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[Shinshi86]

https://www.seeking.com/member/56f4a...8-8ef77761ba19

Another one of my failures worth sharing. A month ago when I was fairly new to SA, I met this one for coffee. The pictures on her page are indeed accurate. Barely 5', 19 yo, with a cute face. Could've been bullshitting, but she claims to work a seasonal job (and lives) in Pennsylvania while attending school. Every other weekend, she stays with a friend out in Annapolis (hence why she could potentially meet me sporadically). She asked for 300 for the month of Jan and Feb (total of 3 weekends), which seemed fair at the time. I figured we had hit it off from that first meet, that we both liked what we saw in one another, very similar interests, easy-going conversations, etc.

Anyway, for our 2nd meet she claimed a friend bailed on her & couldn't house or drive her to / from Annapolis. So I offered to book her a hotel for the weekend as long as she takes care of her own transportation (no way was I driving halfway across the state). She agreed before asking if I was getting one or two beds. I replied one, but then she begs for two because she's embarrassed about "suffering from sleep apnea. " I told her it wouldn't be a problem, but she insisted otherwise. I acquiesced & said I'd book a room with two beds. It was at this point she asked about how much was I thinking of paying. Despite being pissed, I still respectfully reminded her of our agreed arrangement of 300 for Jan-Feb. She then laughs it off, says she's okay with that, and that she would see me that weekend. Low & behold, change of plans in the form of a "sick friend heading to the ER. " I ignored any subsequent messages.

On a positive note, I hadn't booked any hotel nor wasted anything more than that initial 300. Still, paying before any kind of fun to be had was admittedly stupid on my part. It breaks my own damn rule set, and I won't be making the same mistake any time soon. Also, even if "platonic" isn't one of the tags used in an SA profile, you should ALWAYS check to see what your SB / provider is okay with. That means doing so by getting her number then texting her there outside of SA. There's no sense in giving any woman potential ammunition in having your SA profile banned for soliciting. She claimed she was seeking a FWB, but that turned out to be false.

Bottom line: don't waste your time or money on this one.

[Vega Wrap]

Had a nice little meet with a cute rookie a while ago. Thick maybe overweight but not fat. Good shape good face, still has a waist, ass, and real good tits.

19 and good personality.

Said she had daddies before but negotiated like she don't know the game at all.

Took my first offer for 2 $. Prob wouldn't pay that for it cause she's a little thicker than I like. Offered to as an opener just to get her open that she was dtf.

Day of the meet, talked her into a bbjws for 60. Did a second date for the same rate to see if I could sweet talk her into giving up more. Works for me often enough, I like to see what how far I can get for the fun of it.

Met her the second time for the same BJ rate, got BBFS CIP in her car. Filled her up like a cupcake and sent her sweet ass home.

Wouldn't work again tho. Talked to her later and she realized she went way too cheap just cause she hopped on the pole without negotiating the price first. Swore she wouldn't do it again for less than 2.

Will have a username for well trusted seniors later. Sure thing for 2 but you could easily talk her down to 150 if you have any skill.

[Vega Wrap]

Unfortunately, I wasted an afternoon on her. Definitely not DTF!

Same, she wanted some bullshit up front money to verify that I was for real.

Fuck that.

Then they try to challenge you with some line like. If risking up front money is a problem for you you must not have the wealth I'm looking for anyway. If you had it like that it wouldn't be an issue.

Haha. Nah kid. If I got it like that didn't get here by having no fucking business sense, getting suckered, giving something for nothing.

[Telcova]

LOL. There seems to be a lot of that lately, but they also seem a bit more eager to please. Did the performance make up for it?

We only met for lunch. Didn't go anywhere after that. Dodged a bullet.

[Duuuuuuude]

Never met after she said she wanted a ridiculous sum to meet platonically.

Unfortunately, I wasted an afternoon on her. Definitely not DTF!

[Shinshi86]

https://www.seeking.com/member/868b4...c-922bfa96ce63

Confession time: I know better than to EVER send money prior to meeting a provider or SB. I've never done that once in my life. So I'm really not sure what came over me this afternoon when I sent 20 to her and made the hour-long trek to Towson. I waited in the parking lot we agreed upon for 30 minutes before dipping out. After I got home, she texts me again and messages me on SA claiming her parents prevented her from going out. Not sure what to think about that excuse. I replied that she got her McDonald's / gas money out of me and to enjoy it while it lasts.

Sure, it was only 20. But the time (and gas) wasted just to drive that far out of my way was what pissed me off the most. At least tomorrow's my off-day, so I have that going for me, haha!

[Shinshi86]

Yea its Capitalism. If you offered some obscene amount of money she would be over quickly. Offer her 8 and see if she flakes. I bet she won't.

