Long chat and began GPS but came down. She is on the other side of town but I was in the mood then found she would come to me- red flag as never intended to leave. Offered a meet and provide a token gift which she agreed to and began making reservation. Then got the I've been scammed with guys not meeting so I need 1/2 upfront. Declined her cashapp for cash in person and got the Ok just send it in gift cards! Needless to say she blasted me after this.
Exotic_baby- another one who is dtf but won't schedule. Horrible communication and she won't move off site to text and won't share a pic so feels fake. Will see if we end up meeting.
Dirtybaddiebaby- was all hot & sexy and DTF but then all the venom came out about guy's and a huge list of "No's". She wondered why I stopped responding.
At first, I thought it was a woman. Looking a second time, it may be a man.
They added the line "WE DO NOT DO HOOKUPS" after their original posting. Pass for me.
I think it's 2 girls because I had one of them on Snap last night. She did finally say they would meet and hang out but not hook up. It ended there obviously. Their kink is findom.
They must have added no hook ups after I had sent a msg.
So I know that most people in the US, especially women, have a lot of excess calories, but that doesn't change the definitions of what body types are.
The rule of thumb for good average female weight is 100 lbs at 5 foot, and add 5 pounds per inch. So a woman (especially young woman) who is 5'5" would weigh 125 lbs if she were "average". Something like 115 if she were "slim" (probably 5% of the pop currently could claim "slim" these days). If she were 5'5" and was 140 but appeared slim and cut, then she's "athletic". 140 not appearing to work out but proportioned well is "curvy" and more than that is fat.
I'm just tired of girls that are 24 years old claiming to be "curvy" or "athletic" when they have at least 50 pounds to lose and have the appearance of a middle aged Amish cow..
I am going to need to see proof of advertised BMI before going to texting.
So I know that most people in the US, especially women, have a lot of excess calories, but that doesn't change the definitions of what body types are.
The rule of thumb for good average female weight is 100 lbs at 5 foot, and add 5 pounds per inch. So a woman (especially young woman) who is 5'5" would weigh 125 lbs if she were "average". Something like 115 if she were "slim" (probably 5% of the pop currently could claim "slim" these days). If she were 5'5" and was 140 but appeared slim and cut, then she's "athletic". 140 not appearing to work out but proportioned well is "curvy" and more than that is fat.
I'm just tired of girls that are 24 years old claiming to be "curvy" or "athletic" when they have at least 50 pounds to lose and have the appearance of a middle aged Amish cow.
Ok, well I guess that answers my question. Two girls with one that really looks like Bruno Mars. Is have done thruples before so I'm not unfamiliar with entertaining 2 ladies, but man. LOL.
3-HotItGirl, https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-3d54b88c33ae Probably the first girl I saw from here, and the reason I now know curvy means fat AF. Not mobile, uses outdated pictures. I followed through due to being really horned up at the time and figured something was better than nothing. Dmg was 200 and she was down for anything. Would never see again though.
4-Redmano2, https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-cf8595c07faf One of the first I talked to. Flaked on me three times after agreeing to meet and price. Told her that I was no longer interested after the third flake and she blocked me.
5-Lilbecs009, https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-f8e0cec3aba8 Met up, hella cool chick and stupid hot but doesn't want to do anything. Wants high amount and to not do anything for it, at least with me anyways for sure. Ended up spending like 4 hours together. Ended up with BBBJCIM for 200. Reached out again, told me she was over this and shutting down her account but just blocked me as I can still see her active on my burner.
That's it for now, I'll post any updates as they occur and I'll have another report like this with 10 more probably by tomorrow at some point.
Just a bit to add:
Kittykat- lot's of chat with her as well and seems real but flaked, not super interested in scheduling and think she threw out a large $ that I was not down for but never moved the needle.
Redmono2- I had a meet with her for lunch and since we were seated it was hard to see how big her ass was but as several here mentioned she is bigger so I declined moving forward but seems she is dtf.
Lilbecs009- chatted several times and seems new and unsure of all this. She threw out confusing amounts for dates but stuck on wanting 200 for a platonic meet and much more if went further so I left her for you all.
3-HotItGirl, https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-3d54b88c33ae Probably the first girl I saw from here, and the reason I now know curvy means fat AF. Not mobile, uses outdated pictures. I followed through due to being really horned up at the time and figured something was better than nothing. Dmg was 200 and she was down for anything. Would never see again though.
4-Redmano2, https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-cf8595c07faf One of the first I talked to. Flaked on me three times after agreeing to meet and price. Told her that I was no longer interested after the third flake and she blocked me.
5-Lilbecs009, https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-f8e0cec3aba8 Met up, hella cool chick and stupid hot but doesn't want to do anything. Wants high amount and to not do anything for it, at least with me anyways for sure. Ended up spending like 4 hours together. Ended up with BBBJCIM for 200. Reached out again, told me she was over this and shutting down her account but just blocked me as I can still see her active on my burner.
That's it for now, I'll post any updates as they occur and I'll have another report like this with 10 more probably by tomorrow at some point.
Saw Redmano a few times in early 2022, she was flaky but after the first meet she got on my nerves with requests to meet. She's a pretty girl nice boobs, great skin and has one of the prettiest kitties I've ever seen but she's definitely bigger in person, like 5'5" 180 maybe? If she lost 25 lbs she'd be a stunner. While she was open to whatever I wanted to do in the bedroom she was a dead fish and seemed completely uninterested and annoyed. Look, I understand what we are doing are but least give some sort of effort. It was so bad that her lack of enthusiasm what was ultimately made me stop seeing her. For the record, I'm under 50, very fit, still have my hair, decent looking and most importantly well groomed / clean so it's not like I'm some bridge troll LOL. 200 donation DATY / BBFS / BBBJCIM and she was open to a second go round if I was up for it.
Ruby I sent a msg too the other day. Will let you know if she responds. KittyKat I tried as well, no response. Can't tell if she's real or not.
Amethyst has been reported here, stupid expensive and far from CLE. Like 2 hrs.
Mystical puts no meet ups in her profile: I am not currently available to meet new people, as I'm dealing with some health issues at the moment. I will respond to messages again once I'm feeling better!
xxarixsynxx also says the same: Not looking for physical hook ups. Strictly conversation and financial sponsership (SP)
So when they say that, I always pass hard. OFC, YMMV, but I don't waste my time.
I just double checked, at the time I was messaging Mystical that was not in her profile. Thanks for pointing that out, kinda makes sense now.
Xxarixsynxx's said that but I had been trying my best to get her to change her mind. Kudo's to her though for sticking to her guns and not doing anything she's not comfortable with.