The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

**Bud Green** · 09-27-20 13:44

Anyone have an experience with this one? If so please share the deets including damage. Thanks and have a good one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1924d...2-f8e9f51ae6c2

**LatinaHunpster** · 09-27-20 09:34

If HER profile reads: Don't waste my time. It means she is going to waste YOURS.

**LatinaHunpster** · 09-27-20 09:32

Originally Posted by KDoogie [View Original Post]

So -- about 3 years ago, I was making progress with a chunky (but cute) blonde from UNF. Emails and texts were good, we had an intro meeting, then communicated further and had an agreement on an allowance, etc, but then she started getting squirrely -- wanted an increase in an allowance, wasn't going to be able to keep the dates we had set, etc. So, I got on this board and reported that she was a game-player. Within the hour, she was texting me, and cussing me out for bad-mouthing her to others, etc.

So, I'd say that SB's being aware of this board is NOT a new development -- but one we need to be mindful of. I'm still glad I posted about her, though, as I heard from the other SD she was pursuing (and also playing games with), and we both dropped her. She was off of the site within a few days after that.

There are some White Knights in this forum who also like to tell some of these chicks they are talked about here. Defin had happen to me what you just described a couple years ago. Unfortunately this forum is best to inform each other of time wasters and scammers. If you give good specific intel that's not a PM. You can get burned on here.

**Traveler6940** · 09-26-20 21:48

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f2a8...3-6955ec72caa7

Scam. I'm a single mom, blah blah blah. I need money. "I'm getting desperate cause I need help on renewing my tag and paying for a ticket. Plus need help w my sons tuition. So I'm just looking for someone who is willing to help a girl out in her time of need.

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA! WTF ever pumpkin. Blocked.

**Traveler6940** · 09-26-20 21:45

Originally Posted by BudGreen [View Original Post]

Meant to see this one but she vanished anyone with info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/8195e...a-cddeb2deffa2

Total GPS. Got bent out of shape in 2018 when she wanted $600 but would only take a minimum of $550. Became belligerent and rude. Blocked her.

**KDoogie** · 09-26-20 19:56

So -- about 3 years ago, I was making progress with a chunky (but cute) blonde from UNF. Emails and texts were good, we had an intro meeting, then communicated further and had an agreement on an allowance, etc, but then she started getting squirrely -- wanted an increase in an allowance, wasn't going to be able to keep the dates we had set, etc. So, I got on this board and reported that she was a game-player. Within the hour, she was texting me, and cussing me out for bad-mouthing her to others, etc.

So, I'd say that SB's being aware of this board is NOT a new development -- but one we need to be mindful of. I'm still glad I posted about her, though, as I heard from the other SD she was pursuing (and also playing games with), and we both dropped her. She was off of the site within a few days after that.

Originally Posted by FunNthaSun [View Original Post]

Yeah I thought it was pretty well known here that the ladies share info. I guess it's easier for me being single so I've never had any issues with using my real phone number, car and able to invite my sb's over to my place. I actually prefer it the way some of these stories I hear about going on at hotels and what not. They see that theres no issues at my place and we can relax have some drinks, walk around naked if we choose LOL. But I get some may not have that priveledge.

**Bud Green** · 09-26-20 18:50

Meant to see this one but she vanished anyone with info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/8195e...a-cddeb2deffa2

**Bud Green** · 09-25-20 18:54

Originally Posted by FourSeasons2 [View Original Post]

Guy was saying there are 4 kinds of attractive SB who join SA:

1. she's already in a good relationship but is bored and just wants verification she's still hott and men desire her. Not really interested in meeting up.

2. she's not in a good relationship but is not ready to move on / out yet. Just wants to see what SD are out there. Not really interested in meeting up.

3. she's young college aged, no career yet, no kids yet. She's looking for a attractive, well educated, well travelled, wealthy SD who will "treat her like a princess and spoil her". Will meetup with these SD (since her peers will understand). She won't otherwise be seen with a 50 something guy on a date so all other SD need not message her (she won't reply).

4. She just wants to sell pics, no interest in ever meeting in person.

He also had a female friend (who also had her own SB profile) do a test where she sent out and responded to his messages for him for 2 weeks. She thought she could help him get more dates since "she knew what the SB would want to hear". She was shocked and frustrated how many SB never responded to messages or only responded with a few word answers. She said her own SB profile gets dozens of messages a day and if she sends out a message or reponds to one from a SD, the SD always replies back.

My profile SA is currently inactive. I find that when I go active. I get 1 contact to meetup with for my 1 month membership. I send out messages to 20 or so SB. I'm polite, decent looking, well educated and travelled, have a good paying job, etc.

I wish them luck with #3 but I did have a thing going with a nice little blond up there drove a lexus. Married her SD big mistake but she used to drive down we would do dinner and the litterally bang until sunrise, but she divorced and moved have yet to find anything close to that except for this latina up there but she is out of the game.

