Arrangement Reports

[DotJohn]

My subscription is expiring so thought I'd share couple thoughts from what I saw this time.

I got this message from a SB after asking for a verif selfie: 'I'll just meet someone that doesn't ask me for specific pics like if you wan'na go get a drink and meet me cool but I'm not playing a stupid picture game when there ten other guys on my line' Yup. That says it all. Add the massive number of fake accounts cropping up and that's why this is now an effin waste of time.

Tons of gals are doing this just for the money. As in get it done and run. I mean fk for the first time couldn't even get hard as there was just zero interest shown. Just paid her to leave after that haha.

You won't find anyone for 4 $ anymore. At least nobody decent you'd want to be seen in public with. Even at 5$ and promising to do this 2x a week someone cancelled last minute. Mind you we're talking 1k a week / 4k a month. But a higher bidder showed up no doubt. And I was throwing in bar hopping and drinks at the fanciest west loop places. Again it's all about the $, they couldn't care less about drinks or truly knowing someone and become regulars.

[DotJohn]

Do you guys put things like net worth over 100 million and annual salary over 1 million to score more hits and more attention on Seeking?

I used to mess around with that and one not-too-smart girl asked if that was really what I make. Perhaps I'm better looking / don't give myself enough credit LMAO.

[MongolMonger]

In need of some advice, has anyone successfully reconnected with an old SB? I was seeing someone great for a few months a little over year ago, everything was going well we would meet every other week for a few hours. Was really everything I could ask for in a SB. We would normally meet on a given day but eventually one of us had a conflict (can't remember if it was me or her) so we skipped our normal date. We never really talked outside of when we were together and confirm we were still good to meet on a given day. A week or two later I impulsively decided I was spending too much time and money on Seeking and decided to quit, so I deleted my seeking account and burner. Didn't send any kind of text to let her know which in retrospect was dumb. Well a year later and I've dipped my toes back in the game. She had originally deleted her account as well but recently saw she has a new one. How does one go about reconnecting? I don't have any identifying pictures in my profile and of course use a fake name in my profile so even if she stumbles across my profile she probably won't know it is me. Should I just message her on the site and try and explain who I am and ask if she wants to start seeing each other again? Or I still have her number (real number not a burner) so I could skip the site completely and shoot her a text asking if she'd be interested. I feel like that could come off a little weird though and again I was using a burner before so it's not like she would have my contact saved so I'd have to explain who I am. Any advice from more seasoned veterans would be appreciated so I don't screw up this opportunity.

[Dbomb]

Do you guys put things like net worth over 100 million and annual salary over 1 million to score more hits and more attention on Seeking?

There's no point in that, they would quickly and easily figure out it's a lie. I'm honest about my numbers. If it means more rejection, fine. I wouldn't be missing out on much anyway considering how the scene is now.

And if I did have 8 or 9 figures in the bank, I sure as shit would not be trawling Seeking for women. At that level, Seeking would look like how the worst of STG looks to us.

[Pupsnu]

Absolutely not. First of all, most women won't believe that level of numbers and those who would are too stupid to have sex with anyways (at least for me). I put up a fairly accurate representation of my salary and net worth. This way women who want $2 K PPM would not respond, and I would not have to waste time talking to someone who has a well-developed GPS. Self-selection is good, saves time, gets to the point. Although I imagine that if you put that your salary is 50 K and net worth is negative, that might turn some people off.

Do you guys put things like net worth over 100 million and annual salary over 1 million to score more hits and more attention on Seeking?

[HershelS]

Do you guys put things like net worth over 100 million and annual salary over 1 million to score more hits and more attention on Seeking?

[SamFlood123]

I notice a trend. Typically when a woman classifies her ethnicity as "Mixed", she is anything but. When you see the photo (usually only one) the only mixture you see is between blond and blond. Also see a lot of fake profiles with "divorce" in the status. I think they anticipate most guys will include "mixed" in the search, maybe also divorced. When I see blond hair "mixed" I keep scrolling.

Happy hunting!

[Alchy505]

Thought I saw a report on her before but the search turned nothing.

Anyone know what her activities are like behind closed doors?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-802732cad5ff

[DotJohn]

We are supposed to meet Wednesday so we will see. That's a good catch.

It could possibly be spell checker as mine keeps spelling it Columbia

How did it go?

[Vicdemoan]

I take it that this experience was far shorter than 2 hours then? I take it that this is pretty much 350 for 1 pop and done in 15-30 minutes?

Think she was gone within 30 minutes. Maybe it was me and YMMV? I've no plans to find out. This was about a year ago.

[DPark80]

I ended up seeing her after she decided she was ok coming to my place and for a lower rate. Ended up paying her to leave. She is nice enough, but a disaster in progress. Can't focus. She has several habits, openly admitted she's on Seeking to fund those habits. She was on her phone messaging guys on the site, scheduling meetings, etc. Had 2 more lined up after me. She's higher volume than Spinal Tap. Showed me a bad bruise which she claimed was caused by another guy on SA beating her in a BDSM scenario which went too far and he wouldn't stop.

A serendipitous robo call gave me an out. I pretended it was an urgent work problem. She was cool with it and I gave her something for her time and sent her on her way. Avoid.

Hey, thanks for the review! I've been messaging with her on snapchat. Was planning on seeing her but I might pass, not looking to see someone so high volume.

[Dbomb]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-a9575eb5c91f

In Waukegan. Claims she's an insomniac and has a hectic schedule because of it, and loves weed. After talking to her, I can believe both. She can't remember what was discussed shortly beforehand. Inconsistent and incomplete responses. We agreed on a number and what her limits were, a while later she wanted substantially more. Can't host, wants to get a room (on you.) Says she can only do an hour or so. BBFS. Cip if you cover a plan b for her too. It would be over five Benjamins and I won't drop that for one hour.

If those pics are real, she looks great. She just doesn't seem reliable enough, and I'm tired. She is not trans, so I don't know why she has those tags in her profile but whatever.

I ended up seeing her after she decided she was ok coming to my place and for a lower rate. Ended up paying her to leave. She is nice enough, but a disaster in progress. Can't focus. She has several habits, openly admitted she's on Seeking to fund those habits. She was on her phone messaging guys on the site, scheduling meetings, etc. Had 2 more lined up after me. She's higher volume than Spinal Tap. Showed me a bad bruise which she claimed was caused by another guy on SA beating her in a BDSM scenario which went too far and he wouldn't stop.

A serendipitous robo call gave me an out. I pretended it was an urgent work problem. She was cool with it and I gave her something for her time and sent her on her way. Avoid.

[DotJohn]

She has been around for a while. Pics are accurate. When I saw her, insisted on CFS, but BBBJ. It was average. Biggest problem is that she can be flaky and ghost. Tried to meet up with her 2 other times, ghosted me both times so I stopped trying.

Trying to find her previous profile and read a bit more. Anyone?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-98edad0c1664

[Pau Ford]

You can't draw conclusions like that based on join date.

A lot of girls actually ARE pro's but they create new profiles every couple months. You can't conclude a pro is now a non pro just b / c join date was 2 months ago. A lot of girls joined years ago but never really did anything with the site. Then they came back years later and logged back in. Join date is 5 years ago but they've never met a single person on the site, def not a pro.

So take join date with a grain of salt its not usually an accurate barometer.

Been on the site since 2019, have to suggest she is pro caliber at this point.

[Bill Underwood]

Care to elaborate on why this girl gets the crown for the queen of shallow?

Been on the site since 2019, have to suggest she is pro caliber at this point.