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[Murrican]

I've read through a decent amount of the indexed articles (fantastic feature, BTW) that I thought might provide some insight on this very general question I have, and I've not found any. Forgive me if I've overlooked something. Presuming there is discourse on this somewhere, I would appreciate being pointed in the correct direction.

My question is, is LE a concern in sugar dating, specifically on SA? I've been approached by some girls with such direct information, with zero degree of finesse or use of the generally accepted terminology, that I've thought to myself, do I event want to participate in this conversation? Particularly when it comes to discussing $. Also, I've been in touch with a couple of 18 yo who were, like I just mentioned, so direct and explicit, I had to ask for photos of ID before continuing the chat. I'm still not entirely sure I'm comfortable threading that needle. Anyways, my question is, are there any reasons for being concerned that you are messaging, or texting with LE? Of note. I have chosen to conduct my allowance negotiations via a burner number, in advance of any meet.

Thank you in advance.

I've said this before, but I'm happy to say it again.

LE has limited resources. Trust me the last place they're spending their time is Seeking! They go fishing where the fish are.

That doesn't mean you don't have a major legal liability. I've shared this before. Some girls on seeking are crazy. Do this for long enough and you'll meet one, two, three, many the risk is some girl accuses you of something for whatever reason. She's crazy. She has daddy issues. She can get more money out of you. She's having a bad day. She's having regrets. That's your biggest liability.

I've preached and will preach again. Your biggest responsibility is to leave the situation peacefully. Every Time. Even if it costs you money and face. Never leave a crazy ***** to decide whether you're playing defense. .

[Murrican]

I have no special insight here but the idea LE is conducting stings on SA is ludicrous. They want to catch people who are looking for that kind of thing, not people who got lied to and fell for it. They're not going to waste their time on an adult dating site.

Still, buyer beware. One time I was making plans with an 18 year old and she said something that made me look twice. I asked her directly exactly how old she was. She said she'd be 18 in a few months. I immediately screen shotted the interaction and reported it to SA.

If you do come across it I think that's the prudent thing to do. Because if she gets caught elsewhere and they start looking at history, I wanted to be fully on the written record as the guy who sounded the alarm the moment I saw it.

I've read through a decent amount of the indexed articles (fantastic feature, BTW) that I thought might provide some insight on this very general question I have, and I've not found any. Forgive me if I've overlooked something. Presuming there is discourse on this somewhere, I would appreciate being pointed in the correct direction.

My question is, is LE a concern in sugar dating, specifically on SA? I've been approached by some girls with such direct information, with zero degree of finesse or use of the generally accepted terminology, that I've thought to myself, do I event want to participate in this conversation? Particularly when it comes to discussing $. Also, I've been in touch with a couple of 18 yo who were, like I just mentioned, so direct and explicit, I had to ask for photos of ID before continuing the chat. I'm still not entirely sure I'm comfortable threading that needle. Anyways, my question is, are there any reasons for being concerned that you are messaging, or texting with LE? Of note. I have chosen to conduct my allowance negotiations via a burner number, in advance of any meet.

Thank you in advance.

[BamBam]

I'm sure I should know. But I don't, what is the FC.

Or any place you do the deed. It's generally not used outside the sugar bowl. Same with 'Warden' for an SO.

BAM.

[IrideAss65]

Quick update.

I just hit the FC with #2, which means I've bagged my first SB. Things went great and I'm looking forward to seeing her again. Definitely going to keep her in the rotation.

I have a date with #1 in four days. Looking forward to it.

#3 no-showed on me. No loss there.

Still texting daily with #4. She's interested in meeting up, but it's a 50/50 shot on whether or not I'm going to be able to get her into the FC. If anybody has any solid advice on that, I'm all ears.

I'm sure I should know. But I don't, what is the FC.

[PartyTime5150]

I've read everything I could on sugaring and thanks to the sage advice from this thread, I have four dates this week with POTS. I met them all on SA.

If any of you have advice for me, I'm all ears.

Here's what I'm locking into:

1. A cute middle class redhead about two hours away. 8 / 8 / 10 / TBD. Has a stable job. She can't host, but has sent been sending me nudes and masturbation videos on a daily basis. Down for BB and anything else I want. She has no expectations in terms of sugar and is happy for me to just cover the cost of the hotel and a meal. She wants to meet up twice a week. I'm scheduling two days in a hotel with her. She's a squirter and a total freak. It's going to be great.

