Sugarbabies and Arrangements

**PainWint** · 02-04-24 21:18

Originally Posted by Rafter17 [View Original Post]

I agree with you on the getting one message and than crickets after that on SB. It sure seems like they get something for sending a message, especially when you get messages from girls that are not even close in distance. I'm not buying anymore credits from them, since the site seems to be mostly a waste of money for me.

Good news is the girls that don't respond on Seeking will send you messages on SB. Bad news is they still don't reply after you spend tokens to reply to their message. It's a great model to waste your money. They either get something or the site fakes messages. As bad as it is. Seeking remains the most productive for me.

**Rafter17** · 02-04-24 17:17

Originally Posted by Cleguy48 [View Original Post]

You can burn through credits quickly if you are not very selective. I've had more luck with Seeking. A lot of messages on SB turn out to be one and done. I thought for awhile that the girls were getting some sort of credit for getting guys to spend tokens. I asked that at a meet and greet once and was told no. But can you believe them. Anything less than 1000 tokens goes pretty fast. Like anything else YMMV. I'm probably not much help, but give it a try.

Gary.

I agree with you on the getting one message and than crickets after that on SB. It sure seems like they get something for sending a message, especially when you get messages from girls that are not even close in distance. I'm not buying anymore credits from them, since the site seems to be mostly a waste of money for me.

**Cleguy48** · 02-04-24 15:34

Originally Posted by SR7D1 [View Original Post]

Trying something new.

I am exploring platforms other than Seeking and would like some advice as to how to be successful on either of the sites I mention. I do realize the "credits" model is worse than SA, but SA seems to have the same stale talent. PM is fine as well. TIA.

You can burn through credits quickly if you are not very selective. I've had more luck with Seeking. A lot of messages on SB turn out to be one and done. I thought for awhile that the girls were getting some sort of credit for getting guys to spend tokens. I asked that at a meet and greet once and was told no. But can you believe them. Anything less than 1000 tokens goes pretty fast. Like anything else YMMV. I'm probably not much help, but give it a try.

Gary.

**Ivellios01** · 02-04-24 10:34

Originally Posted by SR7D1 [View Original Post]

Trying something new.

I am exploring platforms other than Seeking and would like some advice as to how to be successful on either of the sites I mention. I do realize the "credits" model is worse than SA, but SA seems to have the same stale talent. PM is fine as well. TIA.

So I tried secret benefits as well after my first month on seeking and this is what I learned. There's a handful of women who are on both sites. SB does have a lot of other profiles but nothing really amazing. Their pricing sucks in my opinion. For me I had zero success on SB and I kept my profile and strategy the same as it's been on seeking where I feel it's been doing fairly well. After not getting anywhere on SB, I did a reddit deep dive and learned they are notorious for sketchy practices and bot / scam profiles. I know there's bots and scams on seeking, but nothing compared to the number you'll see on SB. I'm sure some people have had success there, which kudos, as well as I'm sure there are some legit woman there who are not on seeking. To summarize, I had no luck there and if I could take it back and the money I wasted on it, I would do so in a heartbeat.

**SR7D1** · 02-04-24 09:06

Trying something new.

I am exploring platforms other than Seeking and would like some advice as to how to be successful on either of the sites I mention. I do realize the "credits" model is worse than SA, but SA seems to have the same stale talent. PM is fine as well. TIA.

**SR7D1** · 01-31-24 02:54

Originally Posted by ShawnTpc [View Original Post]

It was long enough ago that I forgot Shay's name LOL. She has a bit of loose stomach, but she was cool and very into the BBBJ while I DATY her friend. It was an experience worth repeating, but the price seemed a bit much for two. I also don't like how hard the comm's are to setup. Oh well. Worse things in the world LOL.

Still waiting for Kelscle to respond back. I always hit with 2-3 messages before moving on, and she just received her last from me.

Jess is my fave by far for looks and personality, but we need to meet to make it real. I'm being told she is too busy for the forseeable weekend so I'm assuming someone snagged my spot LOL.

Was messaging Zoey, and did a photo search prior to meeting. She's an escort doubling as an SB. Nothing against it, but I'm not interested in paying a pro, and be forced into a timeline with rules. (Not that she did that just going off of past experiences).

https://tryst.link/escort/zoe

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-7eed824a29ac

That is assuming Jess is real. Not saying she isn't but she looks really good for our area. LOL.

