I come out she's not here. Text her a few times, worried something happened. Then it hit me. I checked the drawer where I kept my money and it was all gone. She must had seen me in past meetings grab it from there. She grabbed the $800 that was there and bolted.

So moral of the story. Even when you think trust has been built, it doesn't matter, you can never, ever, ever trust these money grubbing chicks.

Got scammed hard by this one. Had been talking with her over Snapchat for close to two months (we actually stopped talking but reconnected after I renewed), and hit it off. She sent daily snaps, good morning messages, whole 9 (I know her full name, social media, and even general area where she works). Had a great meet and greet, and even set up a ppm meet (it was car, but still hot nonetheless). We than planned to do a day at a hotel where we'd not just fool around but also chill and hang out. Because we chatted I felt comfortable advancing allowance plus cost to book the room. Sent money on a Wednesday for a Friday meet. Day of she messaged me her usual good morning, and even sent a message the night before with what she wanted to do when we met up. Than radio silence. Show up to the hotel parking lot and she ghosts me. At first just didn't respond, but eventually blocked me. I walked into the hotel thinking maybe she forgot her phone, and the Front desk did confirm she had a room booked but hadn't checked in yet. I was a mix of worried and pissed thinking something happened, until I saw she posted stuff on Facebook (so obviously not in an accident or anything).

This one hurt for sure. Not saying I was falling for her but we definitely vibed. We texted back and forth almost daily, and she really had me believing that she was looking for something long term. We talked about a monthly allowance, and her getting her own place. She was saying that she was excited for me to be over there, and was sending areas she was thinking about moving to. Long story short, be very cautious guys. I thought I hit the jackpot but got effed really bad. I've been scammed before, but she played the long game. Definitely messed me up to the point where I'm thinking of calling it quits. It's been a shit couple of days, and really just wanted to vent along with report.

I have her profile link, but I think I'm blocked. Also some screenshots of photos she had on her FB which she also had on her SA profile. Careful out there guys.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-80f2cb494082

[VicStick2]

Got scammed hard by this one. Had been talking with her over Snapchat for close to two months (we actually stopped talking but reconnected after I renewed), and hit it off. She sent daily snaps, good morning messages, whole 9 (I know her full name, social media, and even general area where she works). Had a great meet and greet, and even set up a ppm meet (it was car, but still hot nonetheless). We than planned to do a day at a hotel where we'd not just fool around but also chill and hang out. Because we chatted I felt comfortable advancing allowance plus cost to book the room. Sent money on a Wednesday for a Friday meet. Day of she messaged me her usual good morning, and even sent a message the night before with what she wanted to do when we met up. Than radio silence. Show up to the hotel parking lot and she ghosts me. At first just didn't respond, but eventually blocked me. I walked into the hotel thinking maybe she forgot her phone, and the Front desk did confirm she had a room booked but hadn't checked in yet. I was a mix of worried and pissed thinking something happened, until I saw she posted stuff on Facebook (so obviously not in an accident or anything).

This one hurt for sure. Not saying I was falling for her but we definitely vibed. We texted back and forth almost daily, and she really had me believing that she was looking for something long term. We talked about a monthly allowance, and her getting her own place. She was saying that she was excited for me to be over there, and was sending areas she was thinking about moving to. Long story short, be very cautious guys. I thought I hit the jackpot but got effed really bad. I've been scammed before, but she played the long game. Definitely messed me up to the point where I'm thinking of calling it quits. It's been a shit couple of days, and really just wanted to vent along with report.

I have her profile link, but I think I'm blocked. Also some screenshots of photos she had on her FB which she also had on her SA profile. Careful out there guys.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-80f2cb494082