First Time Posters and Newbies

[Naughty169]

Hi guys,

This is my first post for the very first time to AMP. Don't know a lot of codes. So be patient with me.

Yesterday I went this place in south in the City. I work around there but live in Indy.

Two ladies there one served me. Her name is Sherry. She is in her 40's, face 5, body 7. I told her this is my 1st time. Back massage was good. At least I felt good. While she worked on my downside, she asked if I want extra, I asked how much. She said BJ for $, (WTF, I think she took advantage of me because I know nothing about AMP) HJ for $. 4. I said I only have $. 2. On the flip, she when HJ anyway and finished. On the way out, I gave her $. 2. This is all I got. Total damage $. 4 for hh, tip $. 2.

I will share more toftt. Personally, I don't like the popular spots. So I will hit all the new places, and report it later.

But I have one problem, how do you guys manage to get cash? If you are single, then there is no problem. The rest of you I don't think you just go to an ATM and withdrawal cash. Any good suggestions? Thank you!

I think other menbers have talked about cash and saving up. Some use cash back from cc's or different back account. I just use an ATM. As for talking about $ on here. It looks like you paid 140 for hh and 120 for a HJ. If that is what you really paid then You got ripped off.

Try this.

.2 = 20.

.4 = 40.

$ = 100.

$. 2 = 120.

Looking forward to seeing more reviews from you.

[BigKss]

Hi guys,

This is my first post for the very first time to AMP. Don't know a lot of codes. So be patient with me.

Yesterday I went this place in south in the City. I work around there but live in Indy.

Two ladies there one served me. Her name is Sherry. She is in her 40's, face 5, body 7. I told her this is my 1st time. Back massage was good. At least I felt good. While she worked on my downside, she asked if I want extra, I asked how much. She said BJ for $, (WTF, I think she took advantage of me because I know nothing about AMP) HJ for $. 4. I said I only have $. 2. On the flip, she when HJ anyway and finished. On the way out, I gave her $. 2. This is all I got. Total damage $. 4 for hh, tip $. 2.

I will share more toftt. Personally, I don't like the popular spots. So I will hit all the new places, and report it later.

But I have one problem, how do you guys manage to get cash? If you are single, then there is no problem. The rest of you I don't think you just go to an ATM and withdrawal cash. Any good suggestions? Thank you!

[Burglar]

I should know this by now but. Any help would be appreciated. I'm sure it would benefit quite a few of us, hence my title ref choice.

[Freckle Freak]

Came in took my money and told me to jerk off.

+1 (317) XXX -9449.

http://indianapolis.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/creme-de-la-creme-new-petite-exotic-beauty-ultimate-expierence-awaits-you-new-pics-100-real/21011462

This is an example of what has been said many times. If you are seeing a new provider with no reviews or info it's called a TOFTT. Most of us TOFTT in our mongering experiences. I have said this before as have many others. Walk in with your big head in full gear mode. Sit down. Get her comfortable as well as yourself. Discuss the menu options. DO NOT give her the money upfront. You can show her the money, discuss the money based on services to be provided. If she demands the money upfront then simply say thank you for your time but I have changed my mind. If you want to be fair then give her a Jackson for her time and leave. The key point here is to lead with the big head and good decisions that will enable your small head to get what it wants.

The above post is not an example of a ripoff. She stayed with him while he jerked off. If she had taken the money and run, called in big brother / SO / BF to make you leave then that is a ripoff. Just because someone didn't get what they wanted doesn't mean it's a ripoff. It was poor decision making, poor communication and a choice to pay upfront. Not getting what you want can also be a YMMV situation. If she says GFE with DFK on the menu and you go in for the kiss and she backs away it could be she detected some foul breath that changed her mind. That is YMMV and contribution should be made even though you may not have liked the service. Don't forget to provide an accurate review on the service provided.

So no money upfront, discuss menu, walk if needed, review the service provided and move on to greener pastures if you had a poor experience.

[Jjbee62]

Jjbee has words of wisdom for this blog. Sorry my heart sometimes leads instead of my Big or Little head.

We all have those moments. The way I look at it now, when someone asks for something, it's a gift. Not a loan, not a prepayment, but an outright gift with nothing owed or expected in return. That makes it clearer. There's no thought that she will be grateful and you'll get something extra special in return. There's no worry about when you will be repaid. No patting your own back for helping someone in their time of need.

Once you accept you are giving a gift, it's a simple question of whether or not you want to give that person an expensive gift. It puts the decision process back in the big head.

[Freckle Freak]

Jjbee has words of wisdom for this blog. Sorry my heart sometimes leads instead of my Big or Little head.

Several places on the forum is some really good advice: Never prepay for a future session.

Another bit of advice: If at your initial meeting, the provider unloads all of her problems on you, walk away. Don't stop, don't look back, just keep walking.

We see providers for one thing; pleasure. Unless you get pleasure from listening to someone constantly complain that the entire world is conspiring against her, you're in the wrong place.

If you went to a restaurant for a steak dinner and the waiter starts telling you about all their vegan dishes, complains about anyone who eats meat and tells you they won't have any steak until sometime, maybe next week, would you pay for that someday steak dinner in advance?

If you just can't resist shelling out cash for every sob story, start a charity. At least then you can deduct your losses.

Eyes wide open time. If she's complaining about all those problems, she is an addict. All of her problems are caused by her addiction. Any money you give to her, whether you get service or not, is going to feed her addiction, which will cause more problems for her to complain about.

You can't help an addict. Let me repeat that: You can't help an addict.

Only the addict can help themselves. It's a choice few make until it becomes a life or death choice. All the help you try to give just keeps them from having to make that choice.

