"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Hal1957]

I have 2 SA accounts, one that I use for fishing and one that I use to reel them in. I've had a regular SB for the last year and have only used the "reeling" account a couple of times in the last year, I took the photo down and reduced the message on the profile to one sentence that says I'm not currently in the market. About 2 weeks ago I started getting views and favorites from SBs in my area, then yesterday I got an invitation to renew for 30 percent off. Anyone else have this experience? I'm thinking they're fishing for SDs with multiple accounts.

[Shyzai]

This one is just a picture seller and online only prospect. When we moved to texting, she asked what I would pay for just pictures / online chatting. Told her $15/ wk. She immediately wanted to know how to up that amount. So I told her what my expectations were, and she got attitude. We will see if she changes her mind, when the bills for school and living away from home hit her.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...7-3b69967cb37f

Jim.

$15/ week? Hahahaha. I should have tried this with the picture sellers before I deactivated my account, but I was too timid. But aren't you afraid they might report you?

[Darmour88]

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

My guess would be creeping LOL.

[The Bobster]

Good questions. Here is what I recommend, and it has worked quote well for me. 1) do not be demanding with what you expect, it's all about compromise. The one thing she will want above all is to feel safe and secure. So if you go off the rails and demand BB or fulfillment of some obscure kink, then all bets are off, 2) be willing to meet in public first, Starbucks is ideal if you can find a place to make small talk without those around you listening in, 3) be respectful. Nothing kills the deal quicker than an overall lack of respect. Pay for everything, open doors, do what you have to do. Regarding hosting, the large majority cannot, so you will have to be willing to spring for a hotel or a car date. I have a very large van that serves our purposes quite well, and it adds an element of risk to the whole thing. Regarding negotiation, I make a preliminary offer before meeting, and then finalize the deal when you meet face to face. Be sure to set expectations then to make sure there are no surprises.

In closing, I have made quite a few really great connections, mainly from students at a large university. And to be honest, I have a few experiences I would rather forget. Regardless, the positives have definitely outweighed the negatives. And I qualify for AARP, so go figure. Relax, be chill, and enjoy your time. Life is way too short.

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

[Aafakljgadkg]

It's all a part of her act. She has been on Seeking for months, and think this is her second profile, so probably longer. If your freaking out / scared, you don't leave your profile active, you delete it.

Nobody would expect your personal info to be posted on a forum and get creep on by bunch of horny dudes though. Wonder if OP sold us out when he talked to her.

[PeteAppleSeed]

Saw her a few times about a year ago before SA got messed up. $$. 50 DATY, LFK, BBBJ, BBFS, no CIP nice convo beautiful face and body (back then) she keeps texting me after a while but I got fed up with SA girls.

Have anyone seen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/65781...e-311b882bfd48

I'm looking some extra intel, before making the arrangement.

[Jims2321]

This one is just a picture seller and online only prospect. When we moved to texting, she asked what I would pay for just pictures / online chatting. Told her $15/ wk. She immediately wanted to know how to up that amount. So I told her what my expectations were, and she got attitude. We will see if she changes her mind, when the bills for school and living away from home hit her.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...7-3b69967cb37f

Jim.

[Jims2321]

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

It's all a part of her act. She has been on Seeking for months, and think this is her second profile, so probably longer. If your freaking out / scared, you don't leave your profile active, you delete it.

[Aafakljgadkg]

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

[Legeran]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3c90...2-4974edb14e8a

She wanted to go to kik immediately. Okay, fine, not that big a deal. On there, she almost immediately gives me a price menu. That's a flag. A large part of the menu involves pics, but includes $100 meetups for 2 hours. Maybe.

She wants to send me pics tonight. I tell her that I don't do pay apps.

"I've almost been kidnapped way too many times. I always ask for 1/2 before. ".

Nope, not happening.

[Jims2321]

I thought you meant you passed on her at 300 pounds. I was like, these boys like um thick. LMAO.

ROFL, I was trying for brevity on my response, guess I should of read it for clarity.

[Aafakljgadkg]

I just talked to her on Snapchat and she is getting scared because so many people are hitting her up and she doesn't know who they are. She is kinda freaking out.

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

[SoonerFan72]

Damn she has packed on some poundage since I last saw her on Seeking. I took a pass on a date with her at 300, because of too many don't and wouldn't.

I thought you meant you passed on her at 300 pounds. I was like, these boys like um thick. LMAO.

[Lono73]

Her snap is jessicaa_a1.

I just talked to her on Snapchat and she is getting scared because so many people are hitting her up and she doesn't know who they are. She is kinda freaking out.

[DRickGiver5]

If all the pictures on the SA profile are also on the social media site, be aware you may have an identify thief working you. Asking for the 3 fingers or finger-on-nose photo as verification is a really good idea.

But the pic I'm talking about is of the more revealing kind. The ones that ends up on a premium snap. However I do tuink her man is involved in the scam. The fingers holding the drivers license look like male fingers.