WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**MilesNoDavis** · 06-24-21 12:45

Chating with these ladies, so any insight or intel would be appreciated.

Princesstonii.

https://www.seeking.com/member/db886...d-68b9e7f12754

Prettysarah93.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ead4a...4-b37c2b5092cb

Visible_treasure (seems flakey).

https://www.seeking.com/member/7d177...9-9001024e99a3

BmoreEbonyBaby.

https://www.seeking.com/member/71289...d-f55ac90e074b

Paris5 ever.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5be77...6-fcc42d67fe83

Avaaaarileyyyy.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dd3ab...3-98a39cd2aa32

**DriftingFan101** · 06-24-21 06:04

SA just gave me enough of a discount to give it a trial run, hopefully this is not a waste of time and money like AFF was in May with not a single legit person to be found.

**Biggyv** · 06-23-21 23:57

Originally Posted by Duuuuuuude [View Original Post]

I've been using SDM for the last several months. About the same results (some legit, some fake), but at half the price. In general pretty good results. My 2 cents.

I just signed up myself. Might be worth it even just for a new pool of women to choose from. I'll be sure to report back and hopefully others can do the same.

**Duuuuuuude** · 06-23-21 21:03

Originally Posted by DriftingFan101 [View Original Post]

Wow I picked a shitty tome to consider joining SA then, hearing the vets here say it's a lot of bull and games does not make me want to spend that $90 for a 1 month test drive.

Things are already pretty lacking for escorts so I figured to give SA a try but hearing mostly bad the past week and a half I'm not sure that it's worth spending that $90.

Gave AFF a try last month and all I had was scammers, bots, and escorts who wanted pre paid cards or money through a cash app which are red flags.

I've been using SDM for the last several months. About the same results (some legit, some fake), but at half the price. In general pretty good results. My 2 cents.

**DriftingFan101** · 06-23-21 20:18

Wow I picked a shitty tome to consider joining SA then, hearing the vets here say it's a lot of bull and games does not make me want to spend that $90 for a 1 month test drive.

Things are already pretty lacking for escorts so I figured to give SA a try but hearing mostly bad the past week and a half I'm not sure that it's worth spending that $90.

Gave AFF a try last month and all I had was scammers, bots, and escorts who wanted pre paid cards or money through a cash app which are red flags.

**MilesNoDavis** · 06-23-21 20:07

TRUE, they have lost their damn minds. LOL.

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I hear you, man. A couple years back, I had this one reliable SB whom I saw about once a month. Some folks here might remember Jengo / Jen from Gaithersburg? Anyway after the fourth or so meet, she told me to forget the donation & to just get a hotel room every other meet (could sometimes host) while occasionally buying lunch / dinner. And since we usually went at it 3 - 7 x's per meet, I considered myself pretty fortunate! Alas, all good things don't last forever. She's dropped out of the sugaring game multiple times--claimed to have found love--but inevitably winds up back here.

Last fall, I saw she had reappeared on Seeking and figured I'd give it another shot. It was the first time we'd spoken in months, but she politely indicated that she wasn't interested. No hard feelings, I genuinely wished her well and moved on. But then she reached out a month ago, asking for 200 and that she'd meet up again. I pointed out that while I'm happy to meet, I don't advance money anymore--been burned in the past by others & not looking to repeat those mistakes. She said she understood & still wanted to meet. The problem is she keeps bringing up how broke she is, how life has been hard on her, how parents have trust issues, etc. Additionally, she's changed the date of when we're supposed to meet at least five times since reaching out again (thankfully gives a day notice, so that's something).

Another separate girl I've been working on since last month has been super hesitant to meet. Despite both of us proving to the other we're real & after saying she was cool without an upfront donation, she keeps bringing it up after a week goes by (claims other johns have given 200 for just lunch)! After countering how she said earlier that she was fine without PBM for me, she'd mellow out and say no worries. Then when it comes down to scheduling a meet, it's either last-minute work scheduling or can't find a baby-sitter. The only reason I've been persistent in making it work is she's quite possibly the most stunning 19 yo I've ever seen.

I dunno what's going on lately with Seeking these days. Maybe it's time to throw in the towel with some of these girls and either A) Expand my search patterns, or B) Drop from Seeking and save up for the occasional vacation to Tijuana or Montreal instead. Still, I'm grateful that the SBs I've come across at least give me advance notice before I make the long drive over. So that's something.

