"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[ReaperGuy]

Steak I feel that. You read my posts and you know that I am big on part timers for the reasons you state. So the question is is there a way to get quality non pro civilians into your stable. For me the answer is yes. I don't have time or patience for CL, Tagged, AFF, and shit like that. I want to deal with women that are not full time pros but accessible and reasonably priced. If SD sites work for you cool. For me BP ads is the men for women section is pure gold. I have women from all over the city that are all races and all builds hitting me up. Not bragging and not talking shit. Since they're hitting me up I have the negotiating power.

Same as the SD girls they wouldn't be out there if they didn't need help.

Happy Safe Hunting.

I usually post in the Richmond SB / SD forum since it's extremely active with people across the US posting in it. I've had a good bit of luck with SA, I tend to ignore the other sites like SD4 M as you're more likely to hit pure UTRs. I've even found girls posting that also have ads up on Backpage, same pictures and all. You can definitely find what you're looking for on there, it just takes some time and searching. Per usual don't believe a word a woman says or writes, just hit her up with your amount and see what sticks. I've had some very nice looking girls take 100-150 a date, just be prepared to lay the law down if things aren't going how you want.

[Viktor213]

Exactly. The whole point behind finding SBs is to find a few gems that are down for an arrangement but aren't on BP or the street seeing dozens of guys a week. You shouldn't be naive and think you are the only guy they are seeing but the volume should be much lower. The tradeoff is you have to spend time weeding thru a bunch on "prospects" ("suspects" to find the good ones.

Steak I feel that. You read my posts and you know that I am big on part timers for the reasons you state. So the question is is there a way to get quality non pro civilians into your stable. For me the answer is yes. I don't have time or patience for CL, Tagged, AFF, and shit like that. I want to deal with women that are not full time pros but accessible and reasonably priced. If SD sites work for you cool. For me BP ads is the men for women section is pure gold. I have women from all over the city that are all races and all builds hitting me up. Not bragging and not talking shit. Since they're hitting me up I have the negotiating power.

Same as the SD girls they wouldn't be out there if they didn't need help.

Happy Safe Hunting.

[Viktor213]

I'm confused. How is $500 per month a bad price for a nonpro SB? See her at least once a week and you're at $125 per visit. Since she's a non-pro she's not likely to have you on the clock like an escort would, at least that's been my experience. Like anything, you get what you pay for. In most cases the college hottie that has great tits and an ass you can bounce quarters off of is going to be a LOT more expensive than the 25-35 yr old mom with kids that's looking for some help with grocery money. Go figure. But a lot of moms are great at sucking cock and will let you do whatever as many times as you'd like. Not a bad deal in my book.

The SD sites like Seeking Arrangement and Sugar Daddy for Me work. But it does take a lot of time and work on your part. Look through this thread. There are some great suggestions about how to approach them. Sign up for 30 days and see how it goes. It will take time, perhaps even a few weeks before you can set up your first meet or date. It's not like backpage, at least with the non-pros.

Sorry for the late reply. As always dudes do what's best for their game so if it's working for you more power. I say that without hate. Based on my time on those sites "support" expectations were closer to $1100 per month. $500 was suggested by some BP pros that also post there. (After you start corresponding and get an email address you find them with BP ads) I have an issue with $125 per visit. Yes there are some decent BP providers that would do GFE for $125 per visit. But more importantly I run my own ads on BP and I get spinners (not my thing) and college girl non-pros hitting me up and most would jump at $500 a month. So in my humble opinion the same situation the SD sites are looking for can be built on your own for little cost and better pricing with same result.

Currently trading emails with a college girl now. She's asking for $300. But Again if it's working for you do it.

[Slo Mo]

I'm aware of the whole hacking incident, but who all on here has had any luck with Ashley Madison? I love the concept but was it a nice amount of hot chick's to choose from?

[Steak 404]

I'm confused. How is $500 per month a bad price for a nonpro SB? See her at least once a week and you're at $125 per visit. Since she's a non-pro she's not likely to have you on the clock like an escort would, at least that's been my experience. Like anything, you get what you pay for. In most cases the college hottie that has great tits and an ass you can bounce quarters off of is going to be a LOT more expensive than the 25-35 yr old mom with kids that's looking for some help with grocery money. Go figure. But a lot of moms are great at sucking cock and will let you do whatever as many times as you'd like. Not a bad deal in my book.

The SD sites like Seeking Arrangement and Sugar Daddy for Me work. But it does take a lot of time and work on your part. Look through this thread. There are some great suggestions about how to approach them. Sign up for 30 days and see how it goes. It will take time, perhaps even a few weeks before you can set up your first meet or date. It's not like backpage, at least with the non-pros.

