The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

**Member #5315** · 10-05-15 15:48

Originally Posted by BobPopBob [View Original Post]

I am pulling the trigger tomorrow. Sweet lady. FB shows she is real. Just wondering if she has been down this path before.

Link to her listing?

**Member #5769** · 10-05-15 10:47

I am pulling the trigger tomorrow. Sweet lady. FB shows she is real. Just wondering if she has been down this path before.

**PuurFit** · 10-02-15 13:53

If you are using any of the Sugar Baby sites note that Established Men is the same, exactly the same, as Arrangement Finders. Same girls, same user names and format.

Seems like a waste but if you can get a fool to buy the same data base twice then I guess they are ok.

**CantB1** · 08-23-15 17:08

Originally Posted by DogBark [View Original Post]

Ok, maybe I'm addicted to SA now. I've contacted about 100 potentials. I've met 12. I've banged 4. Every meet is different. Every arrangement is different and every girl is in one of two camps:

1) They really believe in the "Richard Gere / Pretty Woman" fantasy. They are sure that getting fucked for money at the ritz or on a yacht isn't "prostitution" because it's more "romantic. " I call these girls "civilians. " They offend easily when fact meets fantasy and will close them knees faster than a Venus flytrap on a bug.

2) They're hookers. They understand the "game" but they think they can double, triple or even quadrupole their rates because there's the sheen of an "arrangement. ".

Since neither have a sign on their forehead telling you which is which, it's a balancing act. If you approach a civilian like she's a hooker. Buzzzz - you lose. If you approach a hooker like she's a civilian. Buzzzz - you'll lose. She'll really take (or try to take) advantage of your "courting. " It will not end well.

I've had very good meets, very awkward meets, a couple scary meets and scored with 4 babes I would not otherwise have. Albeit - the most expensive puss I've ever bought (barring wives and girlfriends). One aspect I really enjoy is when a 20-something play mate greets me in a restaurant lobby and everybody stares wondering why this old guy (I'm an AARP member) is being nuzzled by this woman. Everybody knows. Including her, me, the waitress, etc. And it's kind of cool.

I've also had 3 "no shows. " One happened after popping $100 worth of cialis and booking a non-refundable hotel room.

I've met more vegans than I know what to do with. And they're a drag to take out. I feel bad about ordering steak while they end up licking the napkin on their lap because everything edible in this world disgusts them.

I've met more nannies than I knew existed in Jacksonville. It's actually cliche how many of them get on SA because they see the breeding little Mrs. Living the good life. And they want in! And the want it now!

I'm constantly told about the friend of a friend who was flown on the Concorde to a private airstrip in Spain for a $100,000 dollar summer jaunt. I'm sure this urban myth serves the SBs well to help them get over the hump of the upper middle class guy sitting in front of them. And although I've expanded on said fantasy. What I've actually heard from these girls isn't any more believable (unless you NEED to believe).

My "snort the soda out my nose" moment, came when a particularly comely MILF met me for an afternoon in St Mary's. I noticed her distinct perfume and asked her about it. I don't remember the actual name, but it's from the "Julia Roberts" collection! Irony. Be kind.

I've also had my share of crossed-wires. More than a few girls indicate in their profiles they have "expectations" of $5 k / month. I finally just had to ask 1 of these gold plated labias "Do you really expect $5,000/ month?" What she heard was. "I'm offering you $5,000/ month. " Needless to say, that lunch didn't end well. And resulted in more than a few "woman scorned" text messages I could have lived without. Thank you google voice!

I've met girls who post escort ads on Backpage. Who are looking for $2,000/ month for two "visits" (yeah. That's a $1,000 piece of ass), when the same girl's BP ad states $140 for an hour. FANTASY land!

Two women have recounted personal tales of previous multi-thousand $/ month arrangements. Are they lying? Are they trying to get me to offer more because some other fool fell off a banana cart? I don't know. But this to is an artifact of the lies both parties tell each other. And themselves. To make this experience more comprehendable.

The best description a girl has given me regarding this experience: "SA is match. Com on fast forward. " Perhaps.

This sugar stuff ain't sweet! You contact 100 girls. 12 you got to meet. The you fucked 4 of the 12. That's a 4% success rate. And that sounds like a job in itself to spend all that time working the system. Sounds like your out of your league. You tryna buy a steak with ground beef money. Only a few of these woman are even "choice" over "select" and you ain't going to get "prime" if you got to negotiate.

I will stick to my SWeet and low providers.

CB1.

Can we get a mail order bride thread going?