**MilesNoDavis** · 06-23-21 20:05

I agree! SA has taken way more effort these days. I've used the site for more than 10 years, and don't mind having them travel (or meet in the middle) so my results are typically REALLY good. I expanded my search years ago to include much of the mid-atlantic, which typically has only added 3-4 hours extra to the total time spent linking up with these girls. It means I do spend more on gas, or tavel expenses- it's been worth it.

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I hear you, man. A couple years back, I had this one reliable SB whom I saw about once a month. Some folks here might remember Jengo / Jen from Gaithersburg? Anyway after the fourth or so meet, she told me to forget the donation & to just get a hotel room every other meet (could sometimes host) while occasionally buying lunch / dinner. And since we usually went at it 3 - 7 x's per meet, I considered myself pretty fortunate! Alas, all good things don't last forever. She's dropped out of the sugaring game multiple times--claimed to have found love--but inevitably winds up back here.

Last fall, I saw she had reappeared on Seeking and figured I'd give it another shot. It was the first time we'd spoken in months, but she politely indicated that she wasn't interested. No hard feelings, I genuinely wished her well and moved on. But then she reached out a month ago, asking for 200 and that she'd meet up again. I pointed out that while I'm happy to meet, I don't advance money anymore--been burned in the past by others & not looking to repeat those mistakes. She said she understood & still wanted to meet. The problem is she keeps bringing up how broke she is, how life has been hard on her, how parents have trust issues, etc. Additionally, she's changed the date of when we're supposed to meet at least five times since reaching out again (thankfully gives a day notice, so that's something).

Another separate girl I've been working on since last month has been super hesitant to meet. Despite both of us proving to the other we're real & after saying she was cool without an upfront donation, she keeps bringing it up after a week goes by (claims other johns have given 200 for just lunch)! After countering how she said earlier that she was fine without PBM for me, she'd mellow out and say no worries. Then when it comes down to scheduling a meet, it's either last-minute work scheduling or can't find a baby-sitter. The only reason I've been persistent in making it work is she's quite possibly the most stunning 19 yo I've ever seen.

I dunno what's going on lately with Seeking these days. Maybe it's time to throw in the towel with some of these girls and either A) Expand my search patterns, or B) Drop from Seeking and save up for the occasional vacation to Tijuana or Montreal instead. Still, I'm grateful that the SBs I've come across at least give me advance notice before I make the long drive over. So that's something.

**BustaNut60** · 06-23-21 10:38

Here's another one who wants $X5 per meet. Yeah right.

https://www.seeking.com/member/32fe6...0-6fb9d592e743

**Whistles** · 06-22-21 17:57

KhloeC32 wants $1100/ month. If you like her look and see her often go for it, I passed.

https://www.seeking.com/member/07f84...0-a3feb94db4ee

Lirissa66 wants gifts for unsolicited nudes. Weird texting vibe. I stopped replying.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc54b...f-43d417f9d5a4

Chynabbyy quoted 2 K ppm. Wowza. Hard Pass.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9edbf...2-d18b6f48c54c

I don't know if brothers are having a lot of luck but the pool is dry for me at the moment. I have a couple on the line, but I'm not hopeful.

**Shinshi86** · 06-22-21 16:40

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

After playing in the sugar bowl for over a decade I've always known that a lot of these girls are completely shot in the head, but some of them are worse than others.

Last night I was making plans with one SB for a FC session and sent her hotel details. She responded by saying that she didn't plan to go back to the hotel with me since we barely knew each other. Took the same girl to the FC just last month. Heavy weed smoker and it's clearly affected her ability to think.

This morning I get a boatload of sexy naked snaps from another SB. I am about to respond by asking her about her availability for this week, only to find that she removed me as a friend. My chats are now pending.

Maybe it's something in the water, but these girls are getting crazier, flakier, and stranger each year.

I hear you, man. A couple years back, I had this one reliable SB whom I saw about once a month. Some folks here might remember Jengo / Jen from Gaithersburg? Anyway after the fourth or so meet, she told me to forget the donation & to just get a hotel room every other meet (could sometimes host) while occasionally buying lunch / dinner. And since we usually went at it 3 - 7 x's per meet, I considered myself pretty fortunate! Alas, all good things don't last forever. She's dropped out of the sugaring game multiple times--claimed to have found love--but inevitably winds up back here.

