First Time Posters and Newbies

[NaptownNights]

New to the hobby and this board. Getting my feet wet in the past couple weeks. Just had a first experience with a sweet girl who's been well-reviewed for 2020. I really appreciate the forum posts and how everybody works as a team to share information and have fun safely. They pushed me over the edge as far as dipping my toe in the water with said girl.

I'm not trying to lose what I have in my life, but I need some fun and excitement again. To feel like I'm in my early 20's again. And this is working, so far it's been exhilarating.

Don't have any friends or co-workers that have any experience in this world so it's been me, myself, and I internet-searching, lurking, scrolling ads, etc. Trying to red-pill myself on how to operate successfully while avoiding scams and the law. I'm overly cautious at this point because I'm a noob and one mistake can be catastrophic.

I successfully avoided a couple scams and developed an eye for red-flags. LOL there was an EB ad on the late night recently for the worst part of Indy incall, no verified reviews, and wanted a deposit. I said No, homie, I don't play that game and I sure as hell don't hit that street after dark without a US Military escort. I hardly doubt a classy-looking Caucasian girl is holed up on the worst street in Indy.

You got to be a smart fish and take the bait off the lure without getting hooked, I've noticed. Nothing new for me.

I don't think this other one is a scam, but this verified Eros girl wanted some pretty heavy personal details. Social media, linkedin page, employer details, full name. I've seen my fair share of mobster movies and know a bit about organized crime. The blackmail potential set off alarm bells in my head and chose to stay disciplined and not pursue. Pricey too, but quality ain't cheap, and I'm not here to rummage through the garbage bin either.

I understand that legit girls need probably even more self-protection measures than Johns, but all that on top of refusing to send me a verification selfie to prove she was real and not someone cat-fishing (or worse) made me lose interest.

I look forward to learning more and hope you guys can help me out. Please point to any great reading material you think would help.

Thanks,

NN.

[TigerKing]

Hey guys,

I'm new to the forum but not to the hobby. I've been in the hobby for 5-6 years. I finally decided to signup feeling I'm missing out on some stuff. I've seen some really good providers and some so so ones. I've been to AMPs as well but not my first preference. I've made most of my decisions on who to see from what I've read from you guys on here and I thank you for that. Some really good info. I hope I can bring something to the forum to contribute now since I've joined.

[SeekingDan]

Relatively new to the hobby. What can be expected when ads say car play? Is it always just a BJ? Does she ever undress to any extent? Is it possible to do more and if so, how safe can it be? To literally possibly be caught with pants down. When picking up SWs, can it be expected to be more that car play? Like ever going back to a place that she knows? Seems risky.

I have been messaging with a couple of girls on Listcrawler and before committing to car play I would like to know what my expectations can be.

FYI. I have a 2 door sports car, not some big ass SUV.

In my experience it varies girl to girl. I've had one get down in the back, but mostly I just liked getting head. Some will undress some some won't, most all I've seen have let my hands roam though. I personally like to drive and find a safe spot nearby before I pick her up. If she insists on a spot I apologize and say I don't feel comfortable and we go out separate ways.

I know nothing about SW's personally. Be safe.

[Indyguy1234]

Relatively new to the hobby. What can be expected when ads say car play? Is it always just a BJ? Does she ever undress to any extent? Is it possible to do more and if so, how safe can it be? To literally possibly be caught with pants down. When picking up SWs, can it be expected to be more that car play? Like ever going back to a place that she knows? Seems risky.

I have been messaging with a couple of girls on Listcrawler and before committing to car play I would like to know what my expectations can be.

FYI. I have a 2 door sports car, not some big ass SUV.

[Power Tool]

Good Info.

No software needed just Google and sites like this.

- Search the PH number including in FB you would be surprised how many use the same number that is in thier personal FB account. I use Google image search some prefer Tineye. GIS is built into Chrome and is an adon for other browsers like Firefox (I prefer Firefox). Just right click and select search with Google and you can see if the images are being used elsewhere.

- Search on here and other sites that offer information exchange. I find USASG to be the most informative in the Indy area.

- If they ever want to verify via video chat or some other pay service its a scam. If the post lists every known CC for payments it is most likely a scam. On sites like STG just look at the location listed is it says "Downtown" or "Your place" These are usually mass ads appearing in every city in the country and that's right a scam.

- A free site I have found useful is Escort Index It does an image search and gives you other numbers that have the same pics, This allows you to create a link both good and bad with other providers.