2. Black college student. 7 / 9 / 7 / TBD. She just got done with finals and is chomping at the bit to blow off some steam. Has a stable job, zero expectations for sugar. Safety girl, said she wasn't cool letting me go BB. She's super stoked to hit the FC.

3. Petite spinner. Possible UTR. 10/10 / 5 / TBD. This is the one I know the least about. She's only in town for a few days (possible red flag) and said that she's down to just meet up, grab a meal and head straight to the FC. Conversation has been minimal. I'm not too sure how to handle this one. I have a feeling she's going to eat dinner and then tell me she wants some insane amount of money to do the deed.

4. Petite blonde girl next door turned punk / alt type. 10 /10 / 10 / TBD. This one is dangerous for me. She's so off the charts hot and her personality just doesn't match it. She's way too chill and I really enjoy talking to her. The conversations have been great, but haven't turned sexual yet, which has been surprisingly fine with me. If I didn't have anything else on the line, I might feel otherwise. I want to take her to the FC so bad. If any of you have advice on how to get things to head in that direction organically, that would be greatly appreciated. Maybe I just need to be patient.

Quick update.

I just hit the FC with #2, which means I've bagged my first SB. Things went great and I'm looking forward to seeing her again. Definitely going to keep her in the rotation.

I have a date with #1 in four days. Looking forward to it.

#3 no-showed on me. No loss there.

Still texting daily with #4. She's interested in meeting up, but it's a 50/50 shot on whether or not I'm going to be able to get her into the FC. If anybody has any solid advice on that, I'm all ears.

[Jcn1965]

I've read everything I could on sugaring and thanks to the sage advice from this thread, I have four dates this week with POTS. I met them all on SA.

If any of you have advice for me, I'm all ears.

Here's what I'm locking into:

1. A cute middle class redhead about two hours away. 8 / 8 / 10 / TBD. Has a stable job. She can't host, but has sent been sending me nudes and masturbation videos on a daily basis. Down for BB and anything else I want. She has no expectations in terms of sugar and is happy for me to just cover the cost of the hotel and a meal. She wants to meet up twice a week. I'm scheduling two days in a hotel with her. She's a squirter and a total freak. It's going to be great.

2. Black college student. 7 / 9 / 7 / TBD. She just got done with finals and is chomping at the bit to blow off some steam. Has a stable job, zero expectations for sugar. Safety girl, said she wasn't cool letting go BB. She's super stoked to hit the FC.

3. Petite spinner. Possible UTR. 10/10 / 5 / TBD. This is the one I know the least about. She's only in town for a few days (possible red flag) and said that she's down to just meet up, grab a meal and head straight to the FC. Conversation has been minimal. I'm not too sure how to handle this one. I have a feeling she's going to eat dinner and then tell me she wants some insane amount of money to do the deed.

4. Petite blonde girl next door turned punk / alt type. 10/10 / 10 / TBD. This one is dangerous for me. She's so off the charts hot and her personality just doesn't match it. She's way too chill and I really enjoy talking to her. The conversations have been great, but haven't turned sexual yet, which has been surprisingly fine with me. If I didn't have anything else on the line, I might feel otherwise. I want to take her to the FC so bad. If any of you have advice on how to get things to head in that direction organically, that would be greatly appreciated. Maybe I just need to be patient.

Be nice to see follow up but I'm guessing probably 2 won't show and one of them will just want money with no sugar and 4th is maybe a go. 1 out of 4 honestly is not horrible. But be careful there are some reckless girls out there who gives zero fucks about doing anything to get Your money. Keep head on straight and Good luck.

[PartyTime5150]

What does your numbering system represent? 10/10/5?

Going off the numbering system from this.

(per post #4363 and post #7265).

Four numbers: face / body / personality / skills.

Three numbers: face / body / skills (having the personality and skills in one number).

[SBmidlo]

I've read everything I could on sugaring and thanks to the sage advice from this thread, I have four dates this week with POTS. I met them all on SA.

If any of you have advice for me, I'm all ears.

Here's what I'm locking into:

1. A cute middle class redhead about two hours away. 8 / 8 / 10 / TBD. Has a stable job. She can't host, but has sent been sending me nudes and masturbation videos on a daily basis. Down for BB and anything else I want. She has no expectations in terms of sugar and is happy for me to just cover the cost of the hotel and a meal. She wants to meet up twice a week. I'm scheduling two days in a hotel with her. She's a squirter and a total freak. It's going to be great.

2. Black college student. 7 / 9 / 7 / TBD. She just got done with finals and is chomping at the bit to blow off some steam. Has a stable job, zero expectations for sugar. Safety girl, said she wasn't cool letting go BB. She's super stoked to hit the FC.

