First Time Posters and Newbies

[Rkoch1004]

When considering a provider's fee, do you still tip? I understand AMP's are different, just don't know about the individual providers.

[Freckle Freak]

What do you guys think should I try this?

http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem...booty/15527747

When asking questions about a BP ad please ask it in the BP Thread. Also searching and finding things is discussed earlier in this forum as well as how to google search phone numbers and pictures which would have given you names and info that is contained in the Ripoff Reports Thread.

[Freckle Freak]

BbfsFanCip lets start off with this. As a hobbyist, your handle is wrong on so many levels. Second, instead of posting in the newbie thread you may want to consider reading it. You do not make reports here asking for info. Third, I assume you have heard the term walk before you run. In Lacy's case, you may want to crawl before asking to run the Olympic 100 m. You may somehow get someone to give you info but don't plan on it. We don't call her Lacy the Legend for nothing!

Sincerely Signed,

The Biggest Prick in the Yard (The prick had to come out of hiding and even jump threads for this one).

And some wonder if this stuff is made up! I deleted the other posts, no offense to either DR or MW, because the original post really didn't belong in this thread. I left this here because it is relative to stupid things some, I repeat some, newbies do or say.

[Mmgeg]

Need help with using search can't seem to find anything on that one.

If you not finding any info then. 9/10 times they have never been reviewed on here and you need to do your own research. When you start asking question after question red flags do seem to pop up not only on a member standpoint but also on a provider standpoint. Just a FYI. There's advance search as well that can be a helpful tool.

[DirkMcQuickley]

I'm a very cautious person even in the world of seeing escorts. I first seriously considered seeing escorts after I turned 40 due to all the negative experiences with the civies. My profession is research and development so that means that I had to do a lot of reading before feeling ready to jump in the water (so cautious I didn't jump in for at least 5 years after the research started). The website that really helped me get going is by a guy named Marc Perkel.

http://www.perkel.com/marc.htm

It's really informative and you should also read his story on what he went through when he got divorced.

I hope that posting the above link is not a violation of the board rules. Otherwise, Enjoy fellow mongers!

[GeezerGlide]

So, what does it take to be a "senior"?

25 posts and six months without pissing me off. You're starting to push that a little.

A2

[IndyGuy123]

Looking for some physical description of her, ideally some pics of her.

She is reviewed, but there are no body pictures or anything.

If anyone can point me to pictures or chime in that would be appreciated.

https://www.theeroticreview.com/revi....asp?ID=169669

indylacy@yahoo.com

Lets start off with this. As a hobbyist, your handle is wrong on so many levels. Second, instead of posting in the newbie thread you may want to consider reading it. You do not make reports here asking for info. Third, I assume you have heard the term walk before you run. In Lacy's case, you may want to crawl before asking to run the Olympic 100 m. You may somehow get someone to give you info but don't plan on it. We don't call her Lacy the Legend for nothing!

Sincerely Signed,

The Biggest Prick in the Yard (The prick had to come out of hiding and even jump threads for this one).

[BiteOfTheApple]

Hey guys, as I would still consider myself a Newbie in this hobby, I thought I'd ask the Pros' on how you approach screenings.

I'm currently chatting with 2 providers (Bri and Sasha), both talked about on this lovely forums and I've RTFF regarding both of them, and as I don't have any references they require a screen.

Here's the question / s I'm having, or I guess might have some concerns about. Both require drivers license photo (with sensitive stuff blacked out) & First and Last names, recent photo.

I guess my question is; Is this kind of screening typical? Anyone had bad things come out of this type of screenings? Overall general advice for the newbies. Never had to do screening before so I guess I might just be a bit worried.

Any info would be helpful.

Thanks!

J.

If you are comfy doing so, just provide what they ask. If not, move on until you find one that meets your needs. But, the more they reauire, the safer you will be. Just my opinion.

[Joey1087]

Hey guys, as I would still consider myself a Newbie in this hobby, I thought I'd ask the Pros' on how you approach screenings.

I'm currently chatting with 2 providers (Bri and Sasha), both talked about on this lovely forums and I've RTFF regarding both of them, and as I don't have any references they require a screen.

Here's the question / s I'm having, or I guess might have some concerns about. Both require drivers license photo (with sensitive stuff blacked out) & First and Last names, recent photo.

I guess my question is; Is this kind of screening typical? Anyone had bad things come out of this type of screenings? Overall general advice for the newbies. Never had to do screening before so I guess I might just be a bit worried.

Any info would be helpful.

Thanks!

J.

