General Reports

[TripleB3891]

I 2nd this.

Got contact info for her?

[GolfMan57]

She challenged me on seeking -- got an immediate block from me!!

How did she challenge you?

[Member #6575]

Got contact info for her?

She challenged me on seeking -- got an immediate block from me!!

[VAPilot]

She is a cutie, always enjoyed my time with her. Not a pro, just trying to stay afloat.

Got contact info for her?

[WillyHost]

I've requested a thread specifically for SA girls I the 'burg.

Until then -- I am chatting to this one -- feels like a partial semi-pro!!

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdf29...e-bf1103c78256

Anybody else had experience? Says she works restaurants in Spotsy.

Thanks.

SA.

She is a cutie, always enjoyed my time with her. Not a pro, just trying to stay afloat.

[Mojorizn1]

Anyone have intel on this lovely one? https://fredericksburg.skipthegames....n/797517672543.

[Member #6575]

I've requested a thread specifically for SA girls I the 'burg.

Until then -- I am chatting to this one -- feels like a partial semi-pro!!

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdf29...e-bf1103c78256

Anybody else had experience? Says she works restaurants in Spotsy.

Thanks.

SA.

[JamesBlond007]

TL; DR it's worth it to just try it, at least for a month. Just expect a very low success rate.

So I finally ponied up for 1 month on SA, $90 or 80% of an AMP visit if you think of it that way. I resisted for a while because I disagree with it on principle, but they have to make money somehow, and they charge as much for female premies as they do male, AFAIK. FYI, if you send messages as a generic member, your messages won't be readable. One month gone, I'd rate it "so-so" as a source of mongering. The Richmond and NoVa SB forums are good sources if you want to see how nearby communities are faring and get some pointers. Sum it up, Richmond is a goldmine, DC is all over the map from crazy good one-time-BBFS GMU girls to straight up hi priced hoes in DC, and everything above and below. Spotsy / Fred / Stafford is kind of the pits by comparison, but not totally devoid. Stafford has many more potentials.

I set up a profile with a pic with blurred out face, wore something nice. Typed out a vague, but generally accurate description list of wants and expectations. Paid with a Visa vanilla gift card, available anywhere, just make sure you put in a fake address with area code that matches your profile location. Then I favorited lots of profiles, sent lots of intro messages and awaited responses. Only a few contacted me first. I started out in the 10 mile Fburg radius, which includes Stafford and a few points south. If you change locations slightly, you get very different results, for instance if you switch to Spotsy, you start getting suggestions from Richmond. Having 2 locations, like a home and work area, will give you some more options.

So far, over 2 locations, I've come up with 2-3 good leads out of lots of cold calls, like to the tune of 100+. Not talking model types, but friendly women who just need some masculine attention, and who probably won't break my bank. The model types are there, but their asking prices are pretty outrageous. Success is usually due to a lot of persistence and a good bit of luck. Managing expectations is also a big part of it. If you want a fresh-faced 18 year old f*cktoi, you're going to have some work ahead of you, and deal with lots of flakes & fails. Over 30, you have some different options. NoVa has more options, but is closer to DC so you get lots of pros, and their asking prices reflect it. You'll see all kinds of all ages and attitudes. GPS is real and pervasive. There are a f*ckload of single moms. Having a hosting location will give you an advantage with the young ones especially (most of whom probably still live at home), although some can and do host, esp. Older ones. You will almost always get quoted some outrageous rate to meet, but you can usually talk them down.

Lots will ask for college money or rent, bills, car, or some other justification. There is media out there telling women that they can fund XYZ by being a sugar baby, so I'm sure that's where these entitled idiots get the idea. That said, a good number of them are realistic, and as long as you can make it worth their while, and aren't a creep about it. I just met one and spent $20 on a free lunch to get to know her, and I have high hopes. If she bails, I'm out $20.

You'll also see every scam in the book. Can I have money before we meetup, pay me and I'll give you my work location and we can meet, send me money and I'll get a hotel room, I have med bills to pay (which may actually be true, I don't know), I'm stuck in Bumblef*ck Egypt and need money to get home, I want to buy concert tickets and the sale ends in 30 min. , then we can screw, etc. More than a few just want money because they're girls, or because they had a sob story, or they saw some video that said old men are desperate for attention and will just give you an allowance because girls. Nothing offered in exchange. One wanted free Chipotle just for the pleasure of her company. Plenty want to sell you nudes, and their self-esteem is through the roof.

It's a percentages game, and expect a low success rate. Unless you're a hedge fund manager NFL star who looks like Antonio Banderas, your hit rate will be at around 1%. Some autist in the NoVa forum broke down his success percentage, and it was pretty shocking. The more swings in the batting cage, the more hits you'll get. You'll get a ton of likes from Venezuela, the Philippines, and other locales. Most hits are flaky, or will just ghost you at the drop of the hat, the younger ones especially. For example, I have a 51 year old who quoted me $350 for up to 5 hours that I was able to talk down to $150 for 1-2 hours, but thought $100 for a QV was too low (yes, you read right, Fifty One), but she looks good for it, and is way DTF, and has her own place in a luxury apartment not far from where I work. That's to say there isn't a one-size fits all but if you look hard enough, you can probably find what you're looking for.