Exactly. The whole point behind finding SBs is to find a few gems that are down for an arrangement but aren't on BP or the street seeing dozens of guys a week. You shouldn't be naive and think you are the only guy they are seeing but the volume should be much lower. The tradeoff is you have to spend time weeding thru a bunch on "prospects" ("suspects" to find the good ones.

[Harley32]

The SD sites are a waste of time in my opinion. The idea is sound but the nonpro women really believe they are worth $500 to $2 k per month. A lot of nonpros are attractive college age women that believe they can find an SD to take care of them while they go to school. Some can. That was the biggest issue I had found. Found 1 moderately attractive women and contacted her about an initial meet and greet. She wanted $75 for that.

Some of the onlinebootycall and AFF sites have part time and full time pros that will offer decent value. But a lot of the same people are already on CL and BP.

Good luck.

I'm confused. How is $500 per month a bad price for a nonpro SB? See her at least once a week and you're at $125 per visit. Since she's a non-pro she's not likely to have you on the clock like an escort would, at least that's been my experience. Like anything, you get what you pay for. In most cases the college hottie that has great tits and an ass you can bounce quarters off of is going to be a LOT more expensive than the 25-35 yr old mom with kids that's looking for some help with grocery money. Go figure. But a lot of moms are great at sucking cock and will let you do whatever as many times as you'd like. Not a bad deal in my book.

The SD sites like Seeking Arrangement and Sugar Daddy for Me work. But it does take a lot of time and work on your part. Look through this thread. There are some great suggestions about how to approach them. Sign up for 30 days and see how it goes. It will take time, perhaps even a few weeks before you can set up your first meet or date. It's not like backpage, at least with the non-pros.

[BigMoney21]

I really don't know what race you guys are and nor what race you guys prefer. But from what I've been seeing its not that hard to find a sugar baby in Metro Atlanta. I'm a Latino brother of Puerto Rican descent and as a black man I know where to go to find women who'll do that type of stuff and live up to they word. Unlike taking a hit from that sugar baby website. Metropolitan st area is infamous for petty sugar babies, I run into the little young ones all the time. West end mall is another location and so is cascade rd. Oakland city area is another location, if sugar babing thots is not your thing how about being over in Edgewood ave area and Bugalos on Ponce. Really Zone 5 period is a nice area too pick up more classy looking sisters. I ran into some at Stone Crest mall and from the looks of things South Dekalb can be another one. I even met some in Gwinnett who was looking for getting their bills, if you're looking for the Asian ones who can date black guys without getting stigmatized by there families Clayco will be your best bet. My suggestion to you is too approach a woman with confidence and let it be known what you're trying to do and see I'd she's down for. I can only see myself doing such a thing for a young innocent looking one at least a hot slim looking 19 yr old if and only if I had the money but LOL I'm broke.

[Viktor213]

OK I've tried all the other sites like AFF, POF, Tagged etc and I've haven't had ANY luck whatsoever. I was browsing through the Sugar daddy site and I see it's 60% hot chicks on there, wow! I plan on taking some time and creating a profile and I'm going to get creative. One small problem, I'm not rich! LOL does anyone have any suggestions or some solid investment ideas so I can become rich overnight? LOL feel free to PM me if you must. I've been in Atlanta 6 months and I'm still trying to find my "niche". Thanks.

The SD sites are a waste of time in my opinion. The idea is sound but the nonpro women really believe they are worth $500 to $2 k per month. A lot of nonpros are attractive college age women that believe they can find an SD to take care of them while they go to school. Some can. That was the biggest issue I had found. Found 1 moderately attractive women and contacted her about an initial meet and greet. She wanted $75 for that.

Some of the onlinebootycall and AFF sites have part time and full time pros that will offer decent value. But a lot of the same people are already on CL and BP.

Good luck.

[Slo Mo]

OK I've tried all the other sites like AFF, POF, Tagged etc and I've haven't had ANY luck whatsoever. I was browsing through the Sugar daddy site and I see it's 60% hot chicks on there, wow! I plan on taking some time and creating a profile and I'm going to get creative. One small problem, I'm not rich! LOL does anyone have any suggestions or some solid investment ideas so I can become rich overnight? LOL feel free to PM me if you must. I've been in Atlanta 6 months and I'm still trying to find my "niche". Thanks.

[GreekLover6]

Usually they are much easier and don't want money. They just want you to fuck the shit out of them. They want NSA as much as you do.