[Freckle Freak]

Thank you to the person that posted this. (Sara or Freckled Freak) this could not have been said any better and I hope that new gentleman (and some old) to the Hobby will read this and follow it. Thank you.

To save space.

[Untchbl]

I am new to the boards, just joined 3 days ago. I would like to thank all of the seniors for being excellent providers of information and advice. I have read the forums as much as possible in 3 days and have learned a wealth of information. I decided to take the plunge and saw a much respected provider talked about on here who made my first experience outside of the AMP and BP areas the greatest thing since sliced bread. I will post a review of her on the forums, but I wanted my first post to be a thanks to you guys and a bit of advice.

Respect.

Respect yourself. Respect the provider. If you can't respect yourself, how can you respect anyone else. If you don't respect her, why should she respect you? Why would you treat a provider any different than your mom / sister / wife / friend? They have traded time or sex for money, food, cars, or even for nothing. You just happen to call it motherhood / family / spousal duty / friendship. Do you call them bad names or treat them differently? You spent time at a job you hate for a few dollars, they spend time at a job they enjoy for good money. Who is smarter and happier?

Again, read the forums. If you think you don't need all that reading, you are more than likely the type of guy that can fall into a wheel barrow full of nipples and come out sucking your thumb. Drop your ego, read up, and respect the people that have gone, and come, before you.

[Freckle Freak]

To save space.

+1.

Respect specifications in ads, I. E. If ad says over 35, Please respect that. Each provider sets her own guidelines according to her comfort level. You may be an extremely mature professional at 27, but she still will consider you at least somewhat disrespectful for asking as it will appear you consider yourself are above her "rules".

Never ever ever send a dick pic. Despite whatever may occur when the two of you shall meet, it comes off presumptuous and puts her in a precarious position. Many providers also consider it rude.

If you want to be sure to make a provider cringe (especially a reputable one) be sure to tell her how you "are married and need to be discreet".

Guys, seriously, providers understand you may feel the need to "handle it yourself" before your appointment to prolong your experience, but please, please wash thoroughly as believe it or not, they can smell / taste it resulting in cringe number two.

[Freckle Freak]

Some of you have really screwed the pooch lately. I know it's difficult to play the game of how to determine if the ad is going to get you what you want when you visit, but really some of the dumb stuff that I have heard lately has already amazed me and blacklisted some of you.

Contacting New Ads: You see a NEW ad for a provider on BP, USA ACA, Er*s, Etc. Not one that has been reviewed, talked about or promoted before, again research is the key. What do you do. Contact them the way they specify in the ad. It's simple. If they want text only, use texts. If they want calls only, then call. If they want e-mails only then e-mail. If they don't specify then it's open season on how you want to contact them. But don't get pissy if you text and never hear back when the ad says Calls Only. You can try anything you want but if you don't follow the ad, you may never hear back.

Contacting Established Ads: The ads can be several places just like new ads and the method of contacting them is similar, just follow the ad's request. The ads for established providers like Heidi, Jordan, Aurora, Mmgeg, Bre Sexi, Leah even Sabrina's are ads for "established" providers. Why are they established, because there are multiple reviews / postings about them, you just have to look. Yes even Sabrina was discussed and pics posted for almost a week before she was available. It was clear that she was safe. I even put up a post in the proper forum, with a link an hour after her first appointment. She is known as a traveling provider and they do frequent the area from time to time so get used to doing the research. If someone like Ilapp is discussing her arrival you can bet that once she arrives she is safe, real and ready for business.

No Verification: Many BP ladies don't require verification. That's why LE has a field day with them. I was once told by a BP lady to bring her a pack of cigarettes because that way she knew I wasn't Uncle. That's how ignorant some of these ladies can be. If they don't ask for verification, then go ahead and set up the appointment, but then it's a somewhat risky TOFTT if there is no info about them from your research. Research is very important here so go to the research section of this blog and read how to do it.

Verification Required Unknown Provider: If the provider is not known then what they ask for and what you give them can be debatable depending on their request and your comfort level of their request. For many of you personal information, real phone numbers, workplace information, e-mail addresses are out of the question, but then you may not see them so don't get pissy. It's your choice. If they ask for provider references then be prepared to give them that info. I personally feel that if a provider asks for personal info and through my extensive research I find little to no info on them, then I will pass because it's either LE or a scam. I just won't waste my time with it.

