WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[Old Chinese Guy]

My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount?

- This is correct and one of the biggest adjustments for me. The offer is for the actual meet, so as long as I and the person don't meet- she's owed nothing. Regardless of the bid, I've been making it known that I'm seeking something a bit up close and personal and without strings. In the same message I ask if they're seeking something that looks and feels like a date, or more of a link up? Whatever the reply dictates my next message.

Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself?

It depends in which credit package you purchase. Initially I purchased the $50 100 credit pack, but it meant TRULY watching what offer I accepted and ultimately resulted in just two dates only one worth it😈. That experience formed the basis of my new approach and I bit the bullet and spent 150 for 500 credits..

Thanks for the responses and clarity, appreciate it and owe ya one.

[AnomBox]

Super sweet, intelligent, hosts in Annapolis, and really enjoys bbfscip at 300. But. She is definitely a bigger girl and sadly not my type as I like them just a little meat on their bones.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-9722cbd690aa

[AnomBox]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-9722cbd690aa

[AnomBox]

I saw her in Maryland and though she was fine with letting me in sans condom I chose to wrap up. My gut told me be careful as it seems the whole town is depositing baby batter. Also, while very accommodating and nice she just isn't very attractive in my book.

I texted her last week, didn't arrange anything, and now she's texted me the last 2 mornings trying to get me to meet her ASAP. I just blocked her instead. I may circle back if my meet-up tonight doesn't go well, but if she's letting everyone here dump a load or three in every hole, maybe I shouldn't. Or maybe I'll text her with some lowball # for a blowjob and see if she goes for it.

[MilesNoDavis]

Based on your recommendation, I decided to stop banging my head against the SA wall and decided to check out WYP. I see some familiar faces from SA on WYP. So have a couple of questions. My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount? The what are credits for? Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself? If say one offers $50 to meet and she accepts, is what happens at the M&G open and between the two of us, ie. If one decides to make subsequent offers for P2 P, it is just between the two? Just wondering how this works.

My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount?

- This is correct and one of the biggest adjustments for me. The offer is for the actual meet, so as long as I and the person don't meet- she's owed nothing. Regardless of the bid, I've been making it known that I'm seeking something a bit up close and personal and without strings. In the same message I ask if they're seeking something that looks and feels like a date, or more of a link up? Whatever the reply dictates my next message.

Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself?

It depends in which credit package you purchase. Initially I purchased the $50 100 credit pack, but it meant TRULY watching what offer I accepted and ultimately resulted in just two dates only one worth it😈. That experience formed the basis of my new approach and I bit the bullet and spent 150 for 500 credits.

F say one offers $50 to meet and she accepts, is what happens at the M&G open and between the two of us, ie. If one decides to make subsequent offers for P2 P, it is just between the two? Just wondering how this works.

True. What happens once you leave the site is between the two of you.

[AnomBox]

Thanks! Going to take a trip to see her soon. What was the allowance?

Found this one on SA. Real. Pics aren't fake or old. Great time and worth the damage. Can only host sometimes but definitely likes to have fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4afca...2-e176d3702f0f

[Old Chinese Guy]

I've been using it since 2009/10 and have had an insane amount of success. The number of new members having unrealistic asks, or not getting the point of sites like SA and WYP have made me lose interest. I've recently switched to WYP and have been having a wonderful time. LOL.

Based on your recommendation, I decided to stop banging my head against the SA wall and decided to check out WYP. I see some familiar faces from SA on WYP. So have a couple of questions. My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount? The what are credits for? Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself? If say one offers $50 to meet and she accepts, is what happens at the M&G open and between the two of us, ie. If one decides to make subsequent offers for P2 P, it is just between the two? Just wondering how this works.

[HeadKnocker81]

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[AnomBox]

That's a shame. I had a nice date with her last month. Very prompt and open menu. Just not that attracted to her.

