Thread: "Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"
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08-29-23 00:52 #13453
Posts: 973See my previous posts for approach & negotation tips
Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]
As other guys have said, a big part of it is not moving staight to allowance talk, but spend an evening or 2 texting getting to know them, find out what they like and what their interests are. Eventually steer the conversation sexual, then find out what they enjoy sexually. Ask about things they like such as their favorite position (doggie) and don't like (anal). Once you have a few things they don't like, keep those in the back of your mind when you bring up the allowance. Ask what she's looking for, if she gives a sky high number, tell her that you'd only pay that much for someone who would do <insert things she doesn't like here> . Doesn't matter if anal isn't your thing, or if you don't like rough sex and neither does she, or if you were going to use a condom anyways: when negotiating, the things she dislikes are now things you like, but you want to respect her wishes, so you'll happily keep to her "things she enjoys" but for <insert reasonable allowance here>, or you'll use protection but that would be a different amount than for someone who is ok without it.
There's also the old "jedi mind trick". They ask for something too high, like 500 PPM. Tell them you can do that, but you can only see them once or twice a month for that PPM. If she could do 300 PPM then you could see her 4 times a month, and 4 x300 is more than 2 x500. Would she rather have $1200 a month or $1000 a month? Adjust the math to make the amount make sense within your budget. Of course if she's too skyhigh, then just move on.
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08-29-23 00:37 #13452
Posts: 973Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]
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08-28-23 16:29 #13451
Posts: 2682Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]
My exact situation is a plus in negotiating, also. I am hiding the sugar from the warden. Even though I (correctly) look quite rich on my profile, I explain why that isn't all available to give an allowance. The typical I have given (in the high cost environment of the west coast) is 400. I had a long-term girl I was giving 1 K / mo for usually 3 private meets, but we really were sympatico. On her shark weeks, we would just get together for coffee instead of going to the FC. I have gone to 500 for an initial FC (w / the understanding that the monthly would be prorated downward), and once for an incredibly hot woman did 600. I had a power business woman for a while earlier this year at 500 per, she was smoking hot and loved to get dolled up for our dates.
Don't doubt that my approach can get you incredibly hot and engaged women to bang, even for a guy in his 60's. I have posted some photos from time to time of my conquests.
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08-28-23 15:22 #13450
Posts: 13Anyone seen HumorousLover
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-b6ec0c85bfb1
Got a date with this MILF tomorrow and wanted to see if anyone has any experience.
We were supposed to have a m&g but she had something come up and now moving straight to fun.
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08-28-23 12:57 #13449
Posts: 466Has Anyone Seen BadGirlNextDoor
BadGirlNextDoor has been on the site for a year. But I couldn't find a review by searching her name. Have any of you seen her? Is she legit? Will you give us a review?
https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-b3b221fc7a35
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08-28-23 07:59 #13448
Posts: 475Negotiations
I'm in the bowl for reliable companionship, so I engage in extended text conversation for several days before suggesting the (unpaid) m / g. No discussion of PPM or allowance until after the m / g. If she pushes for the PPM or allowance before the m / g then it's going to be all about the money so I block and move on. If the PPM ask is outrageous, block and move on. If the PPM ask is high, I explain "that's a bit much for this area, but I would be willing to go (about two-thirds of her ask). I've found the extended text conversation establishes a bond that makes my offer more acceptable. After that, I'm most interested in the vibe. Was the first intimate rushed and full of rules or was it an extended evening or even overnight? Now we're ready to entertain long-term conditions.
Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]
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08-28-23 02:48 #13447
Posts: 24Originally Posted by ElSexoChino7 [View Original Post]
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08-28-23 02:05 #13446
Posts: 7Katie
Originally Posted by Gavin1112 [View Original Post]
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08-28-23 00:58 #13445
Posts: 1968Lol
Originally Posted by ElSexoChino7 [View Original Post]
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08-27-23 19:30 #13444
Posts: 312Not sure if real or fake, instantly sent me her cashapp on seeking and I didn't reply cause you get banned but girls don't.
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08-27-23 18:57 #13443
Posts: 197Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]
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08-27-23 18:56 #13442
Posts: 197Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]
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08-27-23 17:55 #13441
Posts: 532Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]
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08-27-23 17:20 #13440
Posts: 28Any Intel on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-cef1af11430c
She was down to meet but I don't really trust any profile if it's not verified. I don't care how hot your photos are if it's going to be catfish. Thought I'd share it here to see if anyone had experience with her before.
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08-27-23 15:42 #13439
Posts: 16UnlimitedFun. Don't bother
Dipped back into the sugar bowl and exchanged some messages with this one. Couple of bikini pics but none of her face. Whatever maybe just wants privacy. She moved right to text and asked to meet for lunch and if I would be ok with $250. Said I'm not into intimacy but asked if she was ok with just intimacy for $250. She responded by saying I was gross, would fuck anything that moves and should get an escort.
Never progressed far enough to get any sense that she was real but something seemed off. Either a time waster, scammer or pic collector. Wouldn't share additional pic and immediately blocked me after her mini rant. LOL. Ahh seeking, it's good to be back.