Verification Required Known Providers: The ones that are known, are safe, have been reviewed or discussed then be prepared to comply with their verification process. It could include many things like a real phone number, workplace info, e-mail address etc. If they don't ask for other provider references then don't give them any because they obviously don't use them. If you don't like their verification process then you have a choice, provide it or don't see them. Don't send endless texts of multiple provider references to someone who really doesn't use them, it pisses them off! Some verified providers prefer to be called to discuss the verification process, some prefer texts, some e-mails. Follow their instructions. They are doing this for their safety as well as yours. What is really stupid is calling them on your real phone number and giving them a made up name. Now you are blocked because they normally know your real name. Again it's all about choices and the reliability and safety of the provider. The Kitty Club has a stringent verification process but it's safe so again it's your choice.

Contact Etiquette Unknown Providers: Ask unknown providers anything you want but just be aware it may cause you to be blocked. Asking if they suck dick and swallow will probably get you blocked and may get you arrested if by chance it was LE on the other end. No incriminating texts or convo's, wait until you are there. A lot of this is explained earlier in this blog so read it. I normally ask if FS is available and then wait until I am there to ask more about the menu so I can get a feel for the provider and situation. You can always walk away.

Contact Etiquette Established Providers: Calling or texting with known, reviewed, discussed and / or established providers requires some common sense. If you don't know what is offered from the research then your research probably sucks! Sabrina was discussed but the full menu was not, however it was made pretty clear that she was FS and most likely GFE. Things like greek and fetishes were not discussed but they are not a real common discussion and normally come out in reports later by those who partake if the provider provides these services. Now here is the issue that occurred recently. Don't text a provider asking about an appointment and then wait hours to return their text. These are not "unknown" BP ladies. They are more professional, so be quick in your responses. We all hate it when our texts go to crickets, well the good providers do also. Be responsive in a timely fashion so the provider doesn't feel like they are getting the run around, which is something we don't like either. The other thing is if you are having an inappropriate dialogue either through texts or a conversation and they ask you to stop, then STOP! Continuing on with this type of dialogue will only get you blacklisted. If you are dumb enough to continue on and they then refuse to see you, and then you tell them it's ok because you just came from watching their porn movie, don't get all pissy because you can no longer, ever and forever, see them because of your stupidity!

They Do Talk to Each Other Last but not least, most established providers communicate with each other. If you want to post about big noses on this board, or how someone must be unsafe because they did a porn movie in the past, or you want to push the personal limits and discretions of a young inexperienced provider by requesting personal pics or videos, then just be prepared for the fallout. Because they talk, because they know each other, your comments about one may BAN you from several. It's not always going to be evident. They may tell you to go away or your texts and calls may just go unanswered. It was your choice to say and do what you want, it's their choice to not see you now or ever again.

Oh by the way if you call a provider and they don't answer then they are either busy, a flake and not answering calls, or you have been blocked. Try calling providers several times, most call you back if they aren't flakes. Don't be a pest and call every 5 minutes but, once an hour and four or five times a day is not inappropriate. Texting a few times a day is also OK. If you never hear back from them after a couple of days of doing this then you are either blocked or they are a fake.

As always respect goes both ways. As a hobbyist if you show your humanity, then the good providers will show you a good time.

[Mwdude]

Hey, I'm still a bit new to this forums, and I've been trying to use search as much as possible (even though going though 60 second wait every time) but I'm just having some shitty time using the search option.

Maybe some more senior experts on the search function can give some help? I use the name provider uses on BP, I use the last 4 of her phone number, nothing. It might be that I'm just searching for stuff that no one has even talked about before, but I'm not sure how likely that is with such an active Indy board.

Maybe there is a nice post someone already wrote up that you can point me towards.

As an example: I'm trying to find something about Khloe (http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem.../khloe/7221265), so I go to backpage review section, I type in Khloe, 0492 hit that search button, nothing comes up. I know not everyone posts a name / last 4 of provided phone, sometimes just the link, maybe that's what I'm hitting.

Any advice would be appreciated.

J.

My advice is stick with the name. You can try the last four of the phone if a name doesn't pop up. And as IG said, it's possible there isn't a review. If Khloe has been reviewed, it's been a while. But I'm pretty sure those pics have been advertising as Khloe for quite a while now, for whatever that is worth.

It is a good thing to point out to mongers to help searches. To include provider names and last four of the phone somewhere in the message. A search function is only as good as the data it is searching.

[Joey1087]

It sounds like you are doing right on the name. Only a select few of the reports have the phone in it. Do you have any more examples of failed searches. The example you gave, I cannot remember ever being reviewed here.

Indy Guy.

I know there were a few, but nothing comes up at the moment, probably because it's 6 am. If I remember or come upon another one, I will comment on this post. But thanks for confirming that at least I'm not a complete idiot.

J.