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  1. #52
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    Posts: 533
    I couldn't have said it better myself Havanaman! Oh, to be a GOD! At least in your own mind, and your womans!

    I would hazard a guess that truly pleasing your partner and yourself while having sex is the closest that you can get to Heaven on Earth!

  2. #51
    Boxcc,

    Agree with you all the way about confidence. I would also add that a lot of men have no idea when it comes to techniques. I can not explain this, but a lot of guys think that just “sticking it in" will do the job. Is this because they did not have any “girl time” at college, or just an inability to imagine what needs doing (after all it is basic human instinct and the chicas nearly always give indicators as to what they need…).

    The majority of young men show public bravado, especially in the company of other young men: this I feel just fuels the “stick-it-in” methodology.

    The lesson, and I think it should be taught in schools, is quite simple: air is to breathing as friction is to good sex.

    In the end you are right Boxcc, size is an issue in confidence, technique is the solution. Just think gentlemen: a nice size and refined technique would make us all gods!

    Regards, Havanaman

  3. #50
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    Posts: 533
    Snake 27, which part weren't you serious about, the part where you said that you had a monkey dick, or the part where you said that women don't like monkey dicks? lol.

    I would agree with your premise on general terms. I have an average to slightly larger than average penis. (Nothing to brag about!) Anyway, I believe as long as you display confidence in yourself, and know how to use it and other sexual techniques, then women don't really care how big it is. They just want to have a satisfying sexual experience.

    I dated a girl for a while who used to be married with a guy that she described as having a 'horse' dick. She said at first it was wonderful because she never felt so full before, but after the initial sense of being full wore off, she wasn't satisfied because he didn't know how to use that thing. She said that he would stick it in, work it just long enough for him to get off and she had to get hers quick or she didn't get one herself.

    Now, I believe she was being honest because she said that she loved having a big dick, she just wanted to be with a skilled partner. She speculated that most women are that way. They are satisfied with your size as long as you satisfy them completely. And, I believe that to satisfy a woman completely you have to have confidence in yourself.

    I would hazard a guess that most guys with small shafts don't have the most self-confidence in the world, and therefore their failure to please women derives more from the lack of self-confidence than lack of penis size. -Just an opinion!

  4. #49
    I doubt it very much that there is any minimum size required by biology for insemination.

    People used to think that if women does not get orgasm, she does not get pregnant. Turned out to be absolutely wrong.

    Your main sex organ is your brain. For both sexes. Orgasm happens in brain - in the genital area it is just the result of stimulation of nerves initiated by brain.

    I remember a woman who was still clothed and just some petting made her to orgasm - even her legs buckled.

    I have seen plenty of them, and mine is above average (no bragging). My exwife never had an orgasm.

    Many women never have an orgasm. It has not been shown that they enjoy sex any less than those who do have it. Men have single orgasm, and how long does it last? A whole 30 seconds. But men are not any less satisfied with sex than women.

    So worry about your relationship - and dont worry about your size. If size of the first is robust, then most men have adequate size for the second.

  5. #48
    Snake27,

    I agree with what you say. I had not thought about the "ornament theory", interesting and I expect, a credible idea.

    As to the importance of size, biologically speaking: well, for insemination 3” - 4” has got to be a minimum.

    Where can I read more about the "ornament theory" ?

    Regards, Havanaman

  6. #47
    I've got nothing informational to say, as I've been lying low lately, but I can weigh in on the big question "Does size matter ?". My post is based partly on experience and partly on fragments of books I've read over the years, but I can't cite them. And it's not like I studied this question, it just came up.

    The majority of women will say size doesn't matter; my own experience as a moderately big guy with a fair sampling of women over 20 years is that at least 10% of them like the feeling, and at least 25% like the appearance, though I would bet that if you're too big you reach diminishing returns (or drive a smaller percentage of women wild ?). Meanwhile natural selection requires a minimum size, about 4" to inseminate, so biologically size does not seem to matter much. However, humans have the largest penis among primates (you have to wonder about about the guy who discovered that !). The profound question is: why ?