One last thing to add. The successes tend more often than not to be on the low-mileage / monogamous side, so "sharing is caring" isn't always an option. There is a perception that guys get their favorites and don't want to share isn't because of the monger, it's usually because of the girl.

[Grafenberg]

Just a general curiosity, I've begun to wonder just how safe it is to partake with the escorts and AMP's. Who has the better general hygiene and perhaps medical care? Of course we use condoms for safety, don't want to catch anything, but what else and how many of them have been there before?

Better hygiene, individual basis. Better medical care, equally nonexistent for both types of providers. If you really must eat the box and want to do so with some protection, use a dental dam. https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiven...l-dam-use.html.

[Loader401]

My take on it is this. As far as hygiene, escorts have an opportunity to get clean between meetings. Escorts try to schedule appts with an allowance of time for them to shower and get cleaned up again. AMPs may not allow it due to the nature or popularity. Rarely (my experience) have I not seen an AMP provider not due some cleaning of the nether regions when I have taken the massage to the next level. We usually wash each other back at the TS, some extended fun. I don't usually do UTC on the lower half unless we are all in.

When it comes to Med care, I still believe the escorts win out on this as well. They set their times and practices for the most part. So that allows them to see docs more. Plus it's sex, it's more of a hot topic than a HJ. AMP technicians work A LOT. Sometimes with 1-2 days of rest but most only 1. Long hours, long weeks equal not a lot of time for Med checks. Plus, just speculating, I would think they shrug off the occasional digital manipulation as not a bad thing even though we all know the germs on our skin contains more than simple cough and sniffles. The fact that we carry fecal, strep, staph, and other germs from day to day life without even knowing it or in such small doses, people disregard the safety factor.

Just my 2 cents. Stay safe out there!

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[WhiteLake830]

Just a general curiosity, I've begun to wonder just how safe it is to partake with the escorts and AMP's. Who has the better general hygiene and perhaps medical care? Of course we use condoms for safety, don't want to catch anything, but what else and how many of them have been there before?

[JamesBlond007]

It was good info to have but, there was no need to divulge it and I can understand why it spooked her. Things a lady would not want her significant other to know, #1 that she's sucking smelly dicks for money.

Not disputing the good points, and trust me, I do understand, but I've had a little time to think about this, and I'm sorry to let a chance at some nice tenderloin get away, but I still think I did the right thing. First, it's not like I used some secret crypto magic to crack her code. Her last name was in the messenger handle and her first name in the "display" name. How could I not do a quick search. Second, after searching all of 2 minutes, I find out she has an armed and dangerous boyfriend / ex-boyfriend. I did a similar search on Crested and that's how I found out she was a bitter divorcee (who now makes it plain she has a preference for lawyers lmao / smh). Third, there was no good way, or line of questioning about this that wouldn't have spooked her, but I still think it was a fair question to ask. If she said "oh, he's deployed for x months, and I just have a kitty that needs a scratchin' and could use some pocket change for my troubles", I would have accepted that. Or even "well, it's my dirty secret, he can't find out about it," okay, that just means I change my logistics slightly.

Sorry, but on a site where young ladies are basically play acting as high dollar hookers, I think safety first has to be the rule. I'll just be a little more artful about it next time.

[JamesBlond007]

You must have spooked her, I was talking with her on and off the site, she is gone from the site and ghost on text number.

Well, sorry gents. I was just trying to give her a chance to assure me that I wasn't going to get jumped by her pistol-wielding boyfriend, or ex.

[Grafenberg]

You must have spooked her, I was talking with her on and off the site, she is gone from the site and ghost on text number.

It was good info to have but, there was no need to divulge it and I can understand why it spooked her. Things a lady would not want her significant other to know, #1 that she's sucking smelly dicks for money.

[GolfMan57]

Gents. I finally bit the bullet and shelled out for 30 days on SA. I'll say it's worth it for now. I think even if I come away with 1 or 2 hits, I'll be satisfied. I'll tell you right now, AshMad isn't worth it. The contrast in experiences is interesting. SA, you upgrade and all of a sudden you can send and read messages with no filters. By the way, if you send messages in your free / trial period, none will get through, so don't even bother. AshMad, you sit there with your credits and warm beer in the corner. The only good thing is that your credits have no time limit, at least as far as I can tell. SA, you can send as many messages as you want. The selection is still about the same, lots of students, single moms, divorcees, and working girls. Another aspect worth mentioning is that the girls you can "share" seem to be fewer and far between, because with the genuine SA UTR's, it's seems to be a chemistry thing.

I'm about to see this one, unless any SA veterans have any words of caution:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e3257...0-9c460e2c932c

Just as a heads up, there's one I was about to see, but I did some digging and lo and behold, she has a boyfriend who is a Marine. I tipped my hand and asked her about it, and she either blocked me or disappeared from the site. Not sure if I freaked her out or caught on to her game, but here are some pictures in case you run across her:

You must have spooked her, I was talking with her on and off the site, she is gone from the site and ghost on text number.