And I also avoid the professionals, strippers and single moms with 3 kids.

**ShawnTpc** · 01-30-24 22:57

Originally Posted by SR7D1 [View Original Post]

Naomi and Shay are nice girls but Shay was just too chubby for me. I agree though with what you described, I had the same exact experience. I would love to hear your description of Shay and how recent the experience was? They told me last week that Shay hat recently lost a bunch of weight but the pics sent were all at the standard angles of deception so I honestly could not tell. PM is fine if you prefer.

Caitlyn hasn't been on since 12/5.

I'm in comms with Jess as well and man is she hot!

Kelscle didn't respond to my initial msg, so let us know how that pans out.

It was long enough ago that I forgot Shay's name LOL. She has a bit of loose stomach, but she was cool and very into the BBBJ while I DATY her friend. It was an experience worth repeating, but the price seemed a bit much for two. I also don't like how hard the comm's are to setup. Oh well. Worse things in the world LOL.

Still waiting for Kelscle to respond back. I always hit with 2-3 messages before moving on, and she just received her last from me.

Jess is my fave by far for looks and personality, but we need to meet to make it real. I'm being told she is too busy for the forseeable weekend so I'm assuming someone snagged my spot LOL.

Was messaging Zoey, and did a photo search prior to meeting. She's an escort doubling as an SB. Nothing against it, but I'm not interested in paying a pro, and be forced into a timeline with rules. (Not that she did that just going off of past experiences).

https://tryst.link/escort/zoe

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-7eed824a29ac

**SR7D1** · 01-30-24 18:09

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-8e6db683194c

If you just send her $40 for gas she will come visit you. I probably missed out big time by not sending anything but, my loss is your gain. LOL.

**SR7D1** · 01-29-24 17:46

I think this is what Edge was speaking of earlier:

"Hi, I'm Lisa, I live in San Francisco, I'm here visiting my friends and I'll be moving here to live in a month. I'm a partner in a consulting firm. What about you? Please tell me more about yourself."

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-7ecf518e8f87

Partner at 36? I think you would have a lot more in your BIO describing what you have accomplished in your stellar work career?

**SR7D1** · 01-29-24 17:44

Originally Posted by Industrials [View Original Post]

Tried Ariesgirl once pretty fun but expensive $600 and had to do dinner first. Drinks a ton won't host until you get to know her everything is covered!

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-2366f67af704

She looks and sounds expensive. LOL I think I reached out to her a while back but never got a response. TY for the report my friend.

**Industrials** · 01-29-24 15:06

Tried Ariesgirl once pretty fun but expensive $600 and had to do dinner first. Drinks a ton won't host until you get to know her everything is covered!

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-2366f67af704

**TheEndlessEdge** · 01-29-24 12:34

Originally Posted by ShawnTpc [View Original Post]

I don't give out personal information on the women. Please don't message asking for their direct info.

Naomi98: Spoke off and on for a month before she ghosted me. Then out of the blue I receive a message asking if I'm still interested in meeting. I said yes, and then met up with her and her friend. They charged me double for two. BBBJ, DATY, BBFSCIM, and back to back action. They reached out to me at 9 and they left my place after midnight. Hard to setup, but pics are accurate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-4aa32f7c367b

Clevelandgrl: Setup a meet and was ghosted. Must have been something I said.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-2cc9eccd8982

PrincessMarrr: Set up off-site comms, but couldn't set up a meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-3949429b95ce

Video_game_lover: Easy to setup. Has a few cats and roommates, and a few quirks too that should be mentioned. Otherwise she can host, which is a nice added touch. BBBJ, DATY, CFS. This was a one and done for me. During the DATY the smell was noticeably off. I also had to make a special trip to the store to purchase latex free ball caps for the game. Just a heads up if anyone plans on partaking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-a15701e902b9

Jess: Slowly working on this one. Comm's still on site.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f0b96b52c45d

Kelscle: This one seems receptive, but haven't been able to get off site yet to discuss the arrangement particulars.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-408621a93e2b

PrincessSteph: Exchanged info and just went off site. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-065dd67da155

Haven't had much traction with Kelscle. I had the same experience with PrincessSteph. She's just very selective of who she does this with given her personal situation I believe. Naomi and her friend usually meet up the most around the end of the month it seems (it's always the rent that needs to be paid LOL).

