"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[LambdaAb]

Last week contact a girl in Ringgold / Chattanooga, close to the border of GA / TN. She's a college student in early 20's, asian. She wants a long term arrangement more than just sex. She's busy at college, agreed with ppm (300-500 ppm 1 or 2 times per week) plus dinner and some small gifts if needed. Get dinner and date night this week. Perfect body and atitude. She's only in one arrangement at a time. So I will see how it goes.

However, most of them claimed to be college students are fake. Probably 5 or 6 out of 10 are selling pics, or just online, no fuck. 2 to 3 out of 10 want quick money. Only 1 or less out of 10 is really seeking arrangement.

[Duke Raoul]

If you don't mind divulging, how often do you find yourself relaxing that? Have you ever had any problems? You can pm me if you want.

I always strap initially until I can get a gauge of where she lands in the spectrum and then relax as I see fit.

[Duke Raoul]

I wouldn't say I'm super worried about it. I posted to find out what experience others have had. Obviously using protection is safer, but I knew that already. I'm curious how often this has come up for some of you.

How often do some of you go without protection? Have you suffered any repercussions from it?

You can private message me if you don't want to post about it on here. Trying to gauge my risk based on the responses, not on the advice given.

If you're worried about that, you shouldn't be going bare.

[Harley32]

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

If you're worried about that, you shouldn't be going bare.

[BoJackSugarman]

I think the most balanced advice would be they are def more risk then a random girl from the population but (possibly) less than an escort. My rule of thumb is that the more dtf a girl is the. Ore the risk. So if you message a girl and she is willing to meet in a hotel room the first time, I would go bare on that. If you meet a girl who won't do that and will need a dinner date etc first presumably the risk will be lower. I always strap initially until I can get a gauge of where she lands in the spectrum and then relax as I see fit.

However, you will find a range of opinions on the matter. A lot of guys go bare on all of them which is specifically why I don't LOL.

Hope that helps. Basically, try and judge how many miles she has had on her and take risk accordingly.

I meant I would NOT go bare on the hotel girl sorry that was a typo.

[BoJackSugarman]

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

I think the most balanced advice would be they are def more risk then a random girl from the population but (possibly) less than an escort. My rule of thumb is that the more dtf a girl is the. Ore the risk. So if you message a girl and she is willing to meet in a hotel room the first time, I would go bare on that. If you meet a girl who won't do that and will need a dinner date etc first presumably the risk will be lower. I always strap initially until I can get a gauge of where she lands in the spectrum and then relax as I see fit.

However, you will find a range of opinions on the matter. A lot of guys go bare on all of them which is specifically why I don't LOL.

Hope that helps. Basically, try and judge how many miles she has had on her and take risk accordingly.

[Duke Raoul]

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

[PunkedLife]

This one had me get a room, then ask for travel fee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca455...f-7895e64fcfdc

Yah I wouldn't get a room until she actually shows up. You'd think that when money is involved the flakiness would cease but nah women are just time wasters by nature.

[SeekingHead]

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

Go get snipped, no reason not to once you already have all the kids you want or can afford!

[Harley32]

I'm in process of getting something set up with an SB and she might be ok with no protection. What's been the experience with the group with "parting gifts", as it were? How common have you found that to be? Just trying to gauge my risk.

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

[Duke Raoul]

I'm in process of getting something set up with an SB and she might be ok with no protection. What's been the experience with the group with "parting gifts", as it were? How common have you found that to be? Just trying to gauge my risk.

[HaneDales]

Clear your inbox.

This one hit me with the 300 no sense bs, BJ or anything else is on the table for extra, no thanks, I think I already talked with this one before she used to have an other profile.

[ElPerron]

This one hit me with the 300 no sense bs, BJ or anything else is on the table for extra, no thanks, I think I already talked with this one before she used to have an other profile.

[ElPerron]

This one contacted me on SA, broken Espanish, willing to meet asap but kinda to businesses like to me, looks like she just moving from listcrawler her profile is brand new.

[Bobt45]

Has anyone seen this lady? Her profile is new but that's a pic from a hotel so she's probably a retread.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ae1d...c-c5192e8028ed

Never met her but she's definitely been on SA. That last pic in the gold, red, and blue costume was on her last profile. No idea why she closed one and opened another. Maybe she was a pic seller, no idea there.

Bob.