WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[WakeForYou]

I know I've seen this pic on the site before but she claims she just made the profile yesterday. Possible red flag came up in our convo that I wouldn't have caught were I not pretty sure I've seen her on the site.

[Shinshi86]

And now for part 2 with the nearby DC and NOVA girls:

Ashleyy-babyy - Stephens City, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/4784c...f-51b28658246a).

Another who initiated the convo. I declined at first due to distance, but she offered to meet me halfway in DC. And that's when she shared a sob story about a gf who left her & her kid, how she's out of work, can't afford baby formula, etc. As soon as she requested immediate financial aid, I blocked her.

Aaliyahbaby22102 - McLean, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/97e6d...5-1d74f28e3ecc).

Supposedly a teen "looking for fun," though she might be a bot / scam going off of a profile that's severely lacking in creativity and her four-word replies. Can't definitively confirm this, but I gave up.

Baybeemarii - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/6cc40...8-0c24f4351056).

Also seems averse to writing longer than four-word sentences. We granted each other access to our private pics, then she said she wasn't interested. No problem, I actually prefer upfront honesty and don't hold it against her! Moving on.

ThePrincessAlexa - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/485d0...5-31aaf626bb05).

Another that initiated the convo while I was out-of-state. We seemed to be hitting it off nicely. She told me she'd heard about SA from her friends, wanted a FWB, then asked what my previous arrangements had been like. After only sharing about the more recent one, she promptly blocked me. I always keep it PG on that site, but ah well.

Safhere77 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/5e9a5...3-84a117e89fcb).

Decent convo with this 18 yo. She claimed to not have a set work schedule and that she was only available on weekends. We were scheduling a day & time to meet near her area, but then she suddenly stopped replying. I sent two messages to rekindle the convo before giving up. She's logged on a couple times since, so who knows?

LatinLady0618 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/7f408...e-643b27abbd6f).

Going off her pics, she's extremely gorgeous & sexy! The problem is we never seem to get around to meet owing to our busy schedules. I do get the sense that she's a very chill & down-to-earth person. So I might try again in a few weeks, though that's dependent on how many reliable, time flexible SBs that I'm seeing by then.

Butterfly_wings - formerly DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/1b3f3...a-9d7bb511df71).

She's been positively reported on in the past, but she's now changed her location to Massachusetts. Near as I can tell, she's a pro who bounces from MA, DC, and NY. Next time she's in the area, I'll make an effort to get her attention and see what all the fuss is about. She once messaged me asking for a fun time while she was briefly in town, but I was out-of-state at the time.

For the following six SBs, each has received glowing, positive reports on this forum; nevertheless, I've personally gotten crickets. They'll read the reply but not respond. It's probable that they're already inundated with messages, have a well-paying SD, and / or I'm not their type. That's what happens in this game though. Still, I'm very curious as to how those who've successfully seen these ones approached them:

Daniii23 - Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/bd36f...d-690c4dcca1a5).

Kkim13 - Arlington, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/05b47...8-d39796cfa886).

Sweettea333 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/4fd0f...a-10dc5dd69098).

Zepedika - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/a6ecc...d-2860df579c86).

Aik000 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/d160c...c-cef41004f0d6).

Annajes - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/deb94...f-8d364bd074ec).

[Shinshi86]

I'm splitting this extensive post into two parts. A "brief explanation" and all MD girls are detailed below. All others that are somewhat nearby (DC and NOVA) will be in my follow-up.

I recently changed my approach on Seeking to see what would happen. Previously, I'd message 3-4 different SBs a week--maybe more if I'm traveling for work or on vacation. If there's no response, I'd message new ones while trying again with the previous week's SBs after 10-14 days go by. The latter is dependent on when they're back online and if they've really caught my attention (and if there's still nothing, I cut my losses and move on). In the last couple weeks, I sent out 32 messages thinking that I'll get maybe a couple replies and probably one meet (it had been that kind of a losing streak). However of those 32, I received 16 responses with an additional 7 SBs who initiated the convo!

Needless to say, I was a bit overwhelmed to see so much activity! But as always, that number of potentials dropped off after subsequent follow-ups. It can be difficult to get a read on some of them: who likes / dislikes small talk; who prefers / loathes public meet-and-greets; who has FWB tagged despite not wanting such an arrangement; who's a scam despite a well-written profile; etc. For their convenience, I offered to meet them at any restaurant / cafe near their area and that they can pick the day & time as long as I know a few days in advance (working multiple jobs kinda limits my free time). Meeting in public doesn't only put their mind at ease, but also mine as it helps knowing if they look like their pics and what their expectations are. If they're afflicted with GPS or if I get stood up, at least I'll still have enjoyed great food and explored a new area outside of where I typically visit.

