I texted with this girl pre covid. She reached out to me out of the blue. I can't remember her SA profile but she sent me a pic. Anyone recognize her?
Does her last 4 numbers end in 0601? If so I can give you some information. She looks very similar to the one I met recently but not totally sure it is her.
Time waster and scammer-actually a real *****. Or more likely just a fat dude behind a screen getting off on wasting people's time. Wants $1000 ppm. But the beautiful part is that she / he wants a full background check in advance to prove your worthy. LOL!
To each their own. She doesn't look like the girl next door at all. She's a granny. Anyway, in regards to booking hotels, I understand your pain. It's very tricky. Most of the time hotels or sites offer you big discounts or better deals if you book a room in advance, but it sucks when the woman cancels on you and the hotel already charged you and don't offer refunds on cancellations. On the other hand, if you don't book a room in advance and wait until the woman shows up, the room may be already booked or the price is much higher, sometimes double. It's always tricky. Somebody was telling there are some this party sites where they book a room and don't have to pay until you actually check in. Also, look up the Hotel / Motel recommendations forum, people mention about a family owned motel by Schiller Park where they don't take reservations, If I'm not mistaken it's $50 and you pay as you check in and they always have rooms available and sometimes the owners don't care if you check out at front desk as long as you leave the keys by some box outside or something like that. Once again, sorry to hear she canceled on you. It can happen to any of us.
This is tricky and I've had this happen to me with someone I had seen before (her excuse was legit but she cancelled as I was pulling into the booked hotel). I called the hotel from the parking lot and the guy at the front desk told me it was no problem to cancel. During covid, many hotels have moved away from the stricter cancellation polices of a few months ago. Not sure how long it will last but you should be able to cancel last minute until covid polices change-depending on the chain. As a best practice for first meets, I generally wait until I see her in the parking lot before booking the hotel. Many of these girls are just too unreliable.
Dayuse.com has a great system for these kind of meetings, if the hotels in their network are anywhere close to you or your potential SB. You can reserve the room without paying for a time block like 9 AM to 3 PM. You only pay when you check in and you can cancel anytime within that block with no penalty. Works perfectly if you have a meet & greet set up and want a place to head to if things work out well, and you're not out any money if a girl flakes out. Of course some flake out even after they send an 'I'm on the way' message, so even with the Dayuse method I got burned once checking in before I knew I was left hanging.
She told me 300 for a date, meet and greet with absolutely no intimacy involved. Sex on the Second date. Did she tell you something different? Better make sure.
Same story here, so she's consistent. Also, it doesn't strike me as a fake profile, having been around this long enough.
Cash and dash. Promises the world and at her first chance, she bounces with the money. Be VERY smart with this one or stay away entirely. She's a stripper, so she knows how to drain your wallet at minimal effort.
Don't give the SB the money until the date is over. I made the mistake of doing it 3 times: once was ok, once was a very short date, and once was a cash and dash. It's difficult to end the date when you are already in the FC, but it's the best option. Tell her, "Sorry, but I don't do that. You can leave now if you want. ".
Do you choose a hotel but not book it till she shows up? That's not a bad strategy. On a separate note today was just a bad day. Another girl wanted to meet and greet and we agreed on a time and place and she didn't show up either. Then the queen of time wasters in SA Miamulani texted me and a girl that was messaging me suddenly changed her location from Chicago to Mississippi and my go to SB as last ditch effort didn't return my text 🙄129300;.
Dayuse.com has a great system for these kind of meetings, if the hotels in their network are anywhere close to you or your potential SB. You can reserve the room without paying for a time block like 9 AM to 3 PM. You only pay when you check in and you can cancel anytime within that block with no penalty. Works perfectly if you have a meet & greet set up and want a place to head to if things work out well, and you're not out any money if a girl flakes out. Of course some flake out even after they send an 'I'm on the way' message, so even with the Dayuse method I got burned once checking in before I knew I was left hanging.
She told me 300 for a date, meet and greet with absolutely no intimacy involved. Sex on the Second date. Did she tell you something different? Better make sure.
Do you choose a hotel but not book it till she shows up? That's not a bad strategy.
I chose the motel that was closest to her location. She appreciated that she didn't have to drive closer to my home location. After getting the room and the girl cancelling after I got the room that's why I wait for her to get to the motel parking lot.