3. Petite spinner. Possible UTR. 10/10 / 5 / TBD. This is the one I know the least about. She's only in town for a few days (possible red flag) and said that she's down to just meet up, grab a meal and head straight to the FC. Conversation has been minimal. I'm not too sure how to handle this one. I have a feeling she's going to eat dinner and then tell me she wants some insane amount of money to do the deed.

4. Petite blonde girl next door turned punk / alt type. 10/10 / 10 / TBD. This one is dangerous for me. She's so off the charts hot and her personality just doesn't match it. She's way too chill and I really enjoy talking to her. The conversations have been great, but haven't turned sexual yet, which has been surprisingly fine with me. If I didn't have anything else on the line, I might feel otherwise. I want to take her to the FC so bad. If any of you have advice on how to get things to head in that direction organically, that would be greatly appreciated. Maybe I just need to be patient.

What does your numbering system represent? 10/10/5?

[PartyTime5150]

I've read everything I could on sugaring and thanks to the sage advice from this thread, I have four dates this week with POTS. I met them all on SA.

If any of you have advice for me, I'm all ears.

Here's what I'm locking into:

1. A cute middle class redhead about two hours away. 8 / 8 / 10 / TBD. Has a stable job. She can't host, but has sent been sending me nudes and masturbation videos on a daily basis. Down for BB and anything else I want. She has no expectations in terms of sugar and is happy for me to just cover the cost of the hotel and a meal. She wants to meet up twice a week. I'm scheduling two days in a hotel with her. She's a squirter and a total freak. It's going to be great.

2. Black college student. 7 / 9 / 7 / TBD. She just got done with finals and is chomping at the bit to blow off some steam. Has a stable job, zero expectations for sugar. Safety girl, said she wasn't cool letting go BB. She's super stoked to hit the FC.

3. Petite spinner. Possible UTR. 10/10 / 5 / TBD. This is the one I know the least about. She's only in town for a few days (possible red flag) and said that she's down to just meet up, grab a meal and head straight to the FC. Conversation has been minimal. I'm not too sure how to handle this one. I have a feeling she's going to eat dinner and then tell me she wants some insane amount of money to do the deed.

4. Petite blonde girl next door turned punk / alt type. 10/10 / 10 / TBD. This one is dangerous for me. She's so off the charts hot and her personality just doesn't match it. She's way too chill and I really enjoy talking to her. The conversations have been great, but haven't turned sexual yet, which has been surprisingly fine with me. If I didn't have anything else on the line, I might feel otherwise. I want to take her to the FC so bad. If any of you have advice on how to get things to head in that direction organically, that would be greatly appreciated. Maybe I just need to be patient.

[FarFarAway]

To see the legendary JZLizard moderating this thread.

Some of these posts, should they be in current sugar thread?

[Geechie Dan]

Who was at the bar at Can Can yesterday with the hot blonde, mid twenties, with some tattoos on her arm? I was sitting next to you at the bar with some friends, and I was not trying to eaves drop but you were talking loud enough for me to hear. Sounded like you had a successful meet and greet. PM me whenever you are finished with this SB, whoever you are. I don't mind taking care of this hot blond when you move on.

It wasn't me, but I was at Can Can yesterday with my SB. LOL.

[HuslIslander]

Who was at the bar at Can Can yesterday with the hot blonde, mid twenties, with some tattoos on her arm? I was sitting next to you at the bar with some friends, and I was not trying to eaves drop but you were talking loud enough for me to hear. Sounded like you had a successful meet and greet. PM me whenever you are finished with this SB, whoever you are. I don't mind taking care of this hot blond when you move on.

[PartyTime5150]

First off, I'd like to thank all the absolute legends on this board. I've read through as much as I could over the last two weeks and I'm very pleased to report that I have three POTS on the line. I'll circle back as soon as I get my first in the FC. I would not be this far along without all of your sage wisdom.

I've noticed GPS running rampant on SA. So many girls only want an "online only SD" or "an SB / SD relationship, but strictly platonic". They must be completely out of their minds. For some of the prices they're asking, I could hire a pro twice over for half the effort.

[FarFarAway]

I just posted some technical instructions on how to view the contents of SA inbox messages when you don't have premium time enabled:

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...986&viewfull=1#post3939986.

This technique doesn't work anymore, SA learned and fixed the glitch.

[FarFarAway]

I saw her about a month ago was great!

Why is this in the archive?