**FunNthaSun** · 09-25-20 17:15

Originally Posted by Sparkish [View Original Post]

So, I'm not saying nobody ever spilled the beans on this site; but it's hardly necessary for that to have been the case. This site is easy to find for even the dimmest of computer users. If they suspect such a thing, or hear even an innocuous reference, or get even a minimal clue from any casual monger comment, it's a moments work to find this thing. There's no pay wall and no real defense against being cataloged here. I've always assumed this site was home to a silent audience besides the vocal audience we know about. Act accordingly.

And double ditto for girls sharing info. Being on SC, it's probably a lot harder to find and work your way into; but it's been clear for a long time that the girls are sharing information. It's in the things they say, the questions they ask, the terms they set. Did anybody ever really think they were too dumb to figure out a way to do that, to do their research, to protect themselves? Again, conduct yourself accordingly and it won't be a problem. Don't use your real name, your real phone, your real home, your real car, your shared debit card. Don't tempt fate by taking stupid chances. Treat everybody the way you would like to be treated and the information sharing won; t be a problem and will make the community and it's participants safer and stronger. It's not a war.

Yeah I thought it was pretty well known here that the ladies share info. I guess it's easier for me being single so I've never had any issues with using my real phone number, car and able to invite my sb's over to my place. I actually prefer it the way some of these stories I hear about going on at hotels and what not. They see that theres no issues at my place and we can relax have some drinks, walk around naked if we choose LOL. But I get some may not have that priveledge.

**FunNthaSun** · 09-25-20 17:03

Originally Posted by DonJon [View Original Post]

Found out some info worth sharing.

I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.

Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.

My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....

- DonJon.

I would be shocked if anyone found this information shocking LOL. I actually think we discussed this topic some time ago and also about the white night that tipped a few sb's about this forum. It's a public forum and everybody reads here. Hell I even read here for the longest time before I joined. I personally had one of my previous sb's tell me about the talk around the UNF campus about SA and this site. I heard there may be a review of us somewhere but I just handle my business the same way I always have and never had a single issue on SA. Stay safe.

**Sparkish** · 09-25-20 13:15

Originally Posted by DonJon [View Original Post]

Found out some info worth sharing.

I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.

Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.

My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....

- DonJon.

So, I'm not saying nobody ever spilled the beans on this site; but it's hardly necessary for that to have been the case. This site is easy to find for even the dimmest of computer users. If they suspect such a thing, or hear even an innocuous reference, or get even a minimal clue from any casual monger comment, it's a moments work to find this thing. There's no pay wall and no real defense against being cataloged here. I've always assumed this site was home to a silent audience besides the vocal audience we know about. Act accordingly.

And double ditto for girls sharing info. Being on SC, it's probably a lot harder to find and work your way into; but it's been clear for a long time that the girls are sharing information. It's in the things they say, the questions they ask, the terms they set. Did anybody ever really think they were too dumb to figure out a way to do that, to do their research, to protect themselves? Again, conduct yourself accordingly and it won't be a problem. Don't use your real name, your real phone, your real home, your real car, your shared debit card. Don't tempt fate by taking stupid chances. Treat everybody the way you would like to be treated and the information sharing won; t be a problem and will make the community and it's participants safer and stronger. It's not a war.

**ZoomLens2013** · 09-25-20 12:58

Originally Posted by DonJon [View Original Post]

Found out some info worth sharing.

I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.

Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.

My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....

- DonJon.

Wow, this almost makes me want to avoid engaging with college girls at all.

**DonJon** · 09-25-20 10:21

Found out some info worth sharing.

I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.

Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.

My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....

- DonJon.

**FourSeasons2** · 09-25-20 07:13

Guy was saying there are 4 kinds of attractive SB who join SA:

1. she's already in a good relationship but is bored and just wants verification she's still hott and men desire her. Not really interested in meeting up.

2. she's not in a good relationship but is not ready to move on / out yet. Just wants to see what SD are out there. Not really interested in meeting up.

3. she's young college aged, no career yet, no kids yet. She's looking for a attractive, well educated, well travelled, wealthy SD who will "treat her like a princess and spoil her". Will meetup with these SD (since her peers will understand). She won't otherwise be seen with a 50 something guy on a date so all other SD need not message her (she won't reply).

4. She just wants to sell pics, no interest in ever meeting in person.

He also had a female friend (who also had her own SB profile) do a test where she sent out and responded to his messages for him for 2 weeks. She thought she could help him get more dates since "she knew what the SB would want to hear". She was shocked and frustrated how many SB never responded to messages or only responded with a few word answers. She said her own SB profile gets dozens of messages a day and if she sends out a message or reponds to one from a SD, the SD always replies back.

My profile SA is currently inactive. I find that when I go active. I get 1 contact to meetup with for my 1 month membership. I send out messages to 20 or so SB. I'm polite, decent looking, well educated and travelled, have a good paying job, etc.

**FourSeasons2** · 09-25-20 06:53

Originally Posted by BudGreen [View Original Post]

Everyone's mileage is different but I always make sure I have something in writing regarding the agreed upon amount. My reasoning is it's easier to take a solicitation charge than an allegation of rape charge. The attorney fees alone are enough to bankrupt most people vs a small fine.

+ you can show her when she claims she did not agree to that donation amount.