    The best theory seems to be that there is a mild selection for penis size based on the "ornament theory" of sexual selection. Accordingly, in every species certain characteristics may be selected arbitrarily, even though they confer no benefit. An obvious example is peacock feathers, which are rather burdensome but are indeed selected by females. There are many other examples as well. A male's "ornament" proves that he can waste biological resources yet still survive. It is a sign they are healthy and fit, that they grew their appendages properly and with lots of cells to spare.

    So, enjoy your ornament ! And don't get too upset about this post. I'm only 40% serious. Alright, I'm outta here.

  7. #46
    Cienega32

    Excellent attitude. Way to go!

    Regards, Havanaman

  8. #45
    "Marauder:

    Question: Why do women fake orgasms?

    Answer: Because they think we care."

    That's like the time I took my pants off and the provider started to laugh and asked "Who do you think you're gonna please with THAT?"

    "Me!"

  9. #44
    Sex Terminator,

    I’m not familiar with the technique however any ligature-process needs to be thought our with care. The degree of tightness is important and I would suggest that more than an 30 min (absolute max) is dangerous witout re-oxygenation.

    If you are going to continue to develop this idea then you might care to consider adding the following protocol:

    1. Dry pulling, followed by
    2. Lubed workout
    3. Gently flicking your organ left-right, up-down to re-infuse with blood, say 2 minutes.
    4. Ligaturing for 30 mins
    5. Back to stage #3
    6. Ligature for another 30 min.
    7. Back to stage #3 for 5 full minutes.

    Of note is that fact that the total workout time will be longer, giving time for spiritual contemplation (seriously!). I'm told by a dear friend that doctors will be redundant soon, as people will heal themselves... I'm sure she is right and thus meditation as part of any workout will be an advantage.

    Please note: I’m not an expert here, but the above looks reasonable and from a medical viewpoint, 30 min of using a ligature-ring is acceptable, specifically as this is a known prescription regimen in impotence therapy.

    Regards,

    Havanaman

  10. #43
    So Havanaman, what kind of the timing should you suggest in ring wearing techniques. Have you actually heard before or my case is the first?

    To all: Thanks to all the bros, I truly understanding the risk of the technique I proposed earlier and I really appreciate your concern. Hopefully our continue discussion and further finetune can make this technique a breakthrough discovery. Please keep it on.


    ST

  11. #42
    I think sex terminators suggestion of cutting of blood supply to the penis is exactly that - Sex termination!

  12. #41
    Davinci,

    You are right. I’m no penis enlargement expert but restrictions in venous return are dangerous to say the least.

    Sex Terminator: take care Bro. Using rings is Ok, no fear, and quite a pleasure: but the length of time you wear the ring is ultra important to give fresh blood (thus oxygen, nutrients etc).

    Regards, Havanaman

  13. #40
    Huggy Bear #2,

    Without doubt, not the hangers! My man is against all forms of (what he calls) “evil devices” (each to their own…). He told me that he recommends simple pulling, from the bottom of the shaft first, then from the head. This is followed by what he called lubricated pulling. I guess it is the classic jelqing exercise he is describing, although he did not use this word.

    By the way, he refused to give me any of his rejuvenation exercises as he is publishing a paper on it. I will be happy to give you details of this as soon as I know them.

    Regards, Havanaman

  14. #39
    Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha HA.

    Dear ST,

    That sounds like a real good way to lose it for EVER. If you are slow to take off whatever you are using to keep your penis engorged ( a.k.a cock ring), you can develop gangrene, then bye-bye penis.

    Also, there is no way your penis can enlarge by occluding the the outflow of venous blood.


    You seem to be having lots of fun, so why??

  15. #38
    When he said stretch it and it will grow, was he referring to jelqing, stretching by hand, or one of those bib hanger things?

    Thanks for the info!

    HB

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