Beware of her. Goes by the profile name 'Arabian Night'. Told her name was Delli. Quick to exchange phone numbers. Discussed PPM and wanted to meet the same day. Was willing to travel. Even verified herself through video chat. Prompt responses. Until it was time to show-up. She blocked me after the no-show. Time-waster.

[Itfcd]

When you ask about BB how do you bring it up?

Usually ask if they're on birth control, which is a normal kind of question to ask anyway (because condoms fail). Some, like her, will see what you're really asking and will specify using a condom anyway. But if they say yes, I ask if it's OK for BB. Some flip out, but all the ones I've filled up usually just say, "Are you clean / tested?" and I say yes.

[BDM1227]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...3-dbf76796de27

Very quick to send her phone number. Wanted 400 PPM and can't host, not up for bare. I didn't progress it further than that because I wasn't in the mood to negotiate.

When you ask about BB how do you bring it up?

[Zerry]

This is why you Google the numbers as soon as you get them or they text you. This had links to other sites and totally different photos. Obviously a scam.

If you google the burner numbers I use, they will often pull up links to posts from different sites and ads. So it can also just be the result of someone using a burner number from an app such as "textme. " If the seem real otherwise, maybe don't be so quick to move on.

[Michael Taylor]

Met up with Hottie4 u last week. Had a nice dinner M&G. She asked for money for her time, but said she understood if I said no. I politely declined and told her I don't pay for M&G. Had good conversation, she told me at the end of the meal the she'd like to meet up again. I text her today to make plans and she comes off all high and mighty about not being a prostitute and that she can't see my anymore because I only pay for sex.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-565c8f5fba94

I'm about ready to give up on this site. Bravo to you all who have had some success, but this shit is exhausting.

I get tired of the game too, but if you search long and hard enough, you'll find some gems. Some early indicators of a successful find:

- They reply somewhat quickly and respond with something more than one word replies. Don't even waste your time on the ones that have so many mongers contacting them that they can't keep up. If they like your picture and your brief introduction (hopefully, a little funny), they'll chat with you.

- If they're a pro, they'll go right to text. If that's the case, just get the PPM talk out of the way and go from there, if you want to go that route.

- If they aren't a pro and you've exchanged some messages, you might have met someone worth pursuing. But it's like dating. You're going to meet some duds when you meet them in person and get to talk to them a bit.

I would never do a full dinner on the first date. I would always go for a cup of coffee or a quick meet up in a public place. At most, a couple of drinks somewhere. Keep it light. If you make it easy for them (meet somewhere near them), this is usually simple.

Keep at it. When you find someone you like, it's great.

[Mongerian]

Seems like you had some bad luck with her, she's been reviewed by others and they've reported some wild times. (Unless those reviews were made up?) but I think it was more than one saying she was dtf.

Beware of her. Goes by the profile name 'Arabian Night'. Told her name was Delli. Quick to exchange phone numbers. Discussed PPM and wanted to meet the same day. Was willing to travel. Even verified herself through video chat. Prompt responses. Until it was time to show-up. She blocked me after the no-show. Time-waster.

[Bish37]

Met up with Hottie4 u last week. Had a nice dinner M&G. She asked for money for her time, but said she understood if I said no. I politely declined and told her I don't pay for M&G. Had good conversation, she told me at the end of the meal the she'd like to meet up again. I text her today to make plans and she comes off all high and mighty about not being a prostitute and that she can't see my anymore because I only pay for sex.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-565c8f5fba94

I'm about ready to give up on this site. Bravo to you all who have had some success, but this shit is exhausting.

Hey, think about it, these women are not going to improve your life. All they can do is take your money, play games and maybe give you a bit of pleasure. Just move on to the next, don't take them serious. Get yourself a woman who likes you and stop chasing these so called cute / pretty ones. Pretty women are a waste of time and money, they only care about themselves. They always think everyman wants to fuck them, I only see women who let me know how lucky they are to be in my presence. Its time we all get smart about this game. Side note , I have had great success with SECRET BENEFITS, always remember if you keep doing the same thing, you are going to get the same results..