"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SoonerFan72]

I'm new to SA, and to sugar babies in general. What do you do about your profile picture?

I didn't feel comfortable posting my real picture. I will post it on regular dating sites like tinder, or pof, but not on SA.

Now I have a fake image that's not me and blurry. I don't feel like I can attract the real girls without a picture. Not having a picture makes me look scammy.

I thought about a real picture that's not me, but then I'm the catfish when we meet.

I know the escort world and I've posted a lot. Just new to the SB world. Any other tips are appreciated.

Thanks.

I use fake pics of a guy who favors me. Don't use unrealistic photos, just something that favors you. Once you move to text, and feel comfortable with the lady, then send them real pics. Most of the girls I talk to that are serious don't even notice, or they don't say anything. I always send my real pic before I meet them, just so I don't feel like a catfish. But I've seen several ladies on the site I know in real life, there's no way I'm chancing using real pics.

[SomeGuy3]

I'm new to SA, and to sugar babies in general. What do you do about your profile picture?

I didn't feel comfortable posting my real picture. I will post it on regular dating sites like tinder, or pof, but not on SA.

Now I have a fake image that's not me and blurry. I don't feel like I can attract the real girls without a picture. Not having a picture makes me look scammy.

I thought about a real picture that's not me, but then I'm the catfish when we meet.

I know the escort world and I've posted a lot. Just new to the SB world. Any other tips are appreciated.

Thanks.

[ElPerron]

Comparatively speaking, that is pretty cheap depending on how many meets per week. If 1-2 weeks per meet, then that's pretty fair for $1,000 per month.

You right but the fact that she has only face pics is a red flag, she said two o three meets per week but who wants or have the time to meet that meny times only a jobless unmarried guy LOL, with, she is a four in face department at the most I wouldn't do her if she was more the 60 per meet.

[SeekingHead]

https://www.seeking.com/member/92083...0-f9225a05601c

Ok here is one for you, she is only asking 1 k a month.

For $1 k upfront every month after trust is established. I want 6 visits a month. That's a little over $150 a visit, but I've told girls this in text & in person. I am fronting you $1k upfront at the beginning of the month, & for this the equation changes on $ per ppm, the amount is going down due me being upfront with the money.

The basic monthly cost of an allowance is a rent for a 1 bedroom apartment rent, in Atlanta this is roughly $1k to $1700 a month depending on area.

[Johnny Mapalo]

https://www.seeking.com/member/92083...0-f9225a05601c

Ok here is one for you, she is only asking 1 k a month.

Comparatively speaking, that is pretty cheap depending on how many meets per week. If 1-2 weeks per meet, then that's pretty fair for $1,000 per month.

[ElPerron]

https://www.seeking.com/member/92083...0-f9225a05601c

Ok here is one for you, she is only asking 1 k a month.

[SeekingHead]

Hey guys been talking to this one on and off for 4 days now, was curious if anyone has experienced her. She is insainly gorgeous, but doesn't have the typical scammer profile.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...d-1e0e03c7f64c

You sent us to your messages with her.

[Hotrod82]

Hey guys been talking to this one on and off for 4 days now, was curious if anyone has experienced her. She is insainly gorgeous, but doesn't have the typical scammer profile.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...d-1e0e03c7f64c

[ElPerron]

https://www.seeking.com/member/91eb1...b-25ec667d6690

This one hit me the other day, she is asking crazy amount of money for ppm she is very escortsh an business like any of you had meet her, pm please.

[Jims2321]

Victim: Bridget Sipera initiated sexual relationship when he was 17 - https://www.courierpostonline.com/st...ll/5641062002/.

Since NJ's age of consent is 16. Not sure other than the Teacher / Student relationship that I have much sympathy for the kid and even that can be plead bargained down to a minor charge if she has a good attorney. True he maybe mentally a bit slow according to the news report, but then what 16/17 year old boy isn't to some degree. Now, let's look into the diocese and see how many priest have diddled altar boys and girls that are 12/13/14 and got covered up.

[Peter Pan]

Victim: Bridget Sipera initiated sexual relationship when he was 17 - https://www.courierpostonline.com/st...ll/5641062002/.

[NewAnonymousName]

I've found that if a lady try to move to one of those apps, she is most likely a scammer. Not always, there will be a few ladies who are legit, that just don't want to give their cell number out. But I'd say 9 times out of 10 if they want to move to Kik, Google Hangouts, Whatsapp, etc, they are scammers. My guess is they know if they talk scams on the site, they can get reported. If they move you to another platform, they can work their scam.

On a side note, be careful if you do move to one of those platforms, that you don't have your real name and info on the account. Create an entirely fake profile and name when you create accounts for communication platforms. Protip, if you get a girls phone number, and add it to your contacts, they will frequently pop up in apps such as Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, etc as suggested contacts. Those apps read your contacts, and associate it to the girls real profiles. But the reverse happens as well, if you have your real info, they will see who you really are. Be safe my bro's!

Good advice. Thank you.

[Shampoo55]

I've found that if a lady try to move to one of those apps, she is most likely a scammer. Not always, there will be a few ladies who are legit, that just don't want to give their cell number out. But I'd say 9 times out of 10 if they want to move to Kik, Google Hangouts, Whatsapp, etc, they are scammers. My guess is they know if they talk scams on the site, they can get reported. If they move you to another platform, they can work their scam.

On a side note, be careful if you do move to one of those platforms, that you don't have your real name and info on the account. Create an entirely fake profile and name when you create accounts for communication platforms. Protip, if you get a girls phone number, and add it to your contacts, they will frequently pop up in apps such as Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, etc as suggested contacts. Those apps read your contacts, and associate it to the girls real profiles. But the reverse happens as well, if you have your real info, they will see who you really are. Be safe my bro's!

Good advice that!

One thing I do to help avoid crossing between the real world and the Sugar Bowl is use a burner phone. For me that is the easiest way to compartmentalize things.

Had a buddy who just used GV on his regular phone. Problem was that at times, responding to a GV call and the phone used his real phone number and not the GV #. That way his real name was visible. That was fine until a date called his real number one evening at a time he had loaned his SO his phone!

[Jims2321]

If she's sixteen report her on Seeking. There's an "underage" category. Minors shouldn't be on the site. Period.

Correct, and I did.

[Machintosh]

In the last week, I've had a couple of different SBs ask me, very early on in our conversation, to move the chat to google hangouts. When I said I don't have it, both tried to convince me by saying it's easy to download. Both times, I moved on and the SBs never tried to continue the chat on Seeking or suggest another avenue to communicate. It strikes me as suspicious. Is there a security risk of chatting on hangouts that makes a scammer want to talk there, or am I just being paranoid?

To each their own. I use google voice which uses hangouts as the texting platform.