SugarBabys

**JunkSecond** · 10-19-23 08:54

Originally Posted by BawdyBeau [View Original Post]

I have been thinking about checking Fetlife. What's it like?

The only reason I use seeking is because of my need for discretion. Without going into to much detail, my wife realized she's asexual and doesn't want me to be unhappy, so she's fine with me having a "special friend. " She just wants me to be selective about it and nobody find out so she doesn't have to answer questions.

Tons of women flirt with me shamelessly in RL but because I am married I never want to make a move. But on seeking most of the women there have already opted-in to being ok with being the 'other woman. '.

I've been able to secure a number of great FWB situatiosn from SA (where no money was involved), but it seems lately the GPS is escalating on Seeking.

What's it like on fetlife?

Operating as a "single male" (wife is seemingly asexual but in denial and wants me to be miserable) Fet is not good. My limited success there has been pure luck of sending a message to a lady that happens to be checking messages at the same time. "Single females" and "M-F couples" looking for another male for cuckold or M-F-M activities receive hundreds of messages from "single males. ".

In your situation if you and your wife would create a joint account as a "M-F couple" looking to switch or a "single female" you would have much better success. Just make sure to put "NO SINGLE MALES" in your bio and even that won't stop the onslaught of messages. Fet also will not let you search or filter. You must manually look through hundreds of profiles of men, women, old, fat, ugly before finding a doable hotty. Then the expectation is you read their bio and pull out your pronoun decoder ring to try to figure out if they like dick. I don't like guessing so unless they obviously state they don't like dick, I send a message and have "offended" many in the process. Good luck!

**WarlockKy** · 10-16-23 20:23

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

WARLOCK. Clear your in box.

Done try again.

**Tribeca67** · 10-16-23 18:26

Any info on this one?

**BamBam** · 10-15-23 15:28

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

WARLOCK. Clear your in box.

I also wanted to share some data but your inbox is full.

BAM.

**BawdyBeau** · 10-14-23 23:41

Originally Posted by Faqaso [View Original Post]

Fetlife website.

I have been thinking about checking Fetlife. What's it like?

The only reason I use seeking is because of my need for discretion. Without going into to much detail, my wife realized she's asexual and doesn't want me to be unhappy, so she's fine with me having a "special friend. " She just wants me to be selective about it and nobody find out so she doesn't have to answer questions.

Tons of women flirt with me shamelessly in RL but because I am married I never want to make a move. But on seeking most of the women there have already opted-in to being ok with being the 'other woman. '.

I've been able to secure a number of great FWB situatiosn from SA (where no money was involved), but it seems lately the GPS is escalating on Seeking.

What's it like on fetlife?

**LikeMike1963** · 10-14-23 05:37

WARLOCK. Clear your in box.

**Faqaso** · 10-13-23 10:44

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...c-6cc7fc848196

She's real, but is married and has a limited window of time she is allowed out and about. Wants $700.

**LaneSplitter** · 10-12-23 22:14

I've not found a single legit woman on Adult Friend Finder. Burned up a $25 Starbucks Card fo 19 days of access to their bullshit.

Originally Posted by MiscWrite [View Original Post]

Good question. What sites are you finding the best results lately beyond Seeking?

**CodeNameJeff** · 10-12-23 19:04

Selling content or forming a relationship online.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-74de85d68393

**MiscWrite** · 10-12-23 07:18

Originally Posted by LaneSplitter [View Original Post]

I appreciate your posting this. I was thinking about reupping on SA despite previous bad experiences and suspected robot girls and scammers.

How about Adult Friend Finder. Anyone have luck there. I'm seeing that you can get credit using gift cards. Home Depot, Starbucks etc.

Good question. What sites are you finding the best results lately beyond Seeking?

**LaneSplitter** · 10-09-23 22:09

I appreciate your posting this. I was thinking about reupping on SA despite previous bad experiences and suspected robot girls and scammers.

How about Adult Friend Finder. Anyone have luck there. I'm seeing that you can get credit using gift cards. Home Depot, Starbucks etc.

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Some stats for anyone that is interested.

I fully deleted my old account and then set up a new account with the same email in 3 days I have been favorited by 83 "ladies" NONE of which I reached out too. - as of this time I have-not made this a paying account. Only 3 of the 83 are within 100 miles of my area. Many overseas. A few I suspect are real bt they are 40+ . I can't say I go there. I have received 11 messages. Unread as of now since I do not have a paid account. 2 are within 100 miles and 1 is from my city. I am a picky bastard so actually of of the 83 contacts there really are not any I have an interest in anyway Just sharing if of interest to anyone showing how much I suspect there are spammers and there.

**BoredinIN** · 10-09-23 21:34

Originally Posted by MiscWrite [View Original Post]

I've seen this girl's profile around a few places with different names. I've chatted with her, then moved off site to chat pretty quick. She is constantly asking for money and is always busy, doesn't seem to have time to meet up. Is she just a pic / vid seller or have any of you gotten anywhere with her? If so, damage? Thanks all!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-62e48861d6c8

I had the same experience with her. I thought she she was real but like you said, always needs money but too busy to meet. Sorry, I don't send money before meeting in person.

**Jimtheponyman** · 10-09-23 16:26

Same here, she is not even very good at scamming, she should take lessons from some of the others! LOL.

**MiscWrite** · 10-09-23 11:55

I've seen this girl's profile around a few places with different names. I've chatted with her, then moved off site to chat pretty quick. She is constantly asking for money and is always busy, doesn't seem to have time to meet up. Is she just a pic / vid seller or have any of you gotten anywhere with her? If so, damage? Thanks all!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-62e48861d6c8

**LikeMike1963** · 10-04-23 01:58

Some stats for anyone that is interested.

I fully deleted my old account and then set up a new account with the same email in 3 days I have been favorited by 83 "ladies" NONE of which I reached out too. - as of this time I have-not made this a paying account. Only 3 of the 83 are within 100 miles of my area. Many overseas. A few I suspect are real bt they are 40+ . I can't say I go there. I have received 11 messages. Unread as of now since I do not have a paid account. 2 are within 100 miles and 1 is from my city. I am a picky bastard so actually of of the 83 contacts there really are not any I have an interest in anyway Just sharing if of interest to anyone showing how much I suspect there are spammers and there.