- Pay attention to the images especially the mirrors they always forget to crop out the background. You will see everything from the "manager" taking the picture, A needle on the sink I even saw one with a guy holding his gun in the corner of the room.

-Actually read the ad. You can tell from the content if it was written by the provider or someone else. It can also tell you a lot about the person by what words they use and how they refer to things. They can tend to forget the little things like using the word "She" would tell me someone else (possible pimp) wrote the ad.

- Think with the big head! Your research should always start with your own common seance and then search on here or similar trusted sites.

[Thought]

Is free and you can use the browser on your smartphone in private mode to login.

Yes agreed, but some providers will not communicate with Google Voice numbers. Just something to think about.

[Zakk Wylde]

I got a Tracphone from meijer. $30 iphone that's made by samsung. Not that to dissimilar from an i7 platform, but still a cheaper cousin. I just had to reload it; which requires going online to enter the code from the card you purchase at the store with cash. You can purchase online if you want to use a cc.

Is free and you can use the browser on your smartphone in private mode to login.

[GrayRenard2]

I've been around a while but haven't had much experience. My only experiences have been at AMPs. Never ventured outside of that partially due to no hobby phone and a limited budget. Have only had a few let downs. I would like to branch out occasionally but don't know how to go about getting a hobby phone. Can anyone offer any tips or advice on this? Feel free to pm.

I got a Tracphone from meijer. $30 iphone that's made by samsung. Not that to dissimilar from an i7 platform, but still a cheaper cousin. I just had to reload it; which requires going online to enter the code from the card you purchase at the store with cash. You can purchase online if you want to use a cc.

[IndyGolfer60]

I've been around a while but haven't had much experience. My only experiences have been at AMPs. Never ventured outside of that partially due to no hobby phone and a limited budget. Have only had a few let downs. I would like to branch out occasionally but don't know how to go about getting a hobby phone. Can anyone offer any tips or advice on this? Feel free to pm.

Go to Walmart and buy a prepaid phone and pay cash and buy the reload card monthly, I let mine expire about a year ago and have only been doing AMP's as well but might be ready to venture back out as well.

[Ousidetheloop]

I've been around a while but haven't had much experience. My only experiences have been at AMPs. Never ventured outside of that partially due to no hobby phone and a limited budget. Have only had a few let downs. I would like to branch out occasionally but don't know how to go about getting a hobby phone. Can anyone offer any tips or advice on this? Feel free to pm.

[McjIndy2017]

Been lurking for a bit and decided to take the plunge and actually sign up. Noticed that a few old timers had the same experiences back in the day with Tiffany, Miss Tracy, etc.

Looking for new opportunities in the downtown Indy area.

Cheers.

[GrayRenard2]

So I've been causally reading about this hobby for the last few years and finally comfortable enough with the idea to try it out. I've already determined that one of the DL. Com woman will hopefully be one of my first. This site has been a wealth of information and found many questions answered but not all. I'm wondering about is screening; I have no prior references which only leaves my real name as collateral I guess. ?? I've read that this screening makes it safer for both, but this seems almost as bad as having them come to my house?! I might as well just introduce them to the family before. LOL.

So how are they screening exactly and what do they do with this personal info?

I greatly appreciate any insight you kind gentlemen mind have to offer. .

P.S. Hopefully I didn't ask too many questions on my first post. I'll be one that shares in the near future. .

[Mmgeg1]

Hey A2, who does a guy have to blow around here to get an upgrade? RBI.

Nobody, you just have to not piss me off until March 18th

FYI, offering to blow me again might do that, you might want to say

"Hey A2 who do I have to send MMGeG to give a blowjob to for an upgrade?

Just saying

A2

Just send me a name and an airplane ticket I'm down LOL.

[RonBurgIndy]

I've been meaning to see her again myself. I'll ask for a gift card for A2!

Hey A2, who does a guy have to blow around here to get an upgrade? RBI.

Nobody, you just have to not piss me off until March 18th

FYI, offering to blow me again might do that, you might want to say

"Hey A2 who do I have to send MMGeG to give a blowjob to for an upgrade?

Just saying

A2

[RonBurgIndy]

Hey A2, who does a guy have to blow around here to get an upgrade? RBI.

Nobody, you just have to not piss me off until March 18th

FYI, offering to blow me again might do that, you might want to say

"Hey A2 who do I have to send MMGeG to give a blowjob to for an upgrade?

Just saying

A2

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A2