**PuurFit** · 08-22-15 19:38

Originally Posted by DogBark [View Original Post]

Ok, maybe I'm addicted to SA now. I've contacted about 100 potentials. I've met 12. I've banged 4. Every meet is different. Every arrangement is different and every girl is in one of two camps:

1) They really believe in the "Richard Gere / Pretty Woman" fantasy. They are sure that getting fucked for money at the ritz or on a yacht isn't "prostitution" because it's more "romantic. " I call these girls "civilians. " They offend easily when fact meets fantasy and will close them knees faster than a Venus flytrap on a bug.

2) They're hookers. They understand the "game" but they think they can double, triple or even quadrupole their rates because there's the sheen of an "arrangement. ".

Since neither have a sign on their forehead telling you which is which, it's a balancing act. If you approach a civilian like she's a hooker. Buzzzz - you lose. If you approach a hooker like she's a civilian. Buzzzz - you'll lose. She'll really take (or try to take) advantage of your "courting. " It will not end well.

I've had very good meets, very awkward meets, a couple scary meets and scored with 4 babes I would not otherwise have. Albeit - the most expensive puss I've ever bought (barring wives and girlfriends). One aspect I really enjoy is when a 20-something play mate greets me in a restaurant lobby and everybody stares wondering why this old guy (I'm an AARP member) is being nuzzled by this woman. Everybody knows. Including her, me, the waitress, etc. And it's kind of cool.

I've also had 3 "no shows. " One happened after popping $100 worth of cialis and booking a non-refundable hotel room.

I've met more vegans than I know what to do with. And they're a drag to take out. I feel bad about ordering steak while they end up licking the napkin on their lap because everything edible in this world disgusts them.

I've met more nannies than I knew existed in Jacksonville. It's actually cliche how many of them get on SA because they see the breeding little Mrs. Living the good life. And they want in! And the want it now!

I'm constantly told about the friend of a friend who was flown on the Concorde to a private airstrip in Spain for a $100,000 dollar summer jaunt. I'm sure this urban myth serves the SBs well to help them get over the hump of the upper middle class guy sitting in front of them. And although I've expanded on said fantasy. What I've actually heard from these girls isn't any more believable (unless you NEED to believe).

My "snort the soda out my nose" moment, came when a particularly comely MILF met me for an afternoon in St Mary's. I noticed her distinct perfume and asked her about it. I don't remember the actual name, but it's from the "Julia Roberts" collection! Irony. Be kind.

I've also had my share of crossed-wires. More than a few girls indicate in their profiles they have "expectations" of $5 k / month. I finally just had to ask 1 of these gold plated labias "Do you really expect $5,000/ month?" What she heard was. "I'm offering you $5,000/ month. " Needless to say, that lunch didn't end well. And resulted in more than a few "woman scorned" text messages I could have lived without. Thank you google voice!

I've met girls who post escort ads on Backpage. Who are looking for $2,000/ month for two "visits" (yeah. That's a $1,000 piece of ass), when the same girl's BP ad states $140 for an hour. FANTASY land!

Two women have recounted personal tales of previous multi-thousand $/ month arrangements. Are they lying? Are they trying to get me to offer more because some other fool fell off a banana cart? I don't know. But this to is an artifact of the lies both parties tell each other. And themselves. To make this experience more comprehendable.

The best description a girl has given me regarding this experience: "SA is match. Com on fast forward. " Perhaps.

Great to have another monger pipe in and I agree. If you feed the "pretty woman" fantasy it is much easier!

If they tell you of the past and how great it was, why are you here?

I tell them them it is Jax, and the price is. , the biding war is done, most take and are happy!

Note, most of the local talent is leaving sbfm and moving to sa.

Yes, strange how the contact info is on BP and on the paysite, I adjust the price and expectations accordingly!

**DogBark** · 08-22-15 14:43

Ok, maybe I'm addicted to SA now. I've contacted about 100 potentials. I've met 12. I've banged 4. Every meet is different. Every arrangement is different and every girl is in one of two camps:

1) They really believe in the "Richard Gere / Pretty Woman" fantasy. They are sure that getting fucked for money at the ritz or on a yacht isn't "prostitution" because it's more "romantic. " I call these girls "civilians. " They offend easily when fact meets fantasy and will close them knees faster than a Venus flytrap on a bug.

2) They're hookers. They understand the "game" but they think they can double, triple or even quadrupole their rates because there's the sheen of an "arrangement. ".

Since neither have a sign on their forehead telling you which is which, it's a balancing act. If you approach a civilian like she's a hooker. Buzzzz - you lose. If you approach a hooker like she's a civilian. Buzzzz - you'll lose. She'll really take (or try to take) advantage of your "courting. " It will not end well.

I've had very good meets, very awkward meets, a couple scary meets and scored with 4 babes I would not otherwise have. Albeit - the most expensive puss I've ever bought (barring wives and girlfriends). One aspect I really enjoy is when a 20-something play mate greets me in a restaurant lobby and everybody stares wondering why this old guy (I'm an AARP member) is being nuzzled by this woman. Everybody knows. Including her, me, the waitress, etc. And it's kind of cool.