Last fall, I saw she had reappeared on Seeking and figured I'd give it another shot. It was the first time we'd spoken in months, but she politely indicated that she wasn't interested. No hard feelings, I genuinely wished her well and moved on. But then she reached out a month ago, asking for 200 and that she'd meet up again. I pointed out that while I'm happy to meet, I don't advance money anymore--been burned in the past by others & not looking to repeat those mistakes. She said she understood & still wanted to meet. The problem is she keeps bringing up how broke she is, how life has been hard on her, how parents have trust issues, etc. Additionally, she's changed the date of when we're supposed to meet at least five times since reaching out again (thankfully gives a day notice, so that's something).

Another separate girl I've been working on since last month has been super hesitant to meet. Despite both of us proving to the other we're real & after saying she was cool without an upfront donation, she keeps bringing it up after a week goes by (claims other johns have given 200 for just lunch)! After countering how she said earlier that she was fine without PBM for me, she'd mellow out and say no worries. Then when it comes down to scheduling a meet, it's either last-minute work scheduling or can't find a baby-sitter. The only reason I've been persistent in making it work is she's quite possibly the most stunning 19 yo I've ever seen.

I dunno what's going on lately with Seeking these days. Maybe it's time to throw in the towel with some of these girls and either A) Expand my search patterns, or B) Drop from Seeking and save up for the occasional vacation to Tijuana or Montreal instead. Still, I'm grateful that the SBs I've come across at least give me advance notice before I make the long drive over. So that's something.

**ProCatHunter** · 06-22-21 09:45

After playing in the sugar bowl for over a decade I've always known that a lot of these girls are completely shot in the head, but some of them are worse than others.

Last night I was making plans with one SB for a FC session and sent her hotel details. She responded by saying that she didn't plan to go back to the hotel with me since we barely knew each other. Took the same girl to the FC just last month. Heavy weed smoker and it's clearly affected her ability to think.

This morning I get a boatload of sexy naked snaps from another SB. I am about to respond by asking her about her availability for this week, only to find that she removed me as a friend. My chats are now pending.

Maybe it's something in the water, but these girls are getting crazier, flakier, and stranger each year.

**Jt1896** · 06-21-21 22:31

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

I saw her a couple times as well. Cute girl. Showed up the first time drunk and high. Also no makeup. She was tiny and looked like she was 12. She came to my place and heard her in the bathroom looking through the cabinets and drawers. After our third round, she went to the bathroom and she actually was very sneakily trying to steal a box of soap. It was sad and humorous at the same time. Decent fuck and BJ. All raw.

Second time I told her no closed doors and it was during the day. She was made up and sober this time. Another good fuck but quickly figured out she was more high volume than I realized and decided not to risk it with her anymore. Definitely more escort than SB but can be negotiated to a reasonable price and tight little pussy.

Sent you a message.

**FairFight** · 06-21-21 00:45

Originally Posted by NovaDaddy69 [View Original Post]

It's like when you're at the car dealership and the guy goes back to "talk to the manager" about the price. Yeah, would love to listen to that conversation. You know they're just back there talking sports for 10 minutes, it's all a charade.

Would similarly love to talk to the mythical SD who gave her 7 K.

You can youtube "sugarbaby dr phil". There are guys simp enough to spend 10 k a month for a platonic relationship. I mean it can be entirely through manipulation but I wouldn't doubt a girl has had a guy spend that much.

**BustaNut60** · 06-20-21 23:03

Originally Posted by NovaDaddy69 [View Original Post]

It's like when you're at the car dealership and the guy goes back to "talk to the manager" about the price. Yeah, would love to listen to that conversation. You know they're just back there talking sports for 10 minutes, it's all a charade.

Would similarly love to talk to the mythical SD who gave her 7 K.

You're just figuring this out now?

**BustaNut60** · 06-20-21 23:02

She's certainly attractive enough and meets all of my criteria except one. Her ppm allowance. She said she was getting $X4 in Baltimore with her last arrangement. Well too bad, not me. I don't know who is breaking the bank at Monte Carlo with these girls but if you're reading this, please stop it. Managing expectations with these young women is important to keep the sugar bowl from deteriorating into the current escort scene.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3af90...1-f79ff3e823f1