The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[Red Bar]

Comms seemed promising then asks to pay $50 for a cam show with the possibility of a meet. Politely declined. Be advised.

https://www.seeking.com/member/121d4...2-e143ba2fa52f

[ZoomLens2013]

So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?

I don't hesitate at giving them $60-100 for having lunch with me. None have ever complained about it. I appreciate their company and I want to honor the overall purpose of being on the site, not from a monger POV of course. It hasn't always lead to "more", but I'm fine with that. While I'm still holding on to the "pay no more than $250" budget, this isn't just about the money for me. There's a human on the other side of the table, and I want us both to have a human connection. Based on what I read in these forums, I'll never get that from any girl on STG or a SW or an "escort" LOL. I've never made any effort to meet one thru those other sites, but I browse those sites to help weed them out from my SA searches, since they do sometimes make profiles on SA. And, if I get the impression from any girl on SA that they'll only see me as an ATM, I won't bother meeting.

[Scooter6]

Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.

I have never and would never pay someone just to hang out and have lunch / dinner / coffee / drink. Defeats the purpose really.

A smart girl if she was hot enough could make a decent living doing that. Meet for dinner, conversation, make a little gift and then either ghost you or she can just say 'sorry, I didn't really feel a connection' and you'd never see her again.

IMO, there is NO upside to paying someone to meet and see if you are a great fit, etc. But, whatever works for you.

[DiscreetFun306]

Another time waster. Says she would love to meet if I can gift her $50 for gas first.

https://www.seeking.com/member/955aa...0-54e6003d2055

[DiscreetFun306]

Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.

I agree. I have had a lot of success on SA and I never paid a ppm for a lunch / dinner, unless we had some fun afterwards.

[MyDarkSide]

What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?

Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.

[Bud Green]

I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.

What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?

[Bud Green]

Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.

Unfortunately for it to work for me I would have to go out of town for a couple days or just put them up in hotel and see them as schedule permits.

[MyDarkSide]

LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?

Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.

[MikeIsHome]

Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.

I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.

[HoosierDaddy69]

Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.

Asking her what she wants. I never just offer an amount first.

[HoosierDaddy69]

I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?

An no, I have not. But I get messages from girls all the country / world asking for that. I think twice it has actually happened where a girl was actually coming to Florida for another reason and we met up. But I have had multiple girls travel to me in Jax (and vice versa) within a 2 hour radius. The pickins' are much better in Orlando. Not as much competition for the ones in Savannah, Tally, Gainesville, etc.

[SixWheels]

Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.

[Bud Green]

Like you, I've been on / off SA (and all the others) for 15+ years. Obviously if they're able to lay up and do nothing, get $3200+ in stimulus money, and $600 a week in unemployment for a while vs working or sugaring, some will choose the easy / lazy path. But that incentive is drying up. I think the bigger culprit is * and other venues for selling their pics & vids. While most don't make all that much with that, the few really successful ones inspire the others (and the lower quality girls) to try. SA has apparently not bothered policing those online-virtual only arrangement seekers like they used to. So it equates to more work, time, etc to find fewer SB's to have fun with.

I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?

[DiscreetFun306]

Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.

Thanks for the feedback. I have had good success with just a coffee or drink for the first meet. I really like that first meet in public to make sure it is a good fit. It has been my experience in the past if I have her come straight to my hotel room for the first meet she is not what I am expecting and then things can get a little awkward.