I've also had 3 "no shows. " One happened after popping $100 worth of cialis and booking a non-refundable hotel room.

I've met more vegans than I know what to do with. And they're a drag to take out. I feel bad about ordering steak while they end up licking the napkin on their lap because everything edible in this world disgusts them.

I've met more nannies than I knew existed in Jacksonville. It's actually cliche how many of them get on SA because they see the breeding little Mrs. Living the good life. And they want in! And the want it now!

I'm constantly told about the friend of a friend who was flown on the Concorde to a private airstrip in Spain for a $100,000 dollar summer jaunt. I'm sure this urban myth serves the SBs well to help them get over the hump of the upper middle class guy sitting in front of them. And although I've expanded on said fantasy. What I've actually heard from these girls isn't any more believable (unless you NEED to believe).

My "snort the soda out my nose" moment, came when a particularly comely MILF met me for an afternoon in St Mary's. I noticed her distinct perfume and asked her about it. I don't remember the actual name, but it's from the "Julia Roberts" collection! Irony. Be kind.

I've also had my share of crossed-wires. More than a few girls indicate in their profiles they have "expectations" of $5 k / month. I finally just had to ask 1 of these gold plated labias "Do you really expect $5,000/ month?" What she heard was. "I'm offering you $5,000/ month. " Needless to say, that lunch didn't end well. And resulted in more than a few "woman scorned" text messages I could have lived without. Thank you google voice!

I've met girls who post escort ads on Backpage. Who are looking for $2,000/ month for two "visits" (yeah. That's a $1,000 piece of ass), when the same girl's BP ad states $140 for an hour. FANTASY land!

Two women have recounted personal tales of previous multi-thousand $/ month arrangements. Are they lying? Are they trying to get me to offer more because some other fool fell off a banana cart? I don't know. But this to is an artifact of the lies both parties tell each other. And themselves. To make this experience more comprehendable.

The best description a girl has given me regarding this experience: "SA is match. Com on fast forward. " Perhaps.

**MudslideSlim** · 08-20-15 22:07

I thought we were Reviewing and Intelling. NOT chatting like we were in one of the other threads.

I jumped in here looking to get some good intel. : o (.

**HornyGuy2** · 08-20-15 21:04

Originally Posted by Poliedrico [View Original Post]

I am not an expert but if you approach girls searching for a sugar daddy showing them you are trying to save a buck or two, I am not sure you will impress them the way to plan to be impressed.

I do not think they consider frugality the best quality in a man.

I could also tell them that the money I'm saving is the reason why I actually have money, and because of that I can spend more on them.

**Drew Park** · 08-20-15 20:35

Originally Posted by Poliedrico [View Original Post]

I am not an expert but if you approach girls searching for a sugar daddy showing them you are trying to save a buck or two, I am not sure you will impress them the way to plan to be impressed. I do not think they consider frugality the best quality in a man.

Yep, those girls are looking for real Sugar and not a Sugar Substitute.

**Member #6124** · 08-20-15 16:39

Originally Posted by HornyGuy2 [View Original Post]

So I tried to circumvent the system by setting up a profile as a sugar baby with the intent of emailing other sugar babies for free LOL. Yeah that didn't work. They get free messages (10) but when you search you can only see sugar daddys and you cant type in a screen name of any women (I tried) you can also get a 6 month account for like 90 bucks I believe as a sugar baby compared to 300 as a daddy. Thought I'd be able to save a little money on membership but they shut me down LOL.

I am not an expert but if you approach girls searching for a sugar daddy showing them you are trying to save a buck or two, I am not sure you will impress them the way to plan to be impressed.

I do not think they consider frugality the best quality in a man.

**HobbyGuyJax** · 08-20-15 13:49

Originally Posted by HornyGuy2 [View Original Post]

So I tried to circumvent the system by setting up a profile as a sugar baby with the intent of emailing other sugar babies for free LOL. Yeah that didn't work. They get free messages (10) but when you search you can only see sugar daddys and you cant type in a screen name of any women (I tried) you can also get a 6 month account for like 90 bucks I believe as a sugar baby compared to 300 as a daddy. Thought I'd be able to save a little money on membership but they shut me down LOL.

LMAO, bet you aren't the only one who tried that approach! Nice try, thanks for saving the rest of us the trouble.

**HornyGuy2** · 08-20-15 11:15

So I tried to circumvent the system by setting up a profile as a sugar baby with the intent of emailing other sugar babies for free LOL. Yeah that didn't work. They get free messages (10) but when you search you can only see sugar daddys and you cant type in a screen name of any women (I tried) you can also get a 6 month account for like 90 bucks I believe as a sugar baby compared to 300 as a daddy. Thought I'd be able to save a little money on membership but they shut me down LOL.