Before I dive further into this novel, know that I've left off some SBs since either I'm holding out hope that it'll eventually work out in my favor (5), or we have blocked one another and I forgot to copy the link. Five potentials is still a lot, so hopefully I'll know within a week or two about who's the golden ticket and who's a bust. Also, many women prefer their digits not to be shared (though I'd gladly do so if one gave me the green light or was acting like a * for no reason). So do the legwork: create a profile, message them yourself, and treat them with respect. Some offer their number, Snapchat, or Kik if you only ask. Most offered without me even asking. Finally, I make no guarantees that you'll have a fantastic time. Hell, some of you might even succeed where I have failed--as always, YMMV in this hobby. Without further ado:

Strongchick11 - Severn / Pasadena, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/2b647...e-f1e0802f59b7).

Claimed to be visiting until September, unable to host, doesn't like to be wined-and-dined, and very straightforward. Definitely a pro based on one of the earlier messages: "$250 for straight forward sex and then I usually do more if you want to get 'freakier' per say LOL. Like anal, creampie, deep throat, no condom, etc. " I remained noncommittal & vague before finally securing her digits. Turns out she wants 250 for only an hour of hotel fun. Since I was paying for the hotel, I countered with 200 for two hours. She said she's desperate and agreed. She initially wanted to meet at that BWI hellhole that we all know about, but I convinced her into better lodging. A couple hours later, she texts back "You know what? I'm going to have to pass on today. 200 is not ideal for me. Thanks!" I wished her well, then blocked her. Guess she wasn't that desperate after all (or she found someone else). Yet another example of why you NEVER book a hotel until you have eyes on the prize.

MGurl96 - Ocean City, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/2eb85...f-972a3d2d871d).

I was out-of-state when she initiated the convo. When I said I was interested but couldn't meet yet, she asked if I could help her out in the meantime by buying her naughty vids from CashApp. I said I don't engage in that sort of thing. "Well, I was hoping you'd make an exception for me?" Blocked, and moving on.

Emmanuela75 - Hanover / Silver Spring, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1b9be...d-3c7cae097f36).

After granting access to each other's private pics, I admittedly lost interest. She has a very jaw-dropping, luscious, curvy body; unfortunately, her face really wasn't doing it for me. Still, major props to SBs like her for keeping it real & honest! God knows we need more like that! She also readily offers her number within the first couple messages.

Sugarluvxox - Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/7f5e3...2-e40b3463c8e2).

Pretty decent convo with this one--right up until I learn she's only looking for online-only arrangements. I reported her, but I think her page is still up. Guess the Seeking mods still hold grudges for some of my earlier sarcastic reports. But hey, fuck 'them if they can't even be bothered to enforce their own site guidelines.

Luciousbeautyxo - Rockville, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/f1347...8-d6da5edd8399).

This college girl said she was unemployed and was passing the pandemic away making clothes, exercising, and videogaming. If she looked even half as good as her pics and was truly down for FWB (like her tag suggested), then I'd have found a true unicorn. Alas, she blocked me shortly after I was upfront about my expectations.

Kates00 - Frederick, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/19fa3...3-d3b6f3ed56ce).

Got a reply almost a week after my first message to her. Seemed DTF and interested on meeting near her place, but she deactivated her page (or blocked me) the day of.

Cheyycat - Gaithersburg, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1c8eb...9-255561e22d5b).

This possibly petite treat has been reportedly addled with a severe case of GPS. On the other hand, she still hasn't quoted any price to me yet. She messaged several days after my initial one saying she had been "taking a break from the site. " Supposedly has a b-day coming up and hanging with friends for most of this week. Might try again next week, but I won't hold my breath.

Pinkykelz - Gaithersburg, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/9f637...1-ca624771b904).

She initiated the convo. Pretty straightfoward, chill, and quite down with "a physical FWB arrangement" (her words). The problem is she wants to meet 2-3 x's a month and prefers an allowance. Because of work and my aversion to anything other than PPM, I asked if she was fine with dinner and (if compatible) a PPM arrangement for that first time. She said yes for this coming week, but I haven't scheduled a day as there's other SBs who've got my attention. We'll see.