You don't have to be heartless, but put your money where it will do some good. There are many great providers who have their own problems, health issues, education expenses, or just trying to get ahead in life. Their time costs more, but it's worth it. Instead of complaints, you get smiles. Instead of excuses you get caresses. Instead of leaving wondering when you'll get what you just paid for, you'll leave wondering when your toes will uncurl.

Not directed at you, FF. Just general advice for the previous poster and everyone else who thinks they will be the one to save the damsel in distress.

[Freckle Freak]

There are two things that folks could do that would provide almost (almost) foolproof references for years to come, as opposed to something that conceivably is irelevant the next day. Requests for info should include these two items as well.

1. In addition to providing a link, which will inariably be gone a day, a week, a month later, provide a picture. Screenshots are easy. Downloads of pics are easy. Uploading pics to your review is easy. (Freckle freak too is easy, but I digress.) Never again will any of us have to wonder if we are talking about the same person. Also, never again can someone change their name and number and assume anonymity over and over again.

2. Provide the last four digits of the phone number. This can change of course, but it's a searchable term. If she's decent, she will probably keep the same phone number for a while. 3 character terms are not searchable on this site. "Kat", "kim", etc won't come up. A 4 digit phone number will. This will also help when "chelsea" or something like it has approximately 75 different spellings. (BTW, I didn't realize it was possible for so many BP advertisers to spell "brunette" incorrectly until recently.).

I dream big, sometimes too big. However, I have a dream that people will post partial phone numbers and pics of whom they are reviewing. In doing so, 80 percent of all reviews will be relevant for months or years to come. Currently, the reverse of that is true. Maybe there could even be a thread or topic in which pics would necessarily a part of the review. Again, I dream too big sometimes.


"Let's make reviewing great again."
When it comes to reviews, "you're going to get so tired of winning."
Doing this will "drain the swamp".

So I moved it here. Thanks EC for your 2 cents. It's appreciated.

[BiteOfTheApple]

So this will be my 2nd post. I am still new to the hobby but I sure am enjoying the hell out of it.

Anyways, on my bucket list is to find some chocolate. I have never had any and would sure like to sample something decent.

By chance would anybody have a suggestion? PM me with a good brand of east chocolate please.

Try this young lady. http://usaadultclassifieds.info/clas...Chocolate.html.

[MassGuy1]

So this will be my 2nd post. I am still new to the hobby but I sure am enjoying the hell out of it.

Anyways, on my bucket list is to find some chocolate. I have never had any and would sure like to sample something decent.

By chance would anybody have a suggestion? PM me with a good brand of east chocolate please.

[NewNindy]

I also agree. Met my first provider several weeks ago and had a good time based on TER review, then found out about this board. This board is better than TER!

I too recently met with my first provider and I selected her based on reviews from this board. I am working on scheduling another meeting and I will only be using the USA classifieds section and reviews from this board in choosing providers. I am also more inclined to schedule with 2-3 providers rather than playing the field.

[JustZDragon]

I also agree. Met my first provider several weeks ago and had a good time based on TER review, then found out about this board. This board is better than TER!

I agree 10000%.

[Pivot2012]

I agree 10000%.

I never mess with the Backpage girls unless they have good reviews on TER from handles I recognize. It is just not a risk worth taking. If they are cheaper than the market, most of the time that indicates a pimp or a serious drug addiction. Guys that play on backpage without discipline get burned alot.

[Bob0324]

I never mess with the Backpage girls unless they have good reviews on TER from handles I recognize. It is just not a risk worth taking. If they are cheaper than the market, most of the time that indicates a pimp or a serious drug addiction. Guys that play on backpage without discipline get burned alot.

It's a roll of the dice with unknown BP girls, I'm about 80% to the good on them, 2 of my current favorites posted on BP just one time, their both diamonds in the rough, and they both currently don't advertise at all, they are getting enough attention just by word of mouth.

[LuvtheLife]

I never mess with the Backpage girls unless they have good reviews on TER from handles I recognize. It is just not a risk worth taking. If they are cheaper than the market, most of the time that indicates a pimp or a serious drug addiction. Guys that play on backpage without discipline get burned alot.

[Freckle Freak]

Get all the details done and she is 30 minutes late. Come in and not the girl in the pic but all by back up plans have fallen through. She get partially undressed after taking donation and states that she doesn't do anything but dance over me so I can release myself. I say that's not what I signed up for. She told me take it or leave it. I left it and told her to leave. WTF? This is just horrible as most girls aren't like this but it makes me Leary! She said once o did it myself she would do it next time. Such a scam.

http://independent.com.indianapolis....252/hoxnif.com

http://indiana.backpage.com/FemaleEs...etter/10919701

I brought this over from the Backpage Advertisers reviews board as an example of scams. Below is the important info.

That is why when you TOFTT with unknown BP providers that have zero reviews you NEVER give them the money upfront until the following has happened.

1. Discuss the menu.

2. They have disrobed.

3. Service has started.

4. Service has finished.

Walk in and show them the money. Leave it out in the open. If they reach for it then take it and explain it stays there until after the service is completed. If they say NO then leave with the money and if you want give them $20 for their time then that's up to you. I have walked out many times because the menu wasn't to my liking or they demanded the money upfront. I don't pay for a meal at a restaurant until I have ordered from the menu, been served my menu choice and partaken in the culinary experience. If your little head takes over and you get scammed then that's like eating out of the trash cans behind the fine dining establishments and paying full price for the meal!

Last but not least do your RESEARCH and read the Ripoff section and look for reviews.