I've had girls come over for brunch and fuck on a Sunday morning, get a text, and then immediately drive to an hour south to a park in the middle of nowhere (halfway between him and her) after to bang a guy in a car on short notice because he offered a high amount even though she was "busy" for a week. (at least she had a habit of showering every time before she left LOL) There are desperate people on here who will see what your donation is and then offer double to steal it from you. The girls who discuss money and the deed in detail before meeting like the ones mentioned below are escorts and usually not worth it. They are not much different from Escorts off backpage or EROS. More than likely rushed, covered, service and out as fast as possible. Also high chance what you see in pictures is not what you get in person also. Nothing worse then working out a deal and she shows up 10 years older or 50 lbs bigger than the photos and still wants the pre-negotiated amount.

I prefer to find the "amateur" ones who see it more like a real FWB and dating thing and spend at least some time together regularly outside of the bedroom. There will usually meet you in public for a date/M@G without discussing any terms or expectation. Also some kind of friendship, even if is superficial and all lies on her end is good to set the mood. The deed is usually better if she has some kind of attraction for you and the expectation of ongoing support.

Not surprised by anything just mentioned. It makes sense having backup plans these days or bracing for the possible no-show, but it's still annoying when it occurs. When a guy pulls a no-show with a provider, they're blacklisted period. When a provider / SB does the exact same shit, they know they'll be completely fine & get away with it. Too many dudes these days think with their little head or offer a crazy amount just for goddamn meet-and-greets. Which in turn makes the providers / SBs think that their value ought to be that of a high-class porn star.

[IluvSmellyFish]

https://www.seeking.com/member/868b4...c-922bfa96ce63

[IluvSmellyFish]

Never met after she said she wanted a ridiculous sum to meet platonically.

Yeah. Quoted me a pretty large amount. Got offended when I asked if she would host. Then got more upset when I spelled the temporary name she gave me with two "L"s.

(She said I could refer to her as "Lily" for now, and then flipped out when I asked her why she would get so upset when I mispelled a name that wasnt even hers?

Go figure.

[GoodNightBalt]

Team,

There have been a few reports of meet and greats with her, but has anyone nailed this tall lovely treat?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a08b...7-916913e0c2dc

TIA and best of luck.

Never met after she said she wanted a ridiculous sum to meet platonically.

[Tonygrt]

Team,

There have been a few reports of meet and greats with her, but has anyone nailed this tall lovely treat?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a08b...7-916913e0c2dc

TIA and best of luck.

[AlwaysLookng]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b6071...6-88098fdaf6dd

If you get the unlocked photo, it's 30 lbs ago. Don't say you weren't warned.

LOL. There seems to be a lot of that lately, but they also seem a bit more eager to please. Did the performance make up for it?

[IluvSmellyFish]

https://www.seeking.com/member/af962...3-8e273657b582

$700 will pay the bills and she is looking for a date tonight. Maybe one of you gents who are on travel to the area for work with a nice expense account could help her out?

Sadly, (for her) I've got other options that I will have to tend to tonight.

[CoolDaddy07]

Claims she gets $6 xx for a date from guys here and have never accepted less than that. Run an online thing too but not exactly sure about the details of her online gig.

If anyone got any other intel please share.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eca30...3-337f6d906853

[FunGuy570]

Yea its Capitalism. If you offered some obscene amount of money she would be over quickly. Offer her 8 and see if she flakes. I bet she won't.

I've had girls come over for brunch and fuck on a Sunday morning, get a text, and then immediately drive to an hour south to a park in the middle of nowhere (halfway between him and her) after to bang a guy in a car on short notice because he offered a high amount even though she was "busy" for a week. (at least she had a habit of showering every time before she left LOL) There are desperate people on here who will see what your donation is and then offer double to steal it from you. The girls who discuss money and the deed in detail before meeting like the ones mentioned below are escorts and usually not worth it. They are not much different from Escorts off backpage or EROS. More than likely rushed, covered, service and out as fast as possible. Also high chance what you see in pictures is not what you get in person also. Nothing worse then working out a deal and she shows up 10 years older or 50 lbs bigger than the photos and still wants the pre-negotiated amount.

I prefer to find the "amateur" ones who see it more like a real FWB and dating thing and spend at least some time together regularly outside of the bedroom. There will usually meet you in public for a date/M@G without discussing any terms or expectation. Also some kind of friendship, even if is superficial and all lies on her end is good to set the mood. The deed is usually better if she has some kind of attraction for you and the expectation of ongoing support.

It's pretty simple, like us, they are juggling multiple guys. So when they get a higher pay date, you already know an excuse is coming up. Have a lineup and some backups. It's common.