LizzyTop - formerly Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/bc19d...c-2de1162f1d23).

Been around since 2015 and her pics really caught my attention! Presently, her location is listed as Maryland and Colorado; however, she told me she's actually in the Deep South for the foreseeable future. A real bummer as I got the impression that she's a real cool chick based on our convo.

Petite pink princess - formerly Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1c13e...e-52433e70c399).

The mythical unicorn that had everyone a-buzzin' last month! She's changed her location to NY and has added more substance to her profile; however, the newly written content is just giving off even more of a scam vibe. Call me pessimistic, but I'm not buying the shy, innocent demeanor who wants a "Fifty Shades of Gray" type of SD. And even if she were legit, who would roll the dice and drive all the way to NY for that?

[Member #6203]

I have been around a while. In the past year or two I've found several trans girls who don't label themselves as trans. Some put something in their profile, which is better than others, who tell you if you get to conversation.

I've never had to find out in person though. I'm thankful for that. LOL.

To each his own, but they have a "trans friendly" label for a reason. It would help everyone. I make sure to read details if a girl is over 5-7 or so, just to be careful.

Here's one I found who claimed she was trans. I figured it was a hoax or scam until I came across her IG profile. Oh my! A trans but looking good. I think she dropped off. Didn't want money just appreciation. There is a wide variety out there and while I figured the images were fake indeed they aren't. Would you have guessed? https://www.seeking.com/member/03305...7-327944374125.

[OldCodger56]

If you're going to post multiple likely fake profiles, change the wording.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...LLZgQ5NYVKQEML

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...OE9M10NYVKQEML

Check the "Ideal first date" info.

[Tonygrt]

I am saying that She is a he, and I am only sure of it because (s) He told me.

Thank you, hard to believe, but I will certainly take your word for it!!

[Zerry]

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[BaltoMan66]

Does that happen a lot? I've never encountered that.

I have been around a while. In the past year or two I've found several trans girls who don't label themselves as trans. Some put something in their profile, which is better than others, who tell you if you get to conversation.

I've never had to find out in person though. I'm thankful for that. LOL.

To each his own, but they have a "trans friendly" label for a reason. It would help everyone. I make sure to read details if a girl is over 5-7 or so, just to be careful.

[BuffBill75]

I really hate when trans girls don't I'd as trans on the site. That's a waste of time. The only dick I ever want in a room is mine. Besides, if they say that they're trans, people looking to date them can move forward.

Does that happen a lot? I've never encountered that.

[BaltoMan66]

Trans, Just a heads up.

I really hate when trans girls don't I'd as trans on the site. That's a waste of time. The only dick I ever want in a room is mine. Besides, if they say that they're trans, people looking to date them can move forward.

[BuffBill75]

I feel similarly about the whole sharing photos thing. I only use photos that resemble me now due to some of these chicks going sour over minuscule things. Due to that I rarely send an actual photo of me and even then I usually use SC for this because I can at least see if they screenshot, etc.

That didn't take long. "I'm so hungry and don't have any money. Would you mind sending me some so I can eat?

Fuck offa.

[BookerTNelson]

I've slowed down on the pics. I used to send a pic to a SB early in the conversation. But if and when the conversation goes bad, I always freak out that she'll be able to find me on social media from the pic. I use a unique picture, but one never knows. Here's some real scenarios that have happened to me.

We chat for a bit and discuss what we're both interested.

Agree to terms. . . . everything is going and feeling great.

Pick a place to meet.

That's when the "can you send babysitter money" starts. And when I say know, the SB usually gets a little testy and that's the moment I regret ever sending a picture.

This has happened a handful of times over the past year. Somewhat rare, but it happens regularly enough that I don't really share any pics until we've cleared some more gates. They're all nice until you don't send them money.

Good luck. Stay safe.

I feel similarly about the whole sharing photos thing. I only use photos that resemble me now due to some of these chicks going sour over minuscule things. Due to that I rarely send an actual photo of me and even then I usually use SC for this because I can at least see if they screenshot, etc.

[BookerTNelson]

BTN,

Are you saying Honey Cake is Trans? She is a he? Are you sure? Tia!

I am saying that She is a he, and I am only sure of it because (s) He told me.

[Tonygrt]

Trans, Just a heads up.

BTN,

Are you saying Honey Cake is Trans? She is a he? Are you sure? Tia!

[BookerTNelson]

Let us know how it goes.

I like the look.

Trans, Just a heads up.