Sugarbabies and Arrangements

**TheEndlessEdge** · 03-05-24 12:44

Originally Posted by Pinkumia [View Original Post]

Any one used the video chat feature on seeking for verification and meet greet purpose? So much fatfishing and catfishing going on now. I feel like this could help.

Very rarely. The SBs don't use it often either. Usually things just move to text or an app like Snapchat.

**Pinkumia** · 03-05-24 12:41

Any one used the video chat feature on seeking for verification and meet greet purpose? So much fatfishing and catfishing going on now. I feel like this could help.

**Farand** · 02-27-24 17:17

Originally Posted by BDingas [View Original Post]

I think I finally ran into the age gap and not understanding or caring what they are talking about. 24 yr old SB that has been mentioned here a few times. I have no interest in seeing again or really trying to connect or understand what she was talking about. I think it might be time to give some of the older ladies some sugar. Next up is a 34 yr old.

You know, I have dated some really great early 20's women that I just met at a grocery store or work. Half my age or so. But some of them will skip rent for a tattoo, value their online life more than real life, and their music is terrible. Many are very lazy and entitled. I am a little frightened nobody will be holding down an actual real job in 25 years. There was a one or two that there really wasn't a noticeable difference in values or opinions. And some girls my age I dated were just walking disasters. It's just how they were brought up and what is inside.

**TheEndlessEdge** · 02-27-24 10:23

Originally Posted by PainWint [View Original Post]

My personal taste runs towards the younger ones with some emotional maturity and sense for adventure and a desire to learn from the experience. I will dabble in the older but find more often than not life has beaten and left them behind and they find their way to seeking desperate and looking for a bailout. Desperate and Angry.

The desireable young ones I describe used to be in reasonable abundance on the site. Unfortunately now a unicorn, displaced by self entitled, self proclaimed influencers and scammers who have no interests beyond what they can get for nothing.

You really have to vet some of the younger ones nowadays since with the era of OF and people sending them something for pics, they really tend to overinflate their value. There are some good young ones, but it's a lot more work I find. The older ones tend to be a little more reasonable (although I've found some that also overinflate their value heavily).

**PainWint** · 02-27-24 00:23

Originally Posted by SR7D1 [View Original Post]

Did you fell like sharing a name or your actual bad experience? I find the age is not as much a factor for me, the maturity can be just as childish at 45 as 25.

I am seeing someone in their 20's that is more together than a woman I dated in her late 40's. Everyone is different my friend. Don't give up on an age group in search of maturity.

My personal taste runs towards the younger ones with some emotional maturity and sense for adventure and a desire to learn from the experience. I will dabble in the older but find more often than not life has beaten and left them behind and they find their way to seeking desperate and looking for a bailout. Desperate and Angry.

The desireable young ones I describe used to be in reasonable abundance on the site. Unfortunately now a unicorn, displaced by self entitled, self proclaimed influencers and scammers who have no interests beyond what they can get for nothing.

**AsianBlowjob** · 02-26-24 21:53

Originally Posted by SR7D1 [View Original Post]

Because I feel like going to a job interview when seeking a fun, easy going companion.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-1a3a60f70ca9

LOL.

That girl is real, I messaged one of her old accounts, but the girl in those pics is real.

It was terrible. Pics are filtered, her skin is not that nice, and a little thicker than those pics.

The bad part was she would stop everything, ANY time I said anything. Everything was a negotiation.

Want her on top, negotiation time.

Want her to suck your balls, negotiation time.

Want to bang her from behind, negotiation time.

If you want a lazy 30 second BJ and her not wanting to climb on and ride, for $$ while annoyed the entire time, she could be your gal.

**SR7D1** · 02-26-24 19:27

Because I feel like going to a job interview when seeking a fun, easy going companion.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-1a3a60f70ca9

LOL.

**SR7D1** · 02-26-24 19:26

Originally Posted by BDingas [View Original Post]

I think I finally ran into the age gap and not understanding or caring what they are talking about. 24 yr old SB that has been mentioned here a few times. I have no interest in seeing again or really trying to connect or understand what she was talking about. I think it might be time to give some of the older ladies some sugar. Next up is a 34 yr old.

Did you fell like sharing a name or your actual bad experience? I find the age is not as much a factor for me, the maturity can be just as childish at 45 as 25.

I am seeing someone in their 20's that is more together than a woman I dated in her late 40's. Everyone is different my friend. Don't give up on an age group in search of maturity.

**BDingas** · 02-26-24 18:58

I think I finally ran into the age gap and not understanding or caring what they are talking about. 24 yr old SB that has been mentioned here a few times. I have no interest in seeing again or really trying to connect or understand what she was talking about. I think it might be time to give some of the older ladies some sugar. Next up is a 34 yr old.

**LittleSinned** · 02-26-24 10:23

Originally Posted by Jds36 [View Original Post]

Curious if anyone has seen. Searched name and couldn't find but know they change at times.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-b2a038c7d7ec

I would like her contact info as well, PM please and thank you.

**PainWint** · 02-26-24 08:47

Originally Posted by JoyBoyJ [View Original Post]

Not even close, my friend! Liz was much smaller and not as pretty.

And Asian.

**AsianBlowjob** · 02-25-24 20:30

Originally Posted by Clion [View Original Post]

What's the reason of using prepaid cards?

It's only a matter of time until seeking gets hacked. Just like Ashley Madison.

Then the hackers will drop all the names and addresses put in with credit cards of all the people who have ever bought a subscription.

If you don't care, then you should be fine. If you don't ever want your name popping up as a dude who was a member of seeking, you might not want to use a credit card with your name and address attached to it.

Supposedly the issue with prepaid cards being spent overseas is money laundering. I used "Vanilla" cards in the past and they seemed to work. Then they didn't. I called Vanilla and they said they don't allow transactions overseas because of money laundering. No idea if that is true, but they were not willing to let me pay with their card.

Seeking also seems to have an issue if you pay with a card, and then months later, when you want to re-up and use a different card for the same account, they have had an issue. Then that card is ruined for seeking, create a new account, but use that same card will just get you blocked.

Seeking is a tricking b I t c h when it comes to paying her. It can be very finicky. I have not found a way that works, and continues to work, it seems you always have to start fresh, and have everything new every time.