If you are placing ads, gear them more to this set. Maybe even say something to the effect of "looking for a real real woman that knows what she's doing, not a school girl I'd have to teach. ".

From there it is no different than younger gals. Interact with them. Make them feel comfortable. Compliment them. Etc.

But remember they are less interested in gifts and more interested in someone to give them what they haven't been getting sexually.

I use making videos nd sessions with providers to score women on AFF, one thing I've learned about women. They want what some one has. I get providers on film with screen shoys have orgasm (fake or real doesn't matter). Squirting, cumshots, creampies, etc.

[Steak 404]

I've been scoring pretty good in this area. It's a little more expensive, but a whole lot more entertaining.

One question I've got. What's the best way to score with the older ladys. Most of the info I've seen on here is geared towards the younger (under 25) student crowd. Anyone have any tips for scoring with the Divorcee's or older single moms. I think they're better in bed and not quite as flaky.

Thanks.

Z.

Usually they are much easier and don't want money. They just want you to fuck the shit out of them. They want NSA as much as you do.

If you are placing ads, gear them more to this set. Maybe even say something to the effect of "looking for a real real woman that knows what she's doing, not a school girl I'd have to teach. ".

From there it is no different than younger gals. Interact with them. Make them feel comfortable. Compliment them. Etc.

But remember they are less interested in gifts and more interested in someone to give them what they haven't been getting sexually.

[LoganSt]

Okay, I did this one as well.

The thing I hated about it was the cost to contact women.

I will say I met some interesting women on here, some that were pretty awesome, some scammers, some escorts. I still liked the SD site better.

[LoganSt]

Well, I did the site "Sugardaddieforme.com" It is a pay site, but I did meet a LOT of women on there, and I am talking about HOLY SH*T types. Yeah, it was much more expensive then an escort, but it was a great time. The biggest problem I had was that 2 of them wanted to get more then just "friends. " And they both got a lot more involved then I did, they got dropped real fast. Then I had one that was an INCREDIBLE scammer / grifter. Man, she had everything down right to get me to give her as much money as I could. Granted she was SMOKIN hot, and 20 years old. Oh man.

So, if you are going to do the SD thing, make sure you keep your wits about you. There are some normal girls on there, and then some scam artists that will work you like never before, I never thought it would happen to me, but it did.

But, not to make you think everyone is bad on there, I did meet with one lady, and she and I became best friends and have been for a few years now. We didn't have sex, but we quickly found we were better friends then anything else.

Good luck!

[MyName1]

I've been scoring pretty good in this area. It's a little more expensive, but a whole lot more entertaining.

One question I've got. What's the best way to score with the older ladys. Most of the info I've seen on here is geared towards the younger (under 25) student crowd. Anyone have any tips for scoring with the Divorcee's or older single moms. I think they're better in bed and not quite as flaky.

Thanks.

Z.

[Steak 404]

Your situation is not unique so don't lose hope. If you can arrange to "need" short one or two day trips for work, real or not, it can be a good way to fit the SB into your schedule. Many SBs are college co-eds and are available for long lunches, early dinners, etc. The younger they are you do run the risk of their time management skills leaving a lot to be desired. There are more stable single mothers as well, who are on time constraints like you are and so are more likely to value your time and can be a good choice as well. There are certainly more mercenary SBs available than blur the lines between a SB and an UTR but if that works for you it is there. I guess what you have to know is what you want, do you want to go out on dates, etc or are you just looking for stable fun on the side.

Escorts are easier to schedule for sure, and probably cheaper in the long run, but if you are looking for an emotional connection the SB route is really the only way. I have actually had some SBs totally in Atlanta totally downplay the money aspect, either an allowance or per date, and treat things like a normal dating relationship but who are not shy about asking for help when cash issues arise for them. So there are really all types.

If you are willing to risk giving an allowance and trusting the women to hold up their end of the bargain then Atlanta does have some drop dead gorgeous SBs who have a case of GPS. As long as you know what you are getting into and can comfotablly float their requests then that is an avenue as well.

Yeah all depends what you are looking for but there's something for everyone out there. Most of these gals talk about dating but realize this is about private time. They won't complain if you spend almost all your time in a bedroom: yours, hers, or a hotel. I always do an initial public meeting (e. G. Starbucks) for our mutual comfort level and safety. Some I use the initial meeting for evaluation as well. Some guys don't. But in either case after the first meeting she'll usually be down for just hooking up. No need for any pretense about a "date" first.

I'll also second that many of them (not all) will have extended availability during the day because they are students.