**SR7D1** · 01-29-24 08:09

Originally Posted by ShawnTpc [View Original Post]

I don't give out personal information on the women. Please don't message asking for their direct info.

Naomi98: Spoke off and on for a month before she ghosted me. Then out of the blue I receive a message asking if I'm still interested in meeting. I said yes, and then met up with her and her friend. They charged me double for two. BBBJ, DATY, BBFSCIM, and back to back action. They reached out to me at 9 and they left my place after midnight. Hard to setup, but pics are accurate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-4aa32f7c367b

Clevelandgrl: Setup a meet and was ghosted. Must have been something I said.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-2cc9eccd8982

PrincessMarrr: Set up off-site comms, but couldn't set up a meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-3949429b95ce

Video_game_lover: Easy to setup. Has a few cats and roommates, and a few quirks too that should be mentioned. Otherwise she can host, which is a nice added touch. BBBJ, DATY, CFS. This was a one and done for me. During the DATY the smell was noticeably off. I also had to make a special trip to the store to purchase latex free ball caps for the game. Just a heads up if anyone plans on partaking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-a15701e902b9

Jess: Slowly working on this one. Comm's still on site.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f0b96b52c45d

Kelscle: This one seems receptive, but haven't been able to get off site yet to discuss the arrangement particulars.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-408621a93e2b

PrincessSteph: Exchanged info and just went off site. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-065dd67da155

Naomi and Shay are nice girls but Shay was just too chubby for me. I agree though with what you described, I had the same exact experience. I would love to hear your description of Shay and how recent the experience was? They told me last week that Shay hat recently lost a bunch of weight but the pics sent were all at the standard angles of deception so I honestly could not tell. PM is fine if you prefer.

Caitlyn hasn't been on since 12/5.

I'm in comms with Jess as well and man is she hot!

Kelscle didn't respond to my initial msg, so let us know how that pans out.

**ShawnTpc** · 01-29-24 02:34

I don't give out personal information on the women. Please don't message asking for their direct info.

Naomi98: Spoke off and on for a month before she ghosted me. Then out of the blue I receive a message asking if I'm still interested in meeting. I said yes, and then met up with her and her friend. They charged me double for two. BBBJ, DATY, BBFSCIM, and back to back action. They reached out to me at 9 and they left my place after midnight. Hard to setup, but pics are accurate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-4aa32f7c367b

Clevelandgrl: Setup a meet and was ghosted. Must have been something I said.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-2cc9eccd8982

PrincessMarrr: Set up off-site comms, but couldn't set up a meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-3949429b95ce

Video_game_lover: Easy to setup. Has a few cats and roommates, and a few quirks too that should be mentioned. Otherwise she can host, which is a nice added touch. BBBJ, DATY, CFS. This was a one and done for me. During the DATY the smell was noticeably off. I also had to make a special trip to the store to purchase latex free ball caps for the game. Just a heads up if anyone plans on partaking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-a15701e902b9

Jess: Slowly working on this one. Comm's still on site.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f0b96b52c45d

Kelscle: This one seems receptive, but haven't been able to get off site yet to discuss the arrangement particulars.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-408621a93e2b

PrincessSteph: Exchanged info and just went off site. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-065dd67da155

**Cleguy48** · 01-28-24 23:41

Here's three recent ghosting.

Humble Princess on Seeking (don't have a link since I blocked her). Started to communicate off site. I suggested a MnG or a Zoom call. She indicated she would be up for a Zoom call in the afternoon. I set it up for 2:00 pm and, you guessed it, crickets. I texted her later that evening indicating that she was rude. I immediately received a nasty reply stating that a tree fell on her house. Wow talk about timing it must have happened within a 15 minute window. What are the odds.

Caitlinxo on seeking https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-4b4cf6e22576.

Communicated off site. Was interested in a MnG but couldn't schedule, she had a Dr. Appointment, her kid was sick, she was sick, then silence.

BizzyIzzy Secret Benefits https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...712c81533a2117.

Good coms set up a MnG. Did my typical confirming in the morning. No reply. Texted a couple more times during the day. No reply. I finally texted that I was cancelling. Finally texted that this doesn't look good in a review. I got an immediate response that she was so sorry, and had lost her phone and just got it back. I should start a survey on how many times we've heard that.

We need a tab for creative excuses.