You know a great way to find these girls other than SA, and for free is through dating apps then Instagram. What I do is have a profile on both Tinder and Bumble. The goal is not to "match" on the app. There are so many younger 18-25 ish girls on those apps who put their Instagram name right on their dating profile for anyone to see. I created an Instagram page with the same pics I have on SA and the apps. I then look them up on Instagram, follow them, and direct message them. I come very direct and tell them something like this:
"Hey! I just saw your tinder profile an swiped right LOL. So obviously I'm slightly older, but wanted to ask. Would you be open to a sugar daddy type situation? I am 35 years old, recently divorced, and I live. ".
I'm currently talking to a petite 23 years old blonde who's absolutely down for it and we're making plans. Flake out percentage is still the same I'd imagine.
Bna. You have no idea how much these tips from the members here help me. I am old and I try to contribute in my own little ways, however it's been such a long time since I hit the street either rolling looking for some tail or even bar hopping in the viagra triangle on rush. I will download those apps and prepare for impact! I mean nothing to loose right? Thanks again. As mentioned here by a member a b c= always be closing which is a sales technique I learned to use to run a successful business over 23 years ago. I like to add a b l= always be learning.
Finally, someone with some high standards. My man! I've talked with Emilia, Nat, and that girl on there listed in Crystal Lake. Emily and I have chatted off and on for over a year now and she always flakes out. Actually we've chatted a little lately and she says she will meet this weekend. Yeah right. Also, she said some guy agreed to give her 350, and they fucked for like 4 hours and he never paid her.
That Nat girl doesn't seems serious about meeting, but the girl from Crystal Lake said she was down for a hotel meet near her. Just a little far for me.
Hannah from crystal lake message back, we just chat, have not move to text yet, will let you know, how this turn out, maybe 50/50., get nicer young sa girl's pussy will take more time, money and effort, but that's the only route i will take
Finally, someone with some high standards. My man! I've talked with Emilia, Nat, and that girl on there listed in Crystal Lake. Emily and I have chatted off and on for over a year now and she always flakes out. Actually we've chatted a little lately and she says she will meet this weekend. Yeah right. Also, she said some guy agreed to give her 350, and they fucked for like 4 hours and he never paid her.
That Nat girl doesn't seems serious about meeting, but the girl from Crystal Lake said she was down for a hotel meet near her. Just a little far for me.
So yea I doubt I have the patience for all of this and still have to pony up the bigger bucks. I am not saying I won't pull the trigger, however at 66 years of age even though I do look much younger and try to stay in shape, what words come out of my mouth and attitudes are of a senior citizen. I am young at heart, however this does seem like a lot of work. At least with a pro it's a business transaction from start to finish. Really in my mind if they charge for a visit then they are wh*res, however I am sure some here will chime in and say I am wrong. Either way you pay so it's a matter of time for me. This thread has really helped me understand all of this. With CL back in the day yea it was work, however with a lot of work I actually pulled a few out. Sure they were pay for play but I did not have to pay CL anything but my time to participate.
You know a great way to find these girls other than SA, and for free is through dating apps then Instagram. What I do is have a profile on both Tinder and Bumble. The goal is not to "match" on the app. There are so many younger 18-25 ish girls on those apps who put their Instagram name right on their dating profile for anyone to see. I created an Instagram page with the same pics I have on SA and the apps. I then look them up on Instagram, follow them, and direct message them. I come very direct and tell them something like this:
"Hey! I just saw your tinder profile an swiped right LOL. So obviously I'm slightly older, but wanted to ask. Would you be open to a sugar daddy type situation? I am 35 years old, recently divorced, and I live. ".
I'm currently talking to a petite 23 years old blonde who's absolutely down for it and we're making plans. Flake out percentage is still the same I'd imagine.
She told me about that too, except she said she QUIT her job because her boss told her she had to have sex with him in order to keep her job. This girl is some piece of work / drama.
Ha! This is so funny I love just reading about these women! I would believe the part about he was f**king her and then got her a job at his business. That makes more sense than this story which of course with so many of the "me too" and sexual harassment lawsuits that part makes no sense.
I've always done month to month with prepaid cards for my membership, but I believe on the SA app through android you can do a 10 day trial. Or so I've read from other posts.
I'd say this about SA as advice: If you are over the age of say. 50 ish and don't want to spend much time searching, messaging, negotiating and also are not willing to give more than about 250+ per meet. You might want to just save the $90/ month and stick to the STG / escort game. If you're willing to drop some dough per meet then it doesn't matter your age. But you'll also notice you can't talk to them like escorts. You actually have to finesse it a little bit, but it's worth it when you're at a nice hotel room shooting multiple loads in a 20 year old college sorority girl.
On the flips side, if you're not as old, say like mid 30's and you are attractive. Then you should definitely try SA. You'll notice if you have good pics, a good profile, and speak to them like human beings that you can negotiate some good ones for 150-200, and sometimes even down to 80-100. It will always take a lot of searching, messaging, and negotiating though. Always. So if you're willing to put in the work then do it.
Lastly. Only 1 out 5 will follow through with a meet up. The others cancel with weird excuses, or ghost completely. So ABC, Always Be Closing.
So yea I doubt I have the patience for all of this and still have to pony up the bigger bucks. I am not saying I won't pull the trigger, however at 66 years of age even though I do look much younger and try to stay in shape, what words come out of my mouth and attitudes are of a senior citizen. I am young at heart, however this does seem like a lot of work. At least with a pro it's a business transaction from start to finish. Really in my mind if they charge for a visit then they are wh*res, however I am sure some here will chime in and say I am wrong. Either way you pay so it's a matter of time for me. This thread has really helped me understand all of this. With CL back in the day yea it was work, however with a lot of work I actually pulled a few out. Sure they were pay for play but I did not have to pay CL anything but my time to participate.
I have the number to this girl available to seniors. If you have a white college SA girl in Chicago or Milwaukee to trade that would be great. She will most likely ask for your SA user name when you text her. You can read her profile for more info. CFS, DFK, cannot host. I did 200, but that was a